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I keep getting Played
Ok here goes... I am a 22 year old female... And it's this guy that I had a crush on since eighth grade... I mean he's really hot... And about a two weeks ago I was out with my friends... And I spotted him... Well we were in a night club so I told my friends about how I had a crush on him and... When I turned my back they went up to him and told him I liked him so... He came over to me and we started talking and we exchanged numbers... The day after I called him but he didn't answer and he called me the next day... We talked on the phone for about and hour and he came over my house... We sat in his car and talked for about and hour and then he left... After that day I called him and he didn't answer I left him a message but he didn't respond back until two days later... And I asked him when are we going to get togeather again he claimed last thursday so when that day came he said he was all tiered... and he said that we will chill one day when we are both not busy so... like everyday i text him and he rarely text back... or even answer the phone... So yesterday I was like I'm done I can't continue to chase him... But this morning he texted me good morning and I text him back... And so around 6pm I text him and I said how was his day... He text me back and for about ten minutes we texted back and forth until my tx messages ran out so... I had to call my phone company and order some more because... FINALLY he said we would spent some time today so... When I text him back after I finished getting ready... He didn't even respond nor did he answer my phone call... WoW! I'm pissed now... So since you read my long story what do you think? do you think that he's just playing me... And he have little if no intentions on spending time with me... maybe he don't even like me like that especially since my friends approached him... so should I just move on and leave him alone or should I keep trying I really like him and I'm so confused please help me
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This is my opinion...I really think this guy might someone and is trying not to get caught. He seems to only answer your calls on his time ...maybe hes with his girl and doesnt want to attract suspicion. I dont think he wants you for a strong relationship..he knows you are hot for him already so he feels empowered I think he wants to make you desperate for him(sorry if i offend you) but you need to be strong and ignore it. let him go I know you are a gorgeous young woman so please be calm someone will come along with the time and right intentions for you. I hope this helps
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You are not gonna want to hear this, but it sounds like you keep playing yourself. This guy hasn't played you-yet. You already know what you have to do, it's just something keeps stopping you from doing it.
You have to let this guy chase you, but the problem is your self-esteem is kind of low, so you think he won't. He has already proven he will, though. When you finally stopped calling him was when he finally started calling you.
Try to look at this from his point of view. You are kind of acting a little obsessed, and he might be thinking that if he gets involved with you, you are all of a sudden going to get clingy (admit it, you're already kind of clingy and nothing has even happened yet) and then your feelings are going to get hurt and he's gonna feel like a jerk.
Back off-the next time he texts don't ask him to get together. Before you know it he will be asking you.
Then, and here's the hard part; allow him the joy of chasing you. It will make the both of you happy.
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