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for about a couple weeks my nipples have been really sensitive and they hurt sometimes if something touches them like my bra or something...i dont mean to sound nasty but they just have been hurting. im not pregnant or anything cause ive never had sex and im only 14 but if anyone knows why please help! (link)
hmmm i dunno...may b ur periods are on their way??!?! =/....xoxo effy


What should I do I like alot of boys and one is my friend but should I tell him or keep it to my self?? (link)
u like a lot of boyz? and one of them is ur friend? who do u like more? who ever it is...thats the one u should give it a try wit...not all of them at da same time :) lol xoxo effy


i used to like this guy now i dont like him any more but he likes me alot wut should i do?
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are u guys going out? if u guys are not and he just likes u...just avoid seeing him...or talkin to him or w/e...he will get the message...if he doesnt and asks u anything...just tell him that u dont see him more then a friend :) xoxo effy


well i have this friends and she is 13 like me and shes had sex already and might even get married already because her parents dont give a crap about her im really worried about her and i dont want this guy to be with her..wut should i tlel her (link)
to get married without parents permition u need to be 18...other then that to get married with parents permition u need to be 16...she's 13...theres nothing to worry bout ;) nothing will happen...till she goes 16 who knows wut happens ;)...i aint wishin anything bad...but who knoes...she might either find a new guy to fall inlove...or u might end up likin the guy she is with ;)...xoxo effy


i like this guy but i alwayse make excuses not to see him. I broke up with my last boyfriend, and it was really bad. I think i'm just scared this new guy will hurt my feelings again. What should i do? (link)
give it a chance...every1 gets hurt..thats how life goes...i totally understand that u been hurt once and u dont wanna get hurt again...but u got to take ur chance in life...or else ur always gonna be wondering WUT IF! xoxo effy


ur really pretty (link)
thank you :) xoxo effy


My dad got a job in San Antonio, Texas. I'm EXTREMELY happy!!!!! But the thing is, in a way, I don't want to move. I live in Central Pennsylvania, so its definitely a big move. I know I can't stop my rents from moving. But, I'm just going to miss my whole life. I grew up here, I'm going to have to start all over. Is this normal? (link)
yes very normal...its ok to have to make a big move sometimes...i know what u talkin bout b/c i have been there...i had lived all my life till i was 13 almost 14 in albania(europe) and then i had to move...and come here in u.s. (fl) and bla bla bla...so imagine this...i didnt kno any english at all...and anyone here...so i had to start all over again...and learn a new lenguage 2...so hey u aint so bad ;) at least u kno how to speak the lenguage...having 2 move sometimes it turns out for the better ;) so dont worry so much :)....just go on wit the flow...everything will b fine...and b4 u kno it...u'll b so happy and everything wit ur life..and everything round u that u wont even b abel to think bout central pennsylvania no more :-P...(only once in a while...when u'll b lookin the back old times) trust me u'll b fine...i kno from experience..and its perfectly normal ;) xoxo effy


i talk to my best guy friend on the phone every night... and sometimes we just ask eachother random questions and whatever... well he has a fascination wit my boobs and my butt... i have no idea y he always is talkin to me about them and stuff and it gets me kinda madd. he also is always askin me to do stuff with his that he knows i wont do cause i am waiting for the right guy... Well my question is... WHY IS HE LIKE THIS? WHY DOES HE ALWAYS HAVE TO TALK ABOUT MY BOOBS AND BUTT? (link)
hmmm well he either likes you and he is tryin to tell u that by talkin to u bout them...or he just likes to mess rounds wit u (someguys do dat) just to get u mad...b/c he likes it when u get mad or someshit...but it might be most likely b/c he likes u :) xoxo effy


ok so like in the end of august i went out wit this kid chris and i broke up wit him cause we live far away (30 min.) and he understood. well now we r really close friends (closer than when we were goin out) and i want him back. i dont want things to be akward between us but i really love him... PLEASE HELP! WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?! (link)
tell him how u feel!...tell him that u want him bak...or ask him if he likes anyone or something like that find out how he feels bout it..;) xoxo effy


okay im 16 years old and in play football for my school. Well every practice i see this gurl there and she keeps on looking and smiling at me. well one day i went up to her but she ran off.

Does sher like me? WAT COULD I DO TO MAKE HER COMFORTABLE? (link)
lol if she looks at u and smiles at u...then she likes you...she thinks ur a hot #...but wut i think happend that she ran off its b/c she is a shy gurl...and she's to shy to comfront u...hmmm i dunno but when she smiles at u and looks at u smile at her bak...show her u like her 2...and hmmm when she's there u could either call her over...to come to u...or go up to her...makin eye contact that tells her to stay there and wait...or find a friend of urs that is friends wit her..and he/she could introduce u guys :) that always works :) xoxo effy


OK well ummmmmm I like like 2 different guys and one has a gf and the other doesn't well so im gonna go 4 the 1 w/o...so guys/girls PLZ answer this Q!!
~*gOt Ne TiPs On HoW 2 WiN A GuYs HeArT OvEr?*~
Thanx soo much!! :)
[EMiLy] (link)
hi..nice choice...:) cuz i bet if u had a man u wouldnt want some other chick coming and gettin him from u! :) and hmmm to win a guys heart...lol now we kno that everyone says "looks dont metter" but hey...we all kno that everyone looks at looks first...if they think u fine then they'll try to holla and get to kno u...so to win his attention and everything..make him see ur interested...flirt wit him..i would say...dress up and wear something sexy...then when u get his attention and everything...talk to him.flirt smile alot...make him see that he makes u happy and smile a lot...devote all the attention to him..and see if u guys have the chemistry...u kno always having something to talk bout...being abel to talk wit him bout anything...trusting eachother and w/e w/e...and that will grow to a healthy relationship later on ;)...i dunno that works wit me ;) xoxo effy


Ok me and this guy went out in 7th grade i went out with him not cause i liked him cause my friend wanted me to go out with him... Well we went out for like a week and i broke up with him... Well now 10th grade... And i have the biggest crush on him and he likes me too... But he said he doesnt want to go out with me till the middle of the year cause he liked this girl.. (thats now going out with his close friend) But my friend is going to hook us up...Should i go out with him or no (link)
ight let me get this str8...u went out wit this kid in 7th grade b/c ur friends wanted u to not b/c u liked him and u broke up wit him after 1 week...and now that u guys are in 10 grade...after 3 yrs...u have the biggest crush on him and u kno he likes you 2...but he tellin u to wait b/c he liked this other girl and now that girl is going wit his friend? what does that girl has to do wit you?!?!?! if he likes you then why would this gurl metter to him?!!? hmmm i dunno gurl...but this just doesnt sound rite!! if he likes you and wants to go wit u...then dont wait till middel of the yr...waste all that time...and if he wanted u real bad he wouldnt want to wait and he wouldnt make u wait...who knows u might not feel the same up till now...or he might not feel the same...i dunno this is just 2 weird...i say talk to him and find out wussuh b4 u do something that would hurt u later on ;)...not tryin to b negative or w/e i just think that that didnt relly sound right! and thats what i personally think...hope i helped...and wish u the best ;) xoxo effy


if a guy likes two girls... Ones 19 ones 15 and his 19... He likes both of them equally... Which one should he go out with... Or should he go out with both (link)
he should go out wit the one he likes more!...shouldnt go wit both...that aint right!....cuz he is gonna end up hurting both of them...and if he grows to like one of them more then the other and they find out that he is dating both...then he'll get hurt 2...so i say he should make up his mind bout who he likes better...and go only for one...if u wonderin bout age...age dont metter! (well not to me) but if u go legally the guy cant do anything wit the 15 yrs old b/c it will b called rape if he does!...hmmm unless the 15 yrs old doesnt do anything to put him in trouble then he'll b fine! hmm i dunno like i said it all depends on the kid and who he likes more :) xoxo effy...

p.s. if both girls call the guy at the same time...and they both wanna talk with which one of them is he gonna talk? well who ever he picks...then thats the one he cares or likes more! ;)


well i just got my period yesterday and i wear pads but i have gym today and im scared the pad will fall out/off when we are running , ect! HELP! (link)
hi, hmm well dont worry it wont fall off...b/c the pad usually has some kind of a sticker down there...and it would stick to ur underwear...so it wont fall dont worry...i kno from experience :) xoxo effy


welll ok dudes i wanna no how to find out if my hymen has broken im still a virgin but wanna no without goin to the doctor i wanna do it myself so that when i have sex with my boy toy it doesnt hurt and can ya hymen grow bak if it is broken (link)
hi well i dunno how u can find out if ur hymen is broken...but if it is...u can go to the doctor..make some kind of a surgery...and they could pull it bak up and make u look like a vergin!...but only they could...u cant make that alone...hmmm and i dunno if you didnt have sex b4 then more likely ur hymen will still b there...but dont forget u could lose it by excersisin 2 much..or u kno different type of things...there are gurls that are born without it...so i dunno...anyways...hope i helped even though a lil...xoxo effy


Lets see If I can put this into Words... I kinda want to break up with my b/f, but I dont have a reason to do it... I also want to talk to my Ex. But I cant get myself to message him or call him and its been almost 2 months since we talked... and I dont know if he would talk to or not... thats if for now... tnkz Bye (link)
wait...u wanna break up wit ur b/f b/c ppl are peer pressuring u? hmmm =/ if thats the reason dont do...expecially if u have feelings for him...now if thats not the reason and u just dont feel him no more...then tell him...that you dont feel him no more...and that u want to break it off...b/c you dont want to end up doing something stupid...and get called a cheader and all those stuff ;)...if u wanna get bak wit ur ex...then try or find a way to talk to him...see wussuh wit him...and tell him that u like him (if u do =/) and see wussuh...if u cant reach him ...or u do and he dont feel same way...then fuk it...just go out make new friends...meet new ppl...and live ur life 2 the fullest...one day that right guy...will pop up in to ur life when u least expect it ;) xoxo effy


im embarassed, all of my friends have had sex, and i don't wanna have sex yet, but when im older i think its gunna sound stupid. and their gunna ask me if im still a virgin and ill say yes. its jus weird. (link)
man dont worry, just b/c ur friends are having sex dont mean u've to go n do it 2....if ur not ready and u dont have that special one dont do it yet...plus who is dat guy that wouldnt want a gurl whos a vergin...and who is dat guy that doesnt want to b a gurls first...and plus if the guy loves u and u love him 2...and he will get to b ur first...that would mean so much to him...so dont worry...who cares that ur friends have done it already...in my opinion...being a vergin its not something to b embarrased bout its something to b pround bout :)...xoxo effy


What does 143 mean ? im a little slow. (link)
143 stands for I love you...most of the time...but then again...it could stand for "i hate you" 2 xoxo


hey its me the one with the question about the guy who said he liked me and went out with an ugly girl lol..

my sn is xcutee4ya167 since usaid you had something for me? a favor idk lol (link)
;) ight u got it....lol i added u up in mah list when u get online i'll tell u wuts up ;) xoxo effy


well to be honest i'm worried about my bestfriend.. her boyfriend still talks with his ex girlfriend (she moved 3 years ago, outside the country). she found emails were they said that they cared a lot for each other. he said it didn't matter because it was just by emails, nothing would ever happen, it was just a scape of reality, a game.. she loves him a lot.. i don't know what to tell her. i'm her bestfriend i don't want to break her heart, but i personaly think she should break up with him .. what do u guys think?? (link)
hmmm what her "b/f" is doing is messed up...if he still cares for his ex..then what he is doing wit your friend is using her.. to either forget bout his ex girlfriend...or just to have someone next to him...cuz he cant stand being singel...or i dunno something...i wonder if his "ex g/f" knows that he has a g/f...well anyways...i agree wit you but b4 she does that she should go and talk to her b/f first and tell him how she feels and see wut he says bout it ;) xoxo effy




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