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Q: Does anyone know how much clothes normally cost at Forever 21? I'm going there for clothes this weekend and I just wanted to know how much money to bring in advance.

www.forever21.com or something like that-trix

Q: Okay.im 13,im 5'5 and I weigh 120 lbs...i have a nice tummy and everything and i have good arm muscles.but my legs just don't work.When I wear a bikini,if i put my legs close together,at teh top they touch!and it looks kinda wierd.What are some leg work outs i can do?Please answer..thanks.bye

The bicycle motion works well. Go running or jogging everynight-trix

Q: ok i have a ?...when do u have ur period can u have sex? and if you do will blood be all over the place??

You can but that'd be gross-trix

Q: my little sister i always a pain. everday i would say hi to her and she would just give me a nasty look and go to her room. i am nice to her most of the time. we get a long once in a while, but rarely...ahh what do i do to win her over?

Just talk to her about it.. thats how sibs. are and eventually will grow out of it.. she may think the same of you.. but when you guys get older you two will grow out of it-trix

Q: i only have a few real friends that i like to spend time with and 2 of them are going away for the rest of the summer...how do i meet new people so that i won't be bored to death?? i was thinking about getting a job to keep me busy - would that help me meet people?

A job would help you yes.. and you would have extra money so its good for to things or you could go the beach or pool or roller rink-trix

Q: I know this is a stupid question, but what does it mean when you are a moderator? they said i was one of those after i answered a question. i'm confused ans somewhat scared!*lol*
Victoria

You get to rate questions.. that people asked with a good bad ok face.. its like :) :\ :( sorta thing.. you will know it when you are one-trix

Q: i have a rating 4 and above how come im not a moderater? ive looked at the moderator faq thing and it doesnt say.

Well.. i have been a mod. in the beginning of july and i subscribed june 3rd.. so.. yeah it depends on.. depends on what i dont know that lol.. but then i wasnt but now i am.. so i guess it is luck like it says lol-trix

Q: well my BEST friends parents are soo like protective and we cant do ne thing ts soo annoying how can we get them to loosen up?

Just talk to them tell them what your doing where your going and when you'll be home and check in and let her know that she can trust you and show her that you are responsible-trix

Q: hey how do you rate somebody?!

When you view that answer (not in the column) but on a white page like this... and there will be numbers 1 2 3 4 5 and you do that and then it says write feedback or whatever you dont have to but people like that and then you hit submit feedback-trix

Q: I have like a lot of friends but the only time i see them is at school or at a party i throw and none of them ever call me except for my bestfriend and maybe one other person once a month, and i just want to have people call me to see what im doing or to hang out, what should i do?

Just call them more often ask em whats up? and tell them to call you or something like that-trix

Q: Hey I need advice um..i like this 12 year old girl and im 16 should i go outwith her because she likes me i only know her bout 8 weeks already we barely talk when we talk we see at other at dances i love her so much i kiss her on the first time we meet

Well.. that is a big age gap and she isnt even a teen.. depending on how strict her parenst are she may not be allowed to date you.. and you are over 15 so its illegal to do anything with her.. but whatever nobody goes by that rule anyways.. give it more time to get to know each other at least 3 months and see from there.. but keep in mind the age diff. and what kind of name you would get for going out with a 12 yr. old-trix

Q: ok im 14, im a girl. if i like a guy i never do anything...mabye flirt a lil bit but other than that i would always wait for the guy to make the first move...but now i feel like all my freinds always get the guys...but they never do anything..so what do i do?

Well maybe the guys you pick out that you like are the type of guys that like the girls to make the first move-trix

Q: Ok I like this guy who is two years younger than me. Is there something wrong with that :(

Nope! most defintly not! if it seems to be a big problem then break up and tell him why-trix

Q: I had a friend, Trey Davis, well he died because he was chasing after his dog and a car hit and killed him. I wanna see how he's doing, and I wanna tell him how I'm doing. Sometimes I feel like he's with me, gaurding me. But at other times, I feel sooo alone. I wanna know if you can help me out plz!
.::Chelsea::.

Well go to the book store and look for those types of books.. ask the librarian to help you-trix

Q: well me and my friend are over..and i was j/w if anyone knew any quotes about friendship being over..thanks.

www.firehotquotes.com or you could go to www.ask.com and type in friendship quotes-trix

Q: my best friend is a year younger tahn me in school...so sometimes it feels like i dont have any one to talk to that is my age. I have many friends that are inthe same grade as me...but they arent my best friend...so help plz!

Well just hang out with one of yours friends more often.. you cant really just pick a best friend but you can hang out with one more-trix

Q: my boyfriend hasnt called me n like over 1 month n he has done it b4 n i dont kno 2 do
should i break up with him or stay!!

u should call him and if he sounds weird then break up with him -trix

Q: im so confused. i like this kid alot and everytime we go to a party together we hang around eachother and if i sit by him he will pull me on his lap and things that that...flirting wit me and i flirt back. then his friend asked him if he liked me and he said no. maybe he was embarressed? but then later he asked me for my number and he called me twice and we talked for about 2 hours each time. we flirt and everything and weve become friends. shud i say nething to him about it? or just let it be? cuz i wanna be more then just friends...and i htink he does too.

You should say something to him about you shouldnt just let it be.. its to cool to pass it up right? And if you got that feeling that he wants to be more then just friends that i would confront him about it-trix

Q: well i have/had this friend we grew apart and i noticed now that she had been lieing to me about certain things but i just forget about them since im not her close friend anymore. and with my previous b/f, whenever she would find out something about MY relationship with MY b/f @ tha time she told EVERYONE and it wasnt n e of her business. sumtymes i miss her then other tymes i just hate her and wish she would leave me alone. she talks to my boyfriend a lot because her soon-to-be boyfriend is my boyfriend's friend. everytime my boyfriend and her start talking i feel really pissed and i dont know that to do. i mean he can be her friend its just that i always get a bad feeling considering she was my bestfriend and now she thinks she can "flirt" with my boyfriend that i have now that and she did with my pervious boyfriend. i dont know what to do.

Well.. you need to talk to her about it weather your friends or not.. you need to know that it doesnt make you the happiest camper that she flirts with your boyfriend and you need to talk to your boyfriend about it to before things get carried out of hand and are to hard to handle-trix

Q: Okay this isnt exactly... a reading thing. I really want to connect with a spirit.. but NOT a dark one... i want something okay.. it doesnt have to be godly... just not from below. If anyone knows how to help me get in touch with any "good spirits" please let me know!!!!

THankss

You could go the book store and get a book on that sort of stuff i saw something like that at my library one time when i was there w/kirby, renee, and mark.. so yeah try that-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"