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PREGNANCY INFORMATION

AM I READY FOR SEX?

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okay well i am on a diet and ive only been drinking water and 2% milk but are there any other drinks out there that are okay for me to drink besides like diet pop (under 80 calories and 10g of sugar per 8 oz.)

and i dont like orange juice (i think that fits under my thing)

stop the diet soda and start drinking other juice drinks. but don't drink it if it says cocktail like "cranberry juice cocktail"

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i've had a gazelle for about 2 years now. Do you have one or no anybody who has one? does it work? will 20 minutes a day make you lose weight?

i really would appreciate any advice!

thanks babes

it depends on a few things. the gazelle is a cardio machine, so it depends on if you are a boy or a girl. if you are a boy, you should do about 10-15 minutes a day, since any more burns muscle. if you are a girl, then 20-30 minutes a day will make you lose weight.

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One of my best friends that I've known all of my life asked me a really weird question the other day. He asked me if I would give him head and I thought he was kidding so I started to laugh. And then he said "I'm serious." So I kind of looked at him with a blank stare. And I told him I don't know and he was like begging me to and I said I'd think about it. I just think it's kind of weird that he would ask ME to do that. What should I do? I know he doesn't like me as a girlfriend so I don't know why he asked me.

Another question I have is does oral and anal sex count as your "first time"? Or is it just regular? Because if it does count then I don't really want to because I'd like to lose my virginity to someone mor special.

Please help!!!!

i would tell him politely that you don't want to give him head and that you just want to be friends. for ur second question, oral or anal sex does not count as your first time, since losing your virginity is defined as your hymen breaking.

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Can you tell if a guy is a virgin?

only if you ask

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Whats The Legal Age To Have Sex


Thanks
Tami

generally the age of consent is 18. under that, and its statuatory rape

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my friend andrew wants to know if u finger a girl if she hasnt had her period is it bad or will anything happen?
thank you

nothing bad will happen

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Ok, both me and my boyfriend prefer..having it shaved "down there". The only thing whe I try to shave i still have littel studs that don't totally go away. I want it to be completley smooth there. Can I use nair down then? Or what can I use beside waxing it..thnx

those little studs are hair regrowths, and they happen because the hair always grows back. besides waxing it, you could use nair, but im not sure that thats safe.

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i dont understand what prude means.


is it liike where you havent hooked up with anyone or had sex?


14/f

prude is kind of like being a virgin except its if you never made out (kissed with tongues).

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I am 17 year old boy. My height is 5.8. I am worried about my penis size. My penis size is only 4 inch. When I see it is in normal condition it looks very small like penis of a child. I guess it is not genetic problem because my 15 year old brother has 5 inches and my father has also good length (I don’t know the exact size but it looks big & thick). This situation resulted inferiority complex in me. Once my bro saw me (un-erected) and said oh! You have tiny thing. I just laughed and said it is not hard. Things like that put me on back seat. Is there any authentic method to increase the length. What is the normal size of a man. Till what age the length may be increased.

there is no way to enlarge the size of your penis. if you look on puberty101.com, they will tell you that its not size that matters, it's what you do with it. the average size of a man is 6-6.5 inches.

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i am 13 female and i think that i am lesbian. i dont want to be lesbian and i want to stop. how do i stop being lesbian? i havent make out with a girl yet but here are the things i like: 1)girls kissing. 2) "perfect" breast. 3) cute faces. and 4) hearing girls moan during sexual things. i think that the cute face and perfect breast thing is just me being insecure about myself but what about the other things? anyway how did i become lesbian in the first place? is it in my genes or something? i need help!!!!!
i rate 5"s for good answers!

at your age you have a lot of hormones, and anything sexual can turn you on, regardless or gender. chances are ur not a lesbian.

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I have a boyfriend and me and him have been going out for 6 years
Were both virgins and our realonship is great
But the other day everything seemed right and we went to have sex
But when we were going to do it my mom walked in
It was very embaressing and everything
We didnt even know she came into the house
But its been about a month now
and he doesnt try anything sexual anymore
Even if were at his place or anywhere
And if I try anything he pushes me away
Now im really starting to worry about him

Does anyone know any information to help me?

he is probably worried about your mother coming in again, or being caught by sum1 else. he probably felt very embarrassed about being caught, so next time, try to do it in a private place.

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Well, ok, here's the deal. I'm fourteen and i have a group of really close friends. I don't get crushes on girls, but my one friend has really nice, larger breasts and I like to touch them. This is because I am on the smaller side. Occasionally she lets me feel her, but sometimes she laughs it off. I enjoy it when I'm able to touch her. But, I just get turned on by things like this and horny.. Does this happen to anyone else? Also, there's this girl that touches me alot in those areas and it gets me really horny. I jsut like experimenting. Can someone please help me out? Thank you; I'll rate all fives.

there is nothing wrong with having thoughts or feelings or experiments.

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I was wondering

if you want to have a baby, like when ur old like 25 and stuff, do you not wear a condom?

i was always wondering

and does sex hurt for the first time??

if you want to have a baby, and you are both sure there are no stds involved, then you don't wear a condom. sex usually hurts for the first time.

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ok umm...this is kinda weird...but is it like totaly wrong to think that my cousin is like INCREDIBLY hott? like...he came to vsit for christmas and iwas practicallly druling over him and like...is it bad that i would totaly want to go out with him if i was older and not his cousin?

sorry its kinda akward

~*me*~

if you are his third cousin or farther, then it is not illegal, but i would advise against making babies because it can lead to birth defects. if you are his second or first cousin that is considered incest and is against the law

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this is going to sound really stupid, but please try to answer as best you can? im 15/f

im used to being on the bottom when kissing, and when it's flipped around so im on top.. sometimes i feel like i might be too "forceful" just because im not good with the "control position." im used to the guys having control over it.. (and yes, i like it that way, if that makes any difference.)

my question is, how do you know how much to "control" when you're on top? how do you know if you're too much, or not enough? without actually asking the person?

any help would be great, thank you!

guys generally like being in control because of our masculine nature. if you are in control when kissing, then don't try anything that you wouldn't like to be done to you. generally, if you 2 have been kissing before, then you like similar styles.

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My friend and I were argueing over a weird topic.

If someone has anal sex, are they still considered a virgin?
It's a type of sex, but its still not really sex cuz its anal.

I really dont know.
Are they still considered a virgin?

technically she is still a virgin, since losing your virginity means your hymen is broken.

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Okay I know this guy named bobby(18), (im 16) and we had sex without a condom. My ex-boyfriend and him are good friends, and awhile back my ex told me that Bobby had an std. I asked Bobby about it and he said that he got tested and didnt. I dont know what to do. Im not showing any signs of an Std but you can never be sure! What should I do. I dont want to get my parents involved!

any unprotected sex can lead to an std. if you hav ANY reason to suspect that he might hav an std, then get tested by a doctor.

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I want to go on birth control but do not want to get my parents involoved, I am 16, if i go to my doctor will they keep it confidential if i ask them to or should i go to a clinic. I also want to get birth control properly, not just anything, something that fits me. Another thing is i heard that a pap test needs to be done after you have lost your virginity. Is this true? I would also like to get a pap test without involving my parents, is this possible since i will probably use my OHIP whihc my mother is ion control of. If i pay for it how much willl it be. Please help me i have been wondering about this for a while and cant put it off for any longer.??????

your doctor is ordered by law to keep it confidential its called doctor patient confidentiality.

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me and my bf had sex for the first time the other night. it was great... but.... when he finished he pulled out and i dont know if the condom was too small or what. but "it" got all over... we were so scared. i wont get my period until the end of the month. do you think there can be a bad outcome. ps. i cant go to a gynocologist cuz my mom thinks im a virgin. well sorta. i was raped. adn she knows that. but not about this. what can i do. and is there a chance of anything bad happenign. please help. ill rate hella high.

i would take the day after pill and maybe go to a free clinic if your mom wont take you to the gynocologist

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Ok, I'm about to have sex for the first time. I've been waiting for ages and I am prepared now. My boyfriend has had sex before a few times so I need a little help on stuff:
a. Is there going to be a lot of blood?
b. Is it going to hurt? (My friend told me it hurt like a mother- through the whole thing on her first time)
c. Is there anything I should know? I know I'm not going to be that great but I don't want to look stupid.
d. What should I do once it's over?

a)generally there is some blood but not a lot
b)it can hurt and there aren't any ways that i know of to make it not hurt
c) use a condom
d) compliment him on his skills as a partner

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