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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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What is this "&hearts" thing everyone is saying? Is it from a movie or did one person just say it so now every other stupid girl has to go along and say it to.
No no sweetie. It's nothing from a movie or anything. It's a simple HTML code that shows up as a black heart. It's right in front of my name, if you'd like to know what it looks like.
♥ Krissy
My friend says that blink-182 is a band which mainly girls listen to. I was like, no dude, blink-182 isn't like that. There are about the same of both. It's not a guys or girls band, kind of something which everyone listens to. Who would you say is correct?
Blink-182 is not only for girls at all. So I think you are the right one here. It's a girl and boy band, anyone can listen to them!
♥ Krissy
I am a seventeen year old female and I am in love. What is the problem with this, you may ask? I shall tell you. The man I love is 7.5 years my senior (he's 25) and he lives in another continent. He says that he loves me as well, but I'm not sure how to make this relationship work. Can a 17 year old and a 25 year old really make it? Especially with him being so far away... He says he may move here in December, however, but then what? My parents would never approve and I crave their approval like I crave oxygen. I am at a loss. I don't really know what I'm asking, quite frankly, and I won't be surprised if no one replies. I suppose I'm just looking for opinions. Thanks.
Okay, the question here is, do you know him or did you just meet him off the internet? Like Panramos said, don't be surprised if he's 14. If you did meet him off the internet, I'd suggest not going any further with this guy. People can be totally different in person then chatting with them on the internet. If he is someone you know, person-to-person, yes, I believe that you could make it work. I'd wait until you are 18 however, then you nor him could get into any kind of trouble; since you're an adult and you can do as you please. If you really love eachother, I'm sure you could make it work out and everything would go great! If you are willing to make it work, you just need to have a nice long conversation with this guy and see where you and him as a couple stands. If you are both on the same page in life and such. Since there's a big age difference, I'm sure there's going to be difference in what both of you want in life. Maybe he'll hold you back from some of your dreams, or you hold him back. This is why you both need to have a talk with eachother.
♥ Krissy
Well....I have a little problem. Ok I really like this boy, and we're good friends, but I want to be more. I'm shy beyond belief. I don't know what to do. I want to tell him how I feel but I don't know how. I can't come out and say it, thats not my style. I really belief that he may like me too, but im not 100% sure. I don't know how I can make myself sure enough to ask him. And The closest step I've taken is asking him to hang out. My friends think they uderstand what is going on, but it...it just isn't as easy as they make it seem. To my friemds feelings are somthing they can shout out and not care who hears, including the one it involves. But for me, its diffrent, i've always hidden whats inside, so what do I do? and dontsay take a dive and tell him. That wont help.
- 14, F
I know what you're going through, I've totally been in your spot. I used to be so shy it was unbelieveable, but I kind of got out of that stage and I always say what is on my mind now. Asking him to hangout with you was a huge step, you should feel totally proud of yourself because you did that! That's a big deal for someone, especially if they're shy. Since you asked him to hangout with you, I'm guessing he said yes. So that must mean something right there. He likes you enough to hangout with you. If it's a like as "more then friends", that is what you have to figure out. Maybe you could get one of your friends to find out the downlow on this boy. Maybe get her/him to ask him who he's liking and such, maybe that will get it started up. If you don't feel like that would be a good idea, you could always do something cute. Write him a letter or an e-mail explaining to him how much you like him. Tell him that you're shy and you didn't really feel comfortable with telling him face-to-face so you decided to write it down. I'm sure he'll totally understand. A lot of guys are just as shy as you hun, so I wouldn't worry about him finding the letter idea cheesy or anything, I find it really cute. Infact, that's how I asked my first boyfriend out; I wrote him a letter. I'm sure you can do something like that. Then at the end of the letter you can ask him to go to the movies with you, or hangout one-on-one then see where it goes from there!
♥ Krissy
Hey Krissy! i know you like Keith Urban, so i was wonderin' if you could give me some good songs that he sings! thanks.
Well, you came to the right person, I'm obessed with him right now. Some great songs would be: Day's Go By, Better Life, Making Memories Of Us, The Hard Way, You're My Better Half, I Could Fly, Tonight I Wanna Cry, Live To Love Another Day, I Thought You Knew, Out On My Own, If You Want To Stay, You're The Only One, Your Everything, Somebody Like You, Who Wouldn't Want To Be Me, You'll Think Of Mean, Jeans On, Whenever I Run, You Look Good In My Shirt. Anything from his new cd "Be Here" is amazing!
♥ Krissy
hey i have really long hair and i wanna highlight it or lowlight it before school starts im in highschool...what colors should i do and should it be chunky or non?
What color of hair do you have right now? Depending on your hair color, you should highlight your hair a shade lighter or darker then your normal hair color. I think you should just get normal highlights, not the chunky ones. I find they're too fakeish and just highlights look so much prettyer!
♥ Krissy
hey i was wondering if anyone that has their belly button pierced..does it hurt? and how do they do it?
My friend has her belly button pierced. She said it didn't hurt at all. What they do is they take a needle that has a bar bell hooked to it. They poke a hole in your belly button, slide the needle and the bar bell through. Then, screw on the ball to the bar bell and they're done. (It could be done differently too, it probably depends on who you go too. Just shop around before you actually get it done.) It goes by really fast and it doesn't hurt. You just have to make sure to keep it clean and you'll be alright!
♥ Krissy
I am 13 and I have already had sex twice with my bf who is 15....people always say I am a huge slut and whore...stuff like that...but i dont think I am that much...i meen i thought I was ready so I had sex...what do you think?
It's up to you if you wanted to have sex or not. If you felt like you were ready, then all the power to you! You're not a slut or a whore or anything them people say about you. They obviously don't know what a slut or a whore is if they're calling you one. A slut is someone who sleeps around with different guys, not someone who had sex with their boyfriend. You have a boyfriend. Yes, sometime in a relationship you are going to take it to the next level and have sex, no biggie. At least you're having sex with your boyfriend and not the whole world; like most girls. You're not a slut at all hun, and if you were ready to have sex, that's great! This is you and your boyfriends business, not anyone else. Just ignore the people who talk bad about you! They don't matter.
♥ Krissy
theres a song that goes like:
yea mamma this surely is a dream..
who sings it and what is it called?
I think you're talking about, Marcy Playground - Sex And Candy!
♥ Krissy
I always hear about rape and I don't know what it is. what it rape?
Rape is when someone forces you to have sex, when you don't want to have sex with him or her. So in other words, they pressure you into something you don't want to do.
♥ Krissy
Krissy, where did you get that cute 'i heart you' think @ the bottom of your page? thank you mucho!
I got it from this site, it's in the Icon part.
http://photobucket.com/albums/b203/abercrombie_xOo
♥ Krissy
are there guys on this site? well one guy asked what us girls look for so what do you guys look for and do u think any1 on the site is hott?
Yes, there is guys on this site; I'm not one though, sorry. To find guys on this site just go to "Search Columnists" go down to "Gender" and click "Male".
♥ Krissy
Do u still have your picture site?
No. I deleted that a while back, sorry. Maybe one day I'll start up a new one, if I have time on my hands.
♥ Krissy
i'm 12 yrs old and 100lbs im pretty sure that thats overwight,but i want to know what you think?
i'm medium boned and very mucsular...butt in my stomack i'm fat or chubbish what do you think? i've talked to my parents and they say that its still baby-phat but i dont know....i tried to go anorexic for two weeks and i felt better but i knew that that was a stupid idea....
Sweetie, 100lbs isn't fat at all. It could be your baby-fat in your stomach. You're only 12 so your body is still changing. Believe me, your body will shape out you just have to give it time. Not eating for two weeks isn't the way to go either and I'm glad you realized how stupid that was. I'm sure you're beautiful and if you're happy with how you look, be happy with how much you weigh. Because hun, you're not fat at all :)
♥ Krissy
can u get an STD if u have sex using a condom?
They protect you, yes. But there is always a chance of something happening or going wrong. If the condom is out dated, or even a little hole in it could leave you pregnant or with and STD. Condom's aren't 100% safe free right now, they're only 97%. So you always have that 3% chance of something happening.
♥ Krissy
what is the best mascara to use that dosesnt smear eaily and doesnt lobb??? HELP**i rate high
zani>>>>>>>>
You could try NYC or Mayballine. I suggest Mayballine; it's a really good product.
♥ Krissy
Ok, what is a 69? A friend of mine said she was a slut and wanted a 69 24/7. And whats a chink? My enemy said this to one of my friends and she got realy upset.
69=69er; a sexual position. It's when two people give oral at the same time. One person lays with their feet up where the other person's head is. Then the other person lays with their feet up to the other persons head. Being in this position allows the guy to eat a girl out or finger her, while the girl can give the guy head or a blow job at the sametime. A "Chink" is very impolite and hurtful to a lot of Chinese and Asian people. It's like calling a black person a "Nigger" or a white person a "Cracker".
♥ Krissy
hi my underwear yellows really fast what should i do and I change my underwear constantly
please hely
This is totally normal hun. This is how your body cleans itself out, nothing to worry about. I know it may be annoying, but it's normal and happens to every girl. There is nothing that you can do to make it stop. (Although I wish there was.) You can always wear pantie liners so it isn't on your underwear all the time.
♥ Krissy
theres a song that goes like :
merry christmas i could care less..
who sings it and what is the name of the song?
It's Fall Out Boy - Yule Shoot Your Eye Out! They're such an amazing band!
♥ Krissy
My mommy says I'm special. YEAH!!!
My mommy tell's me I'm special too! Don't you love mommys? :)
♥ Krissy