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Hey I'm mystical_breeze! I'm a Christian, so Jesus comes first in my life. When I'm older I want to be become a comsmetologist or a writer. I love the jonas brothers like whoa man :]

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i made a pro pic, but when i try to upload it onto my horses page, it is over 100kb. could someone please tell me how to fix this problem?

Go to http://www.photobucket.com and re-size the picture, by clicking on "75%" or "50%" or whatever and then save it on your computer. Check the number of how many KB it is too.

-mystical_breeze
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What do you think is the average age to get your first kiss?

I'd say about 11-18 is a time to get your first kiss

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I saw my bf at the mall with another guy kissing him! Not just kissing but making out! What should i do? Should i confront him?!
HELP me please!
Thank you soooo much

Yeah! That's too weird .. tell him you saw him at the mall and see what he says. See if he gets uncomfortable and then try to get it out of him and tell you. If he doesn't tell you then tell him what you saw and how much it hurt you to see him doing that. I would probably break up with him .. but at least talk to him about it first.

-mystical_breeze
XOXO

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hi, im almost 16 and ive never been kissed and never had a boyfriend...is this as bad as it seems?...and not jus girls points of veiw plz. ive had chances but never made anything of them...am i that big of a loser, i think that im attractive and im smart and a good person so whats wrong?will rate high!!!!all 5's

You're not a loser! Don't think you're a loser just because you've never been kissed. Most people I talk to say that its actually better to wait for your first kiss to happen, rather then rush it and have it not be special and meaningful. Like you know how kids play spin the bottle and truth or dare, hoping to get their first kiss? Well, I don't really think that's romantic or anything, you know? Being in a relationship is just something that happens between two people that care about eachother, and if it hasn't happened for you yet, then that's still okay. Just wait for a guy you really like, and it'll all be fine.

-mystical_breeze
XOXO

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I think I may have social anxiety(sp). Whenever my friends do something without me I start to think they don't like me and and start to get very depressed. I've been depressed a lot lately for different reasons also but I was thinking I may have social anxiety. I'm starting to feel separated from my friends and that I only have one tru friend. I'm also getting depressed more easily. The slightest thing makes me force back tears. Does anyone have an idea as to what this might be? Thank you.

Hmm, well maybe you do have social anxiety. You should talk to your parents ((or another adult)) about how you feel about it, and tell them exactly what you put in here. There are certain things you can take to help yourself be better with anxiety and depression. If this isn't any of those things, it could just be something you're going to grow out of. Everyone goes through stages and maybe you should just talk to an adult about how you feel, and see how they feel about it.

-mystical_breeze
XOXO

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Ok, I really wanna find a guy between 14 and 15 on Myspace that I can just like talk to and be there just to talk to cause i have plenty of girls on myspace that i talk to but i want a guy too that i can talk to and have a fun time, does anyone know where i can find him?? lol i've tried the search but I can't really find anyone thanks

Don't you watch the news? :-/

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okay im 13 and i lost my virinity the other night and he didnt use a condom and neither of us came and it was pretty quick...do you there is a possibilty i can get pregnant??

Yes you can get pregnant. Good Luck =P

-mystical_breeze
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Just wondering what you other girls may think.

In a guy, is it more attrative if he is shy and sweet. Or if hes confident and secure.

I think I find it more appealing if a guy is sweet and shy. Its adorable in my eyes, what do you think?

-Sara.

I like them to be confident and sweet. If he's too shy then he might never talk to me because I usually wait for them to come to me first. But that doesn't mean I want him conceited and into himself, you know? I think shy and sweet is really cute on guys.

-mystical_breeze
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In your opinion, what are some of the most vocal-range-testing-female-sang songs?

Ohh Mariah Carey's music is all amazing! She has a beautiful voice, and so does Jessica Simpson. Jessica has an amazing voice! Kelly Clarkson is really good .. lemme give you some of my fave songs:

Mariah Carey:

We Belong Together
Shake It Off
Don't Forget About US


Jessica Simpson:

With You
Angels (I was so surprised when I heard her sing this song with her voice so high)
A Whole New World

Kelly Clarkson:
Since You Been Gone
Behind These Hazel Eyes
Miss Independant

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okay i am a girl, and i am sorry of this grosses you out..
but is it weird to have one "lip" of your vagina longer and stretchier than the other. i don;t know if something is wrong with me or if i am the only one.
thnx!
p.s. sorry if this is gross.

It's normal haha. And no it's not gross it's just a question girl, so don't be embaressed.

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Popular guy, semi-nerdy girl. A year left in high school. Could we make this work or are we just fooling ourselves?

Yeah this could be hard with other people being idiots with cliques. Some people will treat you and him different and stuff but if you both care about eachother then you both can deal with it. Just try to ignore the other people, but also be sure that the guy isn't messing around with the girl either because sometimes with cliques, people can make fools out of other people.

-mystical_breeze
XoXo

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My best friend asked me out last Friday, and I said no [being the idiot that I am] because I thought he was joking [yeah, I know, it's stupid, but he's done it before]. I've liked him for atleast 4 years, and I just missed my chance, which makes me really sad. My other best friend asked him today at school if he was going to ask me back out. He said no, but he still like me.

So basically, he liked me, asked me out, I said no, and now he's not going to ask me out anytime soon. I feel like such an idiot! I've been gushing over him for FOUR years, and he said he`s not going to ask me out again [that meaning that he isn't going to go out with me now. I'd ask him out but he'd say no, most likely.]


If you were put in the same situation, what would you do? What should I do about this situation? Thank you so much in advance.

P.S [ Y0U`RE RAD! ♥ ]

If I was in this situation I'd talk to him about it. Tell him what you said to me, about how you feel about him and how much you like him. He's probably afraid to ask you out again because you said no to him (yeah, guys get scared just like girls ha). Tell him that you thought he was joking (because he has before) but that you'd still like to go out with him. And since you know he still likes you then it would be good to tell him how you feel.
I know you feel like he's going to say no if you ask him out again but just try. You'll never know until you actually ask, and what if you never tell him how you feel? What if something happens before you tell him (like him asking out another girl)? Another good thing is that you've known him for four years so you shouldn't be too uncomfortable with him.
If he still says no, then just be glad you asked anyway. I know this probably isn't the answer you want to here, but if he says no, then just accept it. You don't want to push him into anything, because he'll know when he wants to be with you again or not.

-mystical_breeze
XoXo

P.S. Aw thanks! And by the way, sorry this was kind of long.

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Ok ive never made out with a guy before but when the oppurtunity comes will i naturally know how to?? cause i dont want to make a fool out of myself, thanks

It just comes naturally, trust me. But I think I can tell you some tips. Before you meet with him have two mints or a piece of mint gum (but be sure to take the gum out after awhile). Use chapstick so your lips will be smooth, not lipgloss. Lipgloss can get really sticky and gooey so don't use that. Be sure you are comfortable with him too, because that will make things a lot easier for you both. When he goes in for the kiss, start out with a close-mouth kiss. Just mirror what he's doing, and when he tries to french don't be scared and close your mouth or he'll slobber all over you haha. Just relax your mouth and go with it.

-mystical_breeze
XoXo

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When a guy says "will you go out with me?"

What are you supposed to say? Just yes?

Were confused!

Thanks in advance!

Well if you like him, say "okay", "yes", "sure", or whatever lol. There are a lot of words to say.. if you don't like him just explain why you don't. Don't just be like "NO", but explain why you don't want to so he doesn't feel odd and uncomfortable.

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does anyone know where i can find some cute clip on earrings? either a website or store :] thanks!

Claire's has AWESOME clip-on earrings that you can't even tell aren't real. Basically a lot of different stores with jewlery have them.

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Hey guys,
I want to do my eyebrows so they don't look so like bad. Should i get them waxed? does waxing hurt? Is there a way I could maybe pluck my eyebrows at home and not have it hurt so bad? thnx much luv xoxoxoxox

Get them waxed because
1: the hairs grow back more fine and not more hairy
2: It only hurts for literally one second, and then it's done. With plucking, it hurts over and over again until you pluck ALL the hairs.
It hurts like when you get your ears pierced except less painful. I get my eyebrows waxed every once in a while and it looks so awesome.

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Is there a proper name for fake nails?

Artificial Nails

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hey 15/f
well im having a party tommorrow(not really just a few of my closest friends over- all girls) and i want to know if you guys have any ideas of what to do? we're real girly and besides truth or dare i wanted to know if any of you girls have anything you do with yoour friends when you hang out at your house? im basically looking for different things and as many as you can come up with? we're pretty much rated pg if you know what i mean?ill rate 5s for good stuff

THINGS TO DO :::
Truth or Dare
Prank Phone Calls
Watch movies with tons of junk food
Kareoke (sorry idk how to spell it)
Card Games
Board Games
Video Games (yeah it sounds like something a brother would do but it DOES get addicting during a party lol)
Makeovers
Dancing
Bake cookies and do the frosting and different candies on top
And the ever-popular - Talk about guys.

-mystical_breeze
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okay so at my highscool in feburary were having a winterfest dance and its girl ask guys. and i like this guy and im pretty sure he likes me back since weve told each other that. and i wanna ask him to it, but the thing is i dont know how. i want to make it cute, but not really cheesy because we arent close enough for major things.. just something simple and cute that i could do but not over the top and i dont just wanna be like hey wanna go with me
so if you have any ideas at all then let me know please.. i dont want someone else to ask him before i do!
thanks.. i rate

Well if you both like eachother, he will probably say sure. Just ask him in person or maybe in a note and be like, "Hey do you have a date for the winterfest? (he says no) Oh .. want to go with me? I think we'd have a pretty good time," or like the other person said, write something cute at the bottom of a note. It doesn't really matter what you say, because even if you feel stupid saying something, he'll think it's cute any way you say it (yeah, guys think its cute when girl's say the wrong thing). Well good luck and have a good time!

-mystical_breeze
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Hey, this may be an odd question, but healthwise, is Iced Tea bad/good for you? I really like it and I was hoping it was better than drinking soda because I got too used to drinking that. So, I know it's only like 70 calories, but can anyone give me an idea here??

It's a lot better than drinking soda! It's good you like iced tea (because I hate it lol) and I'd rather drink soda. Iced tea isn't bad for you just not a lot of it is good. Like if you put a lot of sugar in it then it won't be too good to have a lot of it, but a little sugar and lemon is okay.

-mystical_breeze
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