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Hi!My name is Melissa.I'm from G.I. New York.I love being able to help people and giving advice.I'm usually the person who people come to for advice and i'm always glad to be there for them.If you just wanna talk or if you want advice you can IM me.UnLuckyWishes3.I'm really into sports and love to play basketball.I play JV voleyball and Varsity track.

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my bestest, bestest, BeStEsT friend in the whole wide world jus did the worst thing a best friend cud eva do. She slept wit my crush. She sed she didnt mean to, and basically CrIeD, BEGGING me to forgive her. But how can i? She smokes, and she said it wuz becuz she wuz high. Yur probably wonderin wats she doin at his house in the first place. She goes there to get cigarettes. Its bad enuff that kidds our age shudnt be smoking, but anyway.... So she slept wit him, while i wuz on vacation. I'm jus glad she told me, but how can i ever forgive her? She PrOMISeD me she wud never do this to me, and she did. But then again, i mean its not like i wuz goin out wit him in the first place, so it isnt really my crush's fault. She said He came on to HER, but of course thats wat she's gonna say. I dunno wat to do. I'm jus so glad she told me, cuz she could've jus lied and sed everything wuz OK. But deep down...i'll let the picture speak for itself >:0. She begged me for forgiveness, and i want to forgive her, but i cant. Wat shud i do?

If i were in your shoes i'd be really pissed off too.she did tell you though and you have to give her alot of credit for that.I mean most girls i know would just lie about it.You werent going out so thats a good thing otherwise that would just be really mean.If she begged you for forgiveness i think that really means she doesnt want ot loose you as a friend.All friendships have hard times and good times.You should try and get all your anger out and forgive her.Maybe not right away but soon try to.hope i helped.

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Is it true that girls dont like gamers? By gamers i mean people who play video games as a hobby or a profession. Also is it true that they dont like computer techs? It seems like everywhere around where i live that girls find that to be a turn off. I live in Tennessee, if that helps. Just wondering.

no, it just depends on the kinda girly our interested in.My brother's a computer freak, he can rebuild a whole computer and there's a couple girls who are into him and thier not like scary looking.hope i helped, let me know if you have anymore questions.

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I have this friends and I really like her like more than a friend. A couple of months after we became friends I asked her out but she thought that it would be better if we stayed friends. After that was said, we became much closer and im kinda getting signals. what should I do, I really like her?

I would ask her out again, if your getting signals then there's usually something going on.Tell her how you feel and if she doesnt feel the tell her you respect it.Hope i helped.

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i am finally over my ex but now i find myself constantly thinking about my best friend's ex. i missed him while i was on vacation..do i have a crush on him? If i do...what should i do? should i tell him? my friend still isnt completely over him.. what if he likes me too? oh and im a 14 yhear old girl

I would talk to your friend and tell her that you like him.Ask her if its alright to tell him how you feel.If its not give your friend a little more time to get over him.hope i helped.

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okay well i've knownone of my friends sence the 6th grade and she was so sweet before and in the 7th she beganacting a little kinda slutty but now in the 8th she doesn't even much talk to me when she's around her group of friends that don't like me y don't they like me i dunno i never did anything to them but thats a PI (personal issue)so i wont get into that but ya she doesnt even talk to me no more and meand her were so close but now its like she will let boiz touch up on her and she just turned 13 and her bf is 22 or 21 i think.I don't like that at all i told her and she is like okay wutever and im trying to watch her back but she's just a LITTLE gurl and that guy is in his 20's he expects things and im trying to get her to understand but apperntly im the only one that cares cause her friends that don't like me agree with the relationship and i dunno wut do 4get about our friendship or keep on nagging her about it cause i do get tired trying to watch her back but i dont wannasee her suffer .so i dunno wut i can do and i wish that the old her came out but everytime i bring that up she gets offended and assumes that im just JELOUS (im not i dunno where she gets that idea from?!?!?!)plz help me!!!

I would talk to her parents about this realtionship and tell them whats going on.Your friend may get mad or hate you, but in the long run she'll thank you.Even if she doesnt you know you did the right thing and i'm sure alot of people admire that.Hope i helped.

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what are you guys opion of christians and other sprital stuff???>??

I"m christian nad i believe in god and almost everything in my relgion but not everything.I dont believe that priests shouldnt be able to get married.i dont believe in confession bc they always say if you pray to god he'll forgive you so why do i have to tell a preist.

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I'm 15 years old & have been with my boyfriend for a few months. He's not a virgin and he's done sexual things with many girls. He told me he was ready to have sex whenever I was. I feel like I don't live up to his old girlfriends and that I'm such a good girl - being a virgin & unexperienced. I'm a little scared to have sex but when will I know I'm totally ready and mature enough to do it? Is it that wrong to not be sexually experienced at 15?

no its definatly not wrong, everyone knows at different points in thier lives.Trust me you'll know when your ready for sex , something will click and you'll realize that it's something your ready for.hope i helped.

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i want to sleep with this guy, im a vrigin and im lil nerveous but i know im ready should i?
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If you know that your ready and you know what your doing, then go for it.Hope i helped.

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me n this girl did it n i think i might like her n idk what to do because i dont really wanna girlfriend

Well i dont think you can really help yourself from liking someone.its something that's gonna happen if u dont want to like her then more then likely it'll pass.hope i helped.

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hi im a 13/m and i dont masturbate by like just putting my hand around "it" and pushing or w/e i just take a pillow or w/e and sorta push on that (sorry if thats 2 graffic). is that abnormal or not?

No not really your just exploring.I know tons of my guy friends are like that.

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Well there i this song called LONELY and i love it well the thing is everytime i hear it i think of someone in particular and i dont wanna think of him cuz it makes me feel lonely. wut should i do the boi is in my grade 7th and ive never liekd him before. So maybe someone can help me im usually the adviser but now i need help.

I would talk to him and tell him how you feel.He could be feeling the same way.hope i helped.

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this is yet another odd question, but i am very hairy down there, and i dont wanna shave my head and die my scalp green. i mean, its not just you know, the hair in the V - area, i mean like. hair growing outta my buttcrack!! EWW!! Its horrible!!!!!!!! and when i shave a break out, and when i wax, i break out, and when i remove hair with a deliprattieuittrieforty, i break out. help me and i will love you forever.

It really sucks but the only way that i know of is laser hair removal to get rid of it everywhere.Other then that your kind stuck unless you want razor burn.sorry i couldnt help that much.:(

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i get really bad acne between my breasts, how do i get rid of it?

Get ance cream that just dries it out the acne, that helps.

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is there an age of how old ur supposed to be when u get ur belly button peirced? ill rate ya. lol thanx ~JessiKa~

No, as long as you have a guardian'a approval you can get your belly botton pierced at any age.

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One nyte i was with this guy, nathan who i knew a long time and we ended up going down on eachother and doing "69". We are just really good friends. Then three days later me and this guy went over to one of my other good friends' house and i gave the other guy head because i was pressured into it and he kept asking me to do it but i kept refusing. After about 3 hours i finally agreed to so he would get off my case. Well Nathan went off with my friend and pleasured her..after i did this i felt really regretful and felt horrible. Do you think that i'm now a slut?

No your not a slut.Peer pressure can get really hard sometimes and you just want them to go away.
Dont worry your no a slut.hope i helped.

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hi ppl . ok well heres my problem . im not bragging or nethng but i think im pretty & hav a good personality but my one thing is , i hav NEVER had a boyfriend . and im 14 . its bothering me b/c all of my friends can get them , and i cant . i talk to guys all the time and im being myself , but it isnt working . nothing is working . i dono what to do nemore . any tips

Dont concentrate on getting a boyfriend.Just go with the flow and you'll pry end up finding a boyfriend.It seems to work for me and my friends.whenever we think about getting a boyfriend we cant and then when were just hanging out having fun, we get one.hope i helped.good luck.

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hi. im 5'6 and i weigh 103 pounds and i know thats not considered alot but i REALLY want to lose a few pounds so i wanna go on a diet where i dont eat anything at all for a few days. i dont know cuz i feel like i might b anorexic and it sux.. help what should i do

you should talk to your mom and doctor and try and get some help.I'm your exactly your height and i had a problem with anorexia about a year ago and i lost around 50 puonds in a month.THis lastest for about three months until my mom and doctor realized what i was doing.Please dont lose anymore weight because right now your actually underweight for your height.If you wanna talk my AIM name is UnLuckyWishes3.Please get help.Hope i helped.

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My mom actually needs help with this one, but I'll explain.

Last night my neighbors who are around my age (I'm 14) came over. My mom rented 3 movies (even though we really couldn't afford it) but being the whiners they are, they didn't want to see any of them, so we let them bring their own movie over, for my and my 11-year old bro to watch with them. They chose Scary Movie and I have no idea why their mom let me! It was really inappropriate for my brother, who's going in to sixth grade. I mean, people were giving each other bjs and hjs, a girl got stuck to the ceiling by cum, etc. It was really digusting. The worst part is that they thought it was hilarious, Nick (older one, around my age) in particular kept going, "Noelle, come here" (my mom's name) at the grossest parts. Their mom is normally a pretty good mom but I just don't understand how on earth she could think it was appropriate for my brother. Obviously her boys were too immature for it too. My mom is going to call their Mom, Denise, whom we've been friends with for many years. Denise can get offended and mad very easily, so what should my mom say? And what should she say next time the boys want to bring over a movie?

Sorry about the long question. I rate!

i think your mom should tell her that her boys should bring over movies that are appropriate for your brother to watch.Also that are mature enough for her kids to watch too.The next time they bring over a movie have your mom look at it first and if it's not appropriate ask them to bring one that is or say sorry i dont think this is a good idea.hope i helped.

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im a freshman and all the senior guys are all over me. its great but its kinda bad ya no. this really hott guy invited me to a party and there will b drinking drugs sex and everything there and i dont want any of the guys to expect sex or a hj or bj from me. do u think i should go to the party? thnx

If you dont feel comfortable about there being sex and drugs ,dont go.If you do bring more then one friend that way if you get into a bad situation there'll be people on your side there.
hope i helped.

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Okay, I just moved to a new school and things are going great! I have plenty of friends and there are a few guys that like me. One in peticular! He's a sophmore (like me) and I know he's a sweet guy and I really like him but I'm not sure what to talk about w/ him! Right now we're just passing notes back and forth but happens when we go out? He's gonna call right? Then when do we say! Talking in person isn't so much the issue! Its the phone! What do I do?

Ask him what he's into.what sports he likes to do.Even ask what he does on weekends or what did he do today or something.I know alot of people who do that so that way it just kinda leads them into something else.Hope i helped.good luck.

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