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Uhh. =[


Question Posted Sunday April 9 2006, 3:57 pm

Well, Okay. There's this boy named Senad & I have liked him foreverr. Me & him are always on/off, and idk. I want him back so badly and things completly switched between us. In the beginning he wanted me so badly, and I didn't like him that much. Now I am obsessed, and he's like uhh. It sucks. Before he met me which was around January when we started talking he was so shy, and afraid to say the wrong thing. It was so cute. Now he's so mean, and bossy. I'll look at him in class, and he'll be like "What the fuck you looking at?" Just because his friends are there. It's so immature. Then when I am with him we makeout, and stuff. Sometimes I think he's using me. On Friday we were in a pretty big fight, and we were at the same persons house cause she had a few people over and he was like "Wow fuck her!" and then by the end of the night we were alone in the living room, and he finally talked to me & madeout. I don't know what to do? He says he "kinda" likes me to people, and tells me different. I like him so much, and do not wanna give up. What should I do to get him back? Someone pleasee help.<3

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IM_SO_HARDCORE answered Sunday April 9 2006, 11:19 pm:
Well, I'm sorry to say, but hes not worth it. and dont think of it as "giving up", if you keep letting him call you names and then two seconds later make out with him, he knows he can do WHATEVER he wants, and you'll come running back. But if you wanted to get him back, don't make out with him, make him want it. if hes mean to you, ignore him and go talk to someone else, it will make see that you dont care, and that will make him realize if he wants you, he has to respect you

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missmissgurl answered Sunday April 9 2006, 6:24 pm:
I'm sorry but I wouldnt go back with that jerk. He IS using you, he's going to break your heart. You're not just some game. Personally I'd tell him off and say damnit if your not going to give me more respect than that I'm done! If he really does like you he'll say sorry and treat you better. You shouldn't be having to find a way to get him back, he should be finding a way to get u back for being a jerk. I'd give him the cold shoulder. Sorry if that doesn't help, but thats just what I would do.

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xsweet_pea_10 answered Sunday April 9 2006, 5:58 pm:
Wow he dounds likea jerk. Well since you really like him i dont know if this is what you want to do. You need to talk to him. Just do this in front of all his friends to make a point and make him feel sort of embarrassed. Tell him in front of everyone. ( What do you want ( his name here, make up your mind eather you wnat me or not, im tierd of being a big joke to you, why do you tell all your friends you kind of like me but you tell me different, Im tierd of being used, so eather you want me or not what is it?)
If he says i dont want you and then comes to you later and says that he does want you when your not in front of his friends say " no you already made you dission its over" Then maybe he will get the point your not taking his b/s .

&hearts; jackie

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LadyGoodman answered Sunday April 9 2006, 5:05 pm:
"Sometimes I think he's using me."

Gee, ya think? Why are you wasting your time on this guy? You really should just stop talking to him, and it will suck at first, but then you will slowly start to realize that being treated like shit should not be a turn on. You should try to date someone who won't talk shit about you and get angry at you for looking at him in public. It kind of makes things a little less stressful.

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xOgLaM_cHiiCkxO answered Sunday April 9 2006, 5:01 pm:
wOw he seems to be acting like a real jerk !! idono if i was you i would just go up to him & just ask him why does he tells his friends kinda or idk or som lyk dat ..? because that just not rite .. lOl i mean if your going out with somebodi that you dont like or your embaressed with .. then you shouldnt go out with them at all in the frst place. I guess you can only talk this out with him..hope i helped & good luck !!
&hearts; &hearts; &hearts;

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Xo_NeSmiiRa_Xo answered Sunday April 9 2006, 4:25 pm:
you need to talk to him and ask him if he liikez yu...n if he saiz yes.. then ask him how come he tells he frineds "kinda" or w,e n then if yu no that he'z gonna ignore yu infront of his friends then yu should probably talk to him about that to..kuzz whats they poitn of goin out wid him wen he;s only going to nothice yu wen yur alone wid him, it seems like if he;s embarresed oor w,e.
So jUSt talk tO him..
&& HopE i HelPed
by the wAy This Senad PErSon iz hE boZniiAn and are you BoZniiaN << juSt kIinDa WonDeriiN :)

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