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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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how can i view private myspace profiles of people who im not friends with? pleeasseee no answers with "you can't" thanks

So basically, you want us to lie to you?

No.

There is no way to view a private profile without becoming friends with that said person. Therefore, you can't.

Ok so im looking for a new phone (i have cingular/at&t) and i really want one with a keyboard attached. So i was searching online and i found a really cool one... its an LG F9200 so i found it on amazon but the weird thing is, its not on the cingular/at&t website or at the store. im 100% sure its for cingular but why isnt it at the store?? AHH any answer is much greatly appreciated! Oh and is there a phone for cingular that looks like the ENV from verizon? thanks!

Cingular doesn't have phones that flip up like the EN-V does, but it does have a phone that slides. It's called the Cingular 8125 Pocket PC (Refurb). I found it on the Cingular store website, and it's a really cute phone. You might like it. There's a few other phones on there like it, but since I'm on a budget, that's the one I found for myself, haha. But, I suggest you search the website. You might find something you like.

www.cingular.com

okay so im 13/f. my bf is 14... weve been going out for 1 month.
kayy so heres the thing..
he LOVES making out..
but i dont..kinda prude i know..
so heres the thing..
i dont know how to make out..
ive made out once with my ex and i HATED it because he just did it so slobbery..
or i dont know if it was me=\.
i hope not..
so hes always lyk babe i cant wait to makeout with you and bite your lips ...
so then when we walk to 4th period [[when he wants to makeout]]he always gets me in a corner...
and i just try avoiding it..
can anyone give me advice to how to makeout?
or how to make it special or w.e.?

Just because you don't like making out doesn't mean that you're prude sweetheart. Everyone has different likes/dislikes/preferences. You prefer not to make out, that's fine. There are other people just like you.

Honestly, the best I can give you is a Google search:

Those should help some. Good luck!

Okay, well last year I liked a guy. [let's name him bob] And well, last year he got into drugs. So, i kind of still liked him, but I also liked other guys. And when school started this year, I kind of still liked him. Well, i'm a sophomore, and I met this freshmen. [let's name him zack] well, i basically see zack most of the time when i'm at school. his locker is right next to mine. i'm always late, and so is he. so i always see him. during break, i see him. i have him for fourth period. i see him during lunch. and i even see him during passing periods. I can admit I like him. but recently i've noticed that he is exactly like Bob before the drugs. and i'm not sure if I like Zack for who he is, or I like him because of Bob. I am confused. I kind of still like Bob, but I like Zack too. I'm so confused, what should I do? Any advice? THANKS IN ADVANCE

I personally think you liked the idea of Zack being like the way Bob used to be before he got into drugs. You probably don't like Zack for who he is yet, but for who you think he is.

If you honestly find yourself crushing & thinking he's cute, talk to him & become his friend. Start talking & hanging out and ask him what he likes to do. If he's not into drugs, & you think he might like you back, date him.

well, i have a psychology mid-term and it's the best. basically it's a journal with personal goals and things like that. [i think it's great] anyways, i want to add some quotes and songs. does anyone know any good life /dream quotes or songs. or songs about me:

i'll tell you a little bit about me.
-i've changed a lot since last year.
-i am really shy, but loud when i'm with people i know.
-i love my friends and family.
-i love life.

an example fo a quote would be:
"go confidently in the direction of you dreams. live the like you have imagined."=
-Henry David Thoreau

so, any good quotes/ songs will be appreciated. Thanks in advance!

I remember reading this in AP Magazine, and a guy from this one band said it. I don't remember who, but I'll try & see if I can find it for you, but he said:

"My mom always told me that you only get to be a certain age 365 days a year; 366 if you're lucky; so live it up while you have it."

I thought this was incredibly true & I loved it. =) I think you might like it as well. As for other quotes, I use:

www.wittyprofiles.com

Check under the famous & inspirational sections. You'll get some really good ones there.

ok a guy said this about me to some guys he said fellows thats the kinds girl that will fuck the balls off of ya....what does that mean?

He just means that you either seem like the type of girl [or you are the type of girl] who'll fuck a guy really hard.

He was using an expression & he exaggerated. He pretty much called you a nympho.

You know like on America's next top model when they ask them to pose nude? or like any other nude models? How do they do it if they're on their period?

I've always thought about that as well. They're probably just wearing a tampon or something.

alright so me and this guy "john" we'll call him..are talking. we like each other a lot. we've prolly been tlaking now for a couple of weeks.

my best friend "anne" she is a flirty person.. and its pissing me off. shes all over him all the time - and doesnt think anything of it.

the other night she got pissed at ME because she thought i told someone i was mad at her for flirting - but i never even said it.. thats cleared up now. but it just goes to show that she freaks out when she doesnt get her way and people dont take her side.

anne and john flirt in front of my face but supposedly theyre just FRIENDS. i want to believe it, but its so hard to watch.

ive been hurt more than once in my life, and im afraid that im gonna get fucked over in the end.. idk what to do..

advice?

If it bugs you that much, talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and see if it changes. If it doesn't, then you need to take into consideration that some people can't help the things they do and you need to get over it.

hello.
my husband believes i don't desire him because i am not spontanous with sexual acts. i believe that sence i got pregnant my desire for sex has gone down thats all. i just want some suggestions as to prove that i do desire him.

Have sex with him as much as you can a week. If you can have it 3 out of the 7 days, do that. I realize how it is to lose desire once you've been pregnant [my cousin went through it], but she was still intimate because she wanted to make her boyfriend happy.

I would try to have sex as much as you feel necessary. You can't just cut out all intimacy because of something.

My boyfriend & I had sex on friday. Thing is, he didn't put on a condom at first for like maybe the first minute and then he put one on. We've had sex about 3 times before that this month, all with a condom. I have no way of getting the morning after pill because I'm 17 and all my friends that are 18 are all busy now. I know I shouldn't have waited till the last minute but I wasn't worried and now I am quite worried and panicking. Should I even bother taking it? You have to take two, one lets say I take now and the next pill 12 hours later... which would be after the timerange of the effectiveness of the pill anyway? What are the chances because I'm supposed to get my period at the end of this month?

Thanks so much.

The pill is effective 72 hours after you have sex. If you would've gotten it today, it would've worked for you. It's too late now.

Honestly, just see if you get your period, & if you don't, get a test.

how do I get music on my blog for myspace?? thanx to anyone who answers. Ive tried youtube and all the codes, and nothing works! please HELP!

I really don't think you can get music on your blog.

i like this kid a lot and whenever we talk he always says something and it's exactly what i'm thinking. we have a lot of the same opinions on things. he's not really "my type" and my parents wouldn't like him but i don't care. ok here's the problem though. his ex-girlfriend cheated on him and now he wants to be single for a while. they went out for like 4 or 5 months and they broke up at the begining of the summer. i really like him and i want to show him that i'm worth trying a relationship for because all of my past relationships have lasted more than 6 months. how do i do this?

You can let him know how you feel, but I wouldn't exactly expect anything to happen. Once someone gets cheated on, their trust in new relationships is nearly gone & it'll take them a while to get back on their feet.

Tell him & if he likes you back, wait until he's ready to start dating again. If he doesn't, accept it & move on.

What does this category mean? Cleaning? I dont get it. Can some one tell me what you would write about in this subject! Thankz!

It's good for when you have a question about stains & want to get them out. It could be around your house, your laundry..etc.

ok so im planning on doing a strand of my hair [its light/medium blonde] either red or blue with koolaid. kind of the avril lavigne look. ive googled and read up on how to do it but i just have some questions if youve done it before.

1. it says dont wear light colored clothes, but it doesnt say for how long. does that mean for like days or just while you dye it?
2. will the color run off onto everything it comes in contact with? sheets, clothes, etc?
3. apparently it seems as if mixing it with conditioner makes it permanent and mixing with water makes it temporary?
4. does toothpaste really take it out?

any other tips?
and yes i have tried the store bought stuff but i just want something thatll last a little longer so no need to preach to me.

I don't suggest you do dye your hair with Kool-Aid. I've seen people at school do it, and it's completely noticable. When you wash your hair, the color comes out & then you waste that package of kool-aid for nothing. And then your hair smells like sweet fruits for a bit.

1. Don't wear light clothes while dying it.
2. Possibly.
3. Water makes it temporary, yes. I've never known of anyone to dye it with conditioner.
4. I don't know, but soap & water do.

ok, i guess this is probably something i should know, but what are excatly the "bases" in a relationship? Im pretty sure 3rd base is sex, but i really dont know.
Thanks

The way I see it is:

1st base: Kissing/making out.
2nd base: Hangjobs/fingering.
3rd base: Oral sex.
Homerun: Sex.

i dont find black girls attractive, does that mean i'm a racist? is it juss subconscious racism?

Nope. I don't date black guys. It's just a preference thing.

if you have sex with your boyfriend, that's not considered as "a whore"... right?

Nope.

The only way you'd be a whore is if you slept around.

okay so i always cut my hair the same way, and now everyones doing it.
i have shorter bangs
http://i91.photobucket.com/albums/k299/beautyinthebreakdown02/Picture11031563.jpg
that's them :]
and my hair goes about two inches passed my shoulder

like I said EVERYONE in my school is getting the exact same cut as mine, and asking me why i coped them lol and i just find it boring.

i was looking for new haircuts that i could get.
i don't care if they have short bangs, or long bangs, i just need something different with all of my hair
some pictures would be great, but if you don't have any that's totally fine :]

thank you in advance for your help!

You're really pretty, and I like your hair.

I'm not good at hairstyles, but you can probably try Google & see what comes up.

I eat like 3 or 4 small apples a day. Does anyone know like the benefits of eating apples, and the nutritional values of them and stuff? Thanks in advance.

I have no ida what to dress up as for halloween, on one hand I guess I could dress up as a goth, probably a hoochie top with a mini skirt and hooker heels, but on the other I could dress up as a princess, u know with a poofy dress but not poofy enough so other people cant see my curves!
I dont know which one to pick or if I need to scratch both ideas and go with something totallt different, what should I do?

Since when are goths hookers...?

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