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This quistion is for guys.
I'm 15/f and i was wondering why some guys dont like to ask girls out, and if most guys are shy, and what guys like about girls.
I'll rate fives for non-gay answers!
~Melissa~
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i call it "little man" syndrom.
sometimes the guy wants to be the big, powerful man who protects his woman and such
other times
it makes them feel more masculan.
more manly, when they ask the girl out.
to me,
if he's too shy
you make the moves for him.
it might just get him going and give him the hint
so you dont have to ask him out.
-hope it helpd-
i love saying non-gay... lol
its so great
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ok listen 15/m here guys dont ask girls out cause they dont want to be turned down or even told that they are only liked as a friend and guys very from different things they like in a girl i mean i like a girl thats sweet and carein i dont care about looks as long as she keeps clean and like you no were im gettin at ok good luck i hope i helped you ~Big D~
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I'll start by expressing my utter joy that I'm no longer a fifteen year old boy.
Here's the real deal. Must fifteen year old boys (and for that matter, most 16, 17, and 18 year old boys) are frankly terrified of the of the female of species. You frankly scare the hell out of even the most cocky of the boys in your age group. They don't know how to talk to you, they don't know how to act around you, and they surely haven't figured out how to be around you and not look like total clowns. Seriously, think about the guys at your school, then name five that have the first beginning of a clue how do deal with women on anything even remotely resembling a rational, adult level. (If you can, these are guys you want to hang out with, btw. Even if one of them is not Mr. Right, one of them will surely lead you to him eventually.)
What does a guy like most about a girl? Well, everybody, male or female, likes one thing - someone who puts them at ease, that they don't have to wear a false face around. Just be up front about who you are and what you want; in a friend, a relationship, and out of life. Even if the boys don't come running you're going to feel better about yourself for doing so, and that self-respect will show through and draw people with that same self-respect to you.
In short, don't worry about what the guys like, worry about being someone that you like. That's what the best guys like anyway.
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OK here goes.
1) A lot of guys don't like to ask out girls because their afraid of being rejected, and the ackwardness of that later on.
2) I dont know about most guys, but there are a lot of shy guys. Like I said before, fear of rejection is a big issue, along with embarrassment, and humiliation.
3) Every guy is different, but there are a lot of general things that guys look for in girls.
Nice body, athletic, pretty, smart, funny, fun to hang out with, and other things.
Glad to help.
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