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everytime i try to put a picture of myself on my site, i cant. it tells me that the file was too big or something... can someone explain to me how i can get a picture on ?

That "Ctrl A" thing didn't do it to well for me- I was just tryin it to see if it works. Here's what I do. If you ahve yahoo messenger, load the pic you want onto your profile. It resizes it for you and the copy the pic onto your desktop till your ready to use it. Or you could try photobucket.com

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I'm looking to get a new phone. I need something prepaid or pay as you go. Right now I have a C155 Motorola Tracfone (http://www.tracfone-orders.com/direct/tr/itemdetl.jsp?prod=2413&tech=GSM4&techzip=71118). Its okay. I just want something a little more reliable. I need something small. I only use it for emergencies, sixty minutes can last me for like six months. I text a good bit too. I would be buying and paying for it myself (16/f) so it needs to be inexpensive. Thx in advance.

60 minutes can last you 6 months?!?! It last me just that...a hour. A awesome pre-paid plan is through US Cellular. There phones are really good and so are the pre-paid plans. $29.95 a month gets you 200 day time, 1000 night time, unlimited incoming calls and unlimited text messaging.

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I heard sme feedback from my friends that although in porn girls like crazy 11 inch dicks, in real life the girls I talked to say that all they feel is pain when guys with 7 to 8 inch dicks have sex with them.They can't really feel pleasure but just a painful feeling and it also is harder for them to blow, and it's a disadvantage for the guy as well because he won't get to have his whole dick covered.

While some girls in my class said that guys with relatively small, maybe 4 to 5 inch dicks are good because they hit the g-spot which happens to be where the head of the dick goes to, so in other words, it's like a joystick.So which is it?I'm confused.

Sex can be painful the first few go-rounds with but after a while, regardless of size it shouldn't hurt (so long as they are properly lubricated) A vagina is "equipped" to handle any man, 4 inch shorty, 7 incher, 9 incher and wide as they come. If after a while a girl still complains about sex hurting and she is with a guy that has a size 7, there just not using enough Lube so don't let those stories fool you. Now, I wouldn't want no 11 incher lol that's just no fun to play with! 7 or 8 is a good size but don't be intimidated if your smaller than that. Different girls prefer different sizes. I've been with 2 guys that had "shortys" 1 SUCKEDDD and the other? blew my mind. So yea it does have alot to do with the way you rock the boat!~*

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ok well i was wondering what color eye shadow would really bring out my eyes.. make em "pop" & just be bright. my eyes are round and kind of a denim/dark blue.. blonde hair & kinda light/average skin.

ok well picture::: http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b235/xo_kristin/PICT1718.jpg
my skins a lil darker than that now tho if that helps! thx!

Dag girl you got some pretty eyes! Use metallic colors like metallic silver, lt. purple, lt.blue or reg colors like, goldish brown, sparkley blue, silver & Gold.

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how can you get rid of eye puffiness(underneath) when you dont get enough sleep. that i can use at home without buying anything.

Anything cool, like compresses or a chilled mask, will help reduce puffiness or you can use tea bags. Soak 2 in water and squeeze out the excess and put them in the freezer for maybe a minute or two. This helps with dark circles as well.

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sorry i wasnt sure which category this question should go in
alright well today for the first time i tried to put a tampon in it was a regular size and once i put it in it started to hurt like a hurt hurt not jsut a weird feeling well i figured it was in wrong after a while of it hurting (i thought it was because i needed to get used to it) but once i tried to take it out it hurt...and like a very painful hurt i dont know what to do i dont have a mom so i dont have anyone to talk to besides myh friends and they said that the pains im feeling are not normal. it still hurts and ive had it out a while

Pay no attention to the person that said pain is normal when taking out a tampon! When done correctly and the rules are followed, there will be NO pain whatsoever and you will begin to really enjoy them, unlike pads, a constant reminder that your on your period :(

For starters, I'm sorry you don't have a mom to discuss things like this with.

Ok so here we go...lol. If your period is SUPER light then I wouldn't use a tampon until it got a lil' bit heavier. (In this case it's good to have some light day pads.
Taking out a tampon before it's time can hurt a little and that would be your fault. A tampon is designed to soak up the blood. If you pull it out way to early then it's to dry and will cause friction, which is quite possibly the pain your feeling.

Tips:
~*Lubricating the rounded end of the tampon with a water-based lubricant such as K-Y Jelly can make insertion easier the first few times. Don't use petroleum jelly.
~*If the tampon feels uncomfortable it is probably not inserted far enough into your vagina. Try again with a new tampon.

Go to this website: http://www.helpingteens.org/article-0096.html
and scroll down till you see A "How-to" Video of how to insert a tampon properly - this should help you out bunches. Best of Luck To ya'

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The person that I am dreaming about is a guy that I dated off and on for about 2 years around the age of 15. I am now 33. The first dream that I can remember having about him was about two years later. It was very vivid like he needed help or something. I had a few of those. Then, he showed up at a party I was at. He said he would soon be moving and had hoped to see me before he did so. I felt like i had mentally connected with him. Over the years, I had several more boyfriends and would still dream about him from time to time. I am now married (have been for 5 years) and seem to be dreaming about him pretty frequently. I should stop here and say that I did see him again briefly about 5-6 years ago at a bar. I with my fiance, he with his. Needless to say, I was drunk as was he and I dont think I made a very good impression (wanting to hug him 3 times when I saw him, mentioning the dream, etc)Anyway, these current dreams, they are not sexual (he was not a good lover) but I always feel so warm and content and happy, protected, etc. when he is there in my dream. Why am I still dreaming about him after all this time? I was a teenager when we dated, I had other teenage boyfriends, its not like he was the only one. PLEASE HELP!

To see an old ex-boyfriend from childhood in your dream, refers to a freer, less encumbered relationship. The dream servers to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) didn't interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship.

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Can anyone tell me how long it takes for all the scabbing to go away when you first get a tattoo? I got this really nice tattoo the other day & it looks pretty ugly right now. Thanx.

Bacitracin (available at Wal-mart with the band-aids) I used this on all 5 of my tat's. And not only did they come out VERY GOOD, the healing time was cut in half.

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Over the last couple of years my breasts have increased from a C cup to a D cup. I would be okay with this if they weren't fat boobs. I feel like there's a difference. Does anyone know of any excersizes for your chest, pectorals or whatever, so that maybe my breasts will lift some and look better? Thanks!

Push~ups will become your new best friend. But like everything else out there, don't expect to see results over night. I'll let you in on my secret...lol I hope you have a sense of humor cuz I don't want you to take this the wrong way. I am a size triple D so I can totally sympathize with you. Go buy some Palmers breast firming cream (Available at Wal-mart for under $5.00) It works WONDERS! I absolutley swear by it. Ok, so here's the thing I said I hoped you'd take in a ok way. I have a pic on my advice column of me in a 2 piece. There is alot of cleavage showing, BUT it's to give you a better idea of what this cream can do for you. Triple D's are freakin huge so you can only imagine feeling like they were fat one's lol. The pic is after using the cream for about a month. Best of Luck to you.
~*If we gotta' tote em' around they might as well look the way we want em' too*~

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The question is simple but the answer might be abit more complex! "Is life fair"? And please no answers lile "it's as fair as you make it"!!

Life is not fair. Life is not suppose to be fair. If life was fair there would be no challenges to prove ourselves. We would not know if we had good morals and strong principles if we were never in a situation in which was unfair. Fairness creates no problems; in return, problems create opportunities to demonstrate what we stand for and believe. If life was fair there would be no need for good deeds to strive for a better life because there would be no bad life (or unfair life) to escape from.

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ok where is your clit because i always get horney
when i read about sex so where is it?

Located at the point where the labia (lips of the vagina) coverge at the top of the vagina. It usually is hidden beneath what looks to be a large fleshy nub called a hood. When stimulated or by pushing the pelvic tissue upward, it can be seen.

Extremely sensitive organ that produces immense amounts of sexual pleasure for most women. When properly stimulated, can induce multiple orgasms.

Marks women as the only animal on this planet with an organ designated solely for sexual pleasure.

Usually a must for most women during sexual intercourse. Most face to face positions allow for it to be "crushed" by flesh and pushed upward by thrusts via the male hips. Not suprisingly, most women find it difficult to orgasm in positions that do not allow for the stimulation of the clitoris without some hand to hand help.


FYI: Formed from the same tissue as the head of the male penis.

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does anybody know any sites i can legally download songs from, free?
greatly appreciated.

thank you.

www.limewire.com
www.winmx.com

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15.f

Okay so last night i stayed at my boyfriends house.. I didn't sleep in the same room as him.. i was in his sisters room.. anyways..
We was watching a movie in the lounge and we started kissing and then we was touching each other like.. had our hands down each others trousers and underwear etc.. He got an erection.. and then he layed on top of me, still fully clothed and we kissed some more..
I am worrying that i could be pregnant even though we were fully clothed.. Because i no you can get pregnant through clothes etc..

But what is the possibility of me getting pregnant through his jeans and boxers AND my combats and thong? Like.. is this likely?
I dont know whether he came or not or anything.. and i didnt notice or feel anything wet\sticky on my combats.. But when i went to the toilet i noticed a tiny, tiny little stain, mark type thing kinda just above my private area but i dont think it went through.. infact it may of been something i spilt on there?

What do you think?
Also..
When i came home today i noticed my urine is a really dark colour and very warm to pass.. and i have been discharging a bit aswell.. My period isnt due for another week at MINIMUM.. and i am not or never have been sexually active

Any suggestions? i just really need to stop worrying or have some kind of reassurence or to know the truth about if this is possible because otherwise it might delay my period and i'll think the worst!
Sorry its long!

For starters your not pregnant. If you could get pregnant through what you have described then you'd be a good candidate for Ripley's Believe It Or Not...lol So stop worrying! Stressing over this could cause your period to come late which would probably freak you out even more. If your urine is ever darker that it should be, more than likey it's because your dehydrated. Start drinking a few more glasses of water and I'm sure you'll see it get back to it's normal color in about a day.

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what do i do my dogs are attatched to human table food they won't touch dog food so i have to make them breakfast lunch and dinner. tell me how i can get them to eat dog food. please........ thank you

Your stranded on a island. You can only eat the biggest bestest tasting steak there is...or a pop tart. Your going to want the steak. BUT, if you only had to eat pop-tarts, you wouldn't starve yourself and refuse to eat it, if it's all you had. My point is your dogs are spoiled! Just set them out only dog food and while it may take a day or so, they will eventually start back eating it. I had the same problem with my dog. Once I introduced her to McDonalds french fries, she wanted nothing but. I had to stop that though because she was getting WAY to fat for a dog that full grown, should only way 12 pounds. I started putting out the healthiest dog food for her and within 24 hours she was eating it.

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ok well when you have sex how long should it be like and hour or more? or less because i dont no thanks ;]

It's totally up to you and your partner, there is no set time limit. Some go for anywhere between 10 minutes and 2 or 3 hours!

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hi im 18 years old and ever since i was about 6 and started painting my nails and that same day or after i eat the nail polish off my nails like i peel it off with my teeth. I have been doing it ever since and i told my aunt and shes like you STILL do that you can get stomach cancer or another crazy diesese! is this true?? how bad is it for you?? please help

are you actually EATING the nail polish once it's pulled off your nail? If so, there's a disorder for that called PICA. Most commonly it is suspected that emotional disturbance and deficiencies of iron or zinc may lead to this condition.

Getting stomach cancer or another disease is probably just something she tells you to scare you so you'll stop doing it. If you are EATING it, then you are toxicating your blood though. (according to the many websites I found about this)

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Hey. I sweat alot in my arm-pits. i've tried special deoderants, but they didnt work out. Last year when I started shaving my under-arms(12 was when all the sweating started. I heard you could get a shot that helps you not sweat/not as much. Do you know anything about this shot? Thanx soo much!

p.s.- i even sweat when its cold....

The shot your talking about is called Botox.

The new usage is aimed at those who suffer a condition that causes four or five times more nderarm perspiration than normal. Botox apparently temporarily paralyzes a nerve that stimulates sweat glands.
~*Side effects include headache, fever and sweating in other parts of the body. The cost varies, but can average about 750 dollars for both arms.

You stated you sweat in the winter time, that is not normal. Although I am NOT a Dr. it does sounds like you might have hyperhidrosis-conditions when a person sweat's more than normal. Or you could have a over-active thyroid-Sometimes the thyroid gland of our body produces excess amounts of the hormone thyroxine, which can increase the sensitivity to heat. This directly results in more sweating.

Because you are sweating so much, you are depleting your body of all the fluids your taking in so take care to drink more water so that you do not become de-hydrated. Tell your parents about this and see if they can schedule you a Dr. appointment. They can give you medicine to help you. There's no need to be sweating that bad when you don't have to be!

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I have an extremley low self esteem...really low. But people tell me that I'm pretty...I can't believe it...So every time I go somewhere I am upset and thinking that I'm hideous and my self confidence is seriously so low...I don't know...what should I do...

www.myspace.com/rockstolemysoul

That's me...

I don't understand why I have such a low self image...but what should I do about it?

I think.. someone is myspace site whorin'. If you think your so ugly then why are you postin pics of your self in your bra & underwear and not to mention all the other pics where if you actually did have a shirt on, you pulled it up so ppl could see even more skin. Sounds like a cry for attention. I'll take my 1 and be movin on now...

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i gave someone head and i recently got sick, fever sore throat and now i have swollen glands and gums and my tounge is sore and the top of my mouth too.. theres nothing involving head in that right, my mother told me its called fever blisters.

plus my boyfriend has never done anything with anyone else besides me , and i havent with annyone else , his family has no history ..

Fever blister: A small sore situated on the face or in the mouth that causes pain, burning, or itching before bursting and crusting over. The favorite locations are on the lips, chin or cheeks and in the nostrils. Less frequented sites are the gums or roof of the mouth (the palate).


Fever blisters are caused by herpes simplex virus type 1. It lies latent (dormant) in the body and is reawakened (reactivated) by factors such as stress, sunburn, or fever from a wide range of infectious diseases including colds. Recurrences are less common after age 35. Sunscreen (SPF 15 or more) on the lips prevents recurrences of herpes from sunburn.

The virus is highly contagious when fever blisters are present. It is spread by kissing. Children become infected by contact with someone who has a fever blister and then they spread the virus by rubbing their cold sore and touching other children. A person with fever blisters should be careful not to touch the blisters and spread the virus to new sites, such as the eyes or genitals.

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I'm a bit of a cooking hobbyist. I used to knit until I got carpal tunnel, so now I cook like MAD. I'm also a new vegan, so cooking has to happen.

have any of you had luck drying your own tomatoes? we do not buy tomatoes because we have a huge patch in the garden. I'm interested in the idea (because I have some bread recipes I'd like to try), but what kind of screen should I use to keep bugs out? has anyone done this?

Carefully wash and dry your tomatoes first. Cut them in half lengthwise, you can remove seeds if you like but it is not necessary. If you do remove the seeds try to be careful not to remove the pulp. Use a spoon or your fingers to scoop out the seeds. Cutting a slit in the skin side of the tomato will help accelerate the drying process.

Place the halves skin side down and/or the slices on a framed plastic screen (we use our seed drying trays for this), being careful not to lose any liquid from them and spread them out so that none are touching. You can salt them at this time for a little more flavor and the salt will help to draw the liquid from them. The drying process will concentrate all the flavor in the juice. Use a cheesecloth cover over the screen to protect the tomatoes from bugs and crud. Raise the cheesecloth off the tomatoes slightly with wood skewers or something like that. Then place the screen outside in the sun with some boards or something to raise it a few inches and allow air to circulate underneath it. It will take at least a few days of sunshine, sometimes up to 12 days, to properly dry the tomatoes and you need to bring the whole set up indoors overnight, once the sun goes down.

The Results: When your tomatoes have dried properly they will have a dark red color or if using yellow, pink, white etc. type tomatoes they will have a darker, more intense color than they originally had. They should feel dry and pliable or leathery to the touch. They should not be hard and brittle or moist. You should be able to stick your finger in the center of them, pull it away and have no pulp on your finger.

Storage: Now that you have made it this far here is how you store them. Your dehydrated tomatoes take little space to store. They can be stored in plastic bags or airtight glass jars. For plastic bags: pack the tomatoes as tightly as you can, squeezing out the excess air. If you have a vacuum sealer it would be perfect for this. For glass jars pack them as compactly as you can and use a tight fitting lid to seal. We use our canning jars for this. Either way they can be stored at room temperature in a cool, dark place in the kitchen cabinets or wherever you have room. They will keep well for about 1 year, after that the flavor, nutrition and flavor will begin to decline. You may keep them for about 18 months if you wrap them securely in plastic and store in the freezer.

To Oven Dry
The weather must cooperate for sun drying. If this is not the case in your area oven drying is your solution! It does require a bit more of a set up. Most ovens have the lowest temperature setting of 200 degrees. Using uniform tomatoes sizes will simplify your results. Preheat oven to 200F or the lowest setting on a gas oven. Prepare your tomatoes as previously stated. Omit the cheesecloth and place them on cake racks or a perforated pizza pan as above. Put your pans directly on the oven racks. Alternately you could cover the oven racks with aluminum foil into which you will need to punch small holes for air circulation. Bake in a closed, preheated oven at 200º F for 6 to 12 hours until shriveled and dry. Do keep checking on them and remove ones that are done.

For Cherry tomatoes cut in half, prepare as above always putting the cut side down on your racks. Cut the drying time to 3-4 hours.

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