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My name is Danielle and I love to help people. Ask my anything and I will try my best to answer as accurately as I can with personal advice from my expierince or knowledge.. Good luck and God Bless all!*Keosha*
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i have been working out for a few days straight.lately, my stomach has started to hurt.could this be due to working out?
Most likely yes, you need to give your body some rest in between workouts, like every other day.
Lately, my eyes get all watery inside and sometimes tears drop but it's not because I'm crying - I think it might be allergies? What do you think it is and how do I stop it?
Yes it sound slike allergies, maybe take some Benadryl for a week and try some eye drops if they dont work go see the eye doctor
What are some good techno songs?
Blade 2 Soundtrack
yesterday i went to my friends house and she pierced my ear with her earring. well, we did sterilize it by putting the earring/earring back in a little cup of that ear alcohol stuff..
well first she used a sharp earring (sterilized) to pierce my ear, and then she took it out like 5 minutes later and put in a regular earring. my ear is fine, no infections or anything- just a little blood at first.
um, so, i was wondering if you can get AIDS or anything by using somebody else's earring to pierce your ear. idk, cause i would think it's like a needle or whatever. im assuming my friend doesn't have AIDS, but who knows for sure?
also, does anyone know if there's a test for AIDS besides getting a blood sample?
please.
Yes they came out with new HIV/Aids tests that can be tested through a special swab of your spit. It takes about the same amount of time to come back as a normal test but its just as accurate. Go to your local health dept. and ask to get tested
My sweet 16 theme is Hollywood and me and my friends want to go all out. We are trying to think of people to dress as, but are coming up blank.
I'd love to hear some advice on it, or even a website for ideas.
I tried google but it didn't help me much.
Thanks
I would suggest looking through magazines and look and if u dont have any goto www.seventeen.com
I have an Ab Roller, and it's nice. But if I use it for too long, my lower back starts to hurt. And I'm all about the comfort. I won't do sit ups or crunches because I hate the strained feeling you get in your back and neck.
I'd love to buy an Ab Lounge, but I'd first rather see if anyone has any exercises for working the lower abs.
Thanks.
Yes, I do an exercise where it works the lower Ab by laying on a flat surface with something to hold on with your arms straight behind you parallel above your head, you must hold on to this could be someones ankles and bring your legs up together to about a 75 degree angle and then back down about 3 inches from the ground do this in sets of 10 to start off with then tell me your results...Keosha15@aol.com
Okay, so I'm 18/f and I've never been technically diagnosed with depression, but lately I've lost the will to do like, anything. I had plans with my friends last night and didn't want to go - I went anyway and it was kinda fun, but I still didn't want to be there, and found myself drifting off into my own little world a lot.
The thing is, nothing in my life is really THAT bad right now. I have a few stresses going on, including financial and the all-too-popular body image thing, but still...
I hate feeling this way, especially when people around me have it so much worse. I don't feel that it's right, and I don't like it.
How do you get rid of this feeling?
I used to be able to control my emotions to the point that I just kinda mentally pushed a button and the bad feelings disappeared. I can't do it anymore, though.
I've tried freewriting (which I do a lot and have suddenly lost the want to do), I've tried going out with friends. Nothing seems to help, and I can't afford to feel this way. I work as a waitress and need to be friendly and caring in order to get good tips, and I don't want to smile at all right now.
So yeah...how do you shake this?
Pay attention to your spelling and grammar, please. I'll rate you down if it's wrong.
Ok, things probably aren't bad to you but maybe a part of you thinks so deep down. I don't know what is going on in your life at the moment but I do think that there is something that you are worried about. Yes, to me it sounds like a slight case of depression, I would go to a psychiatrist to see if I could get rofessional help and professional advice on this particular subject.
i started my period july 3rd. and the past 2 days its been stopping and starting and the times its started again its been a heavy flow. idk whats happening. please help. thnks in advance.
Well depending on your age and when u expierenced your very first menstrual cycle (period) you will ahve irregular periods throughout a course of years. Personally ive had mine for 6 years and its still irregular...so it all depends on your body, i would suggest getting on birth control pill to regulate your periods better...
I'm 15 years old, 5'8, 135 pounds and I'm interesting in doing modeling, not as a career, just as a way to make money, but I'm not exactly sure how you get started. I know I need to find an agent, but how? (I don't know anyone who models.) What are the general costs of starting? How much money would I be making?
To find an agent i would say look through the phone book, and the back of the seventeen magazines and teen people mags. they have a whole bunch of stuff about modeling in there
whats a good non expensive birthday gift to give my boyfriend turning 13 in two weeks? he likes soccer, if that helps :)
THANKS!
A soccer player bobblehead doll, a new soccer ball, his favorite cd or movie that just came out
if i slept with a bra on would that make my boobs stop growing?! and if it doesnt would that at least make my boobs rounder
Sleeping with a bra doesnt make your boobs stop growing, it will make them prone to sagging when you get older so i would suggest sleeping with a bra on.
What can a 13 year old do to get money? I'm almost desperate. I seriously have no money, neither does my family. I just need some ideas to earn some extra money.
Thanks!
You cant do much at 13 but you can babysit..help out in the community, work at the library, mow lawns, do some yard work for the next door neighbors, yard sale, lemonade stands, car washes..
I had been into a net relationship with a boy from Aus for the past 4 years. We never heard each others voice or ever saw each other (except thru the net pics we shared).Four years was a long time to me and I could not stand the pain of being away from my loved one for so long.I desperately loved him.There was a time when he took me for granted and stopped being in touch.But then he was sorry and came back.And he really changed. But loving a boy on the net so desperately and knowing that I would not be able to see him for the next few years was a real pain and so I backed off from the relationship. He asked for a reason and I gave it to him. His answer was something like..."Sweetheart, Thank you for replying back and wish you all the success for the future. I like to walk in the rain cuz no one can see me crying... Good Bye. Yours__Michael"
It was a pain to me too but I don't think he thinks so. Its so hurting. I've been a failure in relationships even in the past and I don't feel like going for a relationship ever again.But deep down I secretly long for a person to love me.Though I have a lot of really good friends, I long for someone who'll call me his own.I know I am loved and wanted but the feeling remains.I try to distact myself by engaging myself in activities but nothing helps.And I can just not stop crying and like to stay all alone. Please help me!!
Find yourself sweetheart, Pull yourself together. I know all of the pieces in the puzzle dont fit right now and they wont right away. You feel an emptiness in your heart and only YOU have the power to fill it up. And by this i dont mean with love of other guys or people. I mean from love for yourself and god..Learn to love yourself first and put god first.. He is as close as your heartbeat...you do not need anyone to fill up that emptiness in your heart. Define yourself, Define your life and who you want to be. Do not depend on others to make you or break you. This takes time, months but stay persistent and dont give up because there will be amny times that you feel like you have to, trust me, trust yourself. If you want to talk IM me AIM:Keosha15 or Email:Keosha15@aol.com Im here for you. - Keosha
My dad is mad at me because I bought a bathing suit that cost $35. It was really good quality and material, and it's the one I've been wanting for a month now! It's really pretty and I don't have ANY other bathing suits that fit me. I think $35 for both pieces is cheap considering at American Eagle they are much more then that. Do you think it's a good price? My dad flipped out on me! He said to go to Walmart and get $10 ones, but personally I think all the clothes at Walmart are crap and they arn't even worth $15 ! How do I explain that $35 is a good price for a bathing suit, and even though Walmart's is cheaper, it's not good quality. He said if I can think of 3 good reasons to why the bathing suit is worth $35 I can keep it. Help?
The bathing suit was on sale for $35 instead of $75.
You've been really good with your behavior and you decided to treat yourself.
You deserve it.
You wanted to be unique.
i've got a broken leg and it has to stay in a cast for weeks. I mean, ages! Im stuck with not a lot to do so im just eating loads of rubbish and im worried im gonna get fat.
how can i exercise so that i dont put on loadsa weight without actually hurtin my leg real bad?
Honestly you cant really excercise and eat horribly and plan to lose weight. I mean take it from me my dad is a body builder...alot of weight comes with diet..so do crunches and start eating fruits instead of sweets, chicken instead of mickey d's and salads instead of chips...turst me it will help.
is it safe to give my dog frosted flakes or cheerios?
Yes it is okay to give ur dog some cereal but nothing with chocolate b/c in chocolate there is a chemical that doesn't agree with dogs body chemistry very well and could make them sick. Also, i wouldnt suggest giving your dog too much human foods as it is not that good for them and can make them overweight.
Ok, I have been having dreams of being with other men even though I have a bf. I love my bf and would never cheat on him. I used to have those dreams a lot but it stopped for a while but now there back =/. I hate it, I used to just get up and forget about it, its just a dream right? But now they are really bothering me. I love my boyfriend so much and our two-year anniversary is coming up. We tell each other everything but I haven’t been able to tell him about this cause he can get very jealous. He tells me stuff like that and it really wouldn’t bother me. Should I tell him? Is there anyway to make the dreams stop? Do they mean something? I used to like all the guys that I dream about, but i really don’t like them anymore. This is how my last dream went...
We were on school busses and they left us at what looked like a mall but also a school. Any way my bf was with me but we got separated and I hung out with my friend and we found out there was a concert on the roof. we went up there and one of my bf's friend that I used to like was there. Anyway during the concert someone bumped into him and he feel on me and kissed me, I kissed him back and then stopped and started crying. He said come on you don’t like him he doesn’t treat you right don’t cry, don’t you like me? Which made me cry more and I ran downstairs and then woke up.
This guy is the one I dream of the most and he’s attractive but I love my bf and think he is much more attractive so why am I having these dreams! And do I tell my bf? I really want these dreams to stop I never even think of those guys and I end up dreaming about them! AH! Please help
Ok, I have reoccuring dreams a lot too, and I was once told (by a pshyciatrist) that it means there is something you are longing to do or something you want or have wanted that is still on ur mind somewhere deep down in there. Or it means you or someone close to you will or is going through something that may not be simple at all.