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After break that lasted like a year, I'm back.


Um yeah, anyways.
My name is Amanda.
I am 16.
I will try to answer your questions to the best of my ability, but be warned, I am brutally honest.
So I might come off as being mean, but sometimes the truth hurts.
I'm not saying that to be mean, because I'm really a nice person.

And if you plan on sending me a question in my inbox, please use proper English.
I probably will not respond if you type LyKe DiS or IN ALL CAPS or if y00 cnt spl if yur lyfe dpended on it.

Have a nice day! :D

advice

ok im really confused and i REALLLLY like matt ((hes this guy that i goes to the place where i dance and hes always my partner))...but i kinda like Max and MarC ((which are like my BESTEST guy friends)) and like they all like me and i like dunno what to do..if enyone has adive PLEASE HELP..cuz i dont wanna hurt enyones feelings!

Well..hmm..If they all like you, and you like them..hmm...Well which ever guy likes you the most will probably ask you out first.

I know this wasn't well thought out but I hope this helped lol

X_Amanda_X

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i love my dog to death but she can really piss me off. it then pisses my whole family off. but my dog hurts my majorly like she scratches me, ruins my hw, etc! wut can i do to calm her down?

My dog was the same way when we got her. She would bite our feet, kill the poor bunnies in our back yard =(..Then there is this collar called an E-Collar. What it is, is a collar with 2 prong like things on it. Then there is a remote that comes with it. When your dog does something bad, you take the remote, push the button, and it sends an electric shock through the dogs skin. That is a way to disipline the dog so it knows that when it does something wrong, there will be consequences. There is only 1 thing you should know about the E-Collar. Always be sure you dont set the shock level too high or else it can permanantly damage the dog. The highest setting you should go to for a dog is 20-30 watts.

I hope this helped =D

X_Amanda_X

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my kat milly..aka ms kitty...
well shes really really sick right now!!
she has not ate in a week..and she lost half of her body weight..which was alot..and she only drinks water and she stays inside ALL day!!and she had like really runny eyes..and she had really bad body odor..
so finally on the 5th my mom took ms kitty to the vet..and they called us and told us they were going to test her blood..and my mom said ok..around 4:00 that same day they called us again and they told us we may have to let ms kitty go..that means put her to sleep..and they told us she had a begieng stage of kidney failure and she has more white blood cells then red..and they told us we can fight the kidney failure..with a special diet..and my mom said ok..anythink to save our cat..so i visted ms kitty at the vet today!!and she looks so much better..they mtold us she ahs a mouth in fection..that causes the odor..my question was does it make me sound stingey or like greedy if we leep kitty living??because we dont know if shes suffering or not..so were going to halft to force feed her for awhile until she gains her strength back..do you thinks its ok keeping her??i had ms kitty since i turned 4..im 13 now..so shes my life ..please answer this question i need help bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HELP ME PLEASE!!
I RATE 5'S!
*love always*
ilovepink101

If she was suffering, the vet would have told you that putting her to sleep was the only option. Seeing as how the vet gave you an option to keep her alive should tell you that she shouldn't be suffering, at least too much. So you should just enjoy the times that you and Ms.Kitty spend together while she is still alive. Hopefully, the option that the vet gave you will keep Ms. Kitty alive for a while, that way you have great times to remember when she is gone.

Good luck to you and your cat!

X_Amanda_X

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ok well my parents have been divoced for 2 years and i live with my dad and see my mom on the weekends. well my dad wants to move out of the city,far away from all of my friends and family, and i have never moved before.i dont want to go to a new high school and i dont want to move away from my family and friends so my mom offered for me to come live with her, but if i do my dad will keep my sister and we will be split up and i will never see her. and if i go with my dad i will never see my mom and i will be stuck with my stupid step mom who is a bitch, who should i go with?

Wow. This is one sticky situation. Maybe negotiate options,that way you won't get separated from your friends or your sister? Or try talking to your dad about moving. Just tell him that you don't feel comfortable moving and you don't want to be separated from all your family and friends. If that doesn't work, think through who you would rather live with. If you end up with your mom, maybe you can call your sister everyday to see how everything is for her. If you end up with your dad, talk to him about how you feel about your step-mom. It may upset him but then he will understand your true feelings for your step-mom.

I hope this helped!

X_Amanda_X

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Ok well the other day i was at a party and this girl i had just met started coming on to me and when she wanted to have oral sex i backed out but i think i regret itt
im seeing her next weekend what should i do

Don't regret any desicion you make. It may have been for the better. As for seeing her again, if she comes on to you and wants to have oral sex again, just do whatever feels right. Don't act all shy because of what happened before. Remember, no one can make desicions for you. The desicions you make are the ones you have to live with.

I hope this helped! =D

X_Amanda_X

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I went to a friend's camp this last weekend. She told me that there was this guys a few years olded then us but he was annoying, stupid, and ugly.Then we went out onto the lake and he came along. He had this really big tube and we were all just chillin on it and pushing each other off. then one time it was just me and him and i justed to like him but kept myself from liking him because of what my friend said. i know it doens't matter because i probably won't see him again but should i of let what my friend say keep me from liking this guy?? please help!

Hmmm..Maybe your friend sees something in him that you don't. If you like him, don't let your friend change that. She might have a past with him that she isn't too fond of so that is why she's trying to stop you from liking him. Just say to your friend "I like him and no matter what you say, you cannot change that"

I hope this helped! =D

X_Amanda_X

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Hey I saw some of your advice, and I thought you were pretty kewl. I was wonderin if you have an AIM screen name, and if you do, maybe you'd wanna talk sometime just to talk.

Thanks,
Caleb

Thanks and sure! I love chatting online! My screen name is LinkinParkLvr199. Feel free to i\m me anytime! =D

X_Amanda_X

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I was dating this guy for a couple of months, and everything was perfect. He was the first guy I could actually say I loved and cared about, and he loved me too. I was a freshman and he was a senior when we started dating. What's the problem you're wondering ... well he turned 18 and graduated at the end of May. His father is the real problem though. His father got a new job in another state, and moved a couple days after his 18th birthday and graduation.[he got to stay in his father's old house] This guy I was dating also stopped calling me [we talked every night!] the day his dad moved. His dad told him several times when we dating that he should be careful and it eventually got to where he told him to stop dating me because he thought we were having sex and doing things. We were never even close to having sex! Well its been almost a 1 1/2 months since we've talked. He never called to tell me he was breaking up with me, but I did find out that he told someone that his dad made him break up with me. I tryed contacting him several times for several weeks, but he never answered his phone or called me back. I need advice on what to do. Should I try to forget him and move on or what? It's driving me crazy not knowing anything. What do I do?

Thanks 15-Female

Wow..well if he has an e-mail address, send him a well thought out e-mail. That way, if you are on the phone, you aren't saying a bunch of stuff and get all confused. If you e-mail him, you will have plenty of time to think out what you want to say to him.I hope it all works out for you!

X_Amanda_X

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hey , well this guy has told alot of people he liked me but was scared & he was afraid that he got on my nerves too much that thats why he hasnt already asked me 2 be his girl friend what should i do ? plz help if u can thx 4 tryin !

Just relax! Give him time to build up the confidence to ask you out! He might be scared of being turned down. So just give him time and when he is ready, I am sure he will ask you to be his girlfriend.

I hope this helped!

X_Amanda_X

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i've been best friends with this girl since 6th grade. and we've always had good time together. but ever since march she's started to hang out w. different people and we've been talking a lot lessand sometimes i feel like i hate her. i'm in florida rite now and i didnt tell her that i was comming down here. and she's on AiiM alot and i havent talked to her...should i talk to her on AiiM? or shood i let her talk to me first?

i'll rate 5`z

If I were in your shoes, I would i\m her. Tell her how you really feel. Tell her that you feel like you are being disrespected since she started hanging out with her new friends. Hopefully she will understand where you are coming from. If she gets mad or upset about it, then shes not a true friend.

I hope this helped! =D

X_Amanda_X

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I would like to know from you guys; what is a fast sure fire way of making some quick cash. And please no-one say get a job because i am trying i just need money now and fast.. All help appreciated and rewarded.
Thanks
anthony
ps 16

If you need it that badly, then ask a close friend or family member to borrow some. Then work for them to pay it off, or do what i do for money, mow lawns! It may sound stupid but it does bring some cash in!

I hope this helped!

X_Amanda_X

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I dont want to be left out from my friends...how do i make it so im happy and im loud and boy crazy and just described as "awesome" please i really want to be outgoing and like this!

NO NO NO NO NO! NEVER EVER CHANGE JUST TO BE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE! Sorry about the yelling but you are going in the completely WRONG direction! If your so called "friends" aren't happy with you the way you are, then they are not your friends. Never, ever,ever,ever,ever change yourself just so someone thinks you are cool.

I hope this helped..sorry about the yelling lol

X_Amanda_X

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i was best friends with these 2 girls for 4 years. A couple of weeks ago i decided we shouldnt be best friends anymore. I was always the one being left out and i was jsut fed up of feeling that way so i told them that i just wanted to be friends, Now im regretting that i said that and do want to be their best friend again but i feel like if i do i will just feel the same as i used to be and be treated like JUST A FRIEND. please help me, what do you think i should do? sorry its long

Well, if they were truly your best friends, they would treat you like a best friend. If you feel you are not getting respected, they aren't your true best friends!

I hope this helped

X_Amanda_X

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i need that friend. that 1 true friend. when you get your first broken heart, she stays on the phone with you and will listen to you cry for hours. that friend that you can feel so comfortable around like your sisters or something. not all uptight and trying to act like someone your not. that friend that will come to you first before anyone else when shes crying. that friend that will listen close when you need her too. and will make each other laugh to your stomac hurts. my problem is, im so shy!! im never going to meet this person if i'm one of the quiet, shy types. i act all awkward around new people. i need someone like this. im trying so hard 2 find them.

Yes, it is hard to find the best friends that will always be there for you. I'm sure you have plenty of friends but if you need BEST friends, just find the people you are really close to. Get together sometime! Heck, go see a movie, have a pool party(if you have a pool). Eventually you will have a GREAT friend.

I hope I helped.

X_Amanda_X

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okay ive been friends with this guy for a little over a year. i dont like him like that this isnt about that. well we got into a fight bcuz his girlfriend told him i said all these bad things about him. thats not true. he wont take my messages he wont even talk to me. his girlfriend totally ruined our friendship. i wanna no how i can get into his head that i didnt say those things and his girlfriend just said that.

PLEEEEEEEEEEEZ help!! ill rate 5s for good help

Okay, I totally get what you are going through. Do you have a close friend that is also his friend? If so, have them talk to him. Or, you can try to talk to his girlfriend and ask why she lied like that.

I hope this helped.

X_Amanda_X

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hey guys...im really scared!! ok...i used to be really good friends with this guy and then we didnt really talk for a while, and in the past few months we have been talking alot and become really close again, well about 45 minutes ago i found out that his dad killed himself...what do i say to him? i mean HE doesnt even know yet...his mom called me before she told him...i used to be pretty close to his dad too...he didnt seem the type to do something like that...i have been crying my eyes out since i found out and when this guy does find out, what do i say to him? please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh my gosh that's horrible! What I would do in this situation is just talk to your friends mom. Plan out the right time to tell him about his father. No matter when you tell him, he will be upset. But it's best to tell him soon or he will get suspisious of where his dad is..I'm really sorry for you and your friend and I hope everything works out.

X_Amanda_X

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my boyfriend cuts and im really scared for him..he just started so i want to stop him, but when i do he gets mad at me. wat should i do? help help help!

I was in the same situation with my last boyfriend. He got mad when I asked him to stop too. So one day when I went over his house, I took all his knives and talked to him about it. I just asked him to stop and told him the bad sides about cutting. He seemed to understand where I was coming from and then he stopped.

I hope this helped!

X_Amanda_X

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sometimes i can not tell the difference between capital and lowercase letters,and sometime i look at words and they are backwards or flipped,also i get confused with the letters "d" and "b" or "y" and "g" or "m" and "w"
Why does this happen?

It sounds like you are dislexic(sorry I'm not sure if I spelled that right) Don't feel bad though, tons of people are dislexic. You should probably visit an eye doctor and see what he\she says.

I hope this helped! =D

X_Amanda_X

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