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Well....I have a little problem. Ok I really like this boy, and we're good friends, but I want to be more. I'm shy beyond belief. I don't know what to do. I want to tell him how I feel but I don't know how. I can't come out and say it, thats not my style. I really belief that he may like me too, but im not 100% sure. I don't know how I can make myself sure enough to ask him. And The closest step I've taken is asking him to hang out. My friends think they uderstand what is going on, but it...it just isn't as easy as they make it seem. To my friemds feelings are somthing they can shout out and not care who hears, including the one it involves. But for me, its diffrent, i've always hidden whats inside, so what do I do? and dontsay take a dive and tell him. That wont help.
- 14, F
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I know what you're going through, I've totally been in your spot. I used to be so shy it was unbelieveable, but I kind of got out of that stage and I always say what is on my mind now. Asking him to hangout with you was a huge step, you should feel totally proud of yourself because you did that! That's a big deal for someone, especially if they're shy. Since you asked him to hangout with you, I'm guessing he said yes. So that must mean something right there. He likes you enough to hangout with you. If it's a like as "more then friends", that is what you have to figure out. Maybe you could get one of your friends to find out the downlow on this boy. Maybe get her/him to ask him who he's liking and such, maybe that will get it started up. If you don't feel like that would be a good idea, you could always do something cute. Write him a letter or an e-mail explaining to him how much you like him. Tell him that you're shy and you didn't really feel comfortable with telling him face-to-face so you decided to write it down. I'm sure he'll totally understand. A lot of guys are just as shy as you hun, so I wouldn't worry about him finding the letter idea cheesy or anything, I find it really cute. Infact, that's how I asked my first boyfriend out; I wrote him a letter. I'm sure you can do something like that. Then at the end of the letter you can ask him to go to the movies with you, or hangout one-on-one then see where it goes from there!
♥ Krissy
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well my advice is if you think he likes you and your to shy to tel him you can either wait for him to ask you out or flirt with him subtle flirting like looking at him across the room look him in hte eye when hes talking, laugh when hes around, smile when hes around...he figure it out.
Or while you guys are "hanging out" play like truth or dare tell one of your friends to ask him if he likes you or not when he picks truth..or tell them to ask you if you like him of if your too shy dont lie and say your dont like anyone cause then he will bacck off ....you can be like i like someone in this room then look at him and smile..
Well i hope i helped and good luck with the fellas !
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