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Hi,

about me :
1. 5'3
2. 18 at the moment
3. YANKEES!!! ALL THE WAY

I DONT KNOW YOU so i give suggestions
I HOPE YOU RESPECT THAT
If you don't like my advice then don't ask! simple. don't rate bad because i tell you something that you don't wanna hear, i couldn't care less what you rate me, it's not affecting my life at all...
I'll tell it like it is.

advice

i am starting to worry that my moms boy friend thinks that i am a bitch. i heard him one time curse at me. so i dont know why. i dont feel like i ever have to do anything to please him. he doesnt pay our rent or buy us food.

don't worry. if anything he should be worried that YOU don't approve of him. after all you are your mothers child and i'm sure she'll value your opinion. in my opinion, he has NO RIGHT to curse or raise his tone at you. he is not your parent or guardian and has no obligations towards raising you. i believe you need to tell your mother that he's cursed at you, and i don't think she'll appreciate what he's done. just remember that you do NOT have to impress him in any way. it should be the other way around if he's trying to be with YOUR mother.

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I just want to know the exact date the Twilight movie comes out in theaters. Some websites say November 21st, some say December 12th. Gah, I'm so confused. xD Thanks.

originally it was supposed to be released in december. however the actual date is now november 21. here's the website :
http://www.stepheniemeyer.com/twilight_movie.html

i can't wait for it either =]]

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лу́чший, лу́чше

What language is this and what does it mean?

it's russian and it means
something along the lines of (because it can't be perfectly translated)
"those better, are better"


the second word means better
the first word is a form of better meaning "those/they are better" based on the context.

hope this helped

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15/F
In the Veronicas new song "Goodbye to You", about 1:45 into the song there's a short instrumental
and if you listen closely then you can hear a bit of a rhythm that sounds like something from an oldies song. I just can't figure out which one.
I only remember hearing a song with that same beat when I was really little on the Oldies radio station.
I've been racking my brains about it!!

This question is QUITE a longshot, but can anyone make a match?

ok so this is a longshot but i listened and the first thing that popped into my head was Del Shannons song "Runaway"
it sounds just like the instrumental from that song.

it most likely is because Aly&AJ used the same beat for their songs. I really hope this was what you were looking for

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I have used this site before for something completely different, and it worked great so I thought I'd give it another try.
I started to talk to this 27 year old women on-line from a social site, and it started out as friends. I'm 21 years old myself. As well as an age gap the big problem is that she lives in Russia and I go to University in the US. Over the past few months We've exchanged e-mail almost every day, and she's grown to love me very much, and it is the same with me. She wants to visit me in America, but I live in a Dorm with guys all guys so it won't work out, and still have 3 years left. Of course I've told her all of this. The problem is she just doesn't seem to care, and has almost grown obsessed with trying to meet me. Maybe she's just trying to be romantic, but she's said to me before that the only thing that matters to her anymore is to be with me.
I really like her so it's hard for me to just call it off, and honestly I don't want to because I love to talk with her all the time. I just have no idea of how to make it work. Any advice at all or just observations on my situation would be very helpful. I've of course talked to some friends about it, but none of them have really taken it as seriously as I would have liked.
I want to meet with her, but I just don't know how to do it, and not have it be her awkwardly living with me while I go to college. Maybe I should call if off, and just be with a girl that lives close by, but I know that it's too late. I'm 100% sure that she would be utterly devastated if I stopped talking to her.
I very much appreciate the time and thought from all those who respond to help.
Thanks,
-Nick

the fact that she's so young and lives in russia is a problem for her coming here. most of my family is in russian and i know that they don't let most people under the age of 40-50 come here because they're scared they'll stay illegally. even for a visit they can deny her. sorry but this is the only information i have for you. i know for a fact however that if she get accepted (very unlikely) and does decide to come it will take a few months to process the paperwork.

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I need a cute blue anchor, girly tattoo.
I'm getting my second tattoo here soon, and I can't find what I want.
I want a blue Anchor, maybe a little something more, on my foot. About a inch or a inch 1/2 big.
Plz help.

pictures

here are some. you can always as the artist to reduce the size

http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1175/978685555_8776bf2781.jpg


i thought the one below was cute, and instead of the gold, you can change it to blue, it would look super cute =]]

http://media.photobucket.com/image/anchor%20tattoo/raswocr/anchor_heart.jpg?o=14


http://media.photobucket.com/image/anchor%20tattoo/effingnathan/19qyv4-2.jpg?o=26


hope you like these. also, if you google "anchor" or go on photobucket and search anchor, you'll come up with cute stuff

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What's that rule about physical affection in school? PDA or sumtin? (what does it stand for again?)

PDA = public display of affection

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Hey guys I have an annoying question.

I've looked on lyrics websites but I cannot find this song can anyone help me...

it goes:

"What does it mean when it seems when we fall in love, losing all control and you don't know what to do and its true you fall in love."

Does anyone know the title, I saw it on an episode of "What I like about you"

the song is a guy singing it, its so pretty! ITs also the episode where vince and holly are in the vermont cabin and are ready to have sex. If that helps :) lol

I'd really appreciate your help!! Thanks!!!

it's called "Love Gets You" by Avner

here's the link
http://www.tv.com/what-i-like-about-you/halloween-2/episode/530212/summary.html


scroll down to the part of "trivia" and you'll find it there


=]]

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where can i find a song by flo rider and add it to my myspace profile and how do i do it?

please no sites just directions to do it.

thank you

go to "edit profile"

on the tabs that say "basic info, name, companies etc..." find the one that says "song and video on profile" and click it.

there is a blue link that says "find a band in myspace music" click it

this leads you to the music page and on the top right side of the page is a search box. type in flo rida. this brings you to the profiles of flo rida, just click on the first one. after the page loads there should be a music playlist usually on the top on the right hand side which has a list of his songs. find the song you want and underneath or next to it there's a link that says "add" click this.

the next page that pops up is a conformation page. it asks you if you want this to be your profile song. click yes and your set =]]

hope this helped and made sense

es =]]

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i usually listen to alternative/rock/etc. i listen to rap like if the song is popular. okay my question is: what are some of your favorite/popular rap songs?
i think i might start listening to more rapp, i don't know; i have to hear songs that i like so.
also: i heard this one rap song, my friend was playing. i don't remember what it's called but there was a hook in the song that goes 'run forrest run'. haha.
-->please list artist with song

the "run forest run" song is called "crank dat forest gump" by either soulja boy or crank squad.

if you like that song you'll most likely favor these:
1. crank dat soulja boy - soulja boy
2. crank dat spider man - soulja boy
and basically any other song by soulja boy there are many variations such as
"crank dat lion king" "crank dat batman" "crank dat aquaman"

some other rap songs are:
kiss kiss - chris brown
run it - chris brown
what you got - colby o'donis
i'm so hood - dj khaled
we taking over - dj khaled
out here grindin - dj khaled
forgot about dre - dr. dre feat. eminem
stan - eminem feat. dido
lose yourself - eminem
mockingbird - eminem
make it rain - fat joe
in the ayer - flo rida
low - flo rida
remember the name - fort minor
you can do it - ice cube
numb/encore - jay z feat. linkin park
apologize remix - lil wayne
duffle bag boy - lil wayne
lollipop - lil wayne feat. static major
just one of those days - limp bizkit
blueberry yum yum - ludacris
number one spot - ludacris
what's your fantasy - ludacris
shake your tailfeather - nelly
305 anthem - pitbull
anthem - pitbull
fuego - pitbull
sticky icky - pitbull
welcome to miami - pitbull
speeding - rick ross feat. r kelly
swing - savage
hurt - t.i.
touchdown - t.i. feat eminem
overnight celebrity - twista
independent - webbie

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basically its my sophmore year in high school, and i got into an AP history class which requires a lot of writing

i really want to take my writing to the next level, or have the style of it "matured"

any tips, websites? anything would be appreciated thanks (:

just practicing writing won't help you. i took ap world history last year as a sophomore and what really helped was reading classic books. it improves vocabulary and your comprehension. also, i've listed 2 books below that have examples of good writing for that subject :
1. REA AP WORLD HISTORY
2. PRINCETON REVIEW AP WORLD HISTORY
and they sell other ones by the same company that are for different histories.

hope this will help.

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i'd like to hear everyone and anyone's opinion, but i'd love for the older columnists to help me on this one... question being, do you think there is a certain age in which you can REALLY fall IN love with someone? Or do you think you can fall in love at any age, whether you're 16 or 50? So many people say at 8 you cannot fall in love, yet at 16 you can.. what is the difference? of course, the difference with any age is experiance, but do you guys really believe these theories? i want opinions!!! thanks =]

flirty

In my opinion, any one can fall in love. at any age. the thing is that it's rare. its rare to fall in love at an early age because thats when you confuse love and lust. the wanting to be with someone physically vs loving them. however, even though statistics say 16 year olds don't fall in love at that age although they claim, there's always people who defy the rule and are exceptions to it. it also depends on the maturity level of the person.

Also, at age 8, do you really know what love is? it's basically all the same to you. If you think back to when you were 8 you either loved someone or you didn't. you didn't distinguish the type of love it was, all you knew is that you liked the person. At 16 hormones kick in and you think it's love because you learn to think w/out using your brain.

Hope i helped

es =]]

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im gonna get a haircut soon and i just wanna see if its gonna look good

this will be my bangs:

#1
http://img231.imageshack.us/img231/1936/1469668813lji0.jpg

and this is the rest:

#2
http://img175.imageshack.us/img175/7148/greatwebhairsd2.jpg

do you think i should just stick with #1 hairstyle or mix the #1 and #2 hairstyle? i want it choppy haircut
thanks!

i love the mixture of both. super cute! i would definately get it done if my hair stayed that way lol. go for it!

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i don't know what's wrong with me!! i went to a doctor and she prescribed anxiety pills (2wice! 2 different types!) but one makes me depressed and hopeless the other makes my bite on my teeth and loose control over my muscles and sleep alot... i am really depressed! and i am panicking so much but i am very bad at showing my emotions.. and because of that i rely on "Telling" it so my family thinks i am faking... but it really hurts inside! i don't know what to do anymore and the doctor is not helping... i feel so alone when there is a million people around me ! :'(

unfortunately we have a tendency to think that everything can be fixed with a few simple pills. this is not how it works. doctors prescribe pills, and pills either numb you down so that you don't feel, or mess with your brain, making your problem worse or unbearable.

i'm suggesting natural methods... try taking a course on anxiety, there are many and they are AMAZING. i suffered from anxiety frequently. i learned to stop whatever i was doing, figure out what's causing the anxiety, take very deep breaths and relax. by the way taking deep breathing is very relaxing, try stopping and just calming down and taking a few really deep breaths.

also, clear your mind. there are techniques that you can find online or i can send them to you if you message me. they teach you to relax your mind and think of NOTHING and it truly helps and relaxes you.

the pills are numbing you which makes you sleep, and you loose control of your muscles, meaning it's causing more anxiety...this is why : when muscles contract, it's cause you're anxious or nervous... when they start shaking, they're doing the same thing...contracting. it's confusing but it seems like the pills are doing you no good.

depression can be targeted with food... really. bananas are very good for depression. they boost energy. also pills can cause depression depression cause once again they're numbing you.


IM/message me if you have any questions
xxes25 is my s/n

es =]]

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My names cherry, im 15 years old and me and my boyfriend mark have been together for almost a month. I no i'm young but i really do love him so much and recently one of his close mates is saying all this horrible stuff like, "oh you can do better.. bla blaa" and he dosen't even no me and i don't even no him :S but yea ever since he's said this mark's been acting really weird with me.. like he won't say love you and hes deleted the pictures of me and him off his phone. I've obviously asked him why he's been acting different and he claim's he hasn't.. I've also asked him if he's going to dump me and he says no.. but i really don't know what to think.. has anyone ever been in a situation like this? Thanks, Cherry x

ok so he listens to his ridiculous friends over you. he deletes your pictures off his phone just to make his friend happy. he's not thinking with his brain and he's listening to some kid.

what you need to realize is that if all it takes is "you can do better" to make him listen and delete stuff, then he's really not that amazing. i'm sorry but if a boy is dating you and can't respect you and listens to his friends over you than its YOU who can do better. if one of your friends told you that you could do better would you start deleting all evidence of you two dating? if he's shallow enough to do this then YOU CAN DO BETTER AND I HOPE YOU DO.

if you wanna talk IM me xxes25

es =]]

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I don't know what I have...
I think that it might be a problem but I don't even know...
My symptomns:
Tired ALL the time
Very forgetful
I shake all the time
Anxious about everything
Fluxuating eating habits (eating a lot then not anything at all)
Developing a very short attention span
Weird aches and pains
Moody (I am a girl if that helps anyy)

Can you help me? Have you seen this before? Have you had any or all of these symptomns? I am very confused and I am very afraid of what the docc might say...

IM me at ashleymarie854 if you need more infooo (via AIM)

well it sounds like you have anxiety which is common and everyone calls it a "problem" but in reality it's not. you need to clear your mind, breathe in deep breaths and relax. at least once a week you need a "free day" were you can just relax and not worry about anything. now being moody is a result from not eating properly and being tired. shaking is a result of the muscles contracting therefore you need to relax them, there are different techniques for every part of the body, IM me if you want them - there are a lot.

hope it helps
es =]]

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umm i was just wondering i fyou know a way to tell if your pregnant other than the whole havent had my peiod yet thing. cause i dont get my period for a long time and i really need to know cause im really scared!!!

the only thing i can suggest that's pretty accurate is a pregnancy test, you can buy one at walmart, walgreens, cvs, and basically any drugstore. besides that, you can go to a gynocologist and find out but that's about it.

anything else i can help with just let me know =]]


good luck

es =]]

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sorry i didnt know under what category to put this.

ok so i have a motorola phone like this http://images.amazon.com/images/P/B000A1329U.01.PT08._SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg

sou how do you text though? and how can i text numbers and not letters?

thaaanks :]

ok it's the motorolla razr and here are the steps :


to get to the texting you press the "envelope" button on the keys above the red "end" button. you go to "create new text"
when you get to the text screen, to change the options such as from letters to numbers you press the center button at the very top of the screen with the horizontal line going across it... this brings you to a menu that lets you change from letters to numbers.


hope i helped

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ok..so supposdely the characters in this book when, they're on fire, the fire is a certain color or something? and it symbolizes something?
does anyone know?
thanx
i have a big english test

the fire color itself doesn't symbolize anything. the fire does represent the burning of knowledge in order to promote/keep ignorance about the past and history this way people don't rebel against the laws made now. it's more symbolic that the books are burning than anything else because it's the books that have history in them and that's whats keeping the people ignorant.

if you have any more questions, message me or my s/n is xxes25

the book is really good =]]
es =]]

hope i helped

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So on saturday, i was sleeping over at my friends house. She was like do you sleep in your bra? i was like well normally when im sleeping over with friends i do. and she was like i heard that sleeping in it gives you breast cancer. Because it like pushes it up, so all the cells in there start to push up, and they will like clot up over time to form a cancer cell.
i don't know, is this true? Because i don't wanna get it!

you won't get cancer from wearing a bra overnight. however it's not healthy because it interrupts your breathing, and it cuts off the circulation which is never good. If you do wanna wear a bra overnight, make sure it's loose fitting. Some other myths with wearing a bra over night is to preserve perkiness, and a stunt in growth, please know these are all false.

hope i helped =]]

es =]]

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