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okay i dont why but i feel like i have a lot of water in my body and i feel bloated. my eyes are like puffy
my friend tells me to pee it out, but i cant lol should i like walk or something? (link)
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You're probably just PMSing. Blotation is a common symptom that sometimes comes with it.
I get that often- and I've found that the next time I pooped it was gone and I felt better.
You could also try sweating a lot- like go for a run or something.
i hope i helped
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(this isn't really a question im describing my problem. yes it is long but if you have the time just read it...please.)
Im 14 years old
medium curley light brown hair(yeees i straighten it. like the usual girl lol) :)
hazel green eyes
olive skin
and im 5'3
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i'v never had a boyfriend, a first kiss or a relationship.
through 6th to 8th grade about 15 to 20 people asked me out. none of them have i ever thougth more than friends. in 7th grade a guy i really liked told me he would never go out with me and never like me that threw me back down in my self-esteem. im in 9th grade now and i consider myself ugly and fat. my friends say im so pretty and beautiful but i cant believe it no one special to me has ever said that to me and it's like im in a ball full of dissapointment and shame and fear, ya know? now i like this guy he's cute, nice, funny, weird, the only thing i dont like is he does drugs at 15(but thats not gonna set aside my feelings for the rest of his personality) black hair blue eyes and we used to talk alot in the beggining of the year but later he cam to a point were he thinks i hate him. every now and then we talk and give hugs but i want to get closer to him i just dont have the courage to do anything. he used to give me hugs and pick me up while doing that. but im so self-concious and have a low self-esteem that i asked him not to pick me up anymore. ya know why? everytime he did i thought he was thinking "wow shes so much heavier than all the other girls i've picked up" everyone always says i look depressed alot of the time and my usual answer to them is im not really im happy.
but i need to tell them that i really am unhappy all the time
i want someone that hugs me everyday to kiss wen i go to school
to talk to when i'm having a bad day.
i know im only 14 and dont need to worry about these things but i do. i dont have anyone to talk to, maybe that one friend that i can always talk to but when i do i feel like im talking about myself to much and that makes me even more sad so i hold everything in and pretend im happy. please help me
you dont even have to give me advice just read it.
thank you :)
i appreciate it :) (link)
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I'm the same age as you- and I am in the EXACT SAME SITUATION.
Well, I think your problem is that you didn't accept the dates that people asked you on when you were younger.
It could be that, or you just haven't met the right person.
I'm sure you're as beautiful as they say you are. People cannot usually recognize their own beauty. So you're not unusual. :D
Find something that makes you happy, that isn't a boy. I'd recommend taking dance classes or auditioning for a school play/musical. Take voice lessons or piano lessons or something.
Your problem with depression could be linked to a lack of endorphins (chemicals that make you feel good that are released through exercise). So if you don't already, start and maintain a good exercise program. You'd be surprised how much better you feel after just one workout.
i hope i helped- and let me know how everything works out.
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Is it really true that people can read your AIM conversations? Because one of my friends told me she was reading mine once but she didn't know how, and then my other friend who doesn't even know my friend (so they couldn't be like pranking me or anything) said that it was possible but she didn't know how. What scares me the most was that I was talking about how my crush had to get off, and he didn't and I said to my friend, "he isn't getting off...omg" He does this sometimes but doesn't say anything..well when I said that to my friend, a few seconds later he IMed me saying he didn't lie and that he'd be getting off... so is this really true that people can read your convos? Is there ANY way to prevent it?! (link)
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it's true that some highly skilled hackers and internet predators can read anything you write on aim. BUT- regular people, such as your friends, can't do this. it's just not possible.
so you can go to www.aimencrypt.com and download that feature to prevent the bad people from reading your convos.
but if you don't want to do that- just be CERTAIN that you don't send any personal information over aim or email or anything, such as a last name, phone number, or address.
but i would really recommend downloading the aim encryption. (it explains it all on the site)
hope i helped :D
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does anyone no how to get rid of 'love handles' (link)
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if you're anorexic you probably don't ACTUALLY have them, but if you're overweight the only way to get rid of them is to reduce your total body fat content- by dieting and exercising.
if you're thin and you just want to firm the area up you can jut do some side exercises. look that up on google.
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i submitted this question once already but it like didn't go through so i fixed it up a bit..
alright well..
one of my friends has very strict parents. so they were looking at her search history and found her myspace. they also found mine.
i'm not aloud to have a myspace. my parents made it very clear that if i had one, i'd be in deep trouble. i wouldnt be allowed on the computer for a long time and when i am allowed to my parents would watch my every move. so on AIM, i cant talk to anyone about private stuff.
i deleted my account already but i dont know what to do. my friends dad said hes going to tell my parents. her dad is going to say he saw it a few days ago so there's no hiding that i actually did have one.
i really don't know what to do. i don't want to get in trouble and loose my computer rights. last resort would be to come clean but i don't want to have to do that. i need to get out of this situation. i really need help, and FAST!! please, does anyone have any advice?
thank you sooooooooooooooo much. you dont know how incredibly bad i need advice. (link)
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Your parents don't know what they're doing- letting you go online without an internet filtering system.
It's stupid and pointless for them to say "okay never do myspace" because you can just go on myspace when they aren't looking.
They're not too smart, to be honest.
as to your problem, well, you could change everything about it to some random name like "Munjaba Huniket" and put some picture of an old man on there and be like "20394320 years old" and make the layout something really stupid like fishing-themed and say in the about me like "Hello i'm munjaba and i like to fish in my spare time."
then insist you never had one and ur friend's dad was mistaken.
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how long do you give a handjob? (link)
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until he cums, usually
unless you're using it as foreplay.
then you only do it for a little while to get him really horny.
if you're young i hope you're not thinking of doing that any time soon.
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okay so before every lacrosse practice, i get really really nervous. and these practices aren't death or anything..i mean some of them are hard, but it's only sprints. i get really nervous that we're gonna have a really hard practice and that i'm not gonna be able to make it through, and i have this constant nervous pit in my stomach. any way to control this? (link)
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i get the same thing before every dance class that I go to.
you might be on too much caffeine.
that can put your nerves "on edge".
i can't seem to figure out why i get this still, but i can control it by inhaling and exhaling deeply several times. slowly.
hope i helped
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im 14, female and i need a job so i can help pay for some off my own stuff but most places want you 15 or 16, you know?
so what can i do?
i live in southerin indiana and i love taking pictures, not very athletic, & i love writing.
PLEASE help. (link)
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work at chik-fil-a as a cashier.
they'll hire any 14-yr-old and it's a good business.
call a local chik fil a and ask them if they're hiring, and ask them about getting an interview for yourself.
hope i helped
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Well, I am in health right now and we are starting to study teen depression and all and bi-polar disease and Im really starting to think I have it because I thought it was what everyone was thinking and feeling but now that I hear the descriptions and all it really sounds like me how do I tell my mom that I think I am depressed? Also how do I treat it without going to a doctor because we do not have much money. Or are there any ways I can treat it without telling my mom? Thanks! (link)
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i have depression too, and well, studies show that working out is just as effective over time for treating depression than taking anti depressants.
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Thirteen, almost Fourteen.
110 Pounds.
About 4' 10'
My stomach almost makes me look pregnate when I'm not sucking it in, which is weird, because I used to do 100 curlups a night. I've got a four pack if I suck my stomach in, but I always feel fat and disgusting.
Is this normal? How should I adjust my weight? (should I gain, lose, or maintain?) (link)
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you aren't overweight. so just don't gain weight and be thankful that you're not a fatass like I am.
5'2" and 164 lbs (started at 180).
and don't feel fat.
because you're not.
you could be one of those kids who is liek 20000 pounds. look at some pics of fat people.
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OK, well I have a really bad wind problem. I am a vegetarian and my main staple foods are things such as pasta, bread, cheese, most vegetables but not really beans or peas. I don't just break wind at certain times, its all the time. I try to hold it in but eventually I just have to let it go. It's really embarassing in public and I don't know how to stop it.
Does anyone know any foodstuffs that may help or anything that I should cut out of my diet. Please only answer if you're sure of your information, and if possible give web references so I can check as I don't want it to get worse. (link)
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you could try beano... but i know that vegetables cause an increase in gas.
beano should help.
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I get sick more than most people. When I went to the doctor the other day & we were talking about how many days I miss of school a year on average & I told him, all he had to say was, "Wow .. are you serious?" You wanna know how many days I miss? Sometimes it even gets up to 25! My mom says there's no way I can get in gifted & keep up with my school work since they give you more work the higher the grade you're in, so I'm starting to get worried. No one else in my family gets sick like me. I mean, I take all of those multi-vitamins & things for your immune system daily! I hardley eat any candy & over all, I eat pretty healthy. I had my tonsils out though, but it's not helping too much. Is there a reason that I continue getting sick all the time? What is wrong with me? (link)
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I actually have the exact same problem- I'm on my fourth illness this season (in a row).
One thing could be: do you go to bed at night with wet hair?
It might just be the temperature that's weakening your immune system.
Maybe you don't eat enough and you're an anorexic little twig... maybe you're not.
you might want to see a different doctor about this issue.
i hope i helped and i hope you feel better soon.
..I know I won't.
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so... i have a dance next week; a formal one. and i have date.
and i wanna stand out, or look really pretty.
This is my usual self: i have gray eyes and i wear eyeliner and mascara everyday. straightish wavyish brown hair that i sometimes wear down. and no jewerly most of the time, but i have a my ears double pierced.
my dress is pinkish orangish.
How can i look pretty? what kind of jewerly/earings? hair? makeup?
im part asian so maybe cat eyes might look good... but i dont know...i dont know how to do it anyway haha
THANKS!
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chances are, if you have a date- you're probably pretty enough already.
It sounds like you already do enough to your appearance to make yourself more attractive. You could do something extra special with your makeup- liek get one of those sparkly foundations. and maybe wear some shimmery eyeshadow to match your dress. you could also add a subtle lip color.
As for your hair- well you could put it in a half ponytail and curl the rest of it.
jewelry- it depends on what looks good with your dress. you don't need that much jewelry though... just a necklace will be fine.
hope i helped.
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So i was wondering, if you GUYS could answer, what turns you on more a girl with a body type like kiera knightley/sasha cohen or a girl with a body type thats maybe 10-20 lbs overweight. I respect everyone's oppinons but i feel self-consciounce because my body type is more of the kiera knightley/sasha cohen type...and i have no confidence from my body cause i feel that people look at me as anorexic, but then when i see girls overweight in a bikini they have all the confidence in the world and i'm kinda of like the wallflower in that type of situation so would you rather date a girl wiht a body type like kiera knightleys/sasha cohens or someone thats like 10-20 lbs overweight and why?? (please don't say someehting like loooks don't matter) this is a situation if you had the choice. thanks (link)
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I know there are guys who appreciate both body types, but you need to focus less on your body and more on who you really are. Maybe those "overweight" girls in bikinis have confidence because they don't obsess over their appearances that much.
You probably feel the way that you do (about people thinking you're anorexic) because you're overly self-conscious about your body. You don't need to do that. When guys look at you they'll see a girl who is critical of herself, which is very unattractive. (being critical of yourself)
The truth of the matter is- you will NEVER be completely satisfied with your body. No one ever can be. There is always something that you will dislike about your body/appearance no matter how much weight you lose/gain. So that's why you need to focus more on your personality and the positive things about your appearance.
I hope I helped- even though this was probably not necessarily the kind of answer you were looking for.
PS: you may want to consider seeing a counselor about your serious lack of self-confidence.
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im like 13 and a half years old and im 5'11'' to about 6' and im 203 pounds. I lost a quick ten pounds lately, but im in fear of gaining it back, and i kind of want to lose maybe 15 or maybe 20 more pounds. I play basketball and I'm to short to ever become a center, the position I play now, in big leagues. So i want to get down to play a small forward position later in high school. So i was wondering if anyone knows a way to lose a quick 15-20 pounds, maybe in like one to two months. Or at most 3-4. In a week I'll be doing some plyometrics after school which is a really hard workout. But any other advice would be great (link)
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I lost 20 pounds in about 6 weeks over the summer by trying to eat like a thin person.
Of course I gained it all back though. in about a week once school started.
just try to eat a lot less so your stomach will shrink and you'll end up wanting less.
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This is extremely embarassing for me to ask.
I am an 18 year old girl from Egypt, but I moved to the USA when I was seven. My parents got me circumcised when I was six. I am worried that no one will want to marry me because I am circumcised, and will think I am gross. I am very worried because when doctors look at me (just check ups, nothing is wrong with me) they gasp, and make a very big deal out of it.
Please any feedback is so appreciated. (link)
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the doctors probably haven't seen it before.
And if you are in love with a guy, chances are, he will love you so much that it won't matter whether or not you're circumcised.
maybe you could get it reversed if it matters so much.
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The movie, "Stomp The Yard" They play a song by Lil' Jon and Ozzy Osbourne sings in it too and some other rappers too. But I just can't seem to find out who the main person who sings it and what the song is called.
-Thanks (link)
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google "stomp the yard soundtrack lyrics"
and see if you can find the lyrics to the song on there.
then it should say who sings it too.
hope i helped.
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I have to perform a dramatic monolouge. I have never done it before although I'm ready to take on the challenge. Please give me tips to stay calm. I sing at my church, so I am use to a big crowd. PLEASE HELP ASAP!! (link)
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find a good monolouge in a monolouge book, memorize it, and then possibly get someone to watch you- like an acting coach in your area if you know of any.
good luck
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what exactly is mocha? is it chocolate flavor or coffee flavor or what? (link)
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whenever the word "mocha" is involved in a flavor of coffee- you can pretty much assume that it has chocolate flavoring in it.
Ex: mocha frappucino, mocha latte, mocha fudge brownies, (all chocolate related)
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How do i tell if i have broken my hymen? (link)
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if you've ever been really active at any point in your life- you might have broken it that way.
There are tons of ways hymens can be broken.
You could see if the tampon goes in easily- or you could hook up with some guy and ruin your life by losing your virginity to some loser.
i wouldn't reccomend the 2nd option.
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