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my boyfriend gets like upset and he loses self esteem cause he hasn't gotten me to climax yet...i tell him it still feels good and i explain that alot of girls have it hard like that and its not him, and i tell him hes good. but unfortunetly thats not enough confidence boost for him...so what can i do to make him feel really good about himself? (preferably sexually but ill take anything) thankyouu.
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Here is my opinion.
I think it works the same for both males and females. No body wants to feel they dont know how to satisfy their mate. This might help and I hope I dont offend you does he go down on you? if not then that might help but he needs to be warm, gentle and erotic to you while doing this. Maybe start by massaging you, and kissing down there and carressing you. It shouldnt make you nervous instead the point is to relax you to make you feel warm and ...wet again sorry if i offend you and there is nothing wrong in you guiding him you know him better than i do talk him through it. Explain to him what turn you on...that turns guys on too you know. If you like to be gone down on let hime know if not dont tell hime Dont eat me just encourage him to arouse you in another way touch, kissing anything that you feel that he can do to turn you on and orgasm. Your boyfriend needs to relax and love you with love. That love for you will make him want to make you happy emotional, physical and sexual. You will need to express the same for him. Both will equal satisfaction for fullfilment for each other. I hope this helps
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Sexual self-esteem should have the foundation of trust and love, I reckon. And so until you have that, it will always be pretty shaky. He's got to know that although he can't get you to climax (apparently, only 1 in every 10 guys CAN make a girl climax/orgasm), he's still got you and your love with each other has nothing to do with anything sexual. Just a piece of my mind. :)
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