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Any good ideas for a hairstyle with long bangs- yes I've clipped them back and pulled them back- I just need some more ideas =] They come up to about.. my chin! ♥

Experiment, and try bringing them back into your pony tail!

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Hey, I might be going to meet Nicky Hilton tommorrow [if you don't believe me don't bother commenting because I will not rate you highly]. What should I wear? I was going to wear my THAT'S HOT tshirt with a Juicy sweatsuit set, but I thought it might be cheesy, considering Paris says that! Thanks ♥

Wear something orginal!

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Does anyone think it is absolutley gross for a grade 7 to go out with a grade 8?

and why?

No! ♥ It's completly normal- if you need anything else just ask! ♥

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i would walk 3 miles every other day? 1/2 mile run on the days when i dont walk? how about that? or would running about 2 miles be better instead of walking fast? like for my legs..to be toned, a nice tight butt/legs kuz i have a big butt but it looks gross lol im not fat but lol idk!

and um also i heard from someone that you have to run a FOOTBALL FIELD to burn off ONE M&M?!??!?! IS THAT TRUE? please respond !!!!

Hey- I don't believe that's true lol! Anyway, running would probably help, but tae bo and tennis are AMAZING! You should try them out too! ♥ ALSO.. check Seventeen magazine's monthly workout- they tell you what excersises help what part of the body, and often do things for your legs and butt! Hope I've Helped! ♥

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Ugh. My best friend kelly thinks she's a really good singer. The problem is... she sux! She's also going to be in the talent show and perform a song. When she does, she's gonna be sooo emmbarrased aftwerwards! Everyone's gonna make fum of her. I don't know what to do, or how to break it to her!! Should I just let her be TOTALLY embarrased? Help!! Please!!

If she's your best friend- you really have to find a way to tell her- don't let her embarrass herself. Try video taping or recording her singing, and maybe she will realize, or just.. let her do it- I mean people won't tease her really, I've heard ALOT of bad talent show acts and the next day it was no big deal. If its something she loves, maybe she should do it. But if she's really THAT bad, tell her maybe she's just not ready yet for it. I'm sure taping her will help - and ask for opinions in front of her from other friends and family! Good luck and if you need anything just contact me! ♥

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ok i have wavy/curley thick hair and i striaghten my hair most of the time with a blow dryer and i was wonderin if anyone know how i can striaghtn my tips they are always wavy i dont know how to get them striaght. i used to iron my tipes which made them go striaght but i dont do that anymore because it damages my hair too much. can advice i can use?

Hey- try John Frieda Frizz Eaz Serum! I believe its sold at Target and salongs. Good luck!

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well im really trying to lose weight and my friend told me to run a mile 5 days a week then next week run 2 miles and so on if i did that up to 10 miles how long would it take me to lose about 45 pounds?

Hey! I'll be completely honest- it's not going to be easy to loose that much weight. Try eating healthier, more balanced, don't eat after 7:30 PM, try healthier snacks, taebo, tennis, dancing, whatever will make you happy and having a healthy lifestyle! I recently read a way to loose like 6 lbs a year by just drinking ice cold water with every meal. Contact me, I'll give you the whole list of ways to cut down on stuff and live healthier- I'm almost positive that I still have it! But it sounds like you have a ton of willpower, so good luck, I'm sure you can do it! ♥

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14, female.We recently took a fieldtrip to go to a skating rink at my school. While at the skating rink my friend broke up with her boyfriend. I tried to comfort him, I told him she was retarded and a bit*h, but in a goofy voice so he knew I was just kidding. Well one of her other little friends took it the wrong way and ran off and told her. She got angry and started dissing me behind my back, and saying I was a bad friend. We are sort of getting over it, but now I like her ex. Everyone keeps saying he likes me too and that we should go out, but I don't want to make my friend madder. What should I do?

What's the big deal! You were only kidding, and besides, they had no right to be listening aynway. You should tell your friend that you were just kidding, and if she doesn't understand then she's not fully hearing you out anyway and probably not worth getting upset over. As for dating the ex, why not? I mean I know your friend might get a bit mad, but your entitled to go out with someone you like! Good luck! ♥

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alright, i know im usually the one givin advice on my advice column, but i feel like i can do more to help the world than just that! like in teen people magizine, how they're all these kids who are doing so much--like giving toys to poor children and started organizations and food drives! and helping with cancer and stuff! believe me i know this will take work, but i really want to start something with sending bibles or supplies over to africa or anywhere poor around the world. there are so many people who dont even know who jesus is! i just want to lend them a helping hand, maybe even get some way to put a table of contents in there to show them where certain stories are! PLEASE HELP!! ;-) i give good ratings & feedbak! -mandi-

Hey- you should get with a group of friends and decide what you guys want to do. With having a group, you can get to alot of people for help, like big businesses, etc etc. There's foundations- like the Red Cross I suppose- that will probably accept donations, if you'd like to help like that!

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Does anyone know how to use AIM from a browser?

Hey- yeah, go to

www.aim.com

Look on the left hand side and click AIM express. Be sure to have your popup blocker off, otherwise it sometime will not work.

Then, click the Launch [or start? not positive] button and login, or make an sn if you already don't have one. Sign in, let it load, VOILA!

It's not as great as AIM, because you can't direct connect or anything, but you can still go into chats and talk with friends- so it is worthwhile!

Hope I've Helped! ♥ If you need anything else, don't hesisitate to ask!

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Does age really matter when your falling in love? I'm fourteen and I would like to think anything is possible. I've been dating this guy for a short period of time but it has felt different than anything other than before. On this chain letter thing, and I know this sounds so stupid, but I made a wish to fall in love with him. My friends hate the fact that this guy and I are together, but for the first time I couldn't care less what my friends think. What do you think, is it possible?

It does NOT matter at all- some people just find their soul mates at young ages - I mean I know it's a TV show but look at Corey and Topanga, lol! I've known people that have been like that since they were young. Don't even worry about your friends- if they are true friends, they will understand how you feeel about him! Good luck and if you need anything just let me know! ♥

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how should i get my hair dyed .. my hair is blond now with some brown but i think i want it like chucky brown and blonde ... HELP ME OUT!

Hey- try Loreal Color Pulse? I think it's called that lol the new temporary color stuff to test out what you want exactly! It rinses out in I think 12 washes, so it's not that long. I'd recomment caramel blonde/brown with gold highlights though! ♥

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I like this guy, and a lot of people are saying he likes me but I'm not sure, and if its true I want to go out with him, but I don't know if he will ask me. Cuz I'm not asking. (way too nervous!)

Just try talking with him! If he doesn't seem interested, don't worry about it then, atleast you tried. Good luck! ♥

PS. I totally understand you wanting HIM to ask you out- it's so cute and heart warming that way lol! But he won't ask you out unless he's sure he likes you and your personality, so GIVE IT A SHOT!

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Alright I was asked out by this guy i really like but the problem is that my friend likes him too. What should i do? Should i breack up with the guy and keep my friendship togheter, not that my friend won't be my friend anymore, or should i stay together with him and tell my friend that she will get over it?

Even though your friend likes him, if she's a true friend, she will understand. It's no big deal- girls will like the same guys. Don't drop your friend though - guys will always be there, but a true friend won't! ♥ Good luck! Hopefully it will work out, I'm sure your friend will understand, and maybe see you guys happy together one day and understand.

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Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two months now and the guy hasnt even tried to kiss me. Like im sorry if i sound bad for saying this but i have needs! So I was wondering what are some ways i can turn my boyfriend on so that he'll wanna make out with me, or at least kiss me?

He sounds..pretty respectful. He probably wants your permission to kiss you, so I'd just go up to him and say "Why don't you just kiss me!" cute and flirty and see if he does. If he doesn't, he might be shy or intimidated. Try it out though- it's worth a shot! ♥ HOPE I'VE HELPED!

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I have very vivide dreams where I can feel everything is this normal?

It's completely normal- I actually ADORE those dreams [when they are happy that is]! It's a good idea to keep a Dream Diary too! ♥

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i really like this guy. we kissed at my skools fall festival. then he moved away and im so sad itwas awhile ago and now im really sad that im never going to see him again. i really want to but i no its not going to happen what can i do to try not to get so upset any more over this

Do you have his email? You guys should keep in touch, if its possible. But don't worry, he might come and visit one day. Just remember- if it's meant to be- IT WILL HAPPEN! Good luck! ♥

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Okay i used to be REALLY good at school, but now my last report card i got four C's and one D. Wich is really bad for me! i got ONE A and that was in gym! I'm trying to get into The School Of Proforming Arts (a highschool) and you need amazing Grades to get there! How do i get good grades with still being able to hang out with my friends enough?

Ask your friends to come help you in a study group- tell them the importance of getting accepted into the school- if they are true friends, they will so help! You can also try to equally balance time studying and with friends - weekends, esp Friday nights and Saturdays are perfet for hanging out! And good luck, I'm sure you can do it! ♥ if you need anything just contact me!

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hi, i'm new to this subject, how often do you recommend changing a tampon? and is it okay for ppl who just got their 'aunt flow' visit for the first time recently to wear them? thanks

Hey- I believe every 6 hours otherwise you can suffer from TSS. I read a SUPER scary thing about this girl who left it in for longer than 6 hours and her skin peeled and she got really sick - so I would say 5 hours then for safety. But being a newcomer to all this, talk with your mom or someone that you are close with, and try pads- they really aren't that annoying once you get used to them! Good luck - and if you need anything just ask!

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Oh My GOd! My sister is so annoying, She Wears my clothes, wakes me up at 5:00 on the weekends, hits me, puts fake worms in my bed, Steals my C-D's, and my parents do NOTHING about it! HELP!

She probably really looks up to you- sisters can be annoying but in the end, they are worth it! Sit down with her and ask her if she'd like it if you did that to her. She probably doesn't realize what she's doing- believe me I've battled with a younger cousin lol. Hope I've Helped!

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