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my friends tell me i give good advice,i hope i can help somebody.
i've been more than you think for a 14 year old.
"never judge a book by its cover,inside on those pages could be the best love story in the world"- lea ellen
advice
is it okay for a 14 year old girl to go out with a 17 year old guy?
yeah sure
theres nothing wrong with that.
This quistion is for guys.
I'm 15/f and i was wondering why some guys dont like to ask girls out, and if most guys are shy, and what guys like about girls.
I'll rate fives for non-gay answers!
~Melissa~
i call it "little man" syndrom.
sometimes the guy wants to be the big, powerful man who protects his woman and such
other times
it makes them feel more masculan.
more manly, when they ask the girl out.
to me,
if he's too shy
you make the moves for him.
it might just get him going and give him the hint
so you dont have to ask him out.
-hope it helpd-
i love saying non-gay... lol
its so great
I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a month, and i have been on holiday for 2 weeks. He has been dropping hints that he might be telling me he loves me soon, but he has chickened out. But this is good, because i dont love him. If he tells me he loves me what should i say back, because i dont love him. 16/f if that helps, hes 19
tell him...um...
tell him that you want to wait to get that serious because you care about him(even if you dont love him, you odviously care enough to date him)but dont want to hurt him,if anything happened.
dont give him time to think something bad is about to happen, like you telling him you cheated on him.
just let him know that, you dont want to get too serious yet because youre still sixteen.
if there is an age difference that always makes a good excuse.
-well, i hope it helpd-
i was looking for My Chemical Romance Lyrics and there was one where it said they sang, All I want For Christmas Is You. I don't know what CD this is on though, does anyone? will rate high for GOOD answers!
i always get my lyrics on www.azlyrics.com
yeah, they always have what i'm looking for.
never go to lyricsh.com or lyrics.com
they never work
and dont ever update their list of cds
-hope i helpd-
well i've had this cold for a week it's geting worse. i want to feel better by next week, any help
i will rate high
striperella
cold medicine
like nyquil
they have day medicine and night medicine,lots of fluids and alot of cough drops taste good and have alot of vitamins like c and e that will help you feel better
by the way, i love the name.. striperella.. thats great.
-hope it helps-
Does anybody know some really good songs that they like? Im trying to make a list of really good songs But i cant really think of any. If you have any songs, doesnt matter what type or anything like that! Thank you!
i personally like
girls and boys by good charlotte
blvd of broken dreams green day
wake up by hilary duff
rumors by lindsay lohan
symtoms of you by lindsay lohan
the anthem by good charlotte
like toy soldiers..(a good tear jerker)by eminem
youth of the nation by p.o.d.
love just is by hilary duff
wake me up when september ends by green day
well i hope it helps...
my mom thinks i have too much clothes. the thing is, i don't really. i mean it's not that i have only 5 shirts or 5 pants or anything...not that little but i swear i've worn every shirt, skirt, and pants at least 100 times, dead serious. it's not that we're poor or anything, we're not. we could definitely afford more clothes. and no i cannot do chores around the house, we have a housekeeper. how can i get my mom to get over the fact that i DON'T have too many clothes??? i probably only have like 15 shirts and 10 pants and skirts...that's supposed to last me??? sorry but please help i will rate
that is not too many clothes
sorry, i dont know much to tell you.
i personally, hate shopping
and i probly have twice that many.
-hope it helps-
so.. theres this guy that i really like.. but he doesn't really like me i don't think..like hes soooo hott and nice and funny and hansom and hilarious and cute and smart and intellegent and kind and caring and genuine and adorable and has dimples and has great muscle tone and big feet and nice hair and nice toe nails.. well anyway as you can see i like this guy a lot but im no stalker.. anways as I was in the tree in his front yard i happened to see him in his room and he had another girl in there.. do you think its his girlfriend or his sister or what. do you think i have a chance with him? im pretty cute and fun..i will RATE HIGH i NEED help!! please :)
well that depends
if they were making out, hopefully its not his sister.
but if the girl was like, bringing in his laundry.
she's probly his sister.
plain and simple.
remember to make the first move if you want him.
or some one else might think he's as perfect as you do and try to take him.
-hope it helps-
my boyfriend and i have been dating for a month r two now, and when i first started going out with him, i didnt like him that much. but now i like him a lot of course, thats why im still with him. well we never do anything, only a little kiss here or there, i know with school and all its hard to hang out a lot but we usually chill every weekend but nothing. im not upset because i like him a lot, but what is wrong? what can i do to get a little more??
if you want more
get more
make the first move
just, lean in a little closer when your standing near him.
run your fingers through his hair during a movie.
if he hugs you, kiss his neck.
or just plain be flirty, really flirty.
maybe that'll get him going.
-hope it helps-
:D
My Mom Has done drugs 4 a long time.........and now she is bak in my life and wants to see me i dont know what to to cause i am afraid as once i start trusting her again im afriad that she is just gunna leave.......what should I do??
Signed:Hurt --Inside
see her, she's your mother.
she odviously cared enough to carry you in her stomach for nine months and give birth to you.
give her a chance.
treat her like you two have just met, start all over like there are no strings attaching you.
-hope it helps-
how can i make my jeans AHH wuts the word? you guys know! the style thats in right now with the jeans where its like shredded. well neway-sorry-i can just take a cheese grader and do that right? but like how because i dont want to ruin my jeans.
also *RANDOM*--i want a second hole but my dad is TOTALLY against it. his words were: you can get that when you move out of the house and have your own life. im like WOA CHILLAX! (didnt really say that but i did say WOAH!!) but my mom doesnt have a problem with it! shes like "ill talk to him but mayb you can get it in the middle of this year". i love my mommy! ;) i love my dad too thou. BACK TO MY QUESITON! LOL: how can i help my mom to convince him? i kno hes going to be mad and just say NO END OF IT! if i keep asking. and its not one of those things were i like "help around the house" etc.
thanks a bunch
holes in your jeans.
cut a small cut in your jeans where ever you want it.start pulling the threads that go up and down out. the more you pull the more white shows. if you want the blue part of the jeans to show put the horizontal threads out.
i do it to my jeans all the time.
-hope it helps-
i am not a smartass
lol
i need help to see if this guy is interested..
1. k well ill get up and sharpen my pencil during class and he will look up and stare until i look at him
2. he ALWAYS looks at me
yeah, this is pretty much gay but i just wanna know considering this kid is like so great.
yeah he probly likes you.
okay...this guy told me that i had sex appeal today and i dont know if i should have taken it as a compliment or an insult.
so could someone tell me what sex appeal is and if its a compliment or and insult.
BTW: im 13/f and i rate 5 for NONsmartass answers.
he wants to have sex with you.
if he's hot its a compliment,
if he's not,its a bit gross.
-hope it helped-
i'm not a smartass
lol
Kay so I knew this guy from swimming, and some stuff happened and I didn't get to see him for a long time. So I just saw him today, and the last time I saw him was in April. I used to really like him, but it's been so long that I kind of tried to forget adn move on. A girl that also liked him took me to his house today. He is kind of a man whore, and also has done some bad stuff, but still is realllly nice. SO anyways,he made out with my friend. While I was there. Sitting next to them. Then he tried to kiss me. But since I hadn't talked to him in several months, and he had just made out with my friend who likes him a whoooole lot, I said no, but really I have never been kissed before and I'm just to scared to. The other girl has made out with 9 guys. Yeah so seeing the situation, I said no, and now I'm really sad and don't know if I like him or not or what to do and why I couldn't have just kissed him first. I'm 15. He's 15, she's 16. Help?
seeing as i'm with you on the never been kissed thing too,so i can only help you so much.
i have a boyfriend and its pretty hard to tell him no when he wants to make out.
but kissings natural,(supposidly, lol)
when you really want to, your body will know exactly what to do.
i've had many many friends who tried the older girl/younger guy relationships...
4 times outta 5.. they break up extremely fast cause the guy isnt as mature as the girl.
well, i hope i helped...
i REALLY need help on this 1!!! im new at this advice thingy and i want to give great advice! how do i give good/great advice????
PLZ help me!!!! *i will rate high on good answers! :)*
from,
stuck in it!
tell them exactly what you think. dont sugarcoat anything, it never helps and might possibly even make the situation worse.
just keep giving advice, if you get one or two bad feedbacks, just learn from your mistakes and learn not to give that advice again.
-hope it helps-
ok like, i have this boyfriend and we've been going out for around 5 months(a long time) and now every thing about him is starting to bug me! its like i just dont want to be around him anymore but i've felt this way for a few weeks but like last week we went like.. way further that we had been. and he's always talking about how he couldnt live without me and like how he would kill himself, and he is serious. what should i do?
tell him how you feel but make sure he knows you still want to be friends. keep in touch with him, even if he's not the right one for you. tell his parents the situation.. he might just actually have a real mental problem.
i'll be thinking about you
-hope it helps-
Lets say my period is normal .. well I had it on Aug. 9 of this year and finished Aug. 16th would that mean I would get it again a month from when I started or a month from when it finished? Thankss and what days should i be concerned that its close?
about 28 days from the day you end.
but remember that all girls bodies are different, you may skip a cycle and your best friend hasnt.
about 4 or 5 days before you are supposed to have it, but dont freak out if its the day your supposed to get it and you havent you'll get it in the next couple days.
-hope it helps-
i would really like to become a fashion designer
ive already made some clothes... i just need a way to advertise them.. like get people to know my clothes are out there
for the school talent show i wanted to do a mini fashion show but we have a time limit... 2 minutes
if someone has any ideas please tell me!
i rate 5s!
wear your creations chances are, if they are good people ask you where you got them. which gives you the chance to say you made them. ask them if they want an original piece created by you the fewer people have them the more they are wanted. the more people see them, the more the want.
-hope it helps-
ill be taking pictures today like around 3pm and im by myself and i need hairspray but i cant go out and get cause i haVE yo take care of my nephew what should i do???
go out
and take youre nephew with you
DUH!
that wasnt a very smart question
and
if you dont have a car
CALL A CAB!
I'm 15/f if that's gonna help. Today i met this really nice gurl at my school. She's really sweet, pretty, and alot more to me. I think i'm starting to like her but i'm not sure because i've only known her for like a day!!! And i dont know if she's bi or w/e. I'd kinda like to know before i start seeing her as anything more than a friend. Are there any ways to notice if she's interested??? I dont want to exactly ask her because she's new and all. But i still want to know. Any tips other than just ask her??? I'd appreciate ANYTHING!!! I'll rate ya high!!!
ask her if she wants to be friends,
then after a little while
tell her you think you might be gay
if shes shocked and grossed out
she's probly straight
if shes understanding and tells you she is too
than shes definitly gay or bi
then if you ever kiss her,
if it turns out more than just a small kiss
(ex: making out, or lesbo sex)
you're both gay
or bisexual.