Question Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 9:37 pm
my ex girlfriend is goin out with my real close friend and im not mad about it but idk how i feel about it and maybe it does bug me but i cant tell for sure and im now single but i dont know if i should stay that way because ive been through 2 girlfriends back to back and its nice hanging out with my friends and not worrying about some girlfriend but i feel lonely and i keep getting bummed but then again i like to be kinda freaky like i wear mask and stuff like that and i do random crazy stuff to people i dont know but i dont know if i can just rely on my friend to help me but there is a girl who is 2 years younger than me and lives far away and we kinda like each other but ill never get to meet her so idk wat to do ...please help me with whatever you can,thanks.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Spirituality? mutt21 answered Tuesday April 5 2011, 6:29 pm: As a guy, ive had this happen to me as well with the whole thing and the ex going on and about with one of my good friends. but to be honestly i dint really care at times because i mean i thought about it in the way as of "it was meant to happen" well thats what i thought about it, and plus listen to your intuition' there is someting about it so listen to it' maybe the only thing bothering you is not ending things right with her? for example, you dint say something you wanted to tell her basically stay as friends thats all i can tell you, because i did not i mean DID NOT feel comfortable without talking to her one more time and keeping things all gravy so yeah and for the girl who lives far, keep in contact with her, just dont go on to a relationship until you have that good, confident feeling about the whole being her boyfriend thingy [ mutt21's advice column | Ask mutt21 A Question ]
itdependsonyoux3 answered Saturday December 11 2010, 9:10 am: thats tough :/ but honestly, things like this happen all of the time, and your ex going out with your really close friend IS going to bother you no matter what, and thats the worst part. its probably gonna turn into the whole, "you want what you cant have" sorta thing and its going to take a toll on your emotions. like.. now you feel lonely and all of this, but you shouldnt because you have friends.
surround yourself with people who care about you and who you can have fun with. live the single life for a while and if someone special happens to come along, then okay, go for it.. but for now, you just need to have fun. you said it yourself: its nice hanging out with your friends and not worrying about some girlfriend.
.. so go with that emotion for now, just have fun and be carefree. you deserve it.
and for the girl who is 2 years younger than you that youll never get to meet.. i dont think you should try to make it work because if youre never going to see her, youll be making yourself and her miserable to try and make it work when you know it wont. but you should talk to her about it and tell her your feelings..
but the one thing i want to really stress to you is that you shouldnt settle with ANYONE.
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo. [ itdependsonyoux3's advice column | Ask itdependsonyoux3 A Question ]
curiousfox answered Friday December 10 2010, 12:30 am: Believe me hun, if you have doubts about being in a relationship you shouldn't be in one. Especially if you're still feeling bummed about your ex in anyway. Take some time to feel better without having a girl around.
Go out with your friends. Get a hobby. Find something to make you love being just with you.
You can't love someone else if you don't love yourself first.
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