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i'm 16 and i'm in high school right now and I know this might seem like a cliche, but all of my close friends are getting into serious drugs and alcohol, and I made an oath to myself awhile back never to get into that shit. So what to I do, find new friends? Tell it's stupid and have them exile me? Even I myself at one point almost gave in.... I keep trying to tell them pot makes them stupid and they're alcholics. Any suggestions?

i think you should stick to your oath and your friends. if there is one friend that you are particularly close to maybe you can convince them to not do drugs either.

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I was wondering
Is it true if you blow dry your hair and straigthen it like everday that by the time your 25 your hair will fall out?
I usually do that everyday except for on weekends.
Will my hair fall out?

your hair will probably fall out, but if it doesn't fall out, then it will become very thin and dry.

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I really like this guy and he told my friend he thinks im cute and he knows that i think hes cute yet he still hasnt said more than 10 words to me. My friend takled to him about me and he acted ike he really liked me because we have alot in common but now he jus stares at me and smiles but he wont say anything and thats whats confusing me so much! HELP!!!

you should make the first move. if he smiles at you and stares then he probably likes you, but he's too shy to make the first move

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Hey all i have AIM 5.9... Well the other day i was sitting here and everything was fine working great then all of a sudden my buddylist names disappear but the little notebooks/cellphone icons were still showing.. so it turns out i had to change my font from century gothic to tahome so i could see. well that was problem one.
Problem two now whenever my friends talk to me it looks like this:
Me: Hey whats up?
Friend:
Me: what?
Friend:
and so on its reallly annoying and i dont know how to fix it! so if someone could pleeeeeease help me id luv you forever! thanks i rate 5s

i dont know if this will work but i would try highlighting what they say.

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I know this is kind of stupid, but here it goes anyways.
I'm deathly afriad of shots! and i have to get one for high school in April or around then porbably sooner.
I'm terrified and i don't know how to get over this fear. I'll probably start to cry at the office.
Please help
5 unless your mean
thanks!
shot scaredy

omg i used 2 b extremely scared of shots too! here's what helped me.
1) try holding your breath and squeezing sumthing very hard when it goes in.

2) i heard sumwhere that if you cough when the needle goes in then you won't feel anything.

3) close your eyes before the nurse starts and hold your breath. it should be over before you know it.

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ok im a 15/f and i lik this guy whos one of my guy friends from swimteam, we always hangout during school and sometimes after and i always see him looking at me, as if he likes me. He's always putting his arm arround me and kicking my butt and stuff but i dont know if that means he likes me too or if that is jus the way guys always act. pleaz help im soo confused as to tell if he likes me or not!!! Guys pleaz answer too!

it sounds to me that he may like you. i would tell him that you like him and see if he likes you too.

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So on friday 4 girlfriends and 1-2 guy friends are comin over just to hang out (we're all 15 and 16 btw) Well after a while i know fo sho that its goin to be boooring. what are some fun games to play? we dont want any kissing games (we've all known each other for so long itd be awkward lol)But something similar to Ten Fingers or like pictionary.. Please help asap! i rate 5s :]
~0503 Rep~

one game that i love to play is called taboo. you take a card that has one word at the top and 5 more words, and you have to get your teammates to guess the word at the top, without using the 5 other words. it can be very funny and a lot of fun.

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how can i get my pennsylvania babysitting licence

www.redcross.org, and take the course at a community center. i got mine from a red cross course at school

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O.K...
Tomorrow night, my parents want to go out for a night of fun... by themselves. I'm 13 and I can either watch my sister overnight or go to Chuck's house. He's a family friend but his kids do not like me and I do not like them. But Chuck really wants us to come over... he's had a tough year and he has been looking forward to this. We were going to bake cookies and everything but I don't know if I want to deal with their kids... what should I do... I really don't want to hurt him and I'm kind of scared to be with my sister ALL night by ourselves... since our house got robbed last year... I have no clue what to do!!! Please help. I also don't want to put up with the mean things his kids say to me! But Chuck is really nice and his wife died this year, his mom died this year, and his dog died this year! His dog died while trying to climb a fence and her collar got caught on the fence and she hung. His wife died of cancer and she was only forty years of age. And his mom died of old age! I feel bad for his kids that they lost their mom but don't know if I should go over there and... DEAL WITH THEM! It would also be overnight... and the oldest son, Corey, has a crush on me and I don't think I want to sleep in the same room as his but the youngest son, Chuckie, gets on my nerves. I doubt he'll be thatway way around his dad but... I don't know! PLEASE HELP!

go to his house, but always stay near him. if he is nice, then you will enjoy being with him, and his kids wont bother you while your near him.

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i am babysitting with a friend so we have to split the money and the town isnt very rich about how much should i charge 1 kid per hour 2 kids per hour 3 kids per hour and 3 kids per hour

i rate high

i would charge 6 dollars per kid per hour.

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I want to walk into my babysitting job with the kds running up to me saying yay _____ here! How any tips? I'll rate you high for trying

smile a lot, don't be mean, don't lose your temper, and don't ignore them. if you actually play with them, and do what they want to do, then they will like you and want you to babysit again.

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I want to start babysitting, but i don't know anyone who is willing enough to let me.

I need some money to save up for something.
My Cousin is due in 2 weeks!! When her baby is older, should i help her?

-needs some money

i would make a poster with those things at the bottom that people can tear off and read your phone number and hang it in a public place that a lot of families go to.

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im not sure what to put this under as a category but heres how the story goes:

im 15/f. ive been going to the same school since i was seven. its an all girls school, and most of my guy friends go to all guy schools. well, anyways, the thing is that after school i do ballet... but it is WAY to early. it starts at like four thirty and thats just to early for me. i have things to take care of after school!

well, anyways, the all guy schools have chearleaders, but all the chearleaders go to this other all girls school. thers only two girls schools and two guy schools where i live =), but the reason that they dont allow the girls from my school to try out for chearleading for those schools is because we dont have a chearleading team...... and ive always wanted to become a chearleader!!!! and its also because i get to meet more guys when i get out of school (aka prison) instead of doing ballet, where its another group of all girls! so, i have moved the ballet classes to the adult classes only because it was a better scheduale for me......


but..... the reason we dont have a chearleading team is because the headmistress of our school doesn't believe in it or something because she thinks that girls are showing their underwear... i dont know its really really stupid. but, thats what she says. maybe if i wrote her a letter or something, she would consider it, i mean we are like the only school in this city that does not have a chearleading team, and some people, like me, really, really want to do it!!!! what could i write to her to make her change her mind.... and you know, not sound disrespectful to her or anything, u noe, not make her mad. heehee.... thank you very much for reading this. thanking u in advance for your help!

i would make a petition and get the people that want it to sign. if you present a lot of signatures to her, then she will have a hard time turning you down. if that doesn't work, then you can try to join a cheerleading team outside of school, or you could transfer to the other all girls school.

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today, at school i walked for about 30 minutes..about a mile, then i walked home...about 30 more minutes...then i lifted weights for 20 minutes, then did my gazelle for only 10 minutes, i then walked to the school to get my couison, and home ( 30 minutes ) then i did an intermediate pilates video..

me and my couison plan on doing this a few times a week..will i lose weight? ( sum days though i won't be doing all that walking, and it'll be weights, video, and gazelle )

any advice to stay motivated on the gazelle for 20 minutes? i feel like its like 5 hours! i love reading advice..so i'll take comments..

thanks in advance!

much love

hopeless romantic

it depends on if you are a boy or a girl. you are doing a lot of cardio, which, if you are a girl, can be very helpful towards losing weight, but if you are a boy, can burn muscle instead of fat. If you are a girl, and you don't plan on doiong all of that walking, then you should stay on the gazelle for longer. maybe to stay on if its boring you could watch tv while your doing it. if you are a boy, then you should not do as much long walking, but stay with your current time on the gazelle, and lift the weights more.

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I know this may sound weird but i want to gain weight but not make it noticeable so ill weigh more but wont look any diffrant because im taking wrstling and i want to be heavy so i wont be able to be taken down as easily any suggestions?

muscles weigh more than fat, so gain muscles

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I'm a tiny little person (13/f) and my mom wants me to exercise. Aside from burning off fat and staying at a healthy weight, why is it important to exercise?

besides the things you said, exercising gives you energy. also, it releases endorphins, which make you happy.

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what's better:
running for 15 minutes,
or walking for a half hour?

it depends on if your a boy or a girl. if your a boy, then the running for 15 mins will be much better, since long cardio makes boys lose muscles. if you are a girl, the walking is better, since long cardio makes girls lose fat.

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okay so i'm almost 5'4 and i weight about 134 pounds.

i really want to lose ten pounds by spring break in april, i know i can do it i just need some tips and / or advice.

my routine is going to consist of:
slim fast & granola bar for breakfast
salad for lunch
and usually chicken with vegetables for dinner
somewhere in here i'll have fruit
run atleast a mile sometime during the day

any tips or suggestions? thank you.

do situps, at least 20 a day to start with and then add more each day

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i am not out of shape, but i just hate my stomach
i have love handles and belly fat,not much, but you know. I xercize and try to eat good food most of the time! But it doesn help., advice plz!!

do crunches and crossover crunches adding more each day. it should take at least 4 weeks before you start to notice results.

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I began this diet and exercise routine in the beginning of the month and I weighed 126. Its the end of the month and now I weigh 120/121 (I yoyo between those two weights every day). I lost all the weight in the beginning, and for the past for what seems like forever NOTHING has been changin!

I havent really been focusing on losing POUNDS but losing STOMACH (I have a fat stomach, but everywhere else isnt to bad) and I feel like NOTHING is happening. I cut out most junk food (I do cheat once or twice a week and eat a tastycake or chips) but compared to what I used to be, EVERY day I'd eat junkfood. And I've cut portions and I drink a tall glass of chocomilk for breakfast everyday. And I do 7 diff. types of stomach exercises: crunches, these two my mom taught me, reverse crunch, side crunch, bicycle crunch, and ab reach. I do 30 of each (except two sets of 30 on the two diff. sides for side crunch and the ab reach you do two sets also) and I do them every night except for Saturday at like 10 at night. WHAT AM I DOING WRONG!?! Why am I at this complete standstill. I feel no more skinnier and its just. As you can see I'm completely frustrated.

Whats going on, and how can I get back on track?!

it seems to me like the reason that you're not losing any more weight is that you keep doing the same exercise every day. at the beginning it was new, so it was a challenge. but now, your body is used to the same exercise, so it is not causing any change. also, i would change the cheating to once a week not twice and change the chocolate milk to water or orange juice.

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