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Hey guys im Michelle!! Some people think im annoying, some people think im crazy.. but who knows im just ME!! I bite my nails, i know its a habbit i have to stop. I love getting my nails done, its my obsession. My goal in life is to become famous, but who doesnt wanna be? Im mean to people if they're mean to me first, otherwise whats the reason to be mean to someone? I dont understand life.. although it can be fun sometimes. I love the color pink, and when i say that people automatically think im a girly girl. I love to dance and sing, although i dont see myself doing it when i get older..

advice

ok so theres this guy that i "talked" to for a few weeks, and we went on a couple dates, then one night it went a lil further...then the next day he stopped calling me as much and stopped texting me, and we never hang out ne more. But wenever i see him at school he comes up and gives me a hug. Which sucs cuz everytime i see him he like takes my breath away...but for the past week i've been trying to play it cool and pretend like i dont like him, n wenever he gives me a hug or talks to me...i just pretend like i don't care...but the truth is I'm insanly attached to him, and i miss him sooo much. So i still call him like every night, n he used to pick up and we'd talk for a few hours, now he doesnt even pick up...I dont know what to do...he broke my heart, n now he said he's back with his Ex..how do i get over him...he drives me insane,I just want to be with him, but i know i can't.
-broken hearted-

Aww, hey. Maybe he stoped calling you because you acted like you didnt like him and didnt care. Maybe you shouldnt have acted like that. You cant really get over him. Your feelings cant get over someone. You know? Well, you can still talk to him at school and ask him why he wont talk to you on the phone anymore.
♥ MIchelle

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 11 months in 2 weeks. Well I dont see him as much as i used to and as much as i liked to. cuz i moved. So its hard but we manage to see eachother at least once every 2 weeks. But this has been going on sense oct. But we see eachother almost every mon. for about 10 min. cuz i run into town. Anyways he told me tonight he is a bit depressed but he wont spill why. Im his gf.. shouldnt he tell? I know its hard.. but he was there through everything for me. He also told me when he was over at his friends house he could have gotten high but when he was offered he said he kind of wanted to but didnt. He asked if i would be mad if he did. He isnt a stoner.. so.. I dont know. I know that might be like apart of him being a bit down. i dont know what to do like how to react.. its confusing i dont get why he is bottling it up inside when i always let him in on what was going on in my mind. At the end of the convo he said that he would tell me if he could. So im hoping its not that bad he cant tell someone. Should I write him a letter? like what should i say in it because i dont want to seem pushy.

Hey, boys are very difforent than girls. He might be depressed for not beinga ble to see you, he might also be deppressed for not being able to do what he wants because he is scared you will get mad at him. Talk to him and tell him he can do what he wants unless it will hurt him. Dont write him a letter, no offence it is kind of stupid. I mean he would tell you what he wants to but he might not want you to fall into peices over it. Again boys are difforent. Girls are sensitive and let out what they feel boys dont really tell people everything they are secerative. Just ask again and he might tell you!
♥ Michelle

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i have a really big problem. Ive been talking to this kid for about 3 weeks but only been dating him for 3 days. I lost my virginty to him last week and i think he has a anger problem and he makes me cry alot. he gets mad over little stuff, like if i look at him and stuff. and he barley talks to me when i see him and he doesnt say goodbye all the time. he never wants to be near me it feels like. we havent done anything together in a couple of days but weve also havent been alone really. i love him so much and he treats me like shit. And my bestest friend in the whole world who i always hang out with and he always goes to her house along with her boyfriend. but shes been hanging around this other girl whos older and is a pothead and turned my friend back into a pothead. now my best friend lies to me, ignores my calls, rides in cars with all theses boys. never has anytime for me and shes always with that girl and i dont like her and neither does my bffl's boyfriend or mine dont like her. and shes trying to make my best friend hate her boyfriend and tells her that hes treating her like trash and stuff. i have nothing. my boyfriend doesnt feel the same way as i do. i can tell when i look at him. and now i dont have my bffl. i dont know what im gonna do. ive thought about talking to my boyfriend and tell him the truth, that i cry myself to sleep every night and that everynight i sit in the dark with a blade across my wrist looking for a good enough reason to do it but then i always think... maybe things will get better maybe hell change. but i dont think they well. im thinking of giving up. my school grades are all fs im probably gonna stay back, my boyfriend treats me like shit and i love him so much and now i dont have my bffl. i dont know what to do. plz help

Oh boy, hey babe. It seems as though your bf is using you. Talk to him forsure on the phone. Talk to your friend as well. You should get a counsler and telk to them. The school has a therapist too, try talking to the therapist.
♥ Michelle

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ok,
there is tons of girls that like me at my school and they all want to go out with me, so i need to know if i should become a "player" and go out with all of them at once or let them take turns?

What are you saying? Are you aoutta your mind? Just go out with them at difforent times and whoever you like the most just stay with them.
♥ MIchelle

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Okay, my friend Jackie introduced me to this guy she knows (over the internet) and he lives in New York, where she used to live, and they're sort of "going out" but not, since we live in AZ, and anyway, I've been talking to him and I think I'm starting to like him just a little bit and I don't know what to do, because she really really likes him.. I know I should let her have him, but should I tell her or just try to keep quiet about it and try to stop talking to him so I don't like him more or what?

Hey, you can controll your feelings. Just go to your friend and be like i know why you like him, and tell her you like him too. If she gets mad at you tell her that you cant control your feelings and you just really really like hiM! or at least like him a little.
♥ Michelle

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lets say me and my ex dated when we wre like 13 for 8 months then fought for a year then i moved cross county and hes talking to me nad im supposed to go back for a little while in 2 weeks do u think he still he wants sex or still has feelings or something like that

Hmm, he may like you he may not. You can go back with him but if he wants to have sex with you say no unless you really think he means it and you want to have sex with him.
♥ Michelle

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Would you risk your career for what you truly believe if the two were different?

No.
♥ Michelle

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ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend 4 almost 6 months and i think he is the one. but sometimes i am like no he cant be the one and i just think and think about it and other times i am like i know he is the one. i love him 2 death and i know that will never change. but do think this relationship will last ?????? and is it right 2 think that your boyfriend is the one at a young age????? he is 14 turning 15 and i am 13 turnin 14
-confused

Ya, you can love him and think he is the one.
♥ Michelle

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Okay so this guy i like at school well we are friends and he knows that i like him. He is so nice, funny, and he is HOT. LOL But i heard that he never likes girls that like him, but this also came from someone that also likes him....shes my friend but shes the type of person that i cant trust sometimes. Also there a few other girls that like him i dont know who but alot of girls like him. So i like him but i dont know if he likes me. Should i ask hes friends to see if he likes me or should i ask him, if i should what should i say???? NOTE: I dont want to sound hella stupid if talk to him, but yeah lol what should i do!! Im so confused.

Just ask him. Say hey i have been meaning to ask your somthing, do you like me? And your friend is prob. lieing
♥ Michelle

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HELP!im 14/f..here it goes..in like october i started kinda fooling around with an eating disorder but didnt really realize i was. since then ive collapsed twice..im really getting scard somethings really wrong with me bc of this! my sister knows & she thinks i told my mom and that im all good now. i feel guilty that im basicly lying to my sister when she asks me how its going and im scard ive done some kinda permanent damage to my body! i really dont want to be known as that girl with an eating disorder but its hard not to be!

Well, you should tell your mom. Eat more. She will tak eyou to the doctor and they will tell you what to do.
♥ Michelle

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my lil bro is 7 we share a room and i have a double bed and sometimes he gets scared of thunder cause hes a light sleeper and im not so he gets woken and i dont ANYWAY he got freacked by some thunder and so did i so i didnt object when he hopped in next to me but i got woken up a bit later by him touching my penis and rubbing my leg with his foot neither of us have said anything what should i do

Sorry, is he gay? I know that it is too early to judge but i dunno. Tell your parents about it after you tell your brother. I know he will get mad but still your have to tell your parents.
♥ Michelle

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I am 15 and I just cannot get any guys to notice me. Sure, I have plenty of guy friends, but I find it very difficult for guys to look at me as more then a friend. I'm not exactly skinny, but I guess i wouldn't callk myself extremely huge. I am just overweight. I work really hard to lose weight and it usually works, but I always get so depressed when I see all my friends who weigh like 115 pounds and how they always get the guys to notice them. How can i get guys to notice me and really see the real me, not just what is on the outside? How can I make them see the real me? How can I deal with the stress I have, and how can i lose enough weight to make guys want to be with me? PLEASE HELP ME!!!

Aww, hey. Well, you think weight seems to be your issue. Maybe its not. Maybe you have low confidence. Have faith in yourself. If guys dont like you for you them f*** them!! Ask your guy friends about them. Your guy friends obviously like you that they are friends with you.
♥ Michelle

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what are some good yearbook signatures? its gettin to that time of year and i dont wanna just sign my name!

Say thank you to all your teachers, your parent(s) gardian, and your friends.
♥ Michelle

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I'm a 15 yr old guy and my girlfriend and i were "dumped" by our former bf/gf and now they are together.....she is having a hard time getting over her ex and it's feeling pretty crowded in this relationship to me. Do you think it's normal for her to be really concerned with his pro and his away messages and who he's seeing and what he's sayin to his new gf? How can I help her get over him and concentrate on US?

Talk to her about it. Let her know that you love her.
♥ Michelle

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I recently got a haircut and my hairdresser cut way too much off! I was wondering if there were any products out there that could make my hair grow back faster. I know theres probably not much out there that could really make my hair grow 'faster' but even something to make it grow in healthier would be just fine. Anything to just make me feel like its growing faster would be fine. Thanks so much.. I rate high!

If you go to a beauty supply store and ask them it would help. If not put your hair up and braid it a lot.
♥ michelle

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Like...see i jus moved to a diff place last summer... and ive been here at my new school ever since. ive jus been realy sad at times because i really miss my friends and like the old life i used to have and everythin and i jus wish i had someone to look to for support...like a shoulder to lean on..like a guy, so i can really feel happy here...like i dnt wanna say i have found bad friends but like my bff shes like really unsure of herself and really shy and most of the time im the one helpin her with advice... i mean shes really nice...but ya like shes not the most "stable" person to lean on if u know wat i mean. like there are tons of ppl (guys) who seem interested in me, but yet seem distracted...or somewhat scared of me. like they try and like talk to me, but not really...and when they do i feel all like red in my face for sum odd reason...i mean like...im a sorta shy person...especially when it comes to guys but i really want a guy to at least be friends with...
plz help! i feel so lost sumtimes...

Well, like tell like one of the like guys that like like you if you can like hang around them, if you know like what im like talking about.
♥
Like totally Michelle

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what are the best shoes to wear when you're wearing a denim miniskirt and white knee high socks?

Hey, you can wear boots like the ugg boots, instead of the long socks. If not, wear like converse.
♥ Michelle

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So my best friend from 5th grade meets up with her friends from forever in 6th grade. Which is really good cuz there really popular and they introduce her to all new friends and she introduces them to me so everything is great right? Wrong now its seventh grde and everyone talks about everyone and they leave me on the curb. I talked about my old best friend from 5 grde and she talked about me then told all of who i thought were my new friends that I was talknig aobut them. NOT COOL. Then they all blow me over tell everyone to hate me. So now im on the curb with 3 friends tops and everyone else is always making me miserable. So what do I do? I try to make up with them be really nice. But it kills me cuz they dont give and it get wrose...fat cow!Go home!...god....so now im misrable and have like 3 friends. But the girl doesnt know why im mad at all. My life is a mess and im out of controll and cant fix it im done I give up and I need help......so help me

Hmm, in 20 years, it wont matter what jeans you wore, you your friends are. All that will matter is what you have learned and how you have used it. I think that you should forget them, and make new friends. THey are all a bunch of biatches. Just confrot them or make new friends. You can also try maybe staying away from her.
♥ Michelle

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Okay kiddos...this probley sounds really lame...but There is this guy and he is a grade below me....well ne ways me and him talkled on the fun Frday and Saturday last weekend and we say hi to each other at school....well ne ways his friends keep asking me if I like him and i was like yea...and then he and i were talking and he said he wants to get to know me better....but i want to know if i should ask him out or not!! HELP!

Ya, go for it!! But first do the ovbvious, get to know him better!
♥ Michelle

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ok me and my boyfriend recently broke up..it was really hard because of rumors..anyways theres this guy name bradley and well im starting to like him. hes been holding my hand and stuff and me him and my friend were walkin to gym and i had grabbed his wrist to show him this girl and he slid his hand and we ended up lockin hands and he started rubbing my hand.im so confused because 1.this guy named lets call him joe is supposed to ask me out because he wants a girlfriend 2-because bradley can be known as a player sorta and 3- because i still love my boyfriend.what should i do?

Hmmm, well it seems as though you have mixed feelings. Why not wait and see who asks you first? Then just say yes becuase you all all of them!
♥ Michelle

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