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Okay so I used to cut myself, but I've gotten somewhat better now. I have gym tomorrow and the uniform is a t-shirt. I don't want anyone to see the scars/scabs on my arms and make a big deal. Can anyone tell me how to cover my arms in gym, without being really obvious? Please don't tell me to get help for cutting myself, I am in the process of doing so. Thanks so much, I'll rate high.

I'd consider wearing a long sleeve shirt underneath and just tell everybody you were cold. Hope that works!

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so this guy has been OBSESSED with me like you have no idea! (sometimes its a little freaky even...) and when i'm not with him and i'm like talking to him on the phone or something i like him, but when i'm actually with him i can't even describe how i feel! i don't even like touching or going near him! I mean, he is ugly but i don't think that's why. I hooked up with him and he likes me LOVES me actually but i REALLY don't want to have anything to do with him! WHAT DO I DO?! PS, i can't tell him that i don't like him. and also i'm bff with all his bffs so i can't be mean either otherwise everyone will get mad at me....! but hes DISGUSTING! i really really really really really reaylly reaylly really really don't like him!!!!!!!

Tell him you don't feel the same just leave out he disgusting and ugly part. lol, I used to have the same thing, you've got to cut it off from the start before worse things happen......Good Luck

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Well, Okay. There's this boy named Senad & I have liked him foreverr. Me & him are always on/off, and idk. I want him back so badly and things completly switched between us. In the beginning he wanted me so badly, and I didn't like him that much. Now I am obsessed, and he's like uhh. It sucks. Before he met me which was around January when we started talking he was so shy, and afraid to say the wrong thing. It was so cute. Now he's so mean, and bossy. I'll look at him in class, and he'll be like "What the fuck you looking at?" Just because his friends are there. It's so immature. Then when I am with him we makeout, and stuff. Sometimes I think he's using me. On Friday we were in a pretty big fight, and we were at the same persons house cause she had a few people over and he was like "Wow fuck her!" and then by the end of the night we were alone in the living room, and he finally talked to me & madeout. I don't know what to do? He says he "kinda" likes me to people, and tells me different. I like him so much, and do not wanna give up. What should I do to get him back? Someone pleasee help.

I'm sorry but I wouldnt go back with that jerk. He IS using you, he's going to break your heart. You're not just some game. Personally I'd tell him off and say damnit if your not going to give me more respect than that I'm done! If he really does like you he'll say sorry and treat you better. You shouldn't be having to find a way to get him back, he should be finding a way to get u back for being a jerk. I'd give him the cold shoulder. Sorry if that doesn't help, but thats just what I would do.

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I like this boy named Luis(as you might know) But I want to know if he likes me. I afraid to ask him to go out with me and stuff so I was wonder if he was ever going to ask me. He is shy around girls and Ishy around some boys. him one of them. He flirts with me and i flirt back. and when the teachers make us sit by each other we'll lean on each other but I'm not sure if that's Liking someone or not. Do you think he likes me?

It sounds like he does, but you wont know for sure unless you talk to him and tell him you like him. Sorry but thats the only way you'll know for sure. If your nervous just think he could feel the same and if he doesnt like you back, u'd rather know now so that you can get over him. Good Luck!

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ok so im going to be 18 in about 9 weeks time and im thinking all my friends well apart from a few have all had sex even ones who are younger than me am i getting to old and whats the right age to have sex?? I would have had sex but my bf says he loves me but i do not trust him its like when we are away from each other he never contacts me or cares about me my question is shall i wait until the right one comes along to lose my virginity? thank you in advance.x

I'd wait because if you were really inlove with your bf you would have already and I wouldn't do it if your not sure if you can trust him. I mean unless you really are madly inlove with him and want him to be yur first or w/e but I wouldnt suggest it. sorry Hope it helped.

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im a 15 female. i was datin a 19 yr old who i love and loves me back. me and him broke up becuz of drama. me and him have been talkin still and we have came to the conclusion of waiting till the summer to get back together so i can see him more and have less drama. but now he is startin to close with other girls so should i move on or wait?

I'd move on. I know you guys love each other but at those ages he's going to move on to an older girl around his age and his maturity. I would suggest you find someone your age and maybe someone that is a better fit, where you won't have as much drama and be able to see each other.

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There is this guy who used to like me. He flirts with a lot of girls. But out of all the girls he stills flirts with me the most. He gets so jealous when I flirt with other guys and do stuff with them. We also talk on the phone a lot. But he is one of the bad boys who breaks girls hearts so I'm not interested in him. I want to know does any of you thinks that he may still like me?

He's prolly messing with your head and is trying to make you fall for him and is going to break your heart. He probably is interested in you, but I wouldnt go out with him cause he'll hurt you. But I can't say for sure if he's into you or if he's just trying to prove he can get whoever he wants..uk how guys are. Sorry hope that helped

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ok, so i'm jealous of this one girl in my class, she gets alot of attention from guys cuz she's really pretty with blonde hair. how can i get over this jealousy? i mean, i want some attention too...is that too much to ask for? please help

Hey, did you just ask me this question? it's ok if you did but you asked if I knew who you were? well i dont but anyway. Look at whats good about you, you prolly have a ton of good things about yourself she doesn't. Try for guys that like you for you and don't care about what you look like. Sorry hope that helped..

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ok so there's this guy i like at school, but he flirts with another girl ALL THE TIME! i dont know if i really like him or not but i get jealous. what should i do to forget him? should i tell him how i feel? or should i tell the other person how i feel?

please help

No, who are u?

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I have a problem right now n i dont kno what to do.. me n my new boyfriends been goin out for 2 weeks and i really dont got mad fellings for him cuz hes more like a friend plus i still have mad mad feelings for my ex!! n i dont kno wat i should do i want to break up wit my new boyfriend n go with my old one but my frienmds r telling me no.. n then another reason i havent is cuz my ex was a real ass hole n i just dont know wat to do will sum 1 please help me!!!!!

Well, if you don't really like your new bf its a bad idea to stay with him because if you really care about him you'll hurt him. As for your ex forget him theres a reason yur broken up and if he's a jerk do u really not have enough self respect for yourself to do better? I'd just play it single for a while, and avoid your ex it'll help you move on.

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I wasn't sure which category it should go under, sorry.

Anyways, I hate my feet, like most people do. They aren't "ugly" or anything, and I keep them as clean and "pretty" as I can. But in a couple of spots, the skin is dry and cracked. Does anyone know any good lotions or "treatments" that would help get rid of this? Thanks.

Well my sister had the same thing and she put her feet in one of those massagers for yur feet but put salt water in it and used those scrubbers for her feet and put on special lotion for yur feet. I think u can find it about anywhere. hope that helped

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i REALLY don't get this. there are [a lot of] people out there who cut, and say it's addicting. but doesn't it HURT? why would you want to do something again that hurt you? i heard that "it takes away the hurt from the inside" but i still don't get why people do it. it kina bothers me.. 13/f in case it matters.

I guess it's where people have had pain and can't take it anymore so they take out the rage and frustration on themselves so they can physically feel the pain and focuss on that instead of the hurt inside. Hope that helped.

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I think i might have OCD

-Ive got a habit of washing my hands after everything or whenever touching something. Even when im by a sink i wash them.
-If a word comes into my head, i have to say it otherwise i panic, no word in particular just anything.
-I brush my hair every 5 minutes.
-I look in the mirror all the time
-If somethings out of place i have to move it back.
-I have to double check everything like make sure the doors are shut.
-When i touch something i have to touch it with my other hand aswell so its equal.

and so much more

what do you think?

You are either have some pet peaves, or you have a slight case of OCD. It's nothing you need to be treated with though. It's OCD if you have a habit of doing something and you freak out if you don't do and something inside of you is making you do this otherwise you feel all wrong and your going to break down. It's also OCD if your habits change from obsessing over one thing to the next. Well..hope that helped!!!!

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Okay, well my boyfriend broke up with me and it took me sometime to get over him. When I finally got over him, someone else asked me out. I thought I liked him at first .. he's funny and nice, but sensitive and shy. Then I found out that my ex wanted me back, I really want to go back out with him. But, I don't know how to break up with him. He really likes me, and he'll be like devastated when I break up with him. I don't know what to do ..

I wouldn't go back with your ex plain and simple there's a reason your broken up. Sorry but, I think if you go back out with your ex he'll break yur heart again. Sorry, Good Luck

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ok, my period now has lasted 10 days, its medium but i wanna know what i should do? should i be worried?

It really just depends how much blood yur losing cause I had the same problem cept mine would last a few weeks and I would lose way too much blood. But, if you at all start to feel tired or weak tell yur mom to take you to the doctor cuz I had to do the same because I became enemic. I would tell your mom about the situation right now as well. Good Luck P.S. I would suggest eating foods high in iron such as meats and stuff.

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Hello My Name Is Rachel. I'm 13. Im dating this kid name Bret. Hes amazing and exstremly cute!!! But I'm worriedd.... cause sooo many girls like him and i'm worried that he'll go to one of them instead of me... I mean i do get jealous really easily but still. Because it just seems like everyone thinks hes cute and they all like him but i dont want to loose him... and i also get really jealous when other girls talk to him and I just dont want to loose him and i dont know what to do? HELP PLEASEE!

Yeah, I had the same problem..cept the guy was a player and dumped me for another girl..but I'd talk to him about how you feel. Please don't fall for a "why would I want another girl your so beautiful and perfect", yeah and I'd look into his past relationships to make sure he he isn't a player and would leave you..hope that helped..try not to get too attached..good luck

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what if you start to lose...lost hope, hope in urself, other ppl, just everything.
i can't take it any more, change is happening to me but i can't...WON'T face where its taking me.
i can't do anything about it, in two years im either going to be some terrorist or drunk or even better, dead.
there is nothing to live for, and i can't get myself to just kill myself.
im lost and cannot be saved.
o shit :(...

Yeah I feel the same, but talk to your friends or your mom or dad I was feeling that bad..but it was over a guy and talked to my mom and friends it totally helps I still feel that way but it helps. I mean just think what don't you have to live for? You can make something of yourself everytime you feel that way just think that no I'm going to make something of myself. Sorry if this is crappy advice, but please don't do anything you'll regret. If you need anything email me. missmiss09@hotmail.com

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ok so recently i've found someone that i really do love and he loved me too. But this other girl came into the picture and he left me.i still have this feeling that he loves me, but its not enough for him to leave this girl. so how can i show him or make him remeber, everything that me and him had before this other girl came?.ill rate all 5's

13/f

please dont say "ur to young to be in love and be worrying bout guys". cus if you even believe in love,, you know that you can be in love at any age. and this isnt just some stupid teen love. its the real deal. so please none of those replys, cus i really do love him.

I totally can relate, as much as this hurts if this boy loved you he wouldnt of done this. Ik what yur thinking wtf no, well he probably played you and I'm sooo sorry honey. This boy did the same to me and I really loved him but he was a player. I would play it off like your totally fine and it doesnt affect you even though you are really crying your eyes out, and be like omg you two look soo good together. I know it'll kill you and I bet theres barely anything stopping you from just wanting to kill yourself PLEASE DON'T, but you need to do this for yourself honey if you need anything u can email me I'm going through the exact same thing.
missmiss09@hotmail.com

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My hair is abnormally thick and is really wavy. I want to be able to wear it down instead of in a ponytail all the time. But t takes like an hour and a half to straighten and i dont have time to do that every morning before school. Are there any products i can use or any ways i can style it?
(oh, and it also gets very frizzy when i wear it down)

lol ok this isnt an answer but is this carolyn? lol!

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My boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months. we are pretty much inseperable and are in love. the only thing that i feel hurts our realtionship is how jealous i constantly get.

i always let him know that i get jealous. we plan on moving in together this summer so i know things are going well.

but a week before we met he used to "see" this girl, who we can call jaime. now he and her stopped talking ever since we started dating officially and i trust that. but last month she came in the picture again but just as a "best friend". they havent knonw each other much longer than he and i have, so idk how the best friend name comes about.

anywho - we went to jaime's town and hung out with her. he said she was pretty, but once i saw her i honestly was offended that he would call that pretty. she seemed cool yet a bit immature, and i kind of didnt like her from the start because of jealousy.

now i cant comeout about my jealousy for her because he would just stop talking to her and i would feel like i have him a bit whipped, and dont want that. but she always tries to get with him now that she and her current boyfriend broke up, and she even asks to have threesomes with us because i guess she wants to get with him. it makes me uncomfortable, yet theres nothing i can really say about it. today i found a naked picture of his phone of her, from a while ago when they were "seeing" eachother. but it made me uneasy that he still had it. i know he isnt cheating because im with him everyday and she lives far. i just dont know how to get over the jealousy of jaime because she always tries to get on my good side and get very close with my boyfriend. what should i do/say?

I would call this girl up and tell her to back off he's yours and would suggest talking to your bf about this. I mean wouldn't he get mad if your ex bf was doing the same, most would. Sorry, but thats really all I think you can do, just keep in mind your bf loves you and not her. Good Luck

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