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My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
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hi. i am 15 years old and have not got my first period...my boyfriend wants to have sex...but idk what would happen...is that horribly bad if i havent got my first period yet
PLEASE help i rate 5s!
despretly confuxed (link)
Thats not bad at all. Most people have sex before they get their periods considering most girls get them at different ages. Dont worry if you want to have sex with him go ahead but be careful! =]


okay my arm is freaky I have eczima but on the inside of my arms and a little ouside is completely snow white and the outside is a nice tan. I don't know what to do to get rid of the white spot. I can never wear any short sleeves because of it. It really pisses me off. Oh by the way is there any natural way to make eczema go away forever. thanks (link)
wow..i get that i my face every once in awhile its not permanent tho..theresthis stuff called Eucerin is not expensive you can get it at any drugstore/walmart/etc. only problem it wont take it away forever but it will help for awhile. hope i helped!!


Ha okay i had no idea what to put this under. But anways. I'm planning on getting a new cell phone for Christmas. I was just wondering, is VerizonWireless a good company? And also, the new LG "The V". Does anyone have it on here? And can you tell me if you can recieve pictures? And if you can send them too? Thanks so much. (link)
verizon is a very good choice but for a LG phone you may want to think otherwise me and a bunch of my friends used to have LG phones and we had to many problems to count with them! In the beginning they work well but after a couple of weeks you will start to see rows of marks developing on the screen which is not from you!But their reliable in most cases so good luck!!


I wash my face daily, drink alot of water, and eat the right foods. My problem is, I have a VERY oily face (especially at my nose). The pores on my nose are extremely large and I have blackheads there. I try using products to get rid of it all, nothing seems to work. Any ideas on what I could do? I will rate. (link)
I used to have the same problem...use this stuff called "Apricot Scrub for oily/acne prone skin" its oil free and it really works..other times you could use toothpaste before you go 2 bed at night it works also..hope i helped!


To start off, i'm only 15 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for five months. We just recently broke up, and a week after our break up he got a new girlfriend. I was really upset for awhile, and I couldn't even eat because of it. I cried just about every day. I constantly think about him, and regardless of how bad he treats/has treated me, I still have an enormous amount of feelings for him. I don't know why I can't get over him. My friend told me "If you can't get over him, maybe there's a reason". Is it possible I'm in love? Or what is it that I'm feeling? And why can't it go away? (link)
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is it weird when the girl is taller than the guy in a relationship? (link)
deffinitly not if you guys like eachother something like that shouldnt matter.. If you worried about it dont be i went out with a guy that was like 4'10 nd i was 5'5...so its okay!


For people who tend to get cold sores -what works best for you?? I have one now and i have dealt with them all of my life and i need something that works fairly fast becuase I have school tomorrow! And i hate the feeling of everyone always looking at me and this weird, nasty, crusty, bubbly, -um okay thats enough..but i bought abreva once and it was like 20 dolllars! I tried vinegar before, it worked fairly well, but we dont have any, and i dont have a ride to walgreens but i can get one if theres something out there that works good enough! Thanks for your suggestions!! (link)
hey! well i have the same exact problem i kno how ya feel.. but theres this stuff called Herpecin L it works really well..it helps it go away and if you keep puttin it on after every once and awhile it helps to keep them away i havent had 1 since i started using it! hope i helped!


my mom says that she gives me lots of priveleges, which i highly disagree with. just today i had a friend over -a girl- -im a guy- and we went to my room and my mom yelled at me and told me that im too old to have girls in my room even if we're just friends -btw im 15-. do you agree with this? if you do then why?! if you dont then how do i tell my mom that i am mature enough to control myself around my friends...sheesh (link)
Well..i would have to say i disagree with your mom, if the girl is just your friend she should trust you. I think its just the typical worry thing, your mom is scared your going to have sex and screw up. I'm not exactly sure how your mother is so i cant tell you how to prove your mature enough. She probably feels that you disrespect her in some way, thats how mothers are, id say lay off taking girls up to your room for awhile hang around in the living room, that way your mom knows your not doing anything wrong. Also if your mom doesnt know the girl very well let her know a little more about her that should help a little bit. Sorry if i wasnt much help!


Okay I really want to pierce my own cartlage but I don't know exactly how. I want to do it the right way so I won't get it infected or whatever. Could anyone give me precise instuctions? Thanks in advance! (link)
Well first of all you get a sewing pin and burn it that way its like steralized. Then you numb ear with a piece of ice and stick the pin through. A little Tip : It hurts like crrrazy and more then likely it will get infected if you dont take proper care of it and its gonna hurt and burn im not sure why but it does. I kno this because i once did my cartlidge too and it got infected and believe me its a b*tch to take out when its infected. Your best bet would be to get it professionaly done.Good luck!

p.s. MAKE SURE YOUR HANDS ARE CLEAN!


Hi,

My name is Todd, and I am a 15 year old with quite a few friends. Almost all of my friends have cell phones with Cingular, Verizon, or some other monthly plan. Mine is a Virgin Mobile with a stupid 10c/minute and 10c to connect deal.

I found out that I put my Top-Up card for $20 in my pants and accidentally washed them.

I talked to my parents about getting me a monthly plan for me. They said they don't want to pay a lot every month for my cell phone plan, and they can't get me a cell phone with their plan since the plan is controlled by a member of my family who we don't really like. Don't ask me why my mom and dad continue to use that plan.

I'm trying to find a monthly phone plan that is cheap ($20 or less) and that would be affordable by almost any middle-class American family.

If you have any suggestions, please tell me.

Thanks,
Todd (link)
Cingular has go-phone plans which im sure you've seen on t.v. and you can select a plan that you want you can pick a 20$, 30$ etc. It cuts off after you reach that limit. Your phone is free after 9 pm. and on the weekends i think its friday 9p.m til monday 6am. Im pretty familiar with it as ive had one before but im not sure if they have changed it or not. But that would be your best bet. Good luck hope i helped!


i want to do something really special for a friend of mine who is going to be getting back from active duty pretty soon. he is a great guy hes been in new orleans for the last month and may have to stay longer, but when he gets home i would like to maybe have a little get together or something, any ideas????? (link)
throw a welcome home party or such things like that. Make him feel welcome its really hard being over there. Invite some of his closest friends and family and have maybe a welcome back party, go out dinner, i think you get the point. Key here is to make him feel welcome and let him know you care about him. Im sure it wouldnt matter what you did he will be really happy to be home! thats really sweet of you though.


If you were to enlist in the part time Army, would you enlist in the Army Reserve or Army National Guard and why? (link)
Army reserve. I'd enlist in the army reserves because you get to finish school nd your not guaranteed to go over there right away ya know, so that way you have time to adjust to the whole idea of being in the army. My cousn is in the reserves and he said it was probably his best decision because he can train alot more and be prepared. If your thinking about joining thats really great and id go for the army reserve!


I have light brown hair with natural blonde and red highlights [the red ones you can only see in the summer and blonde ones you can see in all year round.] I almost always put it up in a ponytail. My hair is like 4 or 5 inches past my shoulders and it's not thick, I just have a LOT of hair. Does anyone have any ideas on what I should do with my hair?? I'd love to put my hair up in a bun but I don't really know how. (link)
To put it in a bun do exactly what you do for putting it in a ponytail just dont pull it all the way through.

meaning if you tie the rubberband around 3 times on the 3rd time around dont pull the hair all the way through. You could always scrunch your hair, braid it, twist it, curl it, or just wear it down and straighten it. hope i helped you!


Two questions about pre-marriagal sex... first one, am I spelling it right? I just like to know how to spell things, sorry to waste your time. Second one, before Advicenators, I was always under the impression that pre-marriagal sex was just for the screwed-in-the-head potheads and the sluts/whores. But now I'm looking at these questions, and seriously folks, it's just insane how many people are saying "I've been with my b/f three months and we had sex last night, is that too little time?" or something like that. Are my thoughts on pre-marriagal sex wrong? Note: Smartasses get 1s and will be reported. Give me real advice. (link)
I agree some of the question on here about sex are insane because they arent waiting long enough into the relationship. To answer your question "Are my thoughts on pre-marriagel sex wrong?" Everyone has their own opinion some believe on waiting till after their married and some don't. As you know most people were taught the after married concept which is a good thing but sometimes it doesnt work like that and i believe you are spelling it right. Remember every1 has their own opinions your not wrong its just what you believe in you shouldnt have to think the way everyone else does. hope i helped! =]


Yesterday, I went to my friend Matts party and he invited his friend Josh. Me and Josh really hit it off and were flirting a lot. Later on that night, me and Josh sat on the couch and Matt sat in another chair. Me and Josh were all snuggled up close together with a blanket on us cuz we were cold and all of us were watching a movie. During the movie, Josh leaned his head towards me so I did the same and our heads were resting against eachother. I slowly moved my hand onto his arm and he then slowly crept his hand onto my leg and rested it there. I then put my hand over his and then he took my hand in his and we caressed eachothers hands and fingers. Matts mom came home so we pulled away from eachother then. After the couch incident, Matt got really mad at Josh and I still dont know what the fight was about. When the fight was over, Josh wouldnt even talk to me unless I said something to him. He got really quiet and seemed like a different person. He wouldnt come close to me at all. Then my mom came and picked me up and he didnt even really say bye to me. I dont know what happened. After the fight, everything changed between us. I really like him and I think he likes me but its just I want to know why he acted so differently after that fight. Could you help me? (link)
well it seems to me the fight was over you. Maybe matt was jealous, he might like you?, or hes just a really overprotective friend beacause he doesnt want you to get hurt, matt probably knows something about joshs past he may have hurt a few girls and matt doesnt want you to go through that. But its a possibility matt just may like you. After the fight Josh probably thought he should lay low for awhile until things get better between him and matt. Talk to matt and ask him what he said to make josh act differently or just talk to josh and see whats up. The only way you will really find out is if you talk to one of them. Good lUck! (sry if i wasnt much help!) xoxo


I'm thinking about getting my cartilage pierced.. but im afraid its gonna hurt a lot. Does it? How much does it hurt? (How much more than getting ur lobe pierced?) (link)
it didnt hurt at all!..just a quick pinch....hurts for maybe 2 seconds...i actually think it was easier then getting my lobe pierced...but it could be just my opinion. Good luck! and i hope you get it done! (its really cute)
p.s. make sure you clean it all the time so it dont get infected and take care of it..it may not get infected at first it can take atleast 3 mnths to get infected(mine did)


Ok, well I liked this guy, I did not like his personality, but he was hot. I do not like him anymore he calls me a gay faggot. That ended two or three weeks ago. Then last night, fair night, my friend (she is kind of my friend) was getting her feeling hert. She and this guy went out for ever. He use to hate me, but over the summer my persoality (and looks) changed. I think mabe 35% he might like me the other percent I think he does not. Well, My friend was deveestaved that he broke up with her in June. He is so meen to her but she has always been really mean to me. Other times she wasent. Well the more I talked to him the more I liked me (I was standing up for his ex) He was so funny I really think we would make a good couple, but I really don't know what to do. Can you give me advice?

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i know what your going through, but honestly look at it this way, look how he treated your friend after they broke up, dont you think he will do the same thing to you? i dont believe you want to go through that and also give your friend time to get over this, its hard! Good lUck!


At my school, each grade level has a color. && they wear this color every friday during football season. So as a Sophmore I have to wear a grey shirt. I dont know what to write on it. Give me a catchy phrase or slogan or something to put on my shirt, please. Thanks. (link)
"Sophmore Shorties" on the front..

and "Class of 2008" on the back or put like gooo whatever your schools football team name is... srry it might be wierd but i got it off a shirt from my school...


This might sound weird but i am 15 and turning 16 in May 06'. One thing that i'm concerned about is that i haven't gotten my period yet:-/! is that not normal? is it bad that i haven't gotten it yet? I mean im going to be a sophmore and i still haven't gotten it...please helpp! (link)
everybody gets their period at diff. times its completely normal my friends grandma didnt get her period till after she had her first kid and some people need pills to get it to work my is the same way. Dont be worried you'll get it eventually! hope i helped


What does smoking pot accually do to someone? (link)
it can get you 120 years in prison(my cuzin did it) ... so put it this way if your going to do it learn eventually your going to go to jail all you get out of it is a "fun and good" feeling and a bunch of new friends who are potheads. no offense if you have any like that.




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