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im in love with tylor mutton
& have been since june 28th 2006
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okay well today on the bus my boyfriend, lets call him tim, well he was like "you can't even see your earrings cuz your hair is like waahhh" we have been going out for a week and a day and then my friend like help up his hand to "pound it" and like a did a hive five so he like pounded the high five i guess you would call it because i am just random like but anyway then tim was like "now thats just retarded" and that kinda made me mad i dont know. and he usually says i love you when we say by on the phone but he didnt today. do u think he is mad at me or was he just playing around on the bus or maybe he had a bad day? i dont know, please help!

thanks in advance!

well did you do anything wrong? if you didn't do anything wrong, then don't worry about it. he could have been mad that you high five/pounded that other guy haha i don't know. but maybe he was just having a bad day.. you guys have only been going out for a week.. so don't get too hung up on it just yet. =] ask him about it! just say, hey you've been acting kind of different lately.. is there anything wrong? and just talk to him. if he says nothings wrong, then take his word for it. =] good luck hun!! ♥

ok there have been rumors that my boyfriend is on drugs an di know the truth...hes not. Whenever im with my friends they wont stop bugging me about him and why im going out with a kid on drugs i tell them hes not but they dont believe him and one of my friends told my mom he was so now she wants me to brake up with him. Is there a way i can prove to my friends and family hes nto on drugs

thanks
amyy

well, i would just have him take a drug test. because that way, you'll know for sure, as will your friends and family. once thats taken care of, if it proves that he's not on drugs [which judging by what you said, it will] find out who started the rumor and get to the bottom of why they started it.. rumors like that are horrible and can ruin ALOT of things for peopleee.

How do you rename a playlist on iTunes?? Thanks!

click on the title of the playlist so its highlighted, and click towards the front of the worddd. the word should then be ready to be changed =] you'll know when it is cause that little "I" that shows up when you're typing will show up and yeah! good luck ♥

my boyfriend does weed.... it pisses me off... i wish he would quit... he tells me that he is going to do it less... weekends and one day on the weekdays.... he does it too much... he hasnt stuck with it... i dont know what to do... should i tell him its either me or that or should i tell him to cut down and if he doesnt im going to have to let him go ? i love him sooo much ... i wanna marry this kid... i just wish he was more addicted to me rather than that... its seems like that is his first priority... i hate it... what should i do? please help..

i think that you should threaten him with your relationship. tell him that if he doesn't make an obvious effort to quit, your taillights. if he doesn't seem phased by it, and thinks you're not serious, prove him wrong and let him go. i know it will hurt if it has to come to that, but think about it; if he picked WEED, instead of you, then who's the loser? i think you get what i'm sayinggg. but i'm sure he'll pick you =] but you have to lay down the law and let him know that you mean business.. good luck hun! let me know how it goes! =] ♥

When you get your period signs (cramps, bloating, cravings etc.) how long does it normally take to actually have your period? like a week? maybe less?

usually i get cramps and all that fun stuff, then i get my period about 1-3 days laterrr. it shouldn't take too long, cause all those wonderful pains [bloating, cramping] are your uterus getting ready to decompose.. so it shouldn't be too long afterr. =] ♥

ok, so i have an interview to work at abercrombie and fitch and they said the interview is going to be a group interview... does anyone know what that means or has gone for an interview at a&f and can tell me what this is.. Thank in advance

i'm pretty sure it means you'll be interviewed along with other people. so basically, you need to try to stand out from the others because they'll deff. be comparing you. wear something that has the abercrombie look, and is a little over the top, but not too much! cause then you'll just look like a weirdo who tried to hard.. just wear what you see the employees wear and you'll be fine =] also, since its a group interview, try not to take any other people's answers, and just make yourself sound really unique! =] good luck hun ♥

14/f

ok so I've had my period for a year now, and i've never used a tampon... is that normal?

another question is what tampons do you suggest for starters? If it helps I play a sport.

And last question- When i wear pads... I always have this feeling that my period is leaking through my jeans in school. But really its not. I don't know how to explain it, but it just feels really weird.
What are some ways to prevent my period from leaking? and What are some ways to make less blood come out, so I feel safer?

thnx, much appriciated

ok first; yes its normal. i didnt use tampons until i was 15, almost 16 =] but thats just because i had a bad experience lol that we won't get into! haha so yeah.. now that i've sucked it up and stopped being such a weenie, i use them whenever i had my pd. PLAYTEX SPORT!!! amazingggg. but you might feel leaky with them, soooo i recommend TAMPAZ PEARL!!! they're equally amazing and have a leak catching braid thing. you should wear a panty liner with them to feel extra safe =] good luckkkkk hun! ♥

ok so i'm not sure if theres something wrong with me or what... because I tend to get sick a lot and I miss school maybe 5 days per quarter. and I miss a lot of things going in my life. The most frequent sickness that i've had was whenever i try to breathe through my mouth or my nose... my throat/chest gets all tickly and then i start to cough. I went to the doctor and she said that my cough sounds dry. I've drinken a lot of fluids, and taken medicine... but nothing seems to work. Its like this- I get sick for about 2 or 3 days, then get better.... then after about 2 weeks I get sick again for 2 or 3 days and then i get better... and it just keeps going on like that.

WHAT IS THIS AND HOW DO I MAKE MYSELF MORE HEALTHY???????????????????????????

ok well i don't know what it is, because i'm just a kidddd and not a doctorrr. BUTTTTTT my boyfriend is a stupid wrestler, and he gets sick alot too lol. but its all because of wrestling, and cause he doesn't eat rightttt. or sleep right lol. so just get yourself on a schedule. an eating and sleeping schedule. eat at the same times, and sleep at the same times. the way you eat and sleep can have ALOTTTT to do with your general health. =] good luck!!!

oh & you should go to an ear nose and throat doctor! cause it sounds like you could have something weird with your sinuses or throat.. so find one near you, and check it out =[ good luck again! ♥

What does it mean to "get dumb"

these 2 black guys keep asking my Spanish teacher if he knows how to "get dumb" if it helps, i live in central california, I know the word hife, hyphy, etc. comes from the bay area, so i dont know if that info helps or not

thax!

it means like to get drunk or crunk or anything like that =] lol

hey there!
ok so i have a big volleyball tournament coming up and i would like some songs that make me feel pumped up! I kinda want songs without words... so here's an example:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vUCK-SrLyX4
towards the end= when Casey tells Teddy "well if the van breaks down or something" and then her friend looks at her weird... after that they arrive at an ice rink... well theres a song playing and it goes like "dun da duuunnn da... yeah!" well do any of you know what that song is called??

if you don't, then maybe you could name some songs that are like that?
THANKS SOOOO MUCH! YOU ARE AMAZING!

well the song "remember the name" by fort minor is a very pumpy upy song lol.. it has words though. but it really makes you feel excited =] and "pour some sugar on me" by def leppard. haha i dont know why but those two songs make me pumpeddddd. mainly the first one thoughhhh. =] also 99 problems by jay-z. just cause it doesssss. dont know exactly why, lol but that songs also makes me feel pumped. good luck at your tourney!! ♥

sometimes when i breathe deeply, i feel this little thing.. it sounds like.. when you have a little bike pump and you push the air into the air a little. its weird.. i can hear it, and i know its coming from me but idk where. is it because sometimes i breathe too deep (the other time it comes. but sometimes i feel like breathing that way.. or i feel kinda uncomfortable. and im not asthmatic either) uhh whats the meaning of this? how do i solve it? thanks.

i think you're wheezing. it usually occurs in people that have asthma, or are sick, or have a breathing problem. don't fret though; because i wheeze sometimes and have found that wheezing is usually cured by a simple clear of the throat. i also get that when i do alot of exercise for a long time.. it's just because your lungs are struggling to get air and they're tired. try googling it! =] good luck ♥

i like this one kid and i havent really talked to him for a while but before we talked alot and i kind of like this other kid but i dont really know if i should like him hes kind of a perv. and like one of my friends what should i do?

ok well you should probably forget the kid whos kind of a perv because he sounds weird and he likes your friend.. so forget himmm. and you didn't really give me much information about the first kid, just that you don't really talk to him.. so i don't really know what to tell you. since you asked me what you should do, i'll just answer that question; don't do anything. just keep your eyes open, and follow your heart. and if it feels right, it probably is. so just go for anything that feels right to you ♥ good luckkkk

okay, see i have just started my period so i have no breasts. Prom is in 3 months and i want a really cute dress. but one problem, i have no boobs! i have a water bra, so people think that i do. would they have grown by then? or what can i do to make them look bigger?

well they might grow a little by then, but probably nothing signifigant. your best bet is probably just to choose a dress that will excentuate your better features, and possible make yours boobs look bigger lol.. since that's obviously your goal. but it really doesn't matter.. people only worry about having fun at prom, and no one will notice if you're flatchested.. don't worry about it. just have fun! it's PROM!!! ♥ good luck thoughhhh

so valentines is next week, and by then me and this boy will have been going out for 3 weeks. and, our relationship isnt that serious. we just kinda hang out, we don't act like we're dating. so, should i get him a special gift? and if i do what should i get him? what do guys like on valentines?.. thanks. =]

just get him something cheesy lol. like a teddy bear, or a box of chocolates or something lol. or maybe just a nice t-shirt? anything that you think would interest him ♥

At school, I am always struggling to make friends. I go over and talk to people but they always walk off. I try to get their attention, like make random jokes, and give my class a laugh every-so-often. I am pretty outgoing, and I am never shy or mean around people. I love people. But at school, people treat me like I am invisible. I always have to sit by myself at lunch, and it's been so hard teachers tried to get me hooked up with new friends but of course that never lasts. On myspace I used to have like 200 friends (and yes, I knew them all), but now I am down to 80. It slowly went down through the months. I am always trying so hard to befriend people, but nobody ever thinks about walking over to me, and talking to me. I try making conversations, but like I said, they walk off and ignore me. What can I do?

And yes I asked if they are mad at me, but they said no. They always tell me that we're good friends, but later on they totally ignore me no matter how hard I try talking to them.

I hope I didn't confuse anybody or not make any sense (I'm trying to explain the situation as best I can) but please help out if you can. I would really appreciate it! Thanks so much.

it sounds like you're doing everything right, just keep on being friendly. join some clubs, or sports activities at your school. ORRRR, you should have a party!!! just throw a random party.. at your house, at a local community center, or just anywhere! make it fun! have music, food, people, and everyone will start to notice you more. ♥ good luck hun! IM me if you want someone to talk to =] i'll be your friend lol [onexlove09]

what is lube?

its lotion like stuff that people usually use during sex.. its to make things 'slide' and not be dry. its a short term for 'lubricant' and the most famous, well known brand is KY jelly.

For the past two weeks, I've woken up with extremely dry eyes. It makes me feel more tired and makes me want to close my eyes. I've tried putting saline solution in but it burns and stings (I can't even put my contacts in anymore). I can't really afford to go to the doctor for something this little. Does anyone know of anything that will help?

i think you should just wash your eyes out reallllyy good with water and try getting some new salene.. RENU works really good for dry eyes. also get some eye drops for hydration. if you're in school, go to the nurse! my dad always tells me to keep my contact lids CLOSED, and my salene bottles CLOSED. and i never listened to him.. and eventually, i got a relly bad eye infection, similar to pink eye. so ALWAYS CLOSE YOUR LIDS. =] but for now, just clean your eyes with cold water, pat dry with a soft washcloth or towel, and relax them. good luckk ♥

what does it mean if his penis is or gets unerected.

boner went bye byee

last summer, i broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months. i thought i was over him, but this year all the feelings that i thought were gone, came back to me. i get really jealous when he's with other girls, and i think about him all the time. do i still love him? what should i do?

well like i said in the previous question i answered, its normal to miss someone that you've been close to. and seeing him with other girls is probably just making you jealous because thats who you used to be.. you should try to figure out if you like him again.. and if you do, talk to him about maybe getting back together or see is hes feeling the same way. if you're not sure, than you most likely don't have feelings for him anymore. you should just keep yours eyes peeled for a new guy ♥ cause chances are, he gets jealous when he sees you with other guys too.. good luck hunnnn

you see, i just broke up with my boyfriend because i like this other kid, or at least i think i do. but all i think about now is him. day and night. i miss him, alot. does that mean i still love him?

well i'm not exactly sure.. if you broke up with him for another guy, then you probably didn't feel too strongly for him. but now since you always think about him, i'm beginning to think that you did have strong feelings for him. so i can't really tell by the information provided.. but it's obvious that you miss him.. did you hang out with him alot? because if you did, then its normal to miss someone that you hung out with alot.. just because you saw them allll the time, you know? so idk.. i think that you should talk to him about it and maybe see if he wants to get back together.. cause it definitely seems like you still like him.. i dont think you love him.. cause you wouldn't have broken up with him if you did.. but whos this other guy you dumped your ex bf for? i think you should forget him, and talk to your ex. good luck hun ♥

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