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hey guys..my column has been the same for soooooo long now...so im gunna change it up a bit! any ideas please let me know! anyway..heres the ordinary junk...im kayla, im 14, i like in md close to dc, i go to rhs - home of the rams! yay haha, and i dn i just love helping people!

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i have a hard time trying to get a boy friend! wat do i do to get a guy to like me?

just be urself!! ppl can sense wen ur being fake!! n dont be scared 2 let him kno ur interested hehe!! n be flirty n fun!! hold a good convo n make them feel special! gl ;)

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i have liked this guy for about a year now and we hung out alot when my best friend and his started to date and i herd that he liked me well now his best friend moved away and i have talked to him all summer and i hed he likes this other girl what should i do im so cofused

ask him wuts goin down haha nah but ask him if he likes u or not n tell him 2 be straight up. if u can read body language then even if hes lying, ull get te truth ;)

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What the hell does IDK mean?

idk = i dont know

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I would like to thank y'all in advance before you read this. It's probably rather long just because I think you need a little backround information about me... Good luck and thanks if you give me advice... I'll rate you high for this one (That sounds like a bribe)... ANYWAY... I'm having kind of a friend/idenity crisis. First off.. I use to NEVER hang out with girls. I was always one of the guys until 8th grade (I am not going into 10) When I grew boobs, had a NICE body, and was the captian of the competition cheerleading sqaud of my middle school. I had everything I wanted... I was beautiful, and popular (Shalow.. I know) Then, I didn't even make the high school cheerleading sqaud and I was kind of at an all time low. It was one of the most depressing time periods ever for me. That summer I gained 30 pounds and had no friends except my boyfriend. Luckily, I had my boyfriend there for me, which is still with me. At the begining of my freshman year I told my boyfriend how I was kind of nervous about going back to school because of my drastic change. So he told me I should hang out with girls. And so I did. I found a group of girls to hang out with. Turns out the year before I had bad thoughts about them but once I got to know them they werent what I really thought... (big lesson you all... don't jugde) Anyway, So that year was okay. I had girlfriends and stuff.. But I was kinda over weight and feeling really crummy about myself. But I wasn't gunna let that get me down... So I decided to get in something to take the place of my lifetime love, cheerleading. I became an active member in student council. There I became class president, And now I am student body president. I kinda prefer this position over cheerleading. ANYWAY... back to my friends... This summer was kind of weird with my girl friends position. I was happy i had girls to talk to about girl stuff and do girl things with. My boyfriend was happy too. So this summer I started big with TONS of partys and tons of drinking. Me and my girlfriends had a riot. But then I went to 3 leadership camps and decided that I wanted to be a role modle. So i stoped smoking, and drinking, and the parties. Well after I didn't want to do that my girl friends kind of left me behind even though we were really close. We barely talk anymore... And if we do its because they don't have anything else better to do and they wanna chill because they're bored. I know my possibilities.... I know my position.... I know what I can do... But what do y'all think about my position? About me? And what I should do.. Thanks

oo wow ok lots 2 deal w. here haha! ok about the being over weight, you had motivation for gaining it [depression], so get motivation for losing it![getting your friends back!] when ur ready 2 lose it, excersize 3-4 times a week for 30mins-1hr, n eat healthy! ok about the losing ur friends, its good th u didnt let them change u 4 good! i mean if they rly cared about you, they wouldnt stop tlkn 2 u as much just bc u dont party anymore! be proud of urself for tryina make urself somethin more than a drunk!! wahoo! haha. try hangin out w. new ppl, try 2 get close 2 the ppl tht r on ur student counsil. mayb the other friendships didnt wrk bc u didnt have enough in common. i think tht u have a great position, i can tell ya i respect u alot frm wut u wrote bc u realized u had a problem, n u fixed it. you should just do w.e ur comfy with, but i think ur a rly strong girl who has alot 2 live up 2! gl hun!! x0x0x

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When waz ur first kiss?

haha when i was like 5!! my whole class was obsessed w. it so we went around kissing each other lmao..wow tht brings back memories haha

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hey. well just thought u should know your hot. anyways, my girlfriend and i have just started school. we used to have a lot of time for each other but it seems like we dont anymore. she's busy with other things and never wants to hang. do i break up with her? or occupy my time some other way?

whos hot? if u feel like its not wrkn out then break it off...n find sum1 who it will wrk with!! if she duznt WANT to chill..then theres a problem! jus go w. ur instincts! gl

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What the youngest baby do you think that you would put a 14 year old in charge of? And do you really think that at 14 they are responsible?

i think any age kid. i babysit 2 kids down the street ones 4 n the other is like 2...n the lady reccomended me 2 alot of friends n theyhave kids tht r all diff. ages n im not even 14 yet ahah! i guess it depends on how responsible u r

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What's with divorce these days? No-one stays together anymore at all! My parents are divorced and it just gets to me how no-one stays together. Come on people, ya'll know what i'm talking about!

yeah my parents r divorced 2. idk i guess ppl jus fall outa love easily, or get married 4 the wrong reasons, or idk...but 4 me it was a blessing, my life is hella lot better now :D

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okay i knoe alot of ppl are havin sex and all and i used to want ta have sex really bad but i was talkin to my friend and she really explained to me that its a really good idea to wait for mariage. so thats me new plan. but c i talked to alot of guys about having sex... and now i dont knoe how to turn them down..?? i mean will they think im dumb if i say i wanna wait till marriage??

mayb u shuldnt answer w. the marriage thing. jus wen they ask u b like "nah thas ok i don wanna" n they should respect tht. if they dont, its not worth it

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Why is it that when you eat anything it has a tendency to bloat you and make you look bigger than you are. Is there a way to prevent this? I usually just end up not eating. Help! Thanks! I rate good.

dont not eat!! thts not good! growl! to not bloat just excersize alot! plus whenever ppl say theyr bloated i never see any difference @ all...so its not rly tht big of a deal. but idk excersize n u shuld be fine!

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what r soem good truth or dares that i can play w. guys.. n girls!!??

truth: do u masturbate, who do u like, do u lie 2 me, wut turns u on, idk stuff like tht haha dare: light themselves on fire n jump on a trampoline, go around streaking, make them drink sumthn w.o knowin wut it is n put buncha nasty stuff in it, go 2 a random neighbors house in only boxers n wen they open give them a hug n act like they kno the person n invite themselves in n stuff, haha idk be creative!!

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Is it considered "dorky" to roll jeans that are a little short into capris? or should I just cut them? Thanks

ucan do either, but id say roll them tht way u dont ruin them haha n if u ever wanna put them back into jeans u can. n no rollin them isnt dorky

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question for everybody that asks questions on advicenators: How come you dont rate somebody after they answer your questions? it doesnt take a lot of effort and its a quick little thank you for their response. It helps the advice giver to understand how well they answer certain questions. I think everybody should rate out of pure politeness...Just curious as to why most people dont..??

when i ask questions i do rate...but idk ratings arent tht important...theyr just fun haha. but idk haha w.e its good

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i wanna here the song sunshine by lil flip and lea...but its not on wondows media layer. lol...happy kla?

how bout u call me up n i sing it 4 u. haha!! thatll be a nice lil tune! lmao

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hey! well i have 3 best friends, and this summer, I havent spent that much time with them because we have all been really busy with our own seperate activities. I really want to set up something fun that we can all do together, becasue i really want to spend some time doing something fun with my friends before we go back to school. does anyone have any ideas on what wecan do? are there any fun amusment parks that anyone knows of? let me know. thanx guys!

if theres a 6 flags around u thts rly fun!! or have a sleepover n do something fun like a water balloon fight, or pudding wrestling!! haha. or u culd go 2 the pool or if theres a beach near u. hmm go out on the town haha! if ur younger find some under 18 clubs n go clubbin n out 2 dinner! or shopping!! wahoo!! haha. or have a girls day n get ur nails n hair done n buy a new outfit hehe! if ur not into tht u culd go 2 lazor tag or roller/ice skating! movies! haha. o lordy theres sooo much to do...do everything!!! hahaha hope i helped!

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I didn't know what catogory to put this in. What are some good truth or dares to use at a sleepover or something?

make a drink n the person has 2 drink it w.o knowin wut it is (put buncha nasty stuff in it! hehe), kiss but thts old, run around outside in their underwear, light themselves on fire n jump on a trampoline, idk be creative!! haha

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How Do You Know If A Girl Likes You?

she'll be really flirty, all smiles haha, mayb like touch ur arm or sumthn, laugh @ ur dumb jokes, call u alot, tlk 2 u every chance she gets, stuff like tht! :D

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hey um... does anyone know how to put up your favorite columnists on your thing? i did it before for one person but i kinda forgot...so yeah. :D

go 2 their column n click "make favorite columnist"

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i have a boyfriend and i wonder why im so afirad to kiss himits weird isn't that i have a boyriend and im scared to kiss him

mayb if ur scrd it just means u like him alot! hehe! just do it the 1st time n after tht ull prly be 100% comfortable w. it!

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OKay guys! On the first day I have narrowed it down to two diffrent choices:

1. blue jeans, a halter top w/ a cute shirt (the kind that have the buttons at the top that u leave undone (i know complicated to explain), black flip-flops, and a pink and black purse and pink and black back-pack!

2. blue jeans, a dark pink and blue shirt (the polo kind) with pink flip flops and a pink and a pink and black purse and pink flip flops!!

3. other.

okay please choose one!!!!! :D Keep in mind I am starting a new school and I'm confused about the style!! Thanks guys!

the 1st 1!! they both sounds REALLY cute tho!!

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