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should i give it up
Im an 18 year old girl. I met a guy at a club one night we were both drunk and i didnt give him the time of day. I saw him multiple times at the club before we started talking. He was always telling me he wants a gf. When we were talking he started to tell me he'd love waking up to my face everyday, i got scared because i had gotten out fo a 2 year relationship 6 months before and he had been out of one for 4 months. I pushed him away becasue i could bare the idea of getting close to a guy i barely knew. After a while he started hanging with his ex becasue she is best friends with his sister whos realy close with him. I never brought it to his attention that I was confused. We started talking again i slept in the same bed with him 6 times without doin anything with him. He would tell me he wants me to be his gf i hadnt had sex in 8 months so finally out of no where it happened then he told me he wanted to be my bf but i didnt take him seriously becasue he still slept with his ex and hung out with her all the time. I saw his sister the other night she said hes obcessed with me and never stops talkign about me. I feel like shes just tryin to get him lucky becasue i dont know why she would say that when shes best friends with his ex all three of them were at the club when she said this. I dont know what to do I like when guys chase me I dont want to be caught up in that but I like him.
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I think you need to walk away. Dont take advice from his sister more than 90% of the time they take their bros side. Lesson to learn is that if a guy comes up to you and says baby i need you or I need a girl or i can make you feel good its lame talk its his way of saying i need me some from you..care to open up and volunteer? and thats him saying this out loud. Dont take him serious hes a playah. You dont like him you just like the way he can dominate your sexual desire. in other words you like his approach. Hope this helps
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Leave his sister out of it. You are 18 years old and capable of making your own decisions. You seem confused in that you like him, then again you don't want to be involved. You have also identified the ex a couple of times too and that you like being chased. So, first have a real heart to heart with yourself and find out what it is you want.
Make sure you aren't interested as a sense of competition with the ex. Make sure you like him before approaching him. If and when you do approach him be real with him. Tell him how you feel. Don't say things his sister told you - stay away from the he said she said mess... Let him know that you would like to get to know him better and more.(stay friends) and take it from there. Good luck, and remember to keep it real! IF YOU TWO do hook up - let him know up front that you aren't going to be played (sexually or with the ex) if he still has feelings for her, cancel that thought! so that you don't end up hurt and played - so I am saying this do not up the cookies anymore until you both know what you want, what direction you are going, and are on the same page. Good luck Miss Lady!
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