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Hello. My name Is Solemnstar.
I'm a fifteen year old (assumed) male-to-female Transexual.
I want to help, plain and simple.
I like plain and simple, I like to catergorize people, ptu them into nice little boxes in my head.
and I LOVE figuring out the ones that don't fit.

Chatspeak annoys me, It takes an extra two seconds to type the real words.


I don't anwser advice as often as I should. Mainly because of School.

advice

Hey im gonna start watching Inuyasha and Trigun. I have a Inuyasha book (not manga) and it explains the basic story line..(How Inuyasha stole the Jewel of Four Souls and Kikyou pinned him against a tree for 50 years and kikyou came back recarnated as Kagome. And Kagome and Inuyasha and Keade have to venture out to find all the shards and jewels..? At least thats what I think)

Is there anything i should know. It would help
ILL RATE ALL 5'S!!!!!!!!!

that inuyaha was an evil shapeshifting demon(the one that stole the jewel)

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how do u know if ur in love? is there a differece between being in love and loving someone? i need to know b/c i think that i love this one guy but im not so sure anymore... could anyone give me some advice on love and dating? thanx... ill rate high!!!!

you just feel that.yes loving can be more romatique but being in love is usally a crush.

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Okay, I know this is a weird question, but I seriously need some help... kinda.
Well I have the worst case of the hiccups, I have tried what seems like everything to get rid of them. Anyone have any ideas how to get rid of the hiccups?

eat a spoon ful of sugar that helps me.(course i look for reasons to have sugar so)

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me and my boyfriend we're making out and stuff and he tried to take my shirt off and i wouldn't let him and he raped me. He said if i told anyone he would find a way to kill me. so should i tell someone or keep it a secret?

you already told us so no prob now tell the police you know all about him and you can goo under a protection program

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Well my friend invited me to her party shes having, and I told her I could go but now I really don't want too. There like renting the Excercist and I REALLY REALLY do not wanna watch that. I told my parents and they said just tell her you don't want to watch it...well my friend Carina would make me watch it and everyone else wants to and her dad would make me watch it too. And I like hate the one girl she invited and the other one is okay and the girl who I'm actually friends with can't go. And if I tell her honestly why I don't want to go she'll get mad at me(yes stupid i know). I don't know what I should tell her sooo could someone please tell me what to say?

its more funny then scary so the movie is no prob belive me things only bother you iff you think about them.so i just dont think.(man that hurts my grades)

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Hey... Yesterday I woke up with a MAJOR hurt at three in the morning. It hurt so bad that I couldnt' sleep until nine, and I didn't go to soccer or cheerleading. I slept on and off all day and I barely moved because my right side hurt SO BAD. I figured it would go awake, but this morning it woke me again at six! I slept from about eight to eleven and I don't know why my side is hurting. It's like right below my rib cage to my hip and a lil' on my right side of my lower back. Anybody know what it may be or what I can do to help it. RATE HIGH

ask a chyropracter so see if the problem is what you sleep on/in

Solemnstar

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Hi..I am a 23 yr old female.My ex bf and I have been on and off again for about a year and a half or so. We met when I first moved to this city and went out for a couple of months. Then he drifted away ,barely called me..never returned calls so I gave up. I found out a couple months later that he was in jail. A couple months later (he was in jail for 6 months) he called me out of the blue.Told me that he just got out and wanted to see me. So I visited him and we chatted and hung out a few times. Then I asked if he wanted to go out again so he said yes. He said he tried to call me while in jail but you can only call collect and he only knew my cell number. He said he was trying to get himself out of trouble. His family loves me because I am totally opposite. I have never been in trouble and don't do anything that serious to get arrested for. I have a full-time decent job and a new car. We went out for a month and things were really good,he was calling me and everything..even got his sister to wake him up so he could call me while I was on vacation to wake me up one morning at 8 am for something my family and I we were planning on doing. Then things were good and all of the sudden he's gone again..A month later he called me through a 3 way call to get my house number because he wanted to talk to me and was in jail again.Since he was on probation when he got caught fighting,was drunk and on drugs, he got arrested again.. So this time he was in jail for 4 months..we spoke the whole time...he'd call me a couple times a week..then he was out on house arrest for 5 months. He gave up calling me then. He later told me and apologized because he said it wasn't fair and he didn't want me wasting time on him. So I went out with other people the whole time he was gone since we weren't talking anymore. Then he was out working and I ended up seeing him. We just said hi and that was it. He called me about a half hour after I saw him to apologize for not talking to me and stuff but he was surprised to have seen me. So we hung out a few times and I assumed that he wanted to go out but he said he wasn't ready to jump into a relationship again. We had a big fight then after a couple days finally spoke again and said we'd just be friends. We started hanging out alot as friends and after about a week he calls me wanting me to hang out with he and his friend and says he's been thinking about me all day. He has been really nice ever since then and we started going out again. His friend isn't in trouble..doesn't have a record and they hang out alot so as long as that keeps going on he might be able to get himself straightened out. He actually has a job now working in construction. Now I don't know if I should be going out with him or not. I love him and that's why I even talk to him but I now enough that just because I love him doesn't mean we can be together. The guy I was going out with while my ex was in jail wants to go out again and I don't know now what to do:S My ex,well current bf again now, could be anywhere if he keeps doing what he did last time and I am not sure if I should put the trust in him to try to have a relationship again..

I have no idea what to do..I am totally confused..I just want people's opinions on the matter to help me decide..I know people might think I am crazy to go out with my ex since he's been in jail but when he's around me he is really nice to me..really thoughtful.He's not a bad guy just keeps hanging out with the wrong ppl. And we have had our fights about him being in jail and getting in trouble so I didn't just let him get away with being an idiot to me before.

Please give me some help!:S

confused...

the heart does not make speech but it is a great thing to listin to.

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how do you grind with a guy. Please don't just tell me you go with the music like I want to know how your body is soposed to move and shit like that
ill rate you a 5 for a good answer
thanks in advance

for feet and arms move in a motion with the beat and judge how much to depending on low loud it was and the type of song

Solemnstar

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f/13. school's pretty much over but i have a one hour day on friday june 24. i like this guy but i'm not sure if i should continue liking him over the summer. but i highly doubt that he would ever like me. last year whne i liked him i got over him during the summer, but then when school started i liked him again. do you think i should continue liking him this summer?

signed, summer lovin' doesn't happen so fast

only if you truly do. if not dont keep changing youre opinon of some one in that manne rits not safe and could really mess you up inside

Solemnstar

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I eat 3 meals a day and lately abou an hour after my meals I start to get really hungry.
I've tried eating bigger portions but it just made me feel bloated after, I've tryed halfing my portions and leaving half of it for when I do get hungry but it makes my hunger worse and I've tried ignoring it but it just doesn't seem to go away.

Is there anyway I can stop this?

have lots of water and have plenty of friut there really filling.

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ok i have a kitten and i sound really stupid when i say this but i don't know if it is a boy or girl.Some people say its a girl some say its a boy and i need to find a name for it. I tried to look at the thing but i can't tell it looks like it could be both atm.I thought maybe i could tell from the tits it has 8 tits! Does anyone know if a male cat has the same number of tits please could someone help.Thank Youxx

its a girl for sure and i like the sound of moon or dorito but moon is better in my opinion

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i need help in my spirtul life with god. im a christian an all that but i wan to grow mor with god!
how can i get closer to god?

live for the moment use the mantra "work like youll live forever but live like youll die tommoro" as in be kind share things that you had limited amounts of befriend uppopular poeple.love life

Solemnstar

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there is a song that sounds a lot like this: love me, love me, say that you love me. I would really like to know who sings that song and what the rest of the lyrics are please.

i dont know but another good song thats romantique is stand by me.

Solemnstar

i also like because you live

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what does masturbate mean?
i know it is a stupid question, but i rele don't know
-i rate high for nice peoeple

to play with the privites to have plesure

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this is so typical it kills me.....

i have liked this guy for the whole school year, we became really good friends and he found out i liked him and it brought us closer.. then he liked someone else. she broke his heart and now he hates her.. we became friends again and i thought things were going in the right direction and now i just find out my friend likes him and she didnt tell me , when she knows i have liked him for a long time (supposedly shes like him this long too) and now he has a "crush" on her, but he doesnt like her.. i dont understand..

what should i do?

thanks

he needs to soleve this one on his own with minimal help you can tell him youre there for him and when he needs iit youll help

Solemnstar

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okay well if u read this question you might think i'm lesbian. BUT I'M NOT I SWEAR! i'm straight as a straight line! it's just well i compare myself to other girls if they have something and i don't. like boobs or a butt or really skinny! and i really need help to STOP because i DONT want people to think i'm lesbian! CUZ I'M NOT! i think there nasty people! but i need help to stop comparing!

girls always compare themselves to others thats why they spend so much on make up theres nothing wrong with you so just accept it

Solemnstar

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ok so this may be a dumb question anyways...i broke up with my boyfriend a while ago n my friend asked him if he still likes me n he goes dont ask me that...could this mean he may still like me..what do u guys think? i told u it was dumb

it means that he will not awnser you because he doesnt want his opinion to be misinterpriteded he might still like you but then why would you brakeup i think if he did youd still be together

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ok this is kinda weird! My BFFs little brother has beem doing some gross things like making my little sister suck on his dick! And the other day he was snapping my bra! Are famalies are like best friends and My parents and their parents know but it feels so weird even to talk to my friend's little bro. II want things to go back to normal but I neeeed help on deciding wut to do!

tell him its wrong and try to punish him for what hes done

Solemnstar

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I'm questioning my faith
i'm not sure what it was in the first place really
um... but I think i'm just kind of having a bit of a crisis, not sure where to turn
I come from a semi-Christian background

I think you should turn to wicca if u awnser yes to these questions

1do you often feel there is a greater force that controls you all that you can influence

2do you often contamplate things

3do you feel confined by religion.

Solemnstar

if not i figure you should find out about other religions or just not follow 1 its your say in the matter

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I have a crush on my guyfriend but I don't want to tell him directly because I know he likes this other girl. Are there any signs I can send him to hint me liking him but not telling him for sure?

its called flirting.

Solemnstar

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