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my mom is being a bitch!
Iam 20 years old and i have a few handicaps os I can't move out on my own right now so my mom uses this to her advantage let me give you an example of how she's been acting lately since she hasn't been taking her bipolar medicine th other day we got into this huge fight like why don't you ever cook anything why am I the only one who cooks around here and I say becouse you've never tought me how to cook how am I suppose to cook when I don't know how and then my mom says well that's not my fault why do you have to blame it on me and I say becouse it is your fault! I also share a room with my 8 year onld niece and my 6 year old nephew who also have some handdicaps and when she walked into my room she says rachel that's me come here right now yoiu nsstly little bitch why is your room such a mess I said why is it always my fault becouse the room is a mess the kids mess it up to and she says well you could clean it up your the oldest I said I'll clean it if the kids will help me iam not cleaning it by myself when I didn't do all of it and then she told me if I didn't clean it by myself she was going to put me in a group homw please help me!
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1st off
Im sorry
im sorry you are going thru this.
hang in ther.
let her cool off.
then when you feel shes in a bit more control talk to her. tell her sorry ...hear me out
tell her your sorry you cant help her, and that you dont know how to cook. let her know you love her. she feels bad too i mean do you think shes happy with what you have to go through? tell her I want to learn how to cook and ask her to teach you. beleieve it or not you both need to bond.
when she gets moddy tell her sorry mom ill do it just saying sorry might calm her just dont fight her let her vent it out as long as she doesnt get physical. talking back only fuels the fire.itll take a while but every thing takes time. you want her to learn to stay in control and if you dont give her a reason to feel threaten shell start backing off i mean shell just figure you wont fight her so whats the point in fighting. I hope this helps
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