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same problem !
sooo heres me and that guys converstation from todayy
him: hi
me: hi..
him: how have you been
me: greattt. you?
him: good. why have you been great?
me: haha idkk?
him: oh are you still talking to that guy
me: me and him are straight. were friends and stufff
him: oh thats good. do you miss me?
me: yeah.
him: can i have a pic
me: no.
him: why
me: cause i never got one that one time and you always randomly start talking to me and expect to get wahtever you want
(he then sent me one of him)
him: i havent had my phone. i awlasy lose it and you know that
me: yeah.
him: i just sent you a pic
me: i know.
him: whatever bye
me: what?
him: your being gay
me: haha how
him: i say
me: alright i sent you a pic
him: a good one cause i will send you a good one if you want
me: no.
him: why
me: cause you have a gf and im not gonna send you those kind of pictures whenever you want them.
him: me and her are on a break. we got in a huge fight this weekend. please can i have one
me: hahhh. no.
him: please just send me an old one and i sent you one
me: i sent you one.
him: thanks but a nude one.
me: noo. im sick and laying in bed. and im deff not sending you a nude one.
him: why i just did. please beautiful
me: no.
him: please one of each and ill just keep bugging you too.
me: no. why cant you ever have a normal conversation with me for once. you only talk to me for one reason and thats for pictures. im not that stupid.
him: thats not true. if you send them to me i will talk to you for a month and ill tlak to you more. i wanna talk more again.
me: yeah and the only reason why you wanna talk to me is because youre on a break with your other girl.
him: whatever think what you want. youre the one who cheated twice.
me: stop bringing that up.
him: ok then be nice. lets go back to the way we were.
me: i am being nice. and yeah about that..
him: can i have them now
me: nooo
him: please.
me: no. im not gonna say yes so just stop asking.
him:please. just one pick and ill stop asking
me: i sent one.
him: thanks.
me: mhmm. sowaht are you doing
him: nothing. you
me: watching the sox game and being sad.
him: why you sad.
me: i hate when people die and i miss how we used to be.
him: haha welll thats not gonna change for a while.
me: yeahhh
me: i really miss you :/
him: i miss you too
me: mhmmm im sureee.
him: yeah
me: so ive been asking my dad if were gonna go down there and i dont think we are :/
him: that sucks
me: i guess.
me: you dont seem like you wanna talk so ill just go. bye i guess.
him: ill text you after work.
me: okk
that was our conversation.
what do you tihnk from it? i honestly dont think he will text me after work. and i think he only wanted one thing from tlaking to me. and that was the pics.
but i think he still cares about me and thinks about me and everything.
becuase he always brings up the fact that i cheated so i think he bothers him alotttt.
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he once again, got the only thing he wanted from you. a picture.
let me show you some examples from your convo and explain what he was doing..
him: oh thats good. do you miss me?
me: yeah.
him: can i have a pic
- he knew that if he asked you if you missed him right off the bat, and you said yes, then he could get a picture from you and end your conversation quicker. thats why right after you said that you did miss him, he IMMEDIATLEY took that to his advantage and asked for a picture.
him: whatever bye
me: what?
him: your being gay
me: haha how
him: i say
me: alright i sent you a pic
- he got frustrated because you were standing your ground and you refused to give him a nude picture of you. so he called you gay, and knew that if he said that, you wouldnt want him to get mad at you and think that, so you gave in and sent him a picture. and he thought tat if he gave you one, youd give him one.. which worked.
me: no.
him: why
me: cause you have a gf and im not gonna send you those kind of pictures whenever you want them.
him: me and her are on a break. we got in a huge fight this weekend. please can i have one
me: hahhh. no.
him: please just send me an old one and i sent you one
me: i sent you one.
him: thanks but a nude one.
me: noo. im sick and laying in bed. and im deff not sending you a nude one.
him: why i just did. please beautiful
me: no.
- he asked you why the first time, so he obviously isnt listening to why you WONT and is only paying attention to the fact that you didnt want to send him a picture. you were sick, and he didnt care. he doesnt care about you or what you want. he only cares about what he wants. and then he said "beautiful" to sweet talk you.
him: please one of each and ill just keep bugging you too.
me: no. why cant you ever have a normal conversation with me for once. you only talk to me for one reason and thats for pictures. im not that stupid.
him: thats not true. if you send them to me i will talk to you for a month and ill tlak to you more. i wanna talk more again.
- when he said he'll just keep bugging you, thats a HUGE warning sign that thats all he wanted from you and he wasnt going to buf you to get you to talk to him, he was only bugging you to get a picture. and he said he will talk to you for a MONTH.. like its a privalege that hes talking to you and A MONTH ! wooooow this is kid is a dbag. he'll only talk to you for a month and all he'll talk to you about are pictures .. of you.
him: whatever think what you want. youre the one who cheated twice.
me: stop bringing that up.
him: ok then be nice. lets go back to the way we were.
me: i am being nice. and yeah about that..
him: can i have them now
- its not that he cares that you cheated on him "twice" its that hes doing this to make you feel bad and to guilt you into giving him the pictures. he doesnt care one bit. and hes telling you to be nice and to give him the pictures, the ONLY thing hes after and the ONLY thing he cares about. and thats the way you guys were, sending pictures and all that. and thats why he again immediatley asks you if he can have nude pictures of you.
him: why you sad.
me: i hate when people die and i miss how we used to be.
him: haha welll thats not gonna change for a while.
- he made you think that during that entire conversation, you guys would be closer to getting back together, but that was a complete lie.
him: i miss you too
me: mhmmm im sureee.
him: yeah
me: so ive been asking my dad if were gonna go down there and i dont think we are :/
him: that sucks
me: i guess.
me: you dont seem like you wanna talk so ill just go. bye i guess.
- he didnt elaborate on missing you. he became distant and not caring. the only thing he said was "that sucks" when you told him you couldnt see him, he doesnt CARE. at all. he got what he wanted, hes done talking to you. he doesnt want to see you. and youre right, he doesnt and DIDNT want to talk to you.
... basically, stop talking to him, and no matter how much he begs or pleads or bothers you to give him pictures DONT. DO NOT SEND HIM PICTURES. he honestly does not give 2 craps about you. and i know thats hard to hear, that all of this is hard to hear, but you have to get this through your head and just stop talking to him. his girlfriend and him most likely did not get in a fight, and he was only telling you that so you wouldnt feel as bad about giving him pictures, just like last time. do yourself a favor and get him out of your life. you do not deserve this kind of treatment and mind playing at all. im sorry if i was really straight up, but i cant sugar coat this for you, this is not okay. and who knows what he'll do with those pictures, he might send them to other people..
im always here if you need anything, so dont hesitate on sending me an inbox, good luck ! xxo.
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