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unprotected sex


Question Posted Monday October 22 2007, 5:03 pm

My boyfriend & I had sex on friday. Thing is, he didn't put on a condom at first for like maybe the first minute and then he put one on. We've had sex about 3 times before that this month, all with a condom. I have no way of getting the morning after pill because I'm 17 and all my friends that are 18 are all busy now. I know I shouldn't have waited till the last minute but I wasn't worried and now I am quite worried and panicking. Should I even bother taking it? You have to take two, one lets say I take now and the next pill 12 hours later... which would be after the timerange of the effectiveness of the pill anyway? What are the chances because I'm supposed to get my period at the end of this month?

Thanks so much.

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grrwtf answered Monday October 29 2007, 6:20 pm:
i doubt your pregnant. i do that all the time to get a guy super hard, then make it safe. its too late to take the morning after pill.. and you deff dont hafta be 18 to get the pill bc im 16 and i got it before. if your seriously freaking out about being pregnant CALM DOWN. there are so many ways to have a home abortion. one example. take 500mg of vitamin C every hour for a week or so... but dont try anything like that until you have taken a prego test. if you need anymore help just message me.

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sizzlinmandolin answered Sunday October 28 2007, 1:38 pm:
There are a LOT of ways to get to a doctor over something as serious as this. There are people you can trust. So never ever say that you can't and please always do when necessary. Better to be a little embarrassed or inconvenience someone for a little while than get pregnant at age 17 right?

I know this answer is too late, but for the future, you don't have to be 18 to get a day after pill!!! Sure, you do if you try to buy it over the counter, but you can get it from a clinic or a doctor. It's very important that you do this when you need to. Any emergency room or health clinic should be able to help you. The reason for all of this is because morning after pills are kind of dangerous. They're full of a ton of hormones in order to keep you from getting pregnant and if you have an unhealthy heart they could give you a heart attack! If you're over 18, you're an adult and can decide whether to take that risk yourself without a doctor's opinion. If you are under 18, you just have to have a talk with a doctor and the doctor will ask you about your family's history of heart attacks and stuff. Then the doctor will let you purchase the pill. It's a hassle, but worth it if you are ever in this situation again! All that said, do not put yourself in this situation again. Your boyfriend obviously didn't take the responsibility to protect the two of you so you need to do that from now on. Never have sex with him until he has a condom on. Buy it yourself and put it on him yourself if necessary! Good luck. :)

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Cherry_Blow_Pop answered Thursday October 25 2007, 2:11 pm:
I doubt you are pregnant. Though I could go on and on about how if there was ANY liquid secreted from his penis during that minute, it did contain sperm, and COULD get you pregnant, but you seem smart enough to know there there is a high sperm count in pre-cum. Anyways, the pill works BEST if taken within 24hrs, and the chances of it working become smaller and smaller up until the 72hr mark. I don't think it is needed though. But be careful next time so you don't end up stessing until your next period comes, because that stress can make your period late, and that will just increase the stress again.

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christina answered Tuesday October 23 2007, 1:18 am:
The pill is effective 72 hours after you have sex. If you would've gotten it today, it would've worked for you. It's too late now.


Honestly, just see if you get your period, & if you don't, get a test.

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hollister_lover09 answered Monday October 22 2007, 10:09 pm:
I dont think you are. Me and my boyfriend do that all the time. And Im not pregnat. But you really never know. I dont think the morning after pill will work. Its to late. Just wait and see really. Next monday go get a test and hope for the best. But Im 99.9% sure your not, bc like I said I do that all the time. I hope everything is okay =D

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