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how much is too much?
this is going to sound really stupid, but please try to answer as best you can? im 15/f
im used to being on the bottom when kissing, and when it's flipped around so im on top.. sometimes i feel like i might be too "forceful" just because im not good with the "control position." im used to the guys having control over it.. (and yes, i like it that way, if that makes any difference.)
my question is, how do you know how much to "control" when you're on top? how do you know if you're too much, or not enough? without actually asking the person?
any help would be great, thank you!
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guys generally like being in control because of our masculine nature. if you are in control when kissing, then don't try anything that you wouldn't like to be done to you. generally, if you 2 have been kissing before, then you like similar styles.
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try to read what the other person wants...if you are being too forceful they might lean backwards away from you a little or not be into it as much...if you your not forceful enough they might start leaning into you more...if you can try to sense what they want, you can adjust :]
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One: Do what you like. Or.
Two: Pay attention to what your partner is doing and mimic.
Top or bottom, that's really all kissing has amounted to, for me. I don't know, I can usually "sense" when something I'm doing isn't working for a lady.
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what im sorry but i dont kno w what your talking about i shouldnt be answering this but i want to can you explan more and i will feel free to answer your question
.::katie::.
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all you can really do is trust yourself with that one. unless you want to ask the person which you should just to get feed back to see how your are doin. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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