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i'm Ange, a 19 year old female aussie and i love helping people! I am willing to help with almost any issues you may have... so feel free to ask me. i wont judge you on what you ask so dont feel embarrased. :) but beware! if you ask a stupid question with a logical answer, i will be very blunt... and remember...
*~respect yourself~*

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OK this is a really hard question to write. My parents got divorced when i was in 1st grade, and i live with my mom. Lately she and i have been fighting alot. i love her and everything, but she is just really stressing me out. ive told her this, and she does better the next day, but as soon as its a week later she totally forgets. My Dad is an air traffic controler and so h works weird hours. Me and him have a great relationship and rarely fight with him my question is, should i take a break from my moms house and move in with my dad for awhile or deal with her? Thanx!!!!!!

nah go stay with your dad for a bit. tell your mum that you love her u just need a break!

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my best friend keri was a goody good person and this year this kid started to like her and hes the only one who ever gave her attention so she wont let go of him and he made her do really bad in school and now she has to go to a private highscool and her moms mad mean to her and shes been grounded and so now she dont even care and is bad all the time and her mom told me and our other bestfirned she dont want her hanging out with us only goody goddy people and keri dont even care anymore because her mom never keeps her word so if she keeps doing bad like she is her mom really wont let her hang out with us and i dont know what to do i want her to be good with out makin it seem like im lecturin her

just tell her straight up how you feel. if she brushes you off then at least you know that she isn't the friend she used to be. get a new friend.

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My best guy friend him and I have gone out before and we eventualy broke up but we still had feelings for each other but instead we stayed CLOSE friends he knows everything about me.Well I recently found out he has a gf which i never thought would happen so quick and when i found out i was crushed i began crying i felt terrible.I don't know what to do I'm thinking bout stop talking to him it might help but im not sure pleae help me! thank you either way for just reading.

its called jealosy honey. get a man and flaunt it in front of him. pay backs a bitch.

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I just started at this new school, although i;ve been there about 2 yrs ago. I met up with an old friend and we feelin eachother. But me..i aint the type of girl who haves boyfriends in school cuz they be acting immature. He's a year older then me....But im trying to see if i should give this a chance. holla back

yeah man! go for it ey!

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ok there is this guy. We both liked eachother, we used to talk to each other all the time and he used to tell me all the time that he loves me and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. he said that he wants to be alone with on valentines day. And so i went to my dads house to be alone with him and we were talking in my room and listening to music and sudenly my dad bursts in my room and starts swearing at him to get the fu*k out of his room. i got really upset so i left. And the guy was still talking to my dad and when he came outside by me he came over to me kissed me and said that i need to go talk to my dad because he is going crazy in there. I said no because he wont listen to me(+ he was drunk so that wouldnt help)and he said that my dad thinks that we had sex and we didnt. The guy was really mad. He looked at me in front of all my friends and said: I dont even look at you that way let alone have sex with you. Im sorry but i started to cry. why would he day he want to be with me and then say he dont what up with him? And whats up with my dad??? please help me i could use it thank you. i rate high.

tell your guy that your dads an asshole and tell him to forget about him. if he aint willing to work around your dad then he aint worth it!

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this guy i kno i thought he hated me but evry1s saying that he doesnt i think i like him but i dunno if he likes me?
HELP
~Dani~

ask him out!!! what else are you gonna do huh? you just gotta ask girl!

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hi i hav never worn fake nails until today. I like wearing them but they feel sooo weird. Does the feeling go away or does it stay?

you do get used to it... dont worry!!!

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Hey everyone..I'm 13, 5"4, and 135 lbs. I'm athletic, i'm really into softball and i'm a cheerleader. ALL of my friends try so hard to tell me all the time that i'm not fat. I know I may not be FAT, but i'm most definitely not skinny, or close to it. My stomach sticks out about 3 inches more than i'd like it to. Everything else about me is fine, but my stomach is stopping me from wanting to have a boyfriend, stopping me from being confident, and basically taking over my life because it always causes me to be in a bad mood. I'm not one of those people that want to be deadly skinny. I honestly am overweight, although my BMI is average. I've tried diets but they usually only last about a few weeks, a month tops. I excercise whenever i can which isnt frequent, but NOTHING seems to help. Im going on vacation in April and I would really like to have lost a lot of weight, well, just inches i suppose. I don't have trouble getting boyfriends but the problem is im always scared that they dont like me or wont if they realized that im not as skinny as everyone else. When i dress myself, i dont wear wicked tight clothes, or slutty crap. I look good but not as good as i could look if i was skinnier. If ANYONE has any advice as to what i could do, i would TRULY appreciate it. I can sometimes be very committed to diets but not as much as i could be. I need something that i can easily do to get rid of some inches by april, or sooner. I dont realy have money or rides to go to the gym, so i have to work with whatever i can do at home. I jog too, but that doesnt really help me. I would honestly be the happiest person alive if i was skinnier, and i mean that. Please, help me out guys. p.s-sorry this is so long.

you need to go on a diet and stick to it. if you have the will power you can do it!!! and try to excersise regulary... but hey, dont let it ruin your life!!!

~ANGE

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when i get older im thinking about like adopting 2 kids and having 2 kids, does anyone have any ideas on why this would be a bad idea? i want to adopt because i dont want all my kids to have the same traits as me, but then i wanna have 2 of my own because having a baby that came from you is..good, right? do you think i would favor the kids i created over the ones a adopted?? suggestions, please??! thank you~~~!!!!!!

why dont you wait until you actually have a kid. they are a handful and you mightn't want 4!!!

~ANGE

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hi, sometimes im selfish..okay, im always selfish. for example if i get an awesome necklace/shirt/pants/earrings/cd/anything::when peoeple ask me where i got them from i never want to tell!! i dont want people coping off me a iguess but it happens so much! and even the stuff i make, okay well i made a necklace out of a guitar pick and then everyone did the same things...etc. it makes me mad! also when i do homework im the same way, i hate when poeple copy me! and my friend, she copies my essays and uses like the same things i do and i take a long time thinking of them, just like a simple sentence. im christian and i know i shouldnt be like this, but i dont know why i am! how can i cure my selfishness??! i wanna be a better person, help me please~~~~!!!!!!!

feel good when people are copying you! it's a compliment. they are saying you have good taste! you make a nice necklace and other people want them you should sell them!!! make some money of your great sense of style!!!

~ANGE

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how do u get a guyy top leave u alone???

tell him to fuck off. seriously. it always works!!!

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ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..

im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals

he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk

i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?

you have to tell your friend you like him. if not you have to get over him. you cant have him AND keep you best friend happy. so yeah. do one of those.

~ANGE

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I complain a LOT. And half the time I do it without meaning to...and it's starting to annoy me, let alone the people around me. Any tips on how I can stop complaining, or at least reduce the amount of complaining I do?
I whinge about all sorts of things, from the weather to homework to the fact that I'm tired/hungry/bored...whatever. It sucks, I feel like I don't have a good word to say about anything any more...I want to be positive again, but how?

the good old fashioned way!!! get a rubber band and whenever you start thinking how much things suck, snap it on your wrist. every time you do this you brain takes note and before you know it your brain will associate pain with negative thoughts. good luck!

~ANGE
*~think positive!~*

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There's this really hot senior and I just want to even talk to him since I'm just a shy sophomore. Plus it's not like he's gonna be at my school next year, but I'd like to just get to know him, ya know? Thing is he's kinda unapproachable, like he's really big on hip hop and he's really into the culture. He also DJs a lot and he's pretty cool around the school. I'm tempted to go to one of his hip hop culture club meetings/dj workshops but I know nothing about hip hop! Should I still go? As I said I'm kinda shy so I need to know how to boost my confidence so I can approach him outside of the club and meet other people. Thanks!

your right. you need to build that confidence!!! you should go to this meeting and if they ask you questions just say your new to hip hop. say you heard (pick a song) and you liked it and now you wanna know more about that kinda thing. just talk to him. it shouldn't be that hard!!! bring up something that happend in the meeting. thats what i'd do. good luck!

~ANGE

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Today i found out from alot of people that my boyfriends been cheating on me with this girl that i absolutly hate and wen i asked my boyfriend about it he sed it wasnt true and they are lying to me, but i dont know wether to trust him or not because he has cheated on me before and tryed to hide it but i found out and idk why but i let it slide (plz noone give me a lecture on that). His bestfriend even told me that which is why im questioning him but he keeps on saying its not true. I dont know what to do, should i break up with him even though hes saying it not true or should i stay with him? someone please help me! btw me and him are both 15 and weve been together for 10 months, and we also dont go to the same school. thanks for your helf

leave him. it's the best thing you could do. if he's a player then you dont need him. he'll only cause you hurt. move on and get a guy who's worth your time.

~ANGE

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hi im about to peirce my cartilidge but im not sure exactly where to do it, i need someoen with expericne and or i need some websites with pictures (or not i dont care) because ive been searching and im not sure how to.. please help! last time i did it i messed up on my lobe cuz noone helped me! please help me!

GET A PROFESSIONAL!!! dont risk doing it yourself. it'll just get infected.

~ANGE

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Okay.. I know if you make yourself pass out for extended amounts of time it can cause a lot of damage to you.. but what if it only lasts for 5 to 10 seconds? How much damage can that do to you?

Its not good to do at all. and esecially numerous times.

~ANGE

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i just told one of my best friends kelly im bi and now she is acting weird around me. I imed her and shes like ummm hi and im like whats wrong and then she says well idk how to act around u anymore, and im really hurt, she treats me like im not wanted, not intentional, but it still hurts, what do i do be honest

she prolly thinks you want HER!!! reassure her that she isn't your type it's just that you needed to confide in someone and that she's your best friend so you figured she'd understand.

~ANGE
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ohk im really scared! i think i MIGHT be pregnet. but see i did not ever have sex! ever! but i KIND of did anal.like it went it half way. can u get pregnet from anal? and like i always get my period before my mom, but she got hers today and istill dont have mine and im like really scared

did he cum?if he did then there is a chance you could be pregnant. get a pregnance test and find out asap.

~ANGE
keep me updated

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okay well i reall hate living at my house..my mom has told me she dont want me here and my step dad has also i've been cryin for the past two nights and the only comfort i've had was my boyfriend he's the greatest well my friend toni wants to runaway and she one my best friends and she asked if i'd go with her...well i've gave this so much thought and i really want to but the reason i wont is cause of my boyfriend well he asked me to marry him and i said yes.. but he kinda felt bad after he told me cause he said he cant do it right now or anything cause were only 16..well i know were young and everything but my friend toni said we should run off and get married..though bout that also but i dont wanna do that then like get caught and his grandma or my mom can get it undone anyways which i know my mom won't cause she really could care less.. but like can anybody gimma advice on how i can try and stand my parents.. ill rate high if its good.. and i also need advice on if you think i should marry him.. i love him more then anything we been through alot together like his mother's deather me havin a miscarriage me havin my airway disease my mom losing her baby and jus a whole bunch of other stuff and i know he will always be there or atleast i think he will.. he hasnt gave up on me yet in the past year and a lil bit longer..and dont tell me im too young cause i know that but lota people get married young and things work out..much luv and thanks ahead of time for anybody who helps..

well you ask if i think you should marry him. my opinion wont matter there, because you just argued your side so well that i dont thik it matters what i thought because now i feel likeyou really do love him and that you should marry him. :) you should be a lawyer!!! lol. but uh with the running away thing, you should just wait a bit longer and if your mum is as horrible and doesn't care as you said, then just tell her your moving out. that way there is no reason to get the police or anything involved. :)

~ANGE

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