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this guy is soo confusing!
16/f.
im sooo confused
there is this guy that i like and but he has a girlfriend but everytime we hangout i always forget that and sometimes it seems like he does too or something because he always starts flirting like last night he was like punching me in the stomach lightly and like getting close and then he wouldnt give me my phone so i jumped on him and then like he was on the bed and i was sitting on the floor and he got really close and started talking to me =) there are other people there too but i dont know! then i had to leave for a little bit but then i came back and then he started flirting right away again! we say we are "best friends" but we arent really..just friends! anyways he lied to me like jokingly and im like UHHHHH! best friend dont talk to me dont look at me dont associate with me. i was totally joking and im pretty sure he knew because we always joke like that and then i was sitting on the couch and hes on the other one and comes over and pulls me by him and is like come on we have to have a talk and im like nope nope what do you want to talk about? and then he like just got really quiet and i was sitting on the same couch as him and he put a pillow like by his head to block me so he couldnt see me and later i like pull it off and say you suck at trying to be mad at me but then he tried grabbing it back and was like no forreal come on im not playin! and then i was like okay =( then i went and layed on the floor while we all watched tv and i think he fell asleep or something but then when he got up he left without saying anything to me! and he usually does. what is going wrong here i am really sad because i mean later i might ask were you really mad or what happend? because what do you guys think what should i do. everytime i dont see him for a bit i cant stop thinking about him and how i want to see him and now that was the last time i will see him for like a week beause im going on vacation tomorrow! the whole girlfriend deal sucks because he says he loves her but then what about me. i cant help myself!
thanks.
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i dont think he was mad at you i kinda think he was mad at hisself because he really wanted to tell you he liked you but he couldnt.if you are to shy to tell him you like him you should consider writing it in a letter.who knows maybe you will get the answer you have been looking for back
love,lizzie
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Looks like you guys have a "thing" going on. He probably likes you too but he's confused on account of him having a girlfriend.
You know what? This vacation may be a good idea. You shouldn't see him until them because he probably just had some sort of an epiphany that day and that's why he was so quiet. Give him some time to mull it over and figure out if he wants to be with his girlfriend or you. You'll also have time to figure out if you really like him and if you want him to break up with his girlfriend or if you think he's better with her.
It looks as if he's on the brink of a break through and he's probably going to talk to you before Fall about it. If he doesn't, you should start nudging him about it. You don't want to totally become obsessed with him when you know you might have no chance at all.
Good luck.
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theres nothign you can really do . like you cant control who he loves or who is his girlfriend but like id just ask him if hes mad at you and that you dont want him to be mad at you. and id just say friends with him and eventually itsnt going to work out with his girlfriend and when that happens id tell him how you feel about him. but before than just work on the friendship.
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