about

Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo.
"i refuse to sink."

advice

Okay I hang out with this guy at school and were really close. Well I think he likes me and then he goes and asks out my best friend what kinda guy does that!!!!

A guy that likes to lead girls on .. thats the kind of guy who does that.

But honestly, there are plenty of fish in the sea, and it is his loss that he chose your best friend instead of you.
although, for now, all you can do is be happy for them and move on.

good luck ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.

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how do i make myself feel prettier and more feminine if i wear make up already

you can wear girlier clothes such as..
- skirts.
- leggings.
- pink colors.
- skinny jeans.
- form fitting pants.
- different kinds of shirts (v-neck and stuff like that)
- layers of clothing, like a sweater with a cami, or a lacy shirt over a colored cami.
- dresses.
- bright colores zip up sweatshirts.

you can wear different types of shoes like..
- flats/ballet shoes.
- pumps/heels.
- sandals.

you can wear accesories such as..
- jewlery.
- necklaces.
- bracelets.
- rings.
- scarves.
- earrings.

you can also wear girly smelling perfumes like vanilla scents or anything fruity smelling.

you can also style your hair like...
- curly.
- straight.
- with side bangs.
- layered hair.
- headbands.
- braids.
- sparkles in your hair (yes, people do that, trust me :])
- wavy.
- half up half down.

you can also paint your nails (hands and feet)
you might even want to get inspiration from celebrities like selena gomez and taylor swift.
But mostly, its all about your attitude, if you tell yourself that you're girly, you will feel it. you also have to look put together and not "frumpy" or anything.. you dont want to look like you just woke up and walked out of the house. yuh know ? but besides make up, those are some things you can do to feel girlier/more feminine. and im sure youre very pretty, you just have to believe that you are and have the confidence.
and if you really want to, listen to some pop music or anything by bruno mars.. itll make you feel awesome :] well, i hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.

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Okaii, Well I am a 12 year old girl && I'm kinda scared.): I haven't started my period yet, but I'm getting this discharge I guess you would call it, but my mom thinks I've started my period but its just a different color. I don't know what to think && or do. This is kinda personal && in your case *I'm sorry I'm telling you about this:P* weird but I wanna know if there is something wrong with me or what. Can you help.?

unless your discharge is red or a brownish color, no, you are not on your period.
however, beginning to get discharge can be a sign that you WILL be getting it soon. discharge is just a cleaning mathod for your insides (vagina)
this is a GREAT site that tells you about your first period, its basically everything you need to know:
http://www.kidzworld.com/article/816-getting-your-first-period

signs that you are getting your period:
- lots of white or clear discharge.
- feeling bloated (when you feel fat)
- cramps in your abdominal are and pelvic area.
- your back may start to hurt.
but remember, everyone is different and not all of these signs will apply for you.
dont be scared though, if you think you might be getting it, or your discharge is becoming uncompfortable, wear a panty liner in your underwear (its like a pad, but a lot thinner) and just relax :] nothing is wrong with you, I promise. you are completely normal. once you see blood, thats when you are on your period.
if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! good luck, xxo.

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I'm 28 to 29. Should i be upset with my girlfriend for buying me one gift instead of a few gifts?

No.
its the thought that counts, not the amount of gifts she got you that counts. i mean, she didnt have to get you anything. why would you even have a reason to be upset ? the amount of gifts she got you is not equivalent to the amount of love/like that she has for you. gifts dont mean anything, feelings do, trust me.
just be happy she cared enough to get you something special :]
hope i helped, xxo.

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what does it meen when you get a boner if your a boy?

to put it simply: Your penis will get hard.
it is basically when you get turned on by something or someone.
hope i helped ! if you have any other questions, feel free to ask me :] xxo.

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i thought i was in love with my best friend and we had a great relationship but we started to date and now we dont get along at all

i know how that feels.
well, sometimes you need to try dating someone to figure out that its better off as just friends.
if you both arent happy and youre not getting along, you should just go back to being best friends OR talk about it. maybe theres a reason why you guys arent getting along.. stress or something else. but you wont know unless you talk about it, so i think you should do that just to see if theres anything you can do to make it better, or if you both are just better off as best friends.
good luck ! hope i helped and if you have any other questions, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.

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is it sinful to kiss the opposite sex.

no ! it is not sinful at all !
you can kiss whoever you want to kiss ! and if people think its sinful, well, they need to open their eyes and see that its the 21st century. its normal and there are PLENTY of things on this earth that ARE considered sinful, kissing the opposite sex not being one.
feel free to inbox me if you want to ! xxo.

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UtIm17 and I'm a junior in hs and there's his Guy who is constantly staring at me he started doing this since the beginning of the year and he doesn't only stare during English class he also stares while we are walking to class and he used to look away when he knew I caught him staring but now he makes eye contact and I think he was talking with his friend about me cause I saw him poining at me once But other than the. Staring there was this one time he played a joke on me and he was staring at me with his eyes wide open with a smile on his face he also has tried to bump into me once or twice when he could go a different way.my friends all say he likes me and say he's only too shy to talk to me and they want me to tell him I like him this Friday should I or should I not..........PS I think he tried talk to me once cause I heard some one yelling wait and footsteps be hind me and when I looked back. It wad him but with like a worried face

okay, you have 3 options here:

1. get to know him better and then once you start getting closer with him and youre both comfrotable enough with eachother, tell him that you like him because it might make things less awkward and easier for you both.

2. tell him straight up on friday that you like him because whats the worse that could happen ? he could reject you, BUT hes not the only guy in the world, there are others out there.. and you seem like a cool girl, so if he doesnt feel the same way, hes stupid. but youll never know until you try and sometimes you just have to go out there and just be impulsive.. it seems like he actually likes you, so go for it :]

3. dont say anything at all. you could wait for him to tell you or you could just never let your feelings for him show and live with knowing that you COULD have said something to him, but didnt.

those are 3 options, just 3. in my oppinion, i think you should HIGHLY consider option 1 and 2. it sounds like he is interested in you.. so why not find out for sure ? :] youre 17, live it up while you can !
good luck, have fun, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. hope i helped ! xxo.

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my ex girlfriend is goin out with my real close friend and im not mad about it but idk how i feel about it and maybe it does bug me but i cant tell for sure and im now single but i dont know if i should stay that way because ive been through 2 girlfriends back to back and its nice hanging out with my friends and not worrying about some girlfriend but i feel lonely and i keep getting bummed but then again i like to be kinda freaky like i wear mask and stuff like that and i do random crazy stuff to people i dont know but i dont know if i can just rely on my friend to help me but there is a girl who is 2 years younger than me and lives far away and we kinda like each other but ill never get to meet her so idk wat to do ...please help me with whatever you can,thanks.

thats tough :/ but honestly, things like this happen all of the time, and your ex going out with your really close friend IS going to bother you no matter what, and thats the worst part. its probably gonna turn into the whole, "you want what you cant have" sorta thing and its going to take a toll on your emotions. like.. now you feel lonely and all of this, but you shouldnt because you have friends.
surround yourself with people who care about you and who you can have fun with. live the single life for a while and if someone special happens to come along, then okay, go for it.. but for now, you just need to have fun. you said it yourself: its nice hanging out with your friends and not worrying about some girlfriend.
.. so go with that emotion for now, just have fun and be carefree. you deserve it.
and for the girl who is 2 years younger than you that youll never get to meet.. i dont think you should try to make it work because if youre never going to see her, youll be making yourself and her miserable to try and make it work when you know it wont. but you should talk to her about it and tell her your feelings..
but the one thing i want to really stress to you is that you shouldnt settle with ANYONE.
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.

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im almost 18 male im a virgin im hsppy with it
most of my friends have had sex some thing its strange that im not having sex but i want to wait i think im way too young to be having sex and i want to find the right girl not just have sex with anyone anthing can happen but a lot of people my age have had sex its not strange at 17 to think youre too young for sex is it?

im sorry i didnt answer this question earlier, but i hope i can still help you ! :]
good for you ! :] everyone has different morals and comfort levels, so dont worry about what your friends or anyone else is doing.. theyre not you.
one of my best guy friends and I were actually just talking about this last night, and hes 18.. a virgin .. and wants to wait for the right girl, even though hes had PLENTY of chances to have sex, he hasnt because he doesnt think hes ready or mature enough to handle it.
so its DEFINETLY not strange to think that youre too young for sex, dont worry :] i feel the same way too.
good luck ! dont worry about it and just keep being yourself :] if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.

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My girlfriend and i are 17 were both virgins most of our friends say they have had sex weve talked it a couple of times weve only been together for almost 6 months we both think were nowhere near ready yet we are happy with the way the relationship is going we both agreed that we are way too young to be having sex we do care about each other a lot but think that 17 is too young to be having sex thats not stange is it?

first off, im sorry i didnt answere your question sooner ! :[
but anyways, im 18, and when i was 17, my ex boyfriend and I were together for 1 year and a half and we never had sex because we both didnt feel ready and we are so young, i wouldnt want to regret it in the future or have something go wrong and get pregnant at this age. yuh know ?
just because your friends are having sex, doesnt mean its strange or anything for you to NOT have it.
if both you and your girlfriend arent comfortable with the idea of having sex, dont do it. youre not strange at all. trust me, its totally normal. :]
good luck ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.

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Can a relationship work without physical attraction? im 15f and i like this boy because of his personality but i dont feel a physical attraction right now. do you think it will grow or is there no point in pursuing it?

I am sooo late in answering this, i know, and im sorry but to answer your question..
it depends. if you get to know the boy and you get comfortable with him, you may or may not find that connection, but most times, you need to be somewhat attracted to your partner or it would just be a friendship and not a relationship.. yuh know ?
i hope that made sense, and if i were you, id give it a little time and see if something sparks between you two.. and if it doesnt, then keep your options open :]
hope i helped ! good luck, xxo.

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so my question is, how do i let my feelings out to my girlfriend when she irritates me without her wanting to leave me?

sorry im so late in answering this ! but okay, heres what you should do:
just be gentle with her. if something she says bothers you or even if shes just acting immature, tell her that you wanna talk to her about something and then just tell her that you really like her/love her [i dont know what stage you guys are at in your relationship] and that you want both of you to be happy, but it bothers you when she does whatever she is doing to make you irritated.
and sometimes, thats just something you have to deal with in a relationship. she will get on your nerves once in a while and youll probably get on hr nerves once in a while.. but as long as youre able to work around it and let it go, everything should be okay :]
hope i helped ! good luck and feel free to send me another inbox, xxo.

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Me and my bf broke up because i found out he was using me for my money and 2 days after i told him to come see me and we were sitting in his car outside of my house and when we were done talkin i told him good bye for the last time and he started getn aggressive then he pushed me and the back seat and pinned my hands down and had sex with me. Idk if this is rape or not. Anyways i might be pregnant idk what should i do?

well, did you say no ? did you not want to have sex with him ? did you verbally tell him to get off you ?
if you did, then.. yes. it was rape. if you didnt want to have sex with him and he held you down and forced you to have sex with him then that is definetly rape. and im so sorry for that.
if youre pregnant.. think about your options:
- you can have the baby and keep it.
- you can have the baby and find a family through an adoption agency.
- you can terminate the pregnancy and get an abortion.
you HAVE options, but i suggest that you get a pregnancy test to make sure youre pregnant and then go from there. maybe talk to someone about it. a friend or family member, and definetly tell someone about what happened to you, because what happened to you isnt right. and again, i am so sorry.
if you need anything else feel free to inbox me, good luck; xxo.

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me and a guy used to be really close. Then i intoduced him to my friend and for almost two years now it's like i don't exsist. I have liked him for a really really long time like about 2.5 years. He never asked me out when we were close but in the first couple of months that he new my friend he asked he out twice. My heart is compeletly broken and to make matters worse. Last year my friend told him that i liked him. Infront of all these other guys and girls. I didnt say anything but i felt my face turning really red. He just looked at me with this sympathatic look but nothing ever changed. He started to ignore me then after a really long time when i compeltley igrnored him for a really long time he wanted to be my friend again. Then i figured out that he is only my friend to get help with homework and studying. I hate him and i love him at the same time not to mention he's exteremly hot. HOW IN THE WORLD TO I GET OVER HIM. IT'S ABOUT TIME!!!!! no matter what i do it just doesn't happen i just get sucked back in. Help, please.:-(

honey, you dont deserve that. you have to think about yourself right now and look back at the facts:
1. hes using your friendship and your feelings to benefit ONLY him by getting help with homework.
2. he never talked to you about you liking him.
3. he ignored you after he found out you liked him.
4. he broke your heart and made you feel worthless.
do you REALLY want to be with a guy who has done all that to you ?
.. i hope your answer to that is no, because honestly, you can find SUCH a better guy. There are plenty of fish in the sea [and i know that is so overrated] but, seriously.. there ARE other attractive/hot guys out there who will adore you. he is clearly just missing out on a wonderful person like you. seriously, and he WILL regret it, i promise you that.
but to get over him, you have to completly cut all communication from him.. i know, i know, that sounds hard, but you can do it. you just have to find the strength, which i know you have in you.
basically, you just need to let him go. start talking to other guys, keep your options open and just dont talk to him or about him. delete him from your life. its the only way youll get over him.
and its going to take a little time to get over him, its not going to magically just go away; its not that easy, even though i wish i could tell you it was. but just vent to your friends and even write about it, draw out your feelings.. something to get your emotions out, but just dont talk to him. even if he tries to talk to you, prove him wrong. give him what you got from him for 2.5 years. just go out with your friends and have a good time :] youre better off without him, trust me.
good luck, hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo :]

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Ok, so me and this guy, we'll call him Bob, have become pretty close. He hasn't asked me to officially be his yet, but it's at that point where we might as well be. Well, the other night, I got kinda drunk, and I ended up kissing a long-time friend who's been crushin on me the whole time we've known each other. Actually, it was more like make-out. Afterwards, I felt really guilty, and he reminded me that I am still technically single. When I told my best friend, she yelled at me and told me that I did cheat. Now, I feel kind of guilty and kind of not. I don't wanna tell Bob, but I also don't wanna screw up a potentially really good relationship. Advice on what I should do?

you're single.
which means, you can do what you want. bob can get upset, because he likes you, but he cant get mad because he never made it official, and neither did you, yuh know ?
your friend really has no right to be telling you that you cheated.. because you didnt, at all. you just feel guilty because your friend is MAKING you feel guilty.
and actually, this would be a great oppurtunity to talk to bob about being official. you could be like, "look, i wanted to tell you that i was hanging out with an old friend and we kissed, but i feel so bad about it because i really like you and i want to know if this "thing" with us is going anywhere because im so confused."
.. or something along those lines. yuh know ?
and if you dont want to take that route and you just dont want to tell him all together, than dont. you didnt do anything wrong. so dont listen to anyone else :]
good luck, hope i helped, and stay stellar, xxo.

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right so i havnt got a boyfriend at the moment but when i do im scared that i wont know what to do when i comes to kissing him, everyone says it comes natuarly wich im sure it does but im still woried an to make it worse i have brace :( any advice

dont worry :]
everyone feels the same waay as you. you just have t be confident. if you do it, thinking youre gonna suck, itll turn out bad.. hahaha mine did :] and thats just because i was freaking out about it ... i ended up biting his tongue .. uhh, yeah, try to avoid that at ALL costs :]
but basically, just .. go with the flow. and dont like, eat his face. only open your mouth a little bit like, if you were to say, "OH!" thats how open your motuh should be.
oh and, make sure you tilt your head so that your nose isnt banging or will bump with his.. if that does happen though, then just laugh it off :] everyones done it.
and when its your first time, do it standing up or sitting down face to face, because itll be easier for you and you can position yourself and your head so youre not awkwardly trying to move around and get comfortable.
just massage his tongue with your tongue and follow his lead, i promise, youll be fine.
good luck ! have fun, dont think about it too much, youll drive yourself crazy nervous ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.

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this morning i texted him and was like dont effing text me anymore if you only want pictures. you can have a normal conversation with me, that i dont care about and i know we arent gonna get back together so wahtever i give up.
he texted me back saying damn i was sleeping
and then im like i know. i was just saying
and then we were talking and i texted saying baby come over at 4 becuase im not home yet and were gonna nap together cause im sleep. i cant wait to see you baby (: (i prented to think i was texting someone else and i did it to see waht he would say) and then i said oh crap sorry wrong person
and hes like bye. and im like alright bye. and hes like who was that to and im like tihs guy why?
and hes like are you with him and im like i will be soon and hes like were not getting back together and im like i asked you yesterday and you said idk so im not gonna sit around and wait for you forever and youre not doing the same so why should i
and hes like youre the one who messed up so you should be trying to fix it but whatever go be with him
and im like waht the hell do you think i have been doing the past months timmy? ive tried talking to you and i never get antyhing back. you dont even show you care. all you care about is getting pictures and i hate that.
and hes like im done with that i told you that but go be with him
and im like you awlays say its the lat time but i still get asked. and i never said i wanted to be with him and you have a gf so theres nothing wrong with me liking a guy.
and he never said anything.and i was like ok well ill text you later tonight.
and im not going to. im gonna show him what it feels like to be told something and have it never happen.

i know i got him jealous and i feel sooo good right now. i knew he still cared about me. and i know waht he wanted. he wanted me to give in and say ok i wont talk to him blahblahblah. but im not going to. he thinks its ok for him to do stuff but when it comes to me, its wrong.
am i right about everything?

you could not have done that more perfectly.
and i most definetley think that you did the right thing when it comes to everything you said and did. you gave him exactly what he was giving and he didnt like it.
im very proud of you :] i really am. you stood up for yourself and you just rocked. you go girl :] im telling you, youre gonna feel soooo good for like, a long time because of this. how does it feel to have the upperhand ? hahaa. i can guarentee you hes like sitting around thinking about you and how he did you wrong and everything you were feeling before, hes feeling now. so GOOD JOB ! ! ! :] soooo happy for you.
good luck, HAVE FUNN ;] and keep me posted ! andd of course, if you need anything else, im always here. dont stop being stellarrr. xxo.

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sooo heres me and that guys converstation from todayy

him: hi
me: hi..
him: how have you been
me: greattt. you?
him: good. why have you been great?
me: haha idkk?
him: oh are you still talking to that guy
me: me and him are straight. were friends and stufff
him: oh thats good. do you miss me?
me: yeah.
him: can i have a pic
me: no.
him: why
me: cause i never got one that one time and you always randomly start talking to me and expect to get wahtever you want
(he then sent me one of him)
him: i havent had my phone. i awlasy lose it and you know that
me: yeah.
him: i just sent you a pic
me: i know.
him: whatever bye
me: what?
him: your being gay
me: haha how
him: i say
me: alright i sent you a pic
him: a good one cause i will send you a good one if you want
me: no.
him: why
me: cause you have a gf and im not gonna send you those kind of pictures whenever you want them.
him: me and her are on a break. we got in a huge fight this weekend. please can i have one
me: hahhh. no.
him: please just send me an old one and i sent you one
me: i sent you one.
him: thanks but a nude one.
me: noo. im sick and laying in bed. and im deff not sending you a nude one.
him: why i just did. please beautiful
me: no.
him: please one of each and ill just keep bugging you too.
me: no. why cant you ever have a normal conversation with me for once. you only talk to me for one reason and thats for pictures. im not that stupid.
him: thats not true. if you send them to me i will talk to you for a month and ill tlak to you more. i wanna talk more again.
me: yeah and the only reason why you wanna talk to me is because youre on a break with your other girl.
him: whatever think what you want. youre the one who cheated twice.
me: stop bringing that up.
him: ok then be nice. lets go back to the way we were.
me: i am being nice. and yeah about that..
him: can i have them now
me: nooo
him: please.
me: no. im not gonna say yes so just stop asking.
him:please. just one pick and ill stop asking
me: i sent one.
him: thanks.
me: mhmm. sowaht are you doing
him: nothing. you
me: watching the sox game and being sad.
him: why you sad.
me: i hate when people die and i miss how we used to be.
him: haha welll thats not gonna change for a while.
me: yeahhh
me: i really miss you :/
him: i miss you too
me: mhmmm im sureee.
him: yeah
me: so ive been asking my dad if were gonna go down there and i dont think we are :/
him: that sucks
me: i guess.
me: you dont seem like you wanna talk so ill just go. bye i guess.
him: ill text you after work.
me: okk


that was our conversation.
what do you tihnk from it? i honestly dont think he will text me after work. and i think he only wanted one thing from tlaking to me. and that was the pics.
but i think he still cares about me and thinks about me and everything.
becuase he always brings up the fact that i cheated so i think he bothers him alotttt.

he once again, got the only thing he wanted from you. a picture.
let me show you some examples from your convo and explain what he was doing..

him: oh thats good. do you miss me?
me: yeah.
him: can i have a pic
- he knew that if he asked you if you missed him right off the bat, and you said yes, then he could get a picture from you and end your conversation quicker. thats why right after you said that you did miss him, he IMMEDIATLEY took that to his advantage and asked for a picture.

him: whatever bye
me: what?
him: your being gay
me: haha how
him: i say
me: alright i sent you a pic
- he got frustrated because you were standing your ground and you refused to give him a nude picture of you. so he called you gay, and knew that if he said that, you wouldnt want him to get mad at you and think that, so you gave in and sent him a picture. and he thought tat if he gave you one, youd give him one.. which worked.

me: no.
him: why
me: cause you have a gf and im not gonna send you those kind of pictures whenever you want them.
him: me and her are on a break. we got in a huge fight this weekend. please can i have one
me: hahhh. no.
him: please just send me an old one and i sent you one
me: i sent you one.
him: thanks but a nude one.
me: noo. im sick and laying in bed. and im deff not sending you a nude one.
him: why i just did. please beautiful
me: no.
- he asked you why the first time, so he obviously isnt listening to why you WONT and is only paying attention to the fact that you didnt want to send him a picture. you were sick, and he didnt care. he doesnt care about you or what you want. he only cares about what he wants. and then he said "beautiful" to sweet talk you.

him: please one of each and ill just keep bugging you too.
me: no. why cant you ever have a normal conversation with me for once. you only talk to me for one reason and thats for pictures. im not that stupid.
him: thats not true. if you send them to me i will talk to you for a month and ill tlak to you more. i wanna talk more again.
- when he said he'll just keep bugging you, thats a HUGE warning sign that thats all he wanted from you and he wasnt going to buf you to get you to talk to him, he was only bugging you to get a picture. and he said he will talk to you for a MONTH.. like its a privalege that hes talking to you and A MONTH ! wooooow this is kid is a dbag. he'll only talk to you for a month and all he'll talk to you about are pictures .. of you.

him: whatever think what you want. youre the one who cheated twice.
me: stop bringing that up.
him: ok then be nice. lets go back to the way we were.
me: i am being nice. and yeah about that..
him: can i have them now
- its not that he cares that you cheated on him "twice" its that hes doing this to make you feel bad and to guilt you into giving him the pictures. he doesnt care one bit. and hes telling you to be nice and to give him the pictures, the ONLY thing hes after and the ONLY thing he cares about. and thats the way you guys were, sending pictures and all that. and thats why he again immediatley asks you if he can have nude pictures of you.

him: why you sad.
me: i hate when people die and i miss how we used to be.
him: haha welll thats not gonna change for a while.
- he made you think that during that entire conversation, you guys would be closer to getting back together, but that was a complete lie.

him: i miss you too
me: mhmmm im sureee.
him: yeah
me: so ive been asking my dad if were gonna go down there and i dont think we are :/
him: that sucks
me: i guess.
me: you dont seem like you wanna talk so ill just go. bye i guess.
- he didnt elaborate on missing you. he became distant and not caring. the only thing he said was "that sucks" when you told him you couldnt see him, he doesnt CARE. at all. he got what he wanted, hes done talking to you. he doesnt want to see you. and youre right, he doesnt and DIDNT want to talk to you.

... basically, stop talking to him, and no matter how much he begs or pleads or bothers you to give him pictures DONT. DO NOT SEND HIM PICTURES. he honestly does not give 2 craps about you. and i know thats hard to hear, that all of this is hard to hear, but you have to get this through your head and just stop talking to him. his girlfriend and him most likely did not get in a fight, and he was only telling you that so you wouldnt feel as bad about giving him pictures, just like last time. do yourself a favor and get him out of your life. you do not deserve this kind of treatment and mind playing at all. im sorry if i was really straight up, but i cant sugar coat this for you, this is not okay. and who knows what he'll do with those pictures, he might send them to other people..
im always here if you need anything, so dont hesitate on sending me an inbox, good luck ! xxo.

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okay so if you look at my questions before, i have asked alot abot my period. Im not sure if the symptoms i have are related to this or a cold. i have been getting
- a few head aches but there really short
-cramps
-i had some spotting
also i would like to know what is "bloting" people say its a symptoms but im not sure what it is! lol but pleaseee help with this ASAP!!!!! thanks! as many answers as possible are awesome!!!!!!
THANKSS!!!!!!!

hunny, yes, hahah. you'll most likely be getting your period in the near future.
and "bloating" is the term used for when you feel like your "fat" but youre not haha. your stomach feels and may look swollen/get a little bigger for the time being when you have your period or you're going to get it. no worries.
you dont have a cold, but if you dont get your period by the end of next month with these symptoms, go to a doctor. but dont stress yourself out with this period thing, if you stres out or work yourself up or think about it too much, i guarentee that you're perod will come later, like 100% guarenteed. so calm down :] where a panty liner [a little pad in your underwear] just in case it comes when you arent ready and relax :]
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.

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