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look, theres this guy and i mean ive liked him a very long time and he really means a lot to me...i try to stop liking him because i know he messes around w/ these other girls that i dont like...that NO1 likes...but everytime im around him he puts me in this trap and like trys to find a way to hold my hand and stuff and its sweet...what does it mean? i mean we've discussed our liking each other b4 and he f'd things up last time so i told him to f off......but i know now that i really like him...again...and i dont know what to do...please help...

just simply tell him how you feel.

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what does the phrase.."skinning them alive" mean?

"im going to skin them alive" usually means that whoever is saying it, is very mad at whoever theyre saying it about. it means that person is in big trouble.

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ok, i have a boyfriend but he isnt the hottest thing in the world. a few people think he is kind of hot, though. anyway, i have this one guy friend that likes me, and always makes fun of the way my bf looks. he is friends with my brother and myself, and lives next door so is at mh house 24/7 and plans on making trouble whenever my bf comes over. it's very annoying. any help?

also, a few other girls i am friends with next door want to meet him and i know they will not be the nicest about his looks probably. i'm shallow, and i know i shouldnt care, but any advice? thank u very much. goodbye.

who cares what anyone else thinks of your bf? if you love him that should be all that matters. if you dont take up for him and defend him and above all else just simply love him for him, then you just shouldnt be together anyway and you need to break it off. i hope you come to realize it doesnt matter what anyone else in the entire world thinks..because who does it count for in the end?

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Hey guys!! Okay I have a really confusing conflict! I am going out with this guy and I like him a lot and he is a great kisser! but I just found out he cheated on me. and he is the kinda guy that doesnt seem like he cares so I dont know if he cares about me. ok I like his friend, we have talked a lot and I know he cares and I know he wouldnt cheat on me....I dont know if I want to break up with My boyfriend and go out with his friend or if I should stay with my boyfriend and see how things go?! PLEASE HELP!! I need all the help I can get!!

you dont need someone who doesnt want you.

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ok there is this guy on myspace thats wants me to hang out with him. i don't know if i should. i know my mother wouldn't agree with it, so what should i do?? is it good to meet someone from online??

it might not be such a good idea because as youve been told, he could be anybody. he could be totally fake. if you wanted to meet him id say do it somewhere with a friend where theres a lot of people, like maybe a mall? id suppose it could still be very dangerous, and then what would you do if it turned out not to be him. maybe you really should discuss it with your mother, maybe wait a little longer.

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I've been with my girlfriend for over 18 months. I'm 19 and female and i just transfered schools. She's 18 and is just going in to college. We're only going to be about an hour apart, but for some reason she thinks she's going to get her heart broken. I keep telling her that we will have to work together to make it work, but for some reason she doesn't think so. Is it possible that she wants out? Can our relationship survive while we're in college?

ahh it sounds like maybe she wants out and just doesnt know how to say it. like you suggested it will take work but college is a big step. i dont know if you two are bisexual or all the way, but that is something that will turn guys on in a heartbeat, and also theres a lot more diverse people in college for her to meet. maybe shes trying to keep her options open?

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My boyfriend is 16 and he has a anger/authority problem. His name is John. He has been to the jdc 5 times and boot camp 3 times. I was just wondering if you think that will eventually cause a problem in our relationship or if it could cause him to get violent with me?

14/f P.S. we have been together almost 2 months now.

yall are 14? just put his ass in time out or something, whatever it is you do with little kids.

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ok so here it is.....
i really like this guy and i have known him for about a year know. He likes one of my friends and he always tells me how much he likes her. I dont know what i should do. Should i give up and move on or stick in there and hold on to him??
please help me
Thankx*

you dont need him

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i want to stop watching porn what should i do?

cut off your penis

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Why should people become Christains? Like what iss the purpose in it?

a friends response:
"why should someone become buddhist catholic or jewish? what you shouldnt do it for is other people but thats also a reason not to outright reject it. dont look to most christians to find the good in christianity because you will rarely find it. its easiest to find hypocricie in people that claim to be perfect followers of god. but if there was ever one reason to become a christian it is that regardless of the people that take the title of a christian, the best parts are the basic tennants given by christ. love others more than yourself. the best advice is to disregard christs 'followers' and look at the words of christ himself. go by that. the followers are usually hypocrirites but thats only because they cant live up to such a high standard of love. ignore the actions of other christians and focus more on the message. regardless of his followers no one can deny that christ himself was a good guy. if shes interested she should forgo the dogmas of mainstream christianity and just take a look at christs own words. if shes looking for religion id also suggest looking at buddhism. combine the ten commandments with the eightfold path and you have directed love for yourself others and god."

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Does anyone know the lyrics to the Andy Milakonis theme song? They're hilarous.

Mila Kunis?

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ok theres another guy i like named drew and he also nos i like him but all my 8th grade friends say since hes popular hes like all the other popular guys.... HE WANTS A PEICE OF UR ASS ((thats what my friends say)) but he seems really nice

thats intresting, did you have a question?

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He makes fun of me...n now he says he loves me..what should I do?

maybe try getting a life

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i see people that have these things that say something and it keeps going .. like it will say "i love you" and it will scroll sideways, how do you do it ??

Another question .. I want my website to look awesome, any tips ?? Or websites that i could get help off of, or skins,layouts,ideas ??

Thanks

the scrolling sideways your talking about is called a marquee. you type YOUR TEXT only change that period right there to a /

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is soda pop REALLY that bad for you? I'm on a diet and I get sick of water.. I like diet pop! My boyfriend says he will never drink it because its so bad... true? false?

just because your on a diet doesnt mean you have to drink water. theres all kinds of juices and health drinks, teas, even smoothies which even fill you up so that you can skip lunch and stuff. cokes are bad for you but as long as you dont drink 3 a day youll be fine..why dont you look into the other drinks i mentioned.

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My question is:

I have a sports bike, a crotchrocket, and am wondering if I wear a jacket that says "chopper" would I look weird wearing it? Is it clashy? I know that if I wore a Harley helmet that says"Harley Davidson" than it would look weird. So I'm thinking the same anology aplies here, since a crotchrocket is definitely is not a chopper. Does any one know if I can wear a jacket like that? Money is not an issue, I just want to look put together on my bike. By the way, I'm a female.
Thanks!

yea thats going to be a no. you need more of a sporty combo with a sporty bike, not a badass get up. it all depends on the colors of your bike though.

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A friend of mine came to me for help.. and I honestly don't know how to respond.. so maybe someone on her can help?

Well Marc, my friend, is going out with this girl Elena.. they're relationship is great and everything, but he is still obsessesed with his x-girlfriend, Joee..well he's trying to break up with Elena, but she's suicidal and all..so the first time he mentioned it being just friends to her, she overreacted and threatened to kill herself..Marc NEEDS to break up with her, but doesn't want her to kill or hurt herself...
(Elena has attempted suicide once before, so she's not afraid to)

ANY help at all would be awesome.. thanksss.

she never attempted suicide.

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Ok, there are alot of gals who wear their shorts with holes in them. And they do not wear grannie pannies. They wear thongs. So it is gross seeing their butt. Do you think I should just go up and say " Hey I can see your butt cheek" or what?

they know their ass is showing thats why they do it. plus..you should quit wearing granny panties.

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Well my family is a family with 5 kids. We are running sort of low on money. How couild I help them out. I mean my mom could nopt even buy shampoo the other day!

get a job

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ok i have this boyfriend his name is greg.. well he went on vacation with his family 2 puerto rico.. while he was gone i met this other guy ricky. ricky is rele sweet nd charming and we slept with each other at least 5 times. i dunno .. i don't feel the same with greg as i do with ricky.. ricky is wayy better in bed.. i ain't a slut or nothin.. well maybe i am but seriously what should i do? HELP i'll rate HIGH if you do `-MARIE

5 times? your going to break your boyfriends heart. congradulations asshole.

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