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Q: Seriously, why is it so damn hard for people to spell correctly?
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Because people try to save a few letters by typing shortly. It happens a lot because of text messaging, but some are just too lazy to write something like and, so they right nd. Or, they are just stupid like me and forget the right mean your right or correct, not scribbling something down. :P
And then, other stuff is just because it is the hip thing to do, like writing babi instead of baby.
Well, it happens. I guess that's the best I can do. Drop one in the inbox if you need anything else!
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Q: is it a dis to have your screen name be "tragicly beautiful" ??
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I don't think so. I find it to mean that you are so beautiful, it's tragic. That's it.
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Q: me and my friends have this bad habit where we talk bad behind EVERYONES back...i mean EVERYBODY... including ourselves... i hate wen people talk about me when im not around...
idk how to stop me and my friends from doing this
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To stop yourself, get the people you complain to to help you. Like, you may want to go to them and say something like "If I ever talk badly about anyone, please slap me to wake me up." Eventually, you will associate talking badly about someone with pain, mental AND physical, and will stop.
Suggest this to your friends as well.
I'm not being sarcastic here at all.
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Q: you know how some people have like their last name . org ... and have an email to that... its like a whole website and everything? how do you get one of those? is it free?
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It's called a domain name. You fine it through certain companies that offer it. I know Yahoo offers it, as long as a few others. It does cost about $10-$50 a year, depending on what features you want.
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Q: me and my friend were best-friends since we were 4. we're 13 now and since we were 9 she's been hanging around with other people at lunch time.It didn't bother me that much .She became way more popular but it was like nothing had changed outside of school.When we 1st went into 1st year in secondary school (in Ireland)and i was really happy that she starterd hanging out with me in school again.Now we're in 2nd year and we don't see each-other outside school that much and we don't hang out in school and we're only in three classes together.she still talks to me like everything is fine.She doesn't sit beside me in two of the classes unless her friends aren't there!Sheonly sometimes sits beside me in the other class but lately she hasn't even been doing that!I think she's using me but if I tell her then she might not be my friend at all.What should I do?HELP!!!P.S. I'm a thirteen year old girl.
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It always happens when you go to a new school. Friends change and try to be someone else. However, it is noticed that a lot of these friends eventually start to drift back.
When my friends drifted away from me in 7th grade, I went out and started talking to a few new people that had interests like my own. Evenutally, these people became my friends, and we have been ever since. I think that you should wait for her to come back to you, and in the meantime, get a few other friends.
And if she's talking to you and such, I don't think she's using you. She just is trying to spend more time with her new friends.
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Q: What is 3rd base and how many bases are there?.I would never go furter than 1st base with a boy but you can't stop a curious 13 year old girl from wondering!!
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4 bases, as in baseball. 1st is frenching, 2nd is feeling, 3rd is fingering, Home is sex.
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Q: Ok i never did this but if you masturbate can your vagina tear??
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not for me, being male, but yes, it can tear if you go a bit too hard. As in really really abnormally hard.
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Q: i feel like i have come upon a dead end in my life. a boy that i like doesn't seem to feel the same for me and i don't think that i could work up the courage to tell him that i like him...what should i do aobut it?
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Just don't tell him yet. Hold off until it is a major issue that is affecting your relationship dramatically. I am saying this because if you don't have the courage yet, it shows how much you really care about him, and you still don't want to hurt him. Wait a little while until you can finally tell him with courage. It will build. Don't do anything you don't have to.
-Steven
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Q: Is it wrong that I'm happy over the fact my ex-girlfriend just got cheated on by her most recent boyfriend?
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Nah. It's not wrong. You just wanted to feel a pleasure of revenge, and you got it. I find nothing wrong with that.
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Q: okay well lately ive really had the urge to have a baby. im 16 and ive been watching kids and playing with my niece ( 2 1/2) and it really makes me want to have one. i dont want one for the sex or anything i just want it for the whole thing pregancy, birth baby everything and going around kids makes me want one more and more. what should i do? i dont live it a kind of neighbor hood where that is really acepted and my parents would kill me if i had a child but i want one so bad like you have no idea what do i do? its not like i can even control these urges they are there
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Why don't you become a personal mentor for a child? It is like being a parent, just that you don't have pure responsibility. Find a family that may want somebody to babysit every night, or who wants their child to get extra out of the house help, and mentor it to an older age?
They still feed it, and they pay for everything. You are the one who teaches principles to it, punishes it, and loves it.
Wow, I called a child an "It." that was harsh. It's a human being.
-Steven
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Q: First of all, let me clear the air. Im a sexually active 20 year old, Ive never been married, and I personally see nothing wrong with premarital sex, or sex in general.
But.
I have many friends who are Christian or Catholic, and they are (in my opinion) anywhere from sexually repressed at best, to afraid of and disgusted by sex at worst.
I cant really talk to most of them about it, simply because its a very uncomfortable subject.So I pose the question to the masses. For those of you who are religious, what are your views on sex, and why?
Thought provoking answers might get my screen name for further discussion, if you like. Any answers that sound something like
"ur crazy! Sex is uber cool! I LOVE SEX AND THERS NOTHIN WRONG WITH IT!! hope I helped plz rate"
or outright flames will get a 1.
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I still have my virginity, but I am very opinionated. I believe that pre-marital sex is fine. Nowhere in the bible does it say "Thou shalt not commit sex before you are bonded through sacrament!". It's only 10 commandments, not 11. (Why did I say sacrement? Presbyterians don't believe marriage to even be a sacrament... Whatever.)
Sex is an affirmation of love for another person. And you can love a person before you are married. If you didn't, marriage would never exist. Then again, some do it for fun. And what is wrong with fun? If that's bad, then "Thou shalt not play basketball!" is the exact same thing. I'm sure someone could make an argument on why that's bad.
Oh, and 1 more thing:
"ur crazy! Sex is uber cool! I LOVE SEX AND THERS NOTHIN WRONG WITH IT!! hope I helped plz rate"
:P I know what you're talking about. Those answers are painful.
-Steven
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Q: how do i find good friends (who are not boring) in college if i'm shy and maybe slightly weird?
i'm female, 17
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Join a club that you have interestr in. Band is one of the best ways to make friends, but you need to find your interest. These people will like the same things you do, and you talk to them after. That's where you need to break some of your shyness by just going up and talking to them. That's the hard part.
The weirdness is fine, I doubt anyone cares about that. They friends will be interesting because they like what you do.
-Steven
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Q: 14/f
My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months now. He's sweet and I love him. We make out A LOT but we've never gone farther. Lately we've been talking about it and thought I'd give him a BJ and he'd finger me. I have 2 problems here. I know exactly what a Blowjob is but I dont know how to go about giving one and not sucking at it. I want to pleasure him not make him not want it. And I'm a little (not a lot) overweight so I'm body concious and don't want him to finger me but he obviously does. He knows I'm nervous about all of this and said we'll wait until whenever I'm ready and comfortable enough to do it. I wanna do it so any suggestions on how to give a BJ or not feel so body concious or something. Thanks SO Much.
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A BJ is oral sex. AKA, sex in the girl's mouth. And if you don't want to feel so body concious, you may just want to resolve the problems that are making you feel like it. It's overweightness here, so maybe take off a few pounds this month.
Though I'd suggest that if you haven't done anything but makeout, I suggest you go to 2nd before you go to 3rd.
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Q: I have been skipping my band sectionals for the whole beginning of the year (I only went to one and then it got changed to a diff. period to replace a study hall and I havent gone since). Altogether I've missed about 3 or 4. I feel terrible about it, and I know it my grade is going to be really bad...but after I missed the first one I freaked out about going to the second since I missed the one, etc. etc. And it has gotten WAY out of control! I dont care about my grade though...I just need an excuse! Yeah I know I should probably tell the truth but...he doesnt hate me now and I dont want him too. I just need to talk to him soon bc I feel extremely bad about it and want to get this all sorted out. THANKS!
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Simple. Just tell him that you were too busy to come, and got caught up in other things. Then, just go to the next one and it'll all clear up.
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Q: So theres this guy,he really seems to care about me. At least I think but how do I know?
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He cares about you if you present him with a problem, and he tries to fix it. Try it. If you have a small problem in life or school, or anything, just go up to him and ask him.
-Steven
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Q: Does anyone know the freezing temperature of alcohol (drinking alcohol)?
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-114.6 degrees Celcius. I honestly don't want to convert it, but I will. -174.28 degrees Farenheit.
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Q: How do you burn calories?
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Exercise is the only way to burn calories. Diet pills and eating less lower the intake of calories.
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Q: well i dont have zits on my face small little bumps are on my face as well as arms. Few are red mainly my skin color but they are noticeable. My face and back of my arms feel rough do you have any help?? please I will give you a 5 thankss
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Those are zits, just not the kind you're used to. They're ingrown, meaning they are inside your skin. Just do the process that you use for normal zits, and use stridex pads to clean the pores. If it isn't that, it's a type of a rash that you generally have until you are 17. I have it. It will go away soon enough.
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Q: Can anyone give me tips on how to write a great 5 paragraph essay? I'm not great with keeping things in order when I write. I need an explanination of a "topic setence with TRANSITION". thanks for your help!
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Basically, a 5 paragraph essay is this:
Background Knowlege on what you are writing on
THESIS. Must be included.
Support for thesis.
3 body paragraphs of organised information on topic.
Conclusion (Reiterate thesis, and explain why it's true).
That's how I learned it. A transition is a So, or a However. This would be something like:
American policy towards the indians in the 1800s was justafiable. HOWEVER, from their point of view, it was torturous.
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Q: okay.. so me and my boyfriend went out for almost 3 years.. we broke up on september 23rd.. and like ive been upset ever since then.. like i just wanted to take a break .. and he got all mad.. and we broke up..., and he had 2 GIRLFRIENDS since then.. and we broke up on a friday and he went out with one girl the next.. i was so upset.. like maybe he didnt love me.. seems like it right? well he was my everything.. and i cant get him off my mind.. he was so sweet but now hes a total jerk.. i mean he use to cry over me how cute is that.. can you please give me some advice i need some real bad.. i know i didnt exactly have a question but can you tell me how i should take care of this and stop being so upset..!! THANKS SO MUCH!!!
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I've been giving this advice since January, and Rowling stole it from me... Grr. Truth be told, he does not love any of these girls who he goes out with. He's using it as a compromise. He lost you, he cannot take the grief. So, he's dating another girl to temporarily switch loves such that his heart isn't completely torn. He loves you still, just as you do to him. However, he is weaker in the sense that he needs a "Fake" girlfriend to get over his true one.
Just my views, as it was only 1 week after. It's showing that his love is stronger that it should have been, and it's hurting him badly.
If you need reference, read the last chapter of "Harry Potter and the Half Blood Prince". Exact advice I gave, just I made it up 6 months earlier. ;)
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bio
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THE PENGUIN RULES ALL! AHAHAHAHAHAHA! *Cough*
Hello! My name is Steven, and I am a mentor. Yes, that does mean that I help other people. I have helped over 1000 people to date, and have helped some individuals for over 1/2 a year. The miracle of my life occurred 17 years ago. I say miracle only because 1/4 babies survive to be born.
I am the first born of 2 children, and I am also the black sheep. I listen to Classical Music, so you can call me a weirdo. :P. I have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, so take no offense if my answers never seem to end.
In school, I get As and Bs. More Bs really. I play trombone, and was the section leader of the trombones at my school. This year, I am the captain of the entire brass section. I am an Eagle Scout, so I guess that says I'm persistant? You make the call. I am a 3 time varsity letter winner, looking for a 4th next winter. I also participate in the musical, where I am a Bass 2. :)
I am straight, and have never had a relationship beyond a friend. However, I have survived the bumps in the road, and can advise you if you wish it. Though, it's not my strength.
I'm here for you, and only you. That means that my advise will not always confort you. Heck, it may even scare you. Yet, I want you to do what is best for your mind. Not what is typically seen as best for you, but what YOU see best for YOU. Heck, if you wanted what was seen as best for you, you would've asked your parents what you should do. They give you what's typically best.
Alright, before I start getting tendinitis from writing that over and over again, I'll just say what I mean. I mean that if you ask me about something, let's say walking 10 miles a day, and I think it's rediculous, yet you are asking for something to do, I am NOT going to say "10 miles is the type of a thing a anorexia athletica would do. Try 5." I'll give you something to do.
Oh, and I'm a L1 moderator, which means I rate questions.
Don't hesitate to IM me, I'm usually on. If I'm not, just drop one in the Inbox!
Oh, by the way, I am liberal in everything. That means that abortion is a woman's RIGHT, and gay marriage should be LEGAL.
Ask away!
-Steven
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E-mail: Gender: Male Location: NJ Occupation: Student Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: August 13, 2005 Answers: 509 Last Update: October 30, 2006 Visitors: 39447
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