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14/f and I've never kissed a boy on the lips before. I've heard that you can practice against your hand or a wall or something, so I practiced once and a question came to mind, when you're kissing... are you supposed to be breathing?? if so, then through your nose or mouth?? how exactly do you breath when your kissing, cause i don't wanna stop every 4 seconds taking a breath, or breathing through my nose and having air being blowed on his skin. so could someone explain all of this to me??
also maybe any other helpful first time kissing tips and stories??
please no links! thank you!
Hi! Kissing is so much fun and just wait until you do! But anyway i didnt really have to think about it you just breathe. Its not like you think ok breathe...now! or whatever its just like when your doing sumthing normal or talking. Plus most likey your first kiss will just be a cute sweet little peck and you dont have to worry about breathing in the time span of 3 seconds! lol but you will probably work up and so your ready for each step. It may seem like your not but eveything turns out great. Feedback please! :D And hope i helped!!!
ok.everyone is always complimenting me on my super clear skin.im in 8th grade.see i think im the only person at Clark fricken Middle School who hasnt "developed" yet.But they dont know.but i think im close because i have all of a sudden over nite i got like 30 zits.i have a rep for a great face!im already taking pills,cream,and cleanser.its working but not fast enough.i want to change my diet 2 organtic foods.its not what my family eats.and they get mad when i eat something different then them.what foods are organtic and how can i convince my parents.
It happens to everyone-don't worry! I know ur thinking i dont care (and i would be thinking it too lol) but its true. Food actually doesn't have all that much to do with your face and pimples believe it or not. Drinking lots of water helps to flush out the bad stuff in your pores tho. Oragnic food is just like regular food only without the unhealthy things like chemicals and a little more money. My family is organic so how about asking your parents to buy the same food only the organic type. of name brand foods have orgain options and pretty much every food comes organic. Tell your parents you just want to try the healthier version of what you normally eat. It helps you live longer by helping protect you longer and better against cancer and diseases too. Just because you want to eat organic doesn't mean you have to eat weid food or exotic food or even different food! You can eat the same as your fam! And by getting them into your helping them too! Hope I helped and please give me feedback! And if you have more questions just give me a note in my inbox! Also if your acne is really bad you can go to a special doctor for a prescription is it's that big a deal :) ♥♥♥♥♥
Okay I have a lot of guys friends.. and Im a girl but that doesn't madder right?? A bunch of preps started calling me Kevin instead of Katie which is retarted! But.. okay I was hanging with Adam and we had to sit on the bleechers and i was like Move YOUR feet! because he spread his legs and err haha and Olivia(prep bitch!) was like oh why dont you just sit between his legs! So being me I did and Nathen, Josh and Adam started cracking up and MCKenzie(another prep) was like wow Adam if you like her that much.. and he took it as a complete joke and was like OOO yes I love **Kevin and huged me from the back and kept his arms around me and Mr.Davis(PE teacher) was like you need to keep your hands away from eachother! Wickedd loud and we started laughing. Well that was yesturday ..
I dont like how everyone thinks Im apart of the guys. I dont dress like guys its just guys are more loyal they dont tell people what I say and don't stab or try to hurt eachother.. I dress actaully pretty giry. Skirts --low cut shirts even though my Mom doesn't like it.. when you look at me you deffinelty can tell im a girl. Well its hurting my feelings because today it got worse..
This kid named Nick someones whos never liked me called me Butch. You could tell obvioulsy just by looking at me I was upset by that.. and Nick did it again only i think the third time Steven(another Emo awsome Steven I call him my little emo boy) was like NICK come here NOww!! And he yelled that down the hall and Nick came down and he was like Yeahh?? and Steven was like butch??? look at the way she dresses! and Nick was like yeahh good point she does dress kinda slutty! oh well Steven didn't like that and punched him in the head and im standing to the side and I was like Steven!! Its okayy dont get in trouble for me.. becuase they got in afight while Stevens yelling SHES NOT A SLUT YOUR JUST JELOSE BECAUSE YOU CANT EVEN TOUCH A GIRL!!! and Im like Stop omfgg stop im like crying in the hallway trying to get them apart and teachers start coming out and Mr.Jones actually stopped the fight and all 3 of us go to the office and were sitting in the Vice Prniciaples office and Nicks in the nurse because of a bloody nose.. and Im like Steven why did you do that??? And he was like Nick had no rigt to call you that. I was liek I know but Steven your probbaly gunna get ISS for this im not worth that.. hes parents are wicked strickt and will kill him! And he hugged me and was like trust me you are.. So i was like ooww I didnt know I maddered that much :D and I hugged his again when Mr.Saunders came in. Hes wicked cool and was oww young love we were like not Best Buds! and hes like Well Nicks going home.. we started laughing and Mr.Saunders was like I wanna hear you side of the story and Il talk to Nick tomarrow. So we explained he called me a slut, and butch and Kevin.. and Mr.Saunders was like it was a good reason, but didnt make it right. Which yeah we understand So Steven got ISS for 5 days.. Nicks probbaly gunna get it for six because of hurassment basicly i think.. and everyone was asking me questions because they heard me screaming and i was like what happen to Kevin? they were like oh and stoped talking to me and I explained things to Adam and stuff about what Steven said and he was like dude Katie if he even said Kevin infornt of me id kick his ass! so I donno why I feel like I need some girl friends.. I have Becky. And she hangs with the guys too and she was like to you think Steven likes you and i was like no its a brotherly love just like Adams and stuff. But like wjhat if I start liking one and they think im a sister or something???? Im a girl...
Ahh please help me why i feel this way and Why I dont wanna go to school tomarrow... I like that they feel they should defend me but I can take care of myself. Im not some defensless girl. Im there friend not a sister not a girlfriend.. what should I do???!
I think you should tell them you are really happy they care but you really don't want them to fight your battles and get in trouble. Tell them that you feel horrible when they get in trouble for you and you feel bad. As for the other girls calling you boy names you can either 1) Ignore and annoy or 2) fight back. Ignore and annoy means ignore them but in a nice way. Act like your totally happy with it. If they call you a guy name just act normal. Or you could ignore them and say "Who are you trying to talk to? Maybe I can get there attention for you" or something. Act sweet about it and it will anger them so much! 2) means you can remark things like "Too bad guys think your to _____ to hang out with you." Or "You just wish you had as many guy friends as i do" stuff like that. Sorry this is kinda late but i hope i helpex! :D
AQnd if you like one of them and suspect the same thing tell him and ask him back or have a friend ask, ect then give it a try! If you have any more questions just leave me a note! :)
Hi! You answered my question about the virtual horse game, sarabella. you said that we had to buy card games to play it. where exactly can i buy those cards? and how?
thank you so much!
They are all over the place! Toys R Us has them and I'm sure Walmart and i think Target sell them too. They're getting really popular so look around in stores and you might find some! And im really sorry its bellasara not sarah belle. Bellasarah.com It is really cool! They are all these different types of horses you can get and items. Sme are rare of special and once you log on your horse you can feed it, water it, brush it, and decorate it. There are other games too like a racing game, ect. I hope your little sis has fun! :D
I saw this commercial a few hours ago, and it was advertising a website that was for little children that would let them take care of their own virtual horse and make friends. My little sister LOVES horses, but I cant remember the site name. I tried google, but I couldnt find anything. The commercial is a cartoon and this girl finds a horse and she rided off on the horse on these hills into a forrest. All answers will do. My sister and I would really appreciate it. Thanks for your help!!
It's called SaraBella and it is a really awesome site! M sisters both have accounts. You have to buy collectable cards (like $3) and then sign in with the included password and stuff. If you have more questions just leave me a note! And i love feedback!!!
hi im a 13 year old girl whos a size 14 and even sometimes a 16 in some shops. Im 5foot 7inches tall am i fat ? my friends say coz im tall its ok but i still feel fat? Also would somebody my sizy look silly in above the knee skirts and what would you say is the average/best size for a girl my age .
if you think i am fat dont say im not to make me feel good as loooaaaaddddsss of people seem to do
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Hi! Ok, Im not gonna lie. I think you are kinda fat. Im not sure how much you weigh but it does sound like you are a bit heavier. Im 13 and I wear a size 2/4 My old clothes are 4's because my mom doesn't want tme to out grow them but i can still fit my 2's clothes really well. Now I am on the skinnier side so don't think im an average because im not. Of my bffs i weigh the least. A lot of my friends (most of them) weigh at least a little above me. some only by a couple pounds a couple by like 10 or a little more. But also im only 5'3 and i weigh 113. I am trying to lose weight and tone my body and I suggest you do the same. You can make your body look like whatever you want it to look like. Right now im working on mostly flattening my belly and getting rid of the fat on my hips. These are my problem areas. lol plus my thighs. And i lift a little weight to improve my arm muscles. Running is a really good way to excersice. It helps with so many different things. If you have any more questions just send me an note in my inbox! :D ♥♥♥
I am choosing between two outfits for the first day of 8th grade. I want to look mature in my outfit yet fun. One thing i'm not sure about in these outfits though is the miniskirts. I want to give a good first impression to my teachers, and not give the new kids and younger kids the impression that I dress slutty.Do you think they are too short? I can't wear shorts because all my shorts are old and too ratty to wear that day. Oh by the way, you can't see the shoes so in both i'm wearing gold metallic flats. Also, how should I wear my hair?
1. http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=5412now...
2. http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=4t77i4x...
Hey! I like the 1st one because i think the 2nd should be worn with jeans or capris. The 2nd 1 isn't TOO short but i wouldn't for the first day of schoo. And the other one is short but not horrible. Probably looks better with leggings tho anyway.
thanks alot on the last question. my health teacher told us to exercise 60 mins a day but i don't know what kind of exercises to do. and i defintly don't know anything about healthy foods. Advice?
Ok, with excersising-running is great for just about every part of your body so if you can try to do this at least a couple times a week. I lay on my back and move my legs like im biking and that helps abs and legs.For arms do a handstand against a wall and lift 1 arm and then the other. Repeat as much as you can do. Your goal is 20 on each arm. (40 in total) To destress i stretch and to breathing excersises just to help my overall health. Try these excersises and if you need more you can always ask! :D Now healthy food. Just eat food that is low in sugar and fat. And not too many calories either. If you eat more calories than you burn you won't lose weight. Most healthy food is low in calories though. Try eating some wheat foods like bread and pasta. Fruits and veggies whether they are organic or not are very good for you especially the colorful ones. Something i LOVE to do for a sweet treat is mix up some yogurt, fruit, milk, and ice in a blender and make my own smoothie-YUM!!! Yogurt is another thing i like to eat that's naturally sweet. If you like dark chocolate too you can eat that if your really craving because its good for your hear. (but not losing weight-sry) My mom buys lots of organic food but it is more expensive. you dont neccessarily have to buy organic to eat healthy. popcorn is a good snack and 1 of my personal favorite as well as Quaker mini rice cakes. i know they sound boring and tastless but they have a cheddar cheese flavor that im obsessed with. Try it! If you have more questions im here and ready with an answer! :D Good Luck!
ok i am 5'5" and weigh 225lbs. all my friends don't believe i weigh that much but i do...i want to lose weight and people told me how to eat healtheir but i can't...i think i'm addicted to food...any advice for me to overcome the addiction...HELP
Hi! I know how you feel. I'm not overweight (actually pretty skinny) but I want to make my body look GREAT! I have some areas i can't stand aka thighs, hips and belly. I was addicted to chocolate. I usually don't gain weight even when I eat junk food because I have a high matabolism but the addiction was horrible. My mom buys organic and all natural food and stuff which I love but I always wanted chocolate. Sinch she didn't really buy any I would always be buying candy bars and stuff. First of all it drains my mone haha but it sucks when you really want it and can't. Once I realized I was addicted I just said ok, 2 weeks no chocolate except for special occasions. But no buying chocolate and no eating chocolate whatever for desserts, ect. At first it was hard but then i just didnt care. Now i sill eat and lve chocolate but i dont crave it anymore. Try to go 2 weeks without eating junk food except special occasions but not just for snacking or whatever and if you need to extend it another week or whatever. Soon your body will adapt to not eating it and you will feel so much better! If you have further questions about health food and stuff send me a note in my inbox because I know tons about healthy and natural food. Also I do excersises weekly and sit-ups everyday to try and tone my body. :D (And please rate me!)
in those one bathroom bathrooms, what do you say when youre in there and someone knocks on the door?
I just say Hi! I'm not sure why, but I'm a really upbeat persona and I'm young so I just say hi or hello. I just let's people know your there. Usually they will just go back to there seat or whatever until you leave or if they wait that's fine too. Don't be embarrassed! It happens to everyone-all the time. And most likely the other person is more embarrassed. Or you can say Just a mintue if you want. The reason I like Hi is because it's not embarrassing. I know that sounds wierd but it makes it so it's not awkward because your not sounding like your embarrassed or that they're intruding. Going to the bathroom is just something you do and everyone does. No big deal. So your just acknowledging their prescence and their finding out yours. Do what you feel comfortable with and you think sounds right. If you're at a certain place more classy or with more mature people (like if your a teenager in a nice office for an interview or something) you might want to say something different. Like what the other people are saying. Occupied is good. It's kind of like my hi. That's what i do. I mean say something besides hi. Sorry this is so long and it's really funny because it's such a short question that aquires a short answer but I don't have anything better to do. lol :D
alright so heres the situation.
im 15/f and pretty sure im pregnant.
i havent told anyone yet except my ex boyfriend.(we broke up a couple weeks ago)
if i keep the baby, people will think of me as a slut and whore and my relatives would probably not be supportive at all, but if i got an abortion i might feel guilty and i might regret it later in life.. but im 15 my ex boyfriends almost 18..but hes really calm about it and we would probably get back together if we decided to have it.. but i really dont know. but anyways i want to know other peoples view on abortion.
Ok, i don't want you to think im another 1 of those people who go all "abortion is horrible, blah, blah, blah" but think of it this way, your baby could grow up to be an amazing person! There are tons of great places to call and see that help young mothers and it will be hard but being a mother is amazing! If you abort the child i think you will never forget and regret it. You are taking away the life of a innocent baby who, no matter what, will always love you. Think not just about the problems but of the joy. You can give the baby up for adoption and if you want stay connected with your child while he/she lives with the other family and later have more kids. But please don't kill the baby because that baby could grow up to do so much!A doctor or lawyer, scientist! Or even just a wife/husband with a family of their own 1 day! 1 of my really good friend's mother got pregnant when she was 16 but they have a great relationship and love each other very much! She had to live with her grandparents for a while because her mom and dad never married but she is very happy with her life and i can't imagine what it would be like is she was aborted! Please tell us what you decided!!! :D If you have any other question leave me a message in my inbox!
And you should really check out this site: www.pregnancycenters.org it has info about pregnancy and abortion and has a phone line for 24/7 and a place that finds the closest place that helps women you are pregnant and stuff! Please tell me what happens!!! :D
I might start dating this guy I like him a lot but he's a virgin and he doesn't want to have sex until he loves a girl. That's good and all but I've never had sex with a virgin.. like does he know what to do lol i don't want it to be awkward. And how am i going to wait until he loves me to have sex with him i dont think i can do that lol.
Well, you had your first too sometime! Im sorry but your being really unsensitive and really I think it's sad you want to have sex 1st before your married or even have a serious relationship, 2nd that you have before, 3rd you don't love him 4th you think down on him for not going and having sex with however he's with one night (short version-doing the RIGHT thing) and 5th you DONT want to wait until he loves you to have sex with him! Sex is special and intimate and you are just trashing it! If you didn't have sex in the first place you wouldn't be wanting to go around all over the place and do it!
On a nice note (if i can-im really trying) just tell him you understand (because you should!) or are trying to and start a relationship. You guys may end up loving each other and then you can have your sex you want so much (ok not nice but i had too say it) and maybe you 2 will end up happily ever after! or you can find some other boy todo it with who doesn't care about respecting himself...
I'm sorry but i DO NOT like your feedback! I don't really care about your number, but I can write whatever i want! Thank you very much! My personal opinion is what I said. I don't necessarily think down on people who have sex with people who they care about, but just wanting to have sex without wanting to love, or even have a relationship with is just sad. (I mean like depressing sad not pathetic sad) You should be sympathetic and be happy he wants to wait for someone he loves and definitely start a relationship before you guys have sex.
Ok well I was trying to flirt with this one kid like mad status. I later told him that I liked him, he likes me to but we aren't going out. When I told him i liked him i was like did you think i was flirting with you before that? And he said no so how can i flirt so he knows that im flirting with him?
Well if you giggle a lot(not like overly! but don't act like your bored smile and act like you care about what he has to say) and just make a point of talking to him. Whe he looks at you or in your direction catch his eye and smile. I fit comes up somehow hin to him you still like him or what to go out or whatever and if your friends (boys and girls) decided to go out invite him! Hope i helped!!! :D
If you read my previous question, you'll have some background on my boyfriend. Well now I have a specific situation and need advice. Tomorrow we're supposed to go to an amusement park with some other couples, and I'm the only one who can drive us all. So tonight about midnight, my boyfriend calls and says he doesn't think he's gonna go. Even though his parents said he could, he doesn't want to put that burden on his family, because it's so expensive. And then he goes on and on about how hard his life is, and he can never do anything (which is totally untrue).
So anyway, he said (very sadly) that I could go ahead and go without him if I wanted... or I could stay home and hang out with him. Of course I don't want to go without him cuz I'd be the only person there without a gf/bf. But since I'm the only one who can drive, if I don't go, then no one else can go, and he knows that.
Now, I'm pretty sure he has every intention of going, and he's just saying this to test me and see what I'd do. Will I go have fun while my poor boyfriend sits home alone? Or will I cancel the plans and ruin everyone else's fun, possibly making them mad at me, so I can stand by my wonderful, self-sacrificing boyfriend? arrrghh! I hate having him manipulate me like this. But I also don't want to look like a selfish jerk. What should I tell him?
Ok I helped you previously so now I will help you with this! He is definitely just trying to get attention. He wants you to show how ,much you like him and care about him. He's probably just feeling unnapreciated. This does NOT give him permission though to act like some big baby. Tell him you care about him, and it's too bad you won't go because you know he would have a good time, but you are going no matter what and whatever he decides he decides. And I really think you ought to reconsider this relationship if he acts like this! He acts like a baby and you shouldn't have to deal with his games! Tell him your tired of him doing this (explain) and that unless he decides to cut it out you don't want to have this sort (or close or whatever) of relationship with him!
how is cheese mold?
or thats what i heard.
(: me and my random questions . ahha.
haha its bugging me so i had to ask it.
thank you! mucho appreciated. :D
Cheese is a kind of mold. They make it from milk and stuff and then chill it for a while sometimes years and then you have cheese. I don't know that much about it, but it is mold. And yet it can get moldy itself...lol haha :P. Hope i helped w/your random question! :D
Ok, I love my boyfriend to death, but there's one thing that really drives me crazy. Every so often he gets on this big self-pity kick, whining about how hard his life is. How his dad is never home because of his job... how his mom can never do things for him because she has to work so hard to run the family... how his parents can't afford to buy him things... how school is so difficult for him and he has to try sooo hard... wah, wah, wah! Yes, I know his life isn't perfect, but whose is? And trust me, he's NOT that bad off.
I try to be really sweet and sympathetic when he gets like this, because I know he just wants sympathy. But then he brings me into it and tries to make me feel guilty. He'll say I can't possibly understand how he feels, because MY dad is always home; MY mom does everything for me; MY parents buy me whatever I want; MY grades are good because I'm so much smarter than him. And then he'll get mad at me for some random thing and we'll end up in a big fight.
I hate this! I really do love him, because besides this problem, he's really an awesome boyfriend. But this is so irritating and stressful. I know I can't change him... so how should I handle it when he gets like this?
Have you talked to him about it? Tell him even if you may not be able to understand you want him to know you're there for him, but also that he should be very grateful for all he has. And he has you so what more does he want! :P lol Bring up a situation like all the more dying children in Africa or something and tell him he's lucky and your sorry but sometimes you just don't want to be dragged down. Being happy isn't a feeling it's a lifestyle (I read that somewhere...) And tell him you care about him so much and don't want to fight with him because of how upset and stressed it makes you feel. Hope I helped!!! :D
I have been dating my boyfriend for a year. Recently we have been hanging out with this guy and I really like him a lot... i found out he likes me too. My boyfriend doesn't know that I have stayed up all night talking to him like hours and hours. I just really like him i can talk to him for forever we have a lot in common. I love my boyfriend and I dont want to hurt him or break up with him for this other guy but at the same time i want to. My bf hasnt been the best boyfriend but whatever. Like my bf tried to have sex with me or kiss me and i'm just completely turned off and i dont want to. Idk why what do you think?
I think you should break it off with your bf and try it out with that other guy! A guy shouldn't try to make you do something or feel like you have to. And if their isn't much chemistry between you two i think the other guy is the best bet! Just try it and I think everything will work out! :D Hope I helped!
Ohkay so like an hour ago i ate some bread. And the bread seemed okay. and i look at the slice on the bottom and it was covered with mold!! And guess what, im not feeling good. What do i do!!I realllyy dont want to throw up. I feel like i am . Does anyone know how to make my stomach feel better!
please answer as soon as possable.
much appreciated.
Actually mold can't make you sick unless there is harmful bacteria in it. Most likely it's just because you are mentally freaking urself out. I do it sumtimes-everyone does. it can be about a lot of different things to like fears (im saying this because i don't want you to think I'm saying your crazy! haha) Trust me you won't throw up! Or if you do it's not the bread. Sorry if this is late!
i'm so confused. in all of the credits of high school musical 2 and when they list the actors they always list Matthew Miles Carter as Trevor Bolton.
who is he? i don't remember troy having a brother in the movie?
Ok, idk, but honestly (i swear im not trying to be a jerk) but who really reads credits? and maybe they just messed up? dont worry about it! The movie was definitey GREAT!!! so credits don't matter! just watch Troy! and im pretty sure they messed up or maybe the Bolton was the name of an actor? sorry im not all that helpful! :D
okay well i think i like this guy, but at the smae time i hate him :P its really confusing. we went out like three times, but my parents don't like him& don't want me to date him because they heard what he did with one of his girlfriends and i think it was a bit much considering he was only 12 when that occured. and they said that if i do date him i can't spend anytime with him. but anyways, i'm always hoping he will be wherever i am, like hoping to run into him also, when i am with him its kind of akward but at the same time we kind of flirt.. like everyone says i act like i like him but i don't know. it's just kind of confusing but it's been like 3 months since we last went out and i still lik have an urge to be with him, but not date him.. err idk. like i was sleeping over at my friends house for her birthday and like i was just laying there because everyone had already fallen asleep and i kept like wishing he ws there and like i know this sounds weird but i just wanted to like cuddle with him.... like idk when we were going out i felt like really safe when he had his arm(s) around me.
sorry if it's long, confusing and doesn't make sense.
hey! I know this is really random but how old r you? or generally and is he older than you and by how much? please answer because it affects how i respond. And has he dated other girls in between the time you guys were dating and how long were you guys dating for. Like all this occured during 6 months, 1 year, 2 years, ect. Just tell me what you feel comfortable with when it comes to your age too. And how did you break up with him? like did you tell him why you couldn't date him? Just put your answers under extra info.
And does he have any other love interests? Even mildly? Because if he does I dont think you should tell him how you feel. I think you should just find another boy! There are tons of great boys out there!!!
Ok, well I really storngly suggest you leave him because if he is doing stuff like this then you can find A MUCH better boy who cares about you and respects women! You should tell him what you think and tell him you can't respect him when he does that! Please find another guy that is worth you! I know you can you just have to wait a little bit and do a little searching! The reason i wanted to know about you is because my friend had the same problem with you only the guy isn't that perverted. He changed his ways and is one of the best guys i know!!! Good Luck! And don't feel discouraged because there are amazing boys out there! And they're just waiting for you! :D