about

"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

advice

hey... so how do you get so good at giving advice?

I think you need to place yourself in others shoes. If you make yourself feel like the other person that is asking the question, I'm sure you'll be able to give good advice to them. You could also think that the person that is asking for advice is one of your bestfriends. Then you'll be able to give them advice that is straight from the heart. But when you are giving advice on this site, try to think of everyone as your friend that you really need to help out and be honest with your advice.
♥ Krissy

[view]


Hey i have really thick curly hair, and i was wondering if anyone knows of anything i can put in my hair that will make my curls more defined but not make hair look thinner..cuz i've tried gel and mousse and it makes it look nice but still pretty puffy. Thanks

Oh girl. I totally feel you on this. I have really thick curly hair too. Anything that has to do with the Aussie brand is amazing. I really suggest their mouse or spy. It works really well. There's also hair products out there that you can buy that will defind your curls. You might want to go to your local store that holes hair products and checking it out. I'm sure you'll be able to find something that definds your curls, and doesn't leave them hard and such like mouse usually does.
♥ Krissy

[view]


I found out that someone that my brother knows smokes ciggarettes and i think im just going to stay out of it but i want a second opinion!

I'd just stay out of it sweetie. It's his/her life. If they want to smoke, leave them. There really isn't too much you can do about it.
♥ Krissy

[view]


I heard that there is a free Kazza without ads or viruses. Could someone please send te link if this is true. thank you.

Kazaa's really bad for bugs and such, I don't think you should download it at all. Why don't you download Ares? It's a really good downloader! I've been using it for awhile now and I haven't had any problems with it. Go to http://www.downloads.com and type in Ares, I'm sure you'll be able to find it.
♥ Krissy

[view]


O.K. I have this friend... an unusual friend... he's a marker. We did all kinds of things together like going fishin' and riding bicycles. He was my BEST firend! HE WON'T WORK! I THINK HE DIED!
PLEASE HELP!
I WILL rate high for anyone who answers seriously... P.S. This is a true story, not a prank.
Luv,
Jonathan

Aw, this is so sad. I'm sorry for your lost, but I think your friend is indeed gone. Maybe next time you should put the cover on him? There's more markers in the box. Life goes on. Find a new best friend that you can fish and ride bikes with!
♥ Krissy

[view]


can my girlfriend and I rent a hotel room overnight and we're only 16? like do they check your age and parent permission and stuff or can you just rent a room and they dont care? thanks

They'll ask you for an ID and your credit card. They need to have this information because if something happens to the room, they know who was in it last.
♥ Krissy

[view]


This will probly sound stupid but what finger do you wear a promise ring on?? My boyfriend will probly get me one for our anniversary and I dont know? I appreciate and will rate answers.

You wear it on your right ring finger. It's the one right next to your pinkie :)
♥ Krissy

[view]


Hey krissy! can you PLEASE go on aol, I need to talk to you!

Sure thing darling.
♥ Krissy

[view]


I love how you have the song of the moment thing. i actually did download that song, its sooo good. i'm totally in love with it right now :] effing addictive!! heehee.

Ooh, I know. It's so addictive. It's been on repeat all day!
♥ Krissy

[view]


i know this isn't a question or anything, but i jus want to tell you that you give AWESOME advice!! i come to you for help all the time and you always seem to make everything better, youre like ment for this!! keep it up babe.

Aw, thanks so much hun. That's so awesome, you made my day :) I'm so glad that I can help you out. I'm here for you anytime.
♥ Krissy

[view]


ok i'm almost 13, i havent gotten my period yet and all my other friends have. should i be worried? i mean im 53 and 120 lbs what should i do?

Don't worry about this at all sweetie. It's totally normal, you'll start, just give it time. Different people get their periods at different times. Some people only start their period when they're 15, while others start at 13, it's different for everyone. Ask your mom when she got her period, it usually comes when your mom had hers.
♥ Krissy

[view]


Can any one tell me what this one song is called, and who it is by? it starts out like this....
Mom and dad they, quite don't understand it, all the kids they, laugh as if they planned it......

It's Blink 182 - Give Me One Good Reason. Great song!
♥ Krissy

[view]


my boyfriend and i talk about moving further. he wants to eat me out and everything but ive never been eaten out and sorry but i dont watch porn. what is he suppose to do and how is it suppose to feel? haha wow thats probably the dumbest question ever but whatever.

Don't worry hun. This isn't a dumb question at all, no question is dumb! When he eats you out, he usually just licks you "down there", then ends up fingering you and such. It actually feels good. I'm sure you'll enjoy it.
♥ Krissy

[view]


after you get your first period whens the next time you get it? some say 5 months? or will it be one month?i got mine for the first time July 1st and i was just wanted a heads up for when the next time i'll get it

At first your period is always irregular, but it'll get regular over the years. Still, your period will come around once a month. You should get it around the 1st of every month.
♥ Krissy

[view]


does anyone know of some good buddy icon sites..like places for AIM icons...o ya and not www.iconator.com or www.originalicons.com ..anything would be appreciated. thnx in advance!:D

You could try, http://www.msndollies.com It's a pretty good site for icon's; it has a lot!
♥ Krissy

[view]


I heard something about enjaculation. What is it?

It's when a guy cums; sperm comes out of his penis. Simple as that hun :)
♥ Krissy

[view]


im sick..i have a lil bit of a fever and yesterday i got with my boyfriend a few times but i got cold beofre i did but like do u think he is ok. i dont kno how he is feeling but what do u think

Well, if you're were sick when you got with him, he probably got the flu or whatever you might have got. Maybe you should call him and see how he's feeling.
♥ Krissy

[view]


what can you do that makes a guy like you or want to go out with you ??

Be sweet to him, be there for him when he needs to talk to someone, always try and make him laugh, make a lot of eye contact, smile at him whenever you get the chance, flirt a little, be yourself around him, talk to him about stuff you are both interested in, tell jokes, etc.
♥ Krissy

[view]


Me and my boyfriend were talking and he told me he doesnt want me to hang out with Derrick even though ill have my best friend Ann with me.. My bf will be at the lakes. So he thinks i dont know what he thinks. He's asking me if i'd be wierded out if he and Scott hung out with Julie and i said no.. cuz theres 2 guys and 1 girl. its just a group of friends its a 1 on 1 type of thing. Am i wrong in this.. i mean im allowed to have friends.. arent I?

So, he's saying that you can't hangout with your friends, one a girl and one a boy, but yet he can hangout with his friends, when there's two guys and one girl? That make's no sense what so ever. It's like he's saying it's alright for him, but not for you. Yes! You're totally right! You're allowed to have friends and he shouldn't be stopping you from this. Hangout with your friends, who cares what he says. If he's trying to control who you hangout with, he's not a good boyfriend in the first place. Boyfriends come and go, but friends are the ones that will always be there.
♥ Krissy

[view]


hey, i had my period like 15 days ago and today i noticed that there was a little blood on my underwear and kind of coming , out but it was brownish( didnt look my the usual blood) and it kept randomly coming today, it was grosse... whats it from?

You know, the same thing has been happening to me lately. I finished my period about 10 days ago, and I still had a little bit of blood coming out that was brownish, not really the "normal" color. I asked my mom and she said it was totally fine, so I'm pretty sure it's fine for you too. I have no clue what it's from, maybe it's because your period isn't fully done yet - I could be wrong, but I really don't know, sorry. Just make sure you wash extra good down there. Don't worry about it though, you'll be fine.
♥ Krissy

[view]



<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker