Hey! I'm Andrea.. my cousin has a column here, DarkChocolate794.
I've been giving advice here for a long long time. I've been through more than you'll know. I've managed to stay normal thanks to Jesus.
I'm nowhere near perfect. I'm a busy girl,so I don't have much time to get on as I used to. I'll hit you up immediately if you inbox me.
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does anyone own an acer laptop? and if so, does it run well? I just bought one, and i can't find much on it. i have the model: AS3009WLCi.
does anyone know what it is? and is acer overall a good computer company?
thanks in advance. (link)
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yea im using my acer now. its awesome. the picture quality is awesome. you have to do deep research on it because its new and reall nice. it runs well and pretty fast.. I wouldnt take this back. its better than the toshiba i used to have.its user friendly thats pretty much all i no about it
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i wanna die in my sleep. help. (link)
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lmfao!!
get one of your friends to shoot you on a random day while ur asleep.
its hilarious what moderators let go through these days.
hope i helped! have a nice rest of your life
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My parents are hosting a huge gala tonight at our house. Which outfit should i wear?
-Strapless pink cynthia steffe sheath dress with gold bangles
-my trusty sevens and a silk halter
-navy cablenit tube top, true religion jeans, and suede heels
thanks soo much! xoxoxo Alicia
(username-alicia rivera)
I heart the clique!!! (link)
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Since this is a gala, go with the strapless pink cynthia steffe sheath dress with gold bangles ALL THE WAY. It's a really cute outfit. Have fun.
ps, who DOESN'T love the clique??? ITS THE MOST AWESOME SERIES EVER i can't wait until august for the next one
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does anyone know,is there such thing as a pushup-padded bra? whats the smalled bra you could get thats like that?(or at least one of those..push-up or padded) and also,what it the smallest bra size(how much does your bust have to be to fit into the smallest size?) any other tips you reccomend? thankyou!! (link)
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most pushup bras are padded. the smallest you could get in that style would most likely be an A.the smallest bra size you can get is a AAA, which means the space under your breast and the fullest part around your brests have less than an inch difference. Anyone could get a tripple A bra.
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Hey i am really skinny but the thing is I eat properly (vegetables, meat etc)n sometimes induldge myself with chocolate or chips or anything i can find but i never get fat. Its damaging my self esteem and I dont dare to wear short sleeved tops or a bikini or anything.
Is there anything that can help me be more evenly proportioned- Ive heard of fattening milkshakes but I dont know how they work or if they work..
ty luv rach xxx (link)
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I would love to be you. I have somewhat fast metabolism but I couln't touch a bikini because I'M NOT LIKE YOU! You are so lucky. Buy some clothes that give you curves and make you look bigger. Make sure your comfortable in what you wear. If bikinis are out of the question for you like they are for me, get an underwire halter and boy shorts. I read they make people look curvier/fatter.
To eat for a fatter body, dont follow the food pyramid so much. Eat some junk with your food. DON'T EAT CELERY. It makes you loose weight. I don't know about fattening milkshakes, but milk is fattening already. Drink a lot of it. Mayonnise is fattening and so is EVERYTHING from McDonalds. EAT MORE MEAT! Meat will make you huge. Eat a ton of unhealthy things and watch yourself pack on pounds.
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Hey are there any invigorating body scrubs or facials that can be made from ingredients in your own home? I want stuff like:
1. dry heat damaged hair
2. Greasy skin
3. spots
4. Visible Pores
5. dry, rough feet
6. bad circulation in hands
7. good nails
anything to make you feel refreshed and pretty..:-)
ty luv rach xxx (link)
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I know some things that might help but they arent scrubs but you can get them at home!
1 banana and 2 tablespoons *more or less depending on the size of the banana, mashed up and spread on the face will take away oil. Baby powder rubbed on the rest of the body will suck up oil. Flour will too if you dont have powder. Harsh soap will de-grease skin. Mix 3 drops *or a couple grains if its dry detergent* of detergent to your soap if you dont use harsh body soap.If you wash with harsh soap it tightens pores too. Sugar and oil mixed together makes a great scrub for feet. Rub lotion on feet and wear socks to sleep. Rosemary or peppermint oil increases circulation anywhere. For good nails, rub oil on cuticles, use hand lotion, hen wear gloves to sleep. Cut them regularly. for dry heat damaged hair, use conditioner then blast your hair with a dryer, or air dry your hair. Air dry hair after washing in the summer to prevent more damage. Use gel and style your hair. Wash hair with conditioner at night, then the next morning wash normally. Put sunscreen on your hair before using heat. Adding bronzer to sunscreen and appling to skin will prevent sunspots
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i'm wicca and i'm gonna have a baby and well i was wondering if it's wrong if i make my baby learn and follow through with the wicca relligon i really want her/him to belive in what i belive in and i think of it as like the christans and how they make them belive in the whole jesus christ bible stuff no offence to any people who belive in that relligon so is it wrong? plez help (link)
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Ok,let your child chose the religion they want to go through with. Untill they chose, don't make religion a thing in your house with him/her. When he/she is ready to choose make it ALL up to the child. Don't bias or anything. Now what you were saying about Chrisitans, we force the Bible into peoples minds because the Bible says so, (this is what my mom says, I havent read the Bible fully yet, she has :)So Christians especially ones who dont study the Bible force things a bit much, and its wrong. All people should chose what they want to do by themselves in my opinion
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Okay well a like a month ago, me and my bf had sex, and he didn't wear a condom. he lets call it "let go" no in me but a little lower than my lower stomache. Now see my period was supposed to start today, but it didn't, and i'm sure it'll come soon, but the thing is about 5-6 days after we had sex a month ago, i got my period.
Can i still be pregnant by any chance?
and i'm 14.
thank you. (link)
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Since you got your period I doubt your pregnant, but if you are, you will throw up alot and your stomach will get bigger in a month or so, your boobs will hurt :D
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Okay here it is. Im the popular girl in school, and alot of guys think im hot. Oh yah,and please dont answer this if you are just going to say im a bitch or something.Yes,i am hot and pretty and im pretty much use to all the boys wanting me. But there is this girl in my school,a wannabe me. She got the exact same haircut as mine the other day!Can you say:BITCH!!! i know! Anyway,theres this HOTT guy and he barley knows her but he thinks she is hot.GRRR. This is a major problem if you are me! I dont share! Does any one know what i can do to you know well...get him away from her?Im so mad! Shes ugly but im not going to lie,has a nice body.I know people say you dont like someone because of there looks but,i mean come on! One thing i dont do is lie,and beleive me im not lieing SHES UGLY. Sad to day,for her anyway,a few people think so too. Im going to get this guy no matter how much it takes no matter how much clevage because people!, I had a dream that one day ugly people and pretty people(*Me*) do not mix! And i need your help. Maybe you think im concieded so what,if you are too you will probably be able to help! Thanks!I Rate!!!HIGH! ANSWER FAST! Time is wasting :/ (link)
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MY KIND ADVICE:(toward the connotation of this question first :)
Questions like this get taken off by moderators so I would suggest not asking questions like this, because people *espesially the 3 who just answered this hint hint* dont like these kinds of questions, because as you obviously already know you sound concieted,like the typical popular girl, and we dont like that but I'M GONNA ANSWER THIS QUESTION! brutally honestly of course.
be the sexiest bitch you know you can be. I know you can do it. Flirt madly and be a bitch to her when the hot guy can't see. Claim him and don't let her or ANYONE even look at him the wrong way without going off on them.
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hey, i was reading your info and you mentioned something about hating vegatarians. i dont think its nice to judge people on what they dont like to eat. actually i think its rude. im a vegatarian and im asking why do you hate us? (link)
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Nice way to tell me how bad I am as a question. I would be surprised I'm replying to this if I were you. Anyways I more don't understand them than I hate them. I have vegetarian friends, but I ABSOLUTELY HATE HOW THEY TELL ME I'M A HORRIBLE PERSON FOR KILLING A COW OR A CHICKEN! Would'nt you hate it if I kept bothering you on how it's wrong to kill a plant? "How could you eat that and keep your conscience clear?" I'm sick of hearing them bother me about how bad it is for me, how nasty it is, and how mean I am. So does that nessesarily mean I hate you? no, but please don't tell me I'm a mean and rude in your next quesion if there will be one in the future, because you could get suspended, and I could too.
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what does morgue mean? particularly "town morgue"... someone said that in front of me and i dont know what it means
thank you (link)
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i think its like a mortuary...dead bodies are kept there untill theyre picked up and buried
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HELP! i just got my period for the like the third time! is there any way that i can calculate when i'll get it next?
ILL RATE 5s!
♥ linds (link)
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When you get your period, usually it doesnt come regularly. If your first three periods came somewhat monthly like beetween 28 to 31 days apart, your next one will be the same most likely.Ask your mom if she got hers regularly when she started.
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Is there anyway to go in the pool or ocean with out your mascara running? I heard if you put like clear mascara over your normal stuff it would work. I use Big Lash.. i think it's from Maybalene? (link)
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Maybelline XXL volume+length waterproof microfiber mascara is what I have and it works great when I swim!
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Umm.. you know when your ankles are big (kankles?)how do you make them smaller?
thanksss (link)
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i heard you have to have strong ankles to walk in heels, so that might be exersise to make them smaller.
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is a tomato a fruit or veggie i need to know now !!!! (link)
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The fruit contains the seed, and the fruits have the seed inside them, so its a fruit. Vegetables are the actuall seed, like if you put the entire thing in the ground it would grow, with the exseption of coconuts, which is a seed in itself
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I am 25 and almost 7ft. However, I do have one concern. Probably very common. My hair is disappearing. Balding is not really in the family tree. Although on my moms side, they do have thin hair. But i mean i am 25 and i am on my way to being bald. Is this normal? Is their ways i can have my hair grow back without laser surgery or hair transplant. Any help, tips, advice is very much appreciated. (link)
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By your family history, yea it may be possible to be bald near your twenties. Maybe in your moms side their hair started thinning around your age but I'm not sure...as for ways to grow your hair, try Rogain or some vitamins or something like that.
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16/F, I was talking to the guy that I liked and he started laughing at me when he found out that I don't drink and I've never had a boyfriend. He invited me to his party but I turned his invitation down cause I just didn't feel comfortable with the drinking, snobby ppl from my school and everything else . I felt that I really made a bad impression and just because I've never had a boyfriend and I don't drink alcohol, does this make me seem bad? and was it okay that I said no to him? (link)
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Your crush stinks. It's fine that you've never had a boyfriend, and its good that you dont drink. Forget about this dude, and you might have made a wrong impression to him, but not a bad one. More like a sophisticated one that he cant handle.
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My wife and I have been married for 7 years. When I met her she was very reserved and shy acting. Our sex life was good but she never wanted to deviate from normal foreplay and intercourse. I had told her that I had 5 sexual partners before I met her (including an ex wife). She never said anything about her past other than having sex at 17 and then having not dated for 3 years prior to when I met her. After we were married she told my brother at a party that during 1 year at college she had sex with 27 guys and that she was proud of it as she had used them for sex. When he told me I was shocked. I married a slut as far as I was concerned. She is very religious and plays the good Baptist part well. I have told her that I am having a hard time dealing with the fact that she had so many partners in such a short time, the average total partners for a wome of 39 is 7. She has had sex with over 35 total partners. I told her that I need some details about why she had sex with so many guys and the details of what happened. She says it is none of my business, but I now just think about all of these guys fucking my wife every which way. We have not had sex for 4 months now and it is driving me nuts. I just can't get excited about her. I wonder were these guys great at sex, did they have bigs dicks did she do things with them that she will not do with me.
What should I do? Am I wrong to have an open conversation about the details of her sex capades? She also says she does not remember any details, yeah right?
She seems happy to not have sex now. Now that she does not have to work and I earn over $300,000 a year. I ask her how she could fuck all those guys who gave her nothing and not me the guy who has given her everything?
Please help.
Jimbojoe (link)
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you're being pretty mean to your wife here, when she didnt use you for sex. Obviously she likes you most, and she "likes doing things with your dick" that might be bigger or smaller than her past partners, best. You know why, because she loves you. After you getting all pissed at her for being "experienced" I don't blame her for not wanting to have sex with you. As much as you resent her for doing all that, she might feel the same about you. You call her a slut, she might say JoeShmoes wand did more magic that yours. If sexual pasts bother you you should have asked her about it, instead of assuming. What you should do is apologize, and use her experience to your advantage so you can have more fun in bed with her. Its her past no person can change it. If she was religious before she would've known sex before marraige is wrong, and if you feel you must tell her that go ahead. Just apologize and have some fun in the sheets.
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I'm 20 years old, and my boyfriend is 23 and we've been in a serious relationship for almost 6 years now! Unfortunately, i don't trust certain things about him! For Example, it seems like his head is elsewhere all the time. We live together, but he says he wants to be around me all the time. What is weird for me though, is that, he's coming home later than usual and leaving earlier then usual. But i can't see any signs of change other than that, besides are sex life, which we are currently changing, after i talked to him about that for 1 year and a half! I don't know what's happening to us, something seems wrong and i don't know what it is! We go clubbing every Saturday and all he does is sit there to stare at other women. I think he's no longer attracted, but he tells me he is. After 6 years we've went through every problem a million times. I'm not scared to talk to him about anything, so i always ask! He says one thing, but does the opposite of what he says, this leaves me so confused! HELP SAVOUR THE RELATIONSHIP!!! PLEASE!! (we have plans to get married and everything) (link)
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Your man is extremely confused. He's been dating you for 6 years. 6 years being tied down. He might be looking around the club to see what he's missed, but if he was a better man he wouldn't care and would spend all his time with you. After 6 years things obviously won't be as cool as they were before, because its all "been there, done that" stuff. you yourself even say you've been through every problem a million times. Were most of them solved? If they were, most likely you wouldnt be here talking about your problem. Did he used to dance at clubs with you? Or did he sit and stare at other women like he does now? I don't think this relationship is ready for marraige even, because most relationships shouldn't be this way before they get married. Sadly, he might be cheating too. Think about it, he's definetly not as attracted as he used to be, he leaves early and comes back late while still wanting to spend time with you, he looks at other women in the club, his sex life has changed...some other women might be showing him things, and he does the opposite of what he says. Marraige at this time would end abruptly and painfully if he doesnt change his ways. To get him to, you must talk to him about everything you've posted here about him. Buy some relationship books, or get some counceling. If all fails, get his family into it. Family can usually straighten each other out better than a girlfriend can. Blood is thicker than water. Last resort is an ultimatum. If he can't shape up after all that, you deserve better than him, and you cant waste another year on this man unless he does something BIG, and I mean big. I have no clue what that would be, so I suggest after all that you should lose him. I hope all goes well.
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is it wrong to want to have sex at the age of 13? (link)
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It's not really a right or wrong question, or an age question. It's more if you are ready, and know what might happen afterwards. I wouldn't have sex until i'm married, but I know a lot of people now aren't like that.
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