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Please don't tell me how stupid I am, I know unprotected sex is not good and I will be on birth control within the week.
The day after my period, my partner and I were messing around and while he didn't put his penis in me, he kind of rubbed it on me. Could I get pregnant from this? (plan b is not an option) (link)
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YOU ARE NOT STUPID!!!!
you may not like my answer but yes you can get pregnant. Depending on if semen was released if he was really excited and you guys were messing around ( arousing each other) he could have realesed some semen which can contain sperm. If you are on birth control pills its still possible but not likely. depending on when this happend and when your last menstrating period occured if its between 1-2 (
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Iam 20 years old and i have a few handicaps os I can't move out on my own right now so my mom uses this to her advantage let me give you an example of how she's been acting lately since she hasn't been taking her bipolar medicine th other day we got into this huge fight like why don't you ever cook anything why am I the only one who cooks around here and I say becouse you've never tought me how to cook how am I suppose to cook when I don't know how and then my mom says well that's not my fault why do you have to blame it on me and I say becouse it is your fault! I also share a room with my 8 year onld niece and my 6 year old nephew who also have some handdicaps and when she walked into my room she says rachel that's me come here right now yoiu nsstly little bitch why is your room such a mess I said why is it always my fault becouse the room is a mess the kids mess it up to and she says well you could clean it up your the oldest I said I'll clean it if the kids will help me iam not cleaning it by myself when I didn't do all of it and then she told me if I didn't clean it by myself she was going to put me in a group homw please help me! (link)
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1st off
Im sorry
im sorry you are going thru this.
hang in ther.
let her cool off.
then when you feel shes in a bit more control talk to her. tell her sorry ...hear me out
tell her your sorry you cant help her, and that you dont know how to cook. let her know you love her. she feels bad too i mean do you think shes happy with what you have to go through? tell her I want to learn how to cook and ask her to teach you. beleieve it or not you both need to bond.
when she gets moddy tell her sorry mom ill do it just saying sorry might calm her just dont fight her let her vent it out as long as she doesnt get physical. talking back only fuels the fire.itll take a while but every thing takes time. you want her to learn to stay in control and if you dont give her a reason to feel threaten shell start backing off i mean shell just figure you wont fight her so whats the point in fighting. I hope this helps
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Before I get lectured about being to young I already know I am but to late. I had sex with this guy, lost my virginity to him. Welll He didnt come and we used a condom that didn't break... WEll I'm supposed to start my period but it won't come ! is there anyway I could be or could I just be stressed HELP OH and I'm not completely regular but... (link)
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first off. Its okay im not going to judge you. You dont need that right now. You need support.
This is my opinion. for what ever reason you have not begun menstrating i dont really know but it may very well have to do with the fact that your body has just had sex your vagina will react in a vvery diffrent way. girls and guys who are new to sex think its just bam bam and its all back to normal...so not true You could very well be not pregnant or you can be. Only time 1-2 weeks can tell via a pregnancy test either after having intercourse(sex) or missing you period even if your irregular if your pregnant your body will preduce a hormone that will show up in your urine (pee) when you take the test take it after you wake up when you bladder is the most full. avoid drinking beer or alcoholic beverages. If you do have sex again please think about it alot. and if you do take that step again dont rush it you are already naked and hes ready to go in just slow down and think about even if hes about to penetrate you can stop i beleive that a guy can prove to a girl he really cares and respect her if she says." i dont want to or lets stop or it hurts or lets slow down" it can tell you alot about a guy. compare to a guy that says i cant i need it or too bad and just shoves it in....i really hope you dont take this for a lecture ..its just an opinion and you are more than welcome to hear (read) it or not . so to answer your question here it is when was your last menstruation? when was it you had sex? did he used the condom before going inside you or did he at any point go in a little or rubbed his bare penis on your vulva ( area outside vagina)?
try to calm down if a condom was used properly and he did not climax (cum) inside you then you have a huge chance you are not pregnant. try the pregnancy test. but why isnt your period comming?
you have to understand that you had a penis inside you. and it was covered in a latex cover you threw off your viginas chemistry off. The vigina is a part of the human body that has a life and defense system of its own it has a acid range (ph) and maybe your body reacted to his penis as an intruder and is really stressed. believe it or not some women that miss their periods that have not had sex, when they do have sex they get their period...wierd? not really sex is a way to relax...now wait im not saying to go have sex but i am saying is to try and relax go for a walk watch a movie do excersice,just relax let your body calm down and do her job..and if you get turned on...go to your room and please yourself a bit and if you cum that might make you have your period but for the time being just..dont have sex yet...sex can be scary huh?
I really really hope this helps
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Okay well like I said in the past question that I asked . I had a hard time letting my ex boyfriend go . Well I finally am able to let my ex boyfriend go and im ready to moved forward with the guy that I been with for 10 months . But it feels like I waited to late . Because my boyfriend doesn't want to touch me like that . In school he does really touch me. But when we are walkin home he does . He doesn't say he loves me like he used to . He doesn't do anything like he used to . He is a wonderful person but I just feel he is not interested in me anymore. I tried to break up with him before but he didn't want to break up . But then again he asks like he doesn't want to be with me anymore . Im making some big changes in my life . I just went threw some things with my parents seperating and me living with my mom and grandparents now . So im trying to be more understanding . And last year it was like I pushed him away a lot and now I want him all ova me . But he says I got what I wished for .he says he loves me every now and thin . We don't really go anywhere he doesn't really buy me anything . The last time he brought me something was when we was gonna break up a while back. Ao basically I want to know should I let him go . Or should I stay with him. And what mistakes am I making . Thanks . (link)
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sorry i really do not know much of your situation but what i can say is this. You are going thru alot right now...beleive it or not i think you need a lot ..you need someone to hear you out, talk to you keep you company and love you with out any physical interest. You dont need sex drugs or anything that can and will throw you way off. If your boyfriend seems to not find you interesting ask him if hes going some stuff? ask him if he loves you? let him know you feel him cold...but ask him calmy and if he gives you the cold silent treatment or gets aggressive just be strong and calmy say im sorry...walk away and then let him go. why calmly? you do not war again you are not in a situation for more load you need to have a focused mind. I hope this really helps
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Hi im 18 and im a guy who just recently asked a girl out who i was told likes me, which turns out to be evident anyways. Shes younger than me (16) but all day at school she was making alot of contact and such, and at the end of the day i gave her a long hug and she seemed very much like she was leaning toward giving me a kiss. BUT me of course being not sure if that's what she really wanted, (especially in front of like all of the middle schoolers and our grades....) i sorta slowly backed away and said see you tomorrow...
If anyone has any insight on maybe what she would be thinking right now cause i cant really go back and change that but was that a mistake??? (link)
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I titally understand. Try not to mentioned this to her unless she brings it up. She might feel bad. Act like it was a hug and thats it. Maybe she was curious and wanted a kiss but i dont think she might be that kind. Remember you were told she likes you she wasnt the one who said it right? In a way its cool you didnt kiss now she might think of you diffrent and see you as a respectful guy thats when you prove to her shes right and that you will always respect her body, mind and emotions..in other words dont crew it up and dont ruin it for her and yourself. Enjoy a good clean relationship and you will never go wrong. Hope this helps
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I was drinking last night and got really, really smashed. I know, I was being very stupid by drinking SO much. Anyway, I was at a party and I know this guy was really hitting on me and trying to get in my pants all night long. I was grinding on him some and we were making out. I'll admit that I remember him sliding his hand down my pants and fingered me for just like a few minutes, but I was really, really horny so I KNOW I totally let him do that to me because it feels good.
I'm a virgin though and I want to save myself for marriage and I kept telling him no to putting his penis in me but he kept trying to persuade me. Anyway, I ended up passing out sometime and woke up without most of my clothes on (I only had on my thong panties). It wouldn't have been a big deal but it was like someone had taken off my underwear and put them back on me? I can't be for sure.
Anyway, my loser friends weren't there to take care of me and now I'm worried that the guy succeeded and we did have sex. I called the loser "friends" and they told me crap about me screaming at them a lot to leave me alone with the guy. I know I didn't do that because I'm not that kind of person so they have to be making that up. They are probably too stupid to just tell me the truth that they don't care if I have sex or not. One of the loser friends told me that the last time she saw me I was with the guy and his pants were down and I was giving him head. I PROBABLY did do that because I usually give some really hott guy head at the parties I go to. This guy was WAY hott too. I don't remember that this time though.
Today I'm not bleeding or anything but I have before when I fingered myself and masturbated with things so I think I had already ripped my hymen out. How can I tell if I'm still a virgin? Do I need to see a doctor to find out? Is there actually a way? Should I find out the guy's name and take him to court because he totally took advantage of me last night?! I'm furious if he did have sex with me because I totally didn't say yes to that! (link)
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#1 is
Are you hurt
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If you feel any pain at all get medical attention
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Just because you were very excited (horny) and you made the wrong choice in putting yourself in that position does NOT Give anyone the right to rape you...I dont care what you did ...a prostitute can get raped..your not a prostitute and if you did get raped you need to get some help. You can go to a gynocologist for a pap smear test and ask if there is any evidence of forceful entry or if your hymen appears irritated yes its posible to tear it and not bleed but what you are trying to make sure is that your vaginal has not been penetraded. Second have a doctor look at your throa and get a culture sample and make sure you do not get a infection.
#4 please stop this life style..understand this when you are intoxicated heavily there can be a point when you have more alcohol than water ...your body survives off of water not liquor and you are not going to have control over your body when youve lost control of it. Just slow down and get help. and if you are hot then stay home do excersie, take warm bath and if need be masturbate itll be safer than what just happened to you. Hope this helps
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my friend gave her boyfriend head, and he has cancer, testicular cancer he already had one nut removed and when she gave him head she swallowed he is going through chemotherapy .. is there any danger in swallowing his cum everyone told her it was bad because all the drugs he had in his system from the chemotherapy, should she be worried or is she fine? (link)
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Semen doesnt transmitt cancer. when ingested it can be dissolved by the stomach acids. it may not be harmful however the medcations that might be present in the semnen can have ptotential harmfull effects. hope this helps
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Im an 18 year old girl. I met a guy at a club one night we were both drunk and i didnt give him the time of day. I saw him multiple times at the club before we started talking. He was always telling me he wants a gf. When we were talking he started to tell me he'd love waking up to my face everyday, i got scared because i had gotten out fo a 2 year relationship 6 months before and he had been out of one for 4 months. I pushed him away becasue i could bare the idea of getting close to a guy i barely knew. After a while he started hanging with his ex becasue she is best friends with his sister whos realy close with him. I never brought it to his attention that I was confused. We started talking again i slept in the same bed with him 6 times without doin anything with him. He would tell me he wants me to be his gf i hadnt had sex in 8 months so finally out of no where it happened then he told me he wanted to be my bf but i didnt take him seriously becasue he still slept with his ex and hung out with her all the time. I saw his sister the other night she said hes obcessed with me and never stops talkign about me. I feel like shes just tryin to get him lucky becasue i dont know why she would say that when shes best friends with his ex all three of them were at the club when she said this. I dont know what to do I like when guys chase me I dont want to be caught up in that but I like him. (link)
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I think you need to walk away. Dont take advice from his sister more than 90% of the time they take their bros side. Lesson to learn is that if a guy comes up to you and says baby i need you or I need a girl or i can make you feel good its lame talk its his way of saying i need me some from you..care to open up and volunteer? and thats him saying this out loud. Dont take him serious hes a playah. You dont like him you just like the way he can dominate your sexual desire. in other words you like his approach. Hope this helps
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Here's a random question out of curiousity haha
If a woman had sex with identical twin males, say with each one within a day apart and she became pregnant, would it be possible to tell who the father is? I know twins have the same DNA but other things about them are different, like their finger prints. (link)
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Twins are not identical DNAs they do share genes
"there in fact are tiny differences and that they are relatively common," said researcher Jan Dumanski, a molecular geneticist at the University of Alabama at Birmingham.
In the new study, researchers analyzed 19 pairs of identical twins. Although they did possess nearly identical genomes, closer study revealed they often differed in the number of copies of individual gene segments. For instance, one twin might be missing a segment, or possess more copies of that segment than the other twin.
Such variations could explain why one identical twin can suffer from a disorder while the other remains healthy. Researcher Carl Bruder expected that even identical twins that appear completely alike harbor "copy number variations" when it comes to at least one site in their genomes.
http://www.livescience.com/health/080221-twins-not.html
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15, Chick, Sophmore
There's this guy who I met last year on Facebook, but we went to school together, same grade. We started texting then finally met in school after a few months cause I tried to avoid him, I was afraid of meeting him because over the time of texting he fell for me.
Me, never being in a dead on serious relationship, just little ones, was frightened of the commitment.
We met, but at this point we had kinda stopped talking.
But then I realize I've started to really like him. I loved how he talked to me and how he called me beautiful every hour. But, the chance was gone. So was he.
New school year, we see eachother.
It's like he refuses to talk to me because I somewhat rejected him.
He.got.so.GORGEOUS. over the summer.
We make eye contact, he contuines to stare at me when we pass in the halls.
Last week he just started Facebooking my best friend and he asked her to go to the movies with him this Friday, of course I got jealous and told her I wasnt comfortable with it.
She told me she was sorry, she would have said no if she knew. Throught the week after he asked her out Sunday, they didn;t talk AT ALL.
Just the other day, he kept staring while I kept flicking my eyes to his, then infront of me, his, front, his, front. He would NOT break the eye contact. Please refer to part - and this was around Thursday, I was with the girl he asked to the movies, he didn't even look at her.
But, Friday comes along, he cancels due to 'sports' - you-d think he knew he had a game/practice that week, right?
So I started thinking, maybe he's trying to make me jealous?
We have class across from eachother one period, he sometimes stares at me from his room.
My friends catch him staring when I don't.
Only he just like flat out refuses to talk to me! Even I Facebook.
I'd like to confront him about this, but I don't wanna make things akward when we see eachother in school if it turns out bad.
Yes, I do like him. I'd like to get back to the way we used to be, maybe a bit more.
But, what do you think? Your opinions on the matter?
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Should I Facebook confront him? - In person is out of the question.
Do you think he might have been trying to make me jealous?
What to you think about the staring? - Not to sound conceided, but I know I have gotten alot prettier over the summer, though, so has he. Lol.
This subject has been bothering me for quite awhile. And I'd really like to get it settled.
Forgive the spelling mistakes.
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accept that you made a mistake. but do not say to him sorry until you and him can communicate again. He misses you and would like to talk again hes just afraid and thats the truth he doesnt know how you are...he thought he did but you gave him the wrong idea...You are going to have to make a move not a strong one but slowly...if he finds someone else let it go..its ok you havent lost its the way we learn how to make decisions in life. Always be happy for the choce he makes be his friend than his foe...friends fall in love too. Hope this helps
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My boyfriend is in the Air Force, he is getting deployed to Afghanistan next month. I am stressing out over this REALLY bad, not because I think our relationship will go down the toilet, we have a very strong stable relationship, but mostly because I am worried about him for obvious reasons. (Death, Injury, and especially how it will mentally affect him) He knows that I am upset (obviously) but I dont think he knows the extent of my stress, like losing sleep, nightmares etc. Websites I read basically tell me not to talk to him about it because it might "stress him out more". But that goes against my personal policy of talking to each other with the truth and telling each other exactly what we feel. So, what the heck do I do? (link)
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I agree you need to let him know. You guys are plannig to stay together right? keep in touch right? let him know that you love him and will miss him alot and that youll be waiting and expect him to not betray your relationship as friends and as a couple. hope this helps
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My Boyfriend and I have been together for 4yrs, An have lived together for the past year and a half. We got into an argument about money problems the other night because we have recently moved out of the apartment we had into his parents to stay there until we got enough money to fix up his house he will be getting from his Grandpas death. We have had an argument that escalated into a pushing screaming match and the next day he told me he needed space, so i packed my things and left. Well ive went there later that night to try an work things out he screamed at me again said give him space and I left, then on sunday yesterday I went over there to bring him some of his things and he said he just needed time to think an space an he would call me when he is ready to talk. So? How do I cope with this, an his friends constantly text me to, what is space? An if he should be missing me an wanting me, how should I treat his friends when they talk to me an ask me questions about our relationship an what im doing, because I believe and know they go back an tell him things thinking I just don't know what they are doing? I need advice so anyone willing to give some id greatly appreciate it! (link)
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I think in this case He might need time alone maybe his family loss might be a reason he sees not being with you. He might use that as an excuse to release you from his life, regardless you keep yourself together and give him the space even if it hurts just let him breath and you go on with out him..im not saying replace him just continue on living if hes yours he'll come back looking for you and appologize but when he does ask him to explain everything you don not want him to be returing to you because there was someone else. hope this helps
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hey! I am 17 years old and a female. So I'm issues on being fucked over by guys. It starts out the same. A guy n I are friends, kinda like each other. the guy tells me, and then we kinda have a thing. but after awhile of being in this thing, we start doing stuff.and I know we both want it. But then after awhile he just completely stops talking to me! ): and I know what it is, so I just completely stop talking to him as well! I'm sick of it! I would rather have a relationship and not a thing or "friends with benefits." but also, I'm not jumping into it. i actual start liking the guy, and I think he does too but I'm gettin heartbroken by being fucked over! also, now I'm afraid to even start liking a new guy cuz i dont know if he is gonna do the exact same things the other guys have! ): please any advice? help? (link)
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Im a bit with purdy burdy
I dont know you. But I really beleive you are a beutiful girl. for all these guys to want to be with you, sadly these guys do not see you for what you are BUT you can from now on let everyone see and treat you the way you are supposed to be treated WITH respect. Girl always respect and demand respect and love yourself first so that you know first hand how you are suppose to feel. Dont let them use the " you have experiece already..you know you need it" or the Youre not a virgin or let them know too much about your sexual past theyll use it agaisnt you. All they need to know is Honestly no im not a virgin and no I do not see sex as a big thing. Grow a strong relationship before introducing sex into the relationship.... there is such a thing as Sex ruining a good relationship. Hope this helps
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Ok here goes... I am a 22 year old female... And it's this guy that I had a crush on since eighth grade... I mean he's really hot... And about a two weeks ago I was out with my friends... And I spotted him... Well we were in a night club so I told my friends about how I had a crush on him and... When I turned my back they went up to him and told him I liked him so... He came over to me and we started talking and we exchanged numbers... The day after I called him but he didn't answer and he called me the next day... We talked on the phone for about and hour and he came over my house... We sat in his car and talked for about and hour and then he left... After that day I called him and he didn't answer I left him a message but he didn't respond back until two days later... And I asked him when are we going to get togeather again he claimed last thursday so when that day came he said he was all tiered... and he said that we will chill one day when we are both not busy so... like everyday i text him and he rarely text back... or even answer the phone... So yesterday I was like I'm done I can't continue to chase him... But this morning he texted me good morning and I text him back... And so around 6pm I text him and I said how was his day... He text me back and for about ten minutes we texted back and forth until my tx messages ran out so... I had to call my phone company and order some more because... FINALLY he said we would spent some time today so... When I text him back after I finished getting ready... He didn't even respond nor did he answer my phone call... WoW! I'm pissed now... So since you read my long story what do you think? do you think that he's just playing me... And he have little if no intentions on spending time with me... maybe he don't even like me like that especially since my friends approached him... so should I just move on and leave him alone or should I keep trying I really like him and I'm so confused please help me (link)
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This is my opinion...I really think this guy might someone and is trying not to get caught. He seems to only answer your calls on his time ...maybe hes with his girl and doesnt want to attract suspicion. I dont think he wants you for a strong relationship..he knows you are hot for him already so he feels empowered I think he wants to make you desperate for him(sorry if i offend you) but you need to be strong and ignore it. let him go I know you are a gorgeous young woman so please be calm someone will come along with the time and right intentions for you. I hope this helps
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So I'm 16 and a junior in high school.
There's two guys that im "talking" too.
One goes to my school,is a junior and really nice and friendly and funny and whatnot,but he's really nerdy and not that good looking but I like him for his personality ,but i barely find him attractive at all.We get along really well,but he's a virgin and has never really done anything like that,which I have and I'm popular and have a lot of friends and whatnot,so it'd be out of the ordinary for me to go out with him,but I do like him.Then theres this 19 year old,who lives near me and is pretty cute.He as well has a good personality and is really nice ,he's got a good job and ofcourse he's not a virgin so he's more experienced and such,but he doesn't know any of my friends and he's so random but we are still talking and I still like him as well too.
I don't know what to do! I don't like either one of them THAT much,just a little bit ..if even that.
Should I just hangout with them separately a few times and kinda pick from there? Or what?It's nothing serious with either guy. (link)
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Friends are forever...this "nerd" as you call him may not be that attractive to you...maybe he isnt but that doesnt mean hes not appealing. In other words you might not find him attractive but someone will. even with no sexual experience he's still special and he'll find someone special with or with out you. the other guy might have some sexual experience but so what experience isnt what makes you feel good its the feeling that its with the person you feel comfortable, safe, happy, loved, understood, heard, cared for and satisfied...oh and you can get this without sex yes believe it or not it can happen. thats what true friends are for. Id rather have a friend that maybe no one finds attractive and is a true friend than someone who is surreal the other might have a job but so what jerks have jobs too and so do silly, funny and excellent friends. Do'nt make the mistake in judging the book before you read it. You are looking for a friend right? for a possible future? or a positive effect in your life right? not to get your self in a sexual position right?? Not just that hes going thru physical changes his body and face has not finised developing...you never know he might turn out to be a hunk and a brilliant (nerd) when he becomes a man...and you might miss out on that experience..watch going on 13. Hope this helps
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what is the diffrent between a girl sucking dick then a boy sucking pussy why they always come and tess the girl (link)
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When a girl goes down on a guy its diffrent in the way that she has the guys part in her mouth and "sucking " when a guy goes down on a gal he is licking her special zoneand SHOULD not be sucking...it can hurt a gal/girl it can really cause damage to her sexual organs and YOU SHOULD NEVER BLOW into a vagina NEVER just like a girl/gal should NEVER BITE a guys penis.
Why do guys go around making fun of girls when they go down on a guy? THEY (guys) ARE IDIOTS and do not appreciate the satisfaction that a girl is offereing them and more reason why a girl should be careful what guy goes into her mouth and into her special zone. hope this helps
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So this summer I moved from Newport, California to Washington DC because of my stupid dad's promotion. I HATE IT. This year was suppose to be MY AMAZING SENIOR YEAR instead it's turning out to be a shitty one. I miss all my amazing friends, the beach, the boys, all the parties I'm going to miss, homecoming, prom, winter formal, and tons of other stuff that I'm not going to be able to experience with my friends. I feel like just a few months ago my life was so perfect and I had everything and now I'm in a shit hole without anyone. My new school sucks ass and the people with it. They don't even have student parking for my range rover or student off campus lunch! So anyways I'm so so so freaking depressed it's not even funny! All the girls hate me because they're all jealous or some shit talking about me 24/7 ex. "Did you take a look at the new girl? She's so barbie fake from California slut." and ALL the boys stare at me like I'm a fucking piece of meat it's disgusting. I get a lot of smirks, nasty comments, etc you get the picture. I HAVE 0 friends at this shit school and I'm about to go crazy seriously... California and DC are so freaking different and I HATE IT. I want my old perfect life where everyone loved me, I was on top of everything, etc. So please YOU GUYS give me some freaking tips or advice on my situation SERIOUSLY. I'm fucking MISERABLE.
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i cant say I understand your situation but I do have an idea of what you feel..It can b tough but try not to see the negative to the point that it turns you something that you hate. You are a beautiful person and forget what everyone else says they dont know you . You know yourself but you also know that you can also be happy wherever you go and as humans we adapt better and fast when we try to blend in...just a little im not saying to change but instead give yourself the opportunity to learn, and grow. I hope this helps
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American female. I was wondering are there any easy ways to get a guy turned on? Seth seems so board with me, I want to impress him/ turn him on. We have big crush's on each other, and I wanna kick up a knotch any ideas to get my man to accutally do something (kiss, ask me out, sex, ect.). Thanks in advance! (link)
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Turnning him on wont be difficult if there is a mutual feeling in other words you need to be sure that you and him can grow a feeling for each other. You do not want to end up expressing yourself or offering yourself to him and then find out hes not what you thought he would be. Instead talk I mean talk Yes guys like to talk and alot ...heres the thing only if he really find you interesting..wierd i know but its true
if you guys can eat lunch together or walk in the park thatll work too then youll get a better idea if you realy likes you or its just a courteous thing. then yu guys can walk into a relationship together rather than just have sex or a kiss. Wouldnt you want to experience a burst of satisfaction with every kiss, touch look or motment of intimacy with him? or with that someone? Hope this helps you
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my boyfriend gets like upset and he loses self esteem cause he hasn't gotten me to climax yet...i tell him it still feels good and i explain that alot of girls have it hard like that and its not him, and i tell him hes good. but unfortunetly thats not enough confidence boost for him...so what can i do to make him feel really good about himself? (preferably sexually but ill take anything) thankyouu. (link)
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Here is my opinion.
I think it works the same for both males and females. No body wants to feel they dont know how to satisfy their mate. This might help and I hope I dont offend you does he go down on you? if not then that might help but he needs to be warm, gentle and erotic to you while doing this. Maybe start by massaging you, and kissing down there and carressing you. It shouldnt make you nervous instead the point is to relax you to make you feel warm and ...wet again sorry if i offend you and there is nothing wrong in you guiding him you know him better than i do talk him through it. Explain to him what turn you on...that turns guys on too you know. If you like to be gone down on let hime know if not dont tell hime Dont eat me just encourage him to arouse you in another way touch, kissing anything that you feel that he can do to turn you on and orgasm. Your boyfriend needs to relax and love you with love. That love for you will make him want to make you happy emotional, physical and sexual. You will need to express the same for him. Both will equal satisfaction for fullfilment for each other. I hope this helps
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