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Im 18 years old..born & raised in northern va. I love to have fun with my girls, and ofcourse love to shop. Im a goody goody and damn proud of it! Feel free to ask me any questions, thats what this website is for : )

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i went on my first date with my boyfriend last night and he was kinda selfish...during the movie i took out my last ten dollars and he grabbed it and stuff...i thought he'd give it back but he spent it on himself! he bought popcorn..i didnt want any tho. then we went to the dollar store and he bought a whole bunch of stuff for himself with my money! he didnt ask me or anything. i dont want to talk to him about it cuz i dont know why..i guess im shy...he doesnt have aim or anything so i cant IM him...if you guys help me i will rate you a 5!! also if you have AIM, please IM me at SummerSunset48. thanks

your bf sounds really greedy and selfish. no matter what age you are, when you take a girl out, you are suppose to pay for everything lol its just simple manners! call me old fashion but i dont beleive in girls having to spend money on a date..your doing him a favor by going out with him...thats enough ha but yeah....let him know you dont think its gonna work out..its better to stop going out now rather than when you start hating him...just be friends for now.

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ok i really want a new email address but i dont no what it should be. i like dance softball music and stuff but i dont want sometime stupid or like dance or softball chick or anything i want something original and fun. i also love hollister! i think it would be cool to have lyrics part of it too. i dont want anything over like 12 letters. here is my xanga if that will give you any ideas but dont leave your answer there. www.xanga.com/sugarysweet89

maybe just make it sugarysweet89...or DANCECHIC89 something like that

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i've liked this guy for over a year now. he just told me that he likes this other girl. you know the drill...what should i do?

dont try to make the other girl look bad infront of him...that will just make you look bad. maybe you could just try to be good friends with him for now, and see what happens later

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Does anyone here know about Wet 'n' Wild Kohl Kajal eyeliner? I was considering getting some but I wanted some info first. Does it smudge? Is it good? Some info on it would be really great

i dont know about wet n wild kohl kajal...but i know its a "knockoff" of the eyeliner used in the middle east...mostly in india & pakistan. the eyeliner made in india and pakistan is GREAT. it doesnt smudge easily,its waterproof and lasts all day. you can buy them at any middle eastern store for maximum 2 dollars

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okay im 14,female, i have braces,and i still suck my thumb, i need mucho help! like BAD i need tips. every time i try to stop i just can't its addicting. none of my friends know i do it. please HELP =) thanks ♥♥♥

well if none of your friends know of this habit, that means its not THAT BAD meaning you dont do it in public. i think you'll grow out of it as you get older..and even if you dont, its ok because everyone has atleast 1 weird thing about them that nobody should know

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ok so usually im really outgoing and i wont be shy about certain friends. Is there any way just to let go and sorta not be so shy when i'm around a lot of people? what can i do so im not so shy around people like that anymore??

just be yourself....dont be shy because theres no reason to be. you should think of all the stuff you love about yourself...all the compliments you get, and remember them. everytime you feel shy/nervous...just think of those things and you should feel confident of yourself.

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Im a female, and im about 5"10 and my boyfriend is only 5"7...this makes me feel uncomfortable all the time. is this weird?

no u shudnt...tom cruise is 5'8 while his wife of 10 yrs was 5'10....lol but yeah...just dont wear high heels when your out with him cause that might him make feel uncomfy...but yeah...its really not that big of a deal

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Hey I was just wondering what are some good effective excercises to get muscles in thighs and to lose some weight in that area?

the chair exercise i think is best for thighs...its when you stand against a wall and pretend your sitting on a chair, it sounds easy but when u do it..u'll see. bicyling also helps thighs

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I went away with my friend a couple of weeks ago, and she was being a jerk, and now I don't really wanna be her friend anymore, what do I do?

tell her you think shes mean and that you dont want to be friends anymore

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why are christians so afraid to share there faith! im a christian and im not afraid at all. why cant the "christians" who wont die for God stop calling themselves christians!

im not christian but i dont think you can say that someone who doesnt volunteer to die for god isnt one...everyone has their own form of worship and respect for god...haha sorry if i offended you in anyway though

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this may sound like a really dumb question, but how do u add more posts on ur xanga?

thx.. i rate high!!

when you sign in and go to ur main page, it will say NEW WEBLONG ENTRY on the top next to public preview or something...just click that

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School starts soon, and I want a new hairstyle, but I don't know what to do. I always left it down last year. This year I want to try something new. I have thick,straight,blonde hair. Like if I should cut or highlight etc. Any ideas would help, plz!

try scrunching it with gel or mousse. or get highlights ... but that usually looks good for the summer not fall. you could try getting lots of layers..that turns out real pretty most of the time.

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I'm 13/f. I just discovered that the person I have had a huge crush on for two years (he's really cool; the smartest kid in the grade and he's really nice and he's my only guy friend) doesn't like me back. I feel awful. He doesn't know. Is there anything I can do? How can I deal with this? Should I try to stop liking him and move on? Please I know that a 13-year-old's problems aren't as important to you as an older person, but still it would be really really nice if someone could help me.

well if he doesnt like you...theres nothing you can really do but just try talking to him sometime, maybe you could be friends....and besides, there are alot of other fish in the sea

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okay well im built really small... i weigh 108lbs and im 5'6 and im 15... recently ive been tryin to gain weight.. ive gained eight pounds this summer but it seems like its only gone to my upper arm and hips... is theyre anyway i can gain weight in like my stomach area and my chest... im not even an Acup yet and its really embarassing... but idk how to even the weight out on my body... please help... i really need it... thanks

eat every meal of the day, some sort of meat product with fruits & veggies....drink v8 splash juice to gain healthy weight...eat snacks in between. just keep eating and to make sure your stomach doesnt get too big, once it gets the size you like...start doing curlups to tone it

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my bf && i have pretty much made if a habit to talk everynight past midnight. i have my cell on vibrate (i have free min) & he calls from his house. we hadnt gotten caught after 3 nights of that but today when my dad woke me up, he saw the phone on my bed & asked why so i said it vibrates at night b/c i was still half asleep. i dont know what else to tell him if he asks! ok so we are on a plan that we share and he pays...will the time & number of the call show up on the bill? please help! any info is important!!

yeah it can show up on the bill if he has his bill set up like that. you choose if you want all the calls & minutes to show up or if you just want the amount you owe to show up. maybe if you know the # of your dads cell phone provider and you know his info such as birthdate..you could call and pretend to be him and change the form of bill...but let me tell you, they record all the conversations you have with the workers so i would be careful

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I'm 14/f
I think im fat and I wanna lose weight. I don't eat breakfast or lunch and barely dinner. All my friends are worried about me and try to get me to eat but I just say i'm not hungry. My question is, is this that serious and that unhealthy? Thanks!

It's very unhealthy and serious....especially at your age...when your body needs more nutrients than ever. You can easily lose weight in a good manner by eatting lots of veggies & fruits...the only foods that really pack on bad weight are the ones high in carbs & other obvious junky stuff. Don't stave yourself...its just not worth it....the weight your losing is going to come back no matter what because your doing it in an unhealthy way...if you lose weight in a healthy way by exercising and eating nutrients...you will lose that fat for good

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i really wanna be a singer when i grow up but im kinda shy and dont like to sing infront of alot of people. can you please help me and tell me how i could get over that ?

sing in the shower...infront of your friends....when your alone.

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Already i might seem like a COMPLETE LAME for asking this.. im not a real computer person at all.. i only get on it to help people on this site or to do homework.. i wanted to know what is XANGA everybody mentions it on this site and i have no freakin clue what it is.. so if you explain to me ill be happy to rate high.. loves ya!

its this journal sort of thing...you make entries about anything and your friends leave you comments....even i have one... xanga.com/desi_kudiz lol make one and you can update it whenever you get really bored

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I need some help do you think that I guy should like you for who you are or what you look like

for who you are ofcourse

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i wasnt sure which category this should go in so i just put it in this one. anyways..does anybody know who to get a rid of nervousness? i have it really bad that i think im going to throw up!

just think of a funny time....like if ur about to go on stage to make a speech and you're nervous..think of a funny time you had with your girls....that'll help you through.

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