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heRe arE soMe thiinGs thaT i haTe ..
sTeaLeRs,faKepEoPLe,skOoL,tEacHeRs,sLuTs,waNabEes
rOck.&.cOuNTrY musiC ugH i dOnO y bUt i jUs caNT sTanD daT tyPe oF mUsiC !! nO oFfeNsE tO thE peOple thaT lyK thaT tHo ... lOl
i rEallY haTe buGs, ugH thEy fReaK mE oUT !! gOsh
uMm .. i aLsO dOnT lyK gaY peOpLe lOl .. yeaH thERs alOT mOrE sTuF thaT i haTe,tRusT meEh !! lOl ♥

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14/f

Okay, here's my problem. You see, I really like guys, I really do. I go on dates with them, have crushes on them, they are the ones I want to have a relationship and all that.

But recently I have felt something new. You see I have my friend friend, let's call her Katie. Katie and I are inseperable, always going places together, hanging out whatever. I enjoy being around her so much. I've always felt just fine around her, until about three months ago.

I don't know what happened but soon I felt like I always needed to impress her, look pretty in front of her, and I saw how beautiful she is. I swear she is the most gorgeous person I know! And when she comes over now I just want to be close to her and hug her and touch her. I mean I caught myself starring at her chest the other day and having some daydream that she was kissing me! I don't know what's going on!

Like last night she spent the night at my house, and we sleep in the same bed. Normally it's a double bed, but since I'm rearanging my room it got reduced to a twin. So we srunched together close and I felt so guilty because I enjoyed her body pressed up against mine. And while we were talking all I wanted to do was just lean in and kiss her. It's so weird! And half the time I just want to hold her and know that she is mine and she like me as more than a friend.

But the thing I don't get is that all my guy friends say that they could see us together as lesbiens and i always brush it off because I like guys but her and I always play around kiss each other on the cheek and spoon (the sleeping poission) while we're sleeping, and strattle each other when we're play fighting, just being silly. And some days she says "Sometimes I swear I am a lesbian." and she says it in a joking way, but does she mean it as a joke? I just want her so bad, she's like my other half.

So am I bi? Can you just someday wake up and feel sexual towards someone of the same sex? And if so, if I am bi, how do I tell her? Because she knows me so well and she'll figure it out soon. So what do I say to her? Do I ever tell her that I like her in that way? Thanks for any advice you can give me. I rate high.

uMm .. i dont really think that your lesbian because you said that you would only wana be with her if you were a lezbo .. so i think that you just feel that way because your always hangin out with her & playing around & having fun .. i dont know for that your a lesbian for a fact but if you are then you could just go up to Katie & just explain to her that your a lesbian .. & hopefully she will really understand !! well hope i helpd ..
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Well, Okay. There's this boy named Senad & I have liked him foreverr. Me & him are always on/off, and idk. I want him back so badly and things completly switched between us. In the beginning he wanted me so badly, and I didn't like him that much. Now I am obsessed, and he's like uhh. It sucks. Before he met me which was around January when we started talking he was so shy, and afraid to say the wrong thing. It was so cute. Now he's so mean, and bossy. I'll look at him in class, and he'll be like "What the fuck you looking at?" Just because his friends are there. It's so immature. Then when I am with him we makeout, and stuff. Sometimes I think he's using me. On Friday we were in a pretty big fight, and we were at the same persons house cause she had a few people over and he was like "Wow fuck her!" and then by the end of the night we were alone in the living room, and he finally talked to me & madeout. I don't know what to do? He says he "kinda" likes me to people, and tells me different. I like him so much, and do not wanna give up. What should I do to get him back? Someone pleasee help.

wOw he seems to be acting like a real jerk !! idono if i was you i would just go up to him & just ask him why does he tells his friends kinda or idk or som lyk dat ..? because that just not rite .. lOl i mean if your going out with somebodi that you dont like or your embaressed with .. then you shouldnt go out with them at all in the frst place. I guess you can only talk this out with him..hope i helped & good luck !!
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Okay im 13
4'11
and i weigh 92 pounds
i want to lose weight but my doctor said it would be unhealthy. so im kind of looking to tone-up my body in a more healthy way. and i'm not aloud to go on a diet
:-/
anything helps!
i rate high!
thanks

lOl okay frst of all you are SO not fat !! yoU just think that .. okay well im 13 too and im 5'0 or something lyk dat .. lOl and i weigh about 93 pounds .. i used to weigh 95 but now i lost 2 pounds .. i guess its because i havent been eating like i used to before lately .. aniwho yeah lyk about a month ago i was thinking to go on a diet .. because i thought i was fat & so i did and then everybody was like saying that i shouldnt because im so not fat but i didnt listen to them .. and then one day this one girl started talking to me and said that i should stop dieting and eat reguarly and stuff for a year or somthing and then after that see the results .. and so then she was like if you get TOO fat in a year then i should go on a diet .. so yeah i listened to her and now im not on a diet anymore because i realized that its kinda dumb to go on a diet at this age .. so yeah i really hope you dont go on a diet either .. because if you do now then you might be anerixic later on ..
hope i helpd !! .. lOl
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hElLo mS tAnG!!! .... lOl ... i cRaCk mYsElF uP ... lOl ... wHaTs uP?!? ... nOtHiNg hErE jUsT TALKING TO YOU!! aNd sOmE oThEr peOpLe!! wElL i jUsT dRoPeD bY tO sAy hEyYyYyY .... bYe bYe nOw!!

lOl hEy hey mS.caSeY ... lOl nOn muc heRe iM jus lyK talkin tO yoU anD im anSweRin sOm quEsTioNs .. ugH goSh lyK im sO freakiN piSsd righT noW coz i ansWeRed thiS onE grLz quEsTioN anD i tyPEd soOoOo lonG .. anD guEss waT happNd ?.. iT didnT wanA submiT !! .. iT eRasEd tHE WHOLE fReaKin thinG !! uGH goD deaM !!!!! weLL aniWaiZ yEah iM gONa go ttYL .. bUh-byE !!
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Hi, well.. is it "normal" to hate a guy and like him at the same time? Because I don't want to like him but I can't help it! (gah hormones I suppose).. It seems to happen with most I guys I like.. I guess that tends to happen when you like the a**holes.. but.. other than that, I'll alwayd like a guy maybe 30%, never full out crush on 'em. Thanks in advance for your advice =)

yEs that is absolutley normal !! because me n my friend are having the same problem too .. i liked this one guy over a year or somthing and i am really trying to get over him but it is sOo hard !! ugH =\ and then sometimes there are some days that he can get on my nerves like soOo bad and then i get mad at hiM .. & then tha next day when you see him you start to fall in love all over again .. ugh well aniwaiz i hope everything works out for you & your problem ! .. lOlz
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Hey i wanna lost 7 pounds. I weigh about 135-138 pounds. I work out and stuff but then I go and weigh myself a few days later or even a couple and i still haven't lost any weight. Its like impossible for me. Anything i do i cant lose weight. Im in sports but thats not helping i work out 4 times a week. But i stay the same weight. Is there any tips on how maybe i could get more motivated maybe to wanna do this cuz im about to give up because im not losing or gaining any weight!

lOl you are having the same problem as my friend in school .. she went on a diet for about 2 weeks and didnt loose one pound .. and so she quit ... but i started going on a diet too lyk 3 or 4 days after her and then after a week when i weighed myself i lost 2 pounds !! i lost 2 pounds because i didnt eat as i did before when i wasnt on a diet .. and i ate much more less .. lyk for breakfast only a cereal bar or something and then at lunch i didnt eat anything only lyk soda and sometimes only half the bag of chips and thats how i lost 2 pounds .. but for my friend its not working .. i dont know why but it takes alot of time i mean you cant just go out for a week excerise alot and think that your gona loose pounds .. well thats not how it works lOlz aniwaiz if this dont help you then go on some websites that tell you how you should be on the REAL diet !! maybe that will help you sense the one your on right now doesnt .. well if you have any more questions feel free to send me an email or drop one in my inbox !!

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I think my mom is cheatin on my dad and I don't know what to do... I know my mom wants to leave my dad cuz she isnt happy but im no sure and i wanna aske her bout it but im not sure how to.. wat should i do i am so lost and confused and this guy is a drunk asshole who is no good... I am tryin to be happy and put a smile on but inside i am hurtin plzz help i will rate

wow im so sorry for all the problems that your going through right now,but it seems that your parents dont really love eachother so i dont think there is nothing to do about it.But if you are really willing to try and help your parents then the only thing that there is to do is to go to a conselour or talk to one of your other family members like your aunt,cousins or w/e and maybe try to get some help ... im really sorry and i hope everything works out the best for you and your parents !! ..

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Any one know any good screen name ideas, with your name in them? I dont wanna give out my name, so just call me jess. Like i wanna make a new sn with my name in it, but idk what it should be. Any help is appreciated

jEssx01
xOjEsSxO
lOvELy_jEsS
gLaMoURoUSxjEsS

uMm im tryna think of some more but im not getting no ideas right now lOlz sorry .. but if this dont help then feel free to drop one in my inbox if you have any more questions !! I'll be glad to answer them for you !! ..


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okay, my hair is very very curly and frizzy and thick its nasty!! i sometimes put hair gel in it and it looks fine and then other times i stirghten it but it still gets frizzy easily. I use hair serum and this one spray to control the frizz but hey im always lookin' for something better can you guys suggest anything?

lOl my friend has the same problem .. but i think that if you wana make your hair unfrizzed then use condiotener or however you spell it .. like you could buy one of those pantene pro-v or som lyk that .. that really works great !! that would be the best thing i dont know for you because almost every gels make your hair look sO ugly and greasy soo yeah thats why i hate gels !! well hope i helped hun .. and let me know if you have any more questions !! ...

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15/f

What does it mean if a guy wants to "holla at you?"
thanks

it means he wanna talk to you or maybe ask you out sometimes ...

♥ *bEeh-bEeh*

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