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me and a guy used to be really close. Then i intoduced him to my friend.
me and a guy used to be really close. Then i intoduced him to my friend and for almost two years now it's like i don't exsist. I have liked him for a really really long time like about 2.5 years. He never asked me out when we were close but in the first couple of months that he new my friend he asked he out twice. My heart is compeletly broken and to make matters worse. Last year my friend told him that i liked him. Infront of all these other guys and girls. I didnt say anything but i felt my face turning really red. He just looked at me with this sympathatic look but nothing ever changed. He started to ignore me then after a really long time when i compeltley igrnored him for a really long time he wanted to be my friend again. Then i figured out that he is only my friend to get help with homework and studying. I hate him and i love him at the same time not to mention he's exteremly hot. HOW IN THE WORLD TO I GET OVER HIM. IT'S ABOUT TIME!!!!! no matter what i do it just doesn't happen i just get sucked back in. Help, please.:-(
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honey, you dont deserve that. you have to think about yourself right now and look back at the facts:
1. hes using your friendship and your feelings to benefit ONLY him by getting help with homework.
2. he never talked to you about you liking him.
3. he ignored you after he found out you liked him.
4. he broke your heart and made you feel worthless.
do you REALLY want to be with a guy who has done all that to you ?
.. i hope your answer to that is no, because honestly, you can find SUCH a better guy. There are plenty of fish in the sea [and i know that is so overrated] but, seriously.. there ARE other attractive/hot guys out there who will adore you. he is clearly just missing out on a wonderful person like you. seriously, and he WILL regret it, i promise you that.
but to get over him, you have to completly cut all communication from him.. i know, i know, that sounds hard, but you can do it. you just have to find the strength, which i know you have in you.
basically, you just need to let him go. start talking to other guys, keep your options open and just dont talk to him or about him. delete him from your life. its the only way youll get over him.
and its going to take a little time to get over him, its not going to magically just go away; its not that easy, even though i wish i could tell you it was. but just vent to your friends and even write about it, draw out your feelings.. something to get your emotions out, but just dont talk to him. even if he tries to talk to you, prove him wrong. give him what you got from him for 2.5 years. just go out with your friends and have a good time :] youre better off without him, trust me.
good luck, hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo :]
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