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Like and Hate guys at the same time..
Hi, well.. is it "normal" to hate a guy and like him at the same time? Because I don't want to like him but I can't help it! (gah hormones I suppose).. It seems to happen with most I guys I like.. I guess that tends to happen when you like the a**holes.. but.. other than that, I'll alwayd like a guy maybe 30%, never full out crush on 'em. Thanks in advance for your advice =)
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i know what you mean! i like this guy 2 and he tried to be my friend and i was soooo mean to him an dnow i hate myself for that :-) well just follow your heart ore soul! it is the wise thing in you! it knows you better than you do i know it sounds odd but its true so just follow it!
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Yeah it is normal to like people that you dont well like there will be reason later on why you like him so just wait it out
good luck
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Definitely normal.
Like you said if they are a**holes they are going to do things to get on your nerves.
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Ugh, oh my gosh, yes. Frequently normal. No worries.
good luck ♥
Jessx3
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Totally normal. most people tend to tease, pick on, or just plainly HATE the person they actually like. an awesome guy always has their imperfections (even if it means they're a-holes. (;
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yEs that is absolutley normal !! because me n my friend are having the same problem too .. i liked this one guy over a year or somthing and i am really trying to get over him but it is sOo hard !! ugH = and then sometimes there are some days that he can get on my nerves like soOo bad and then i get mad at hiM .. & then tha next day when you see him you start to fall in love all over again .. ugh well aniwaiz i hope everything works out for you & your problem ! .. lOlz
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Well I hope that it is "normal" because I'm much the same way myself. It does, of course help if you don't pick the a**holes to crush on but then you run into the unfortunate fact that unreliable and selfish guys can seem much more alluring than regular ones( don't fall for the old "guys are all useless" lie-its a moan put about by women who are addicted to bad boys and won't look at the ones who might bring them true happiness).
Your question doesn't mention your age, but I'm guessing mid-teens. Don't worry. Your time will come. I'm twenty-two and still have continual crises over men-I'm only slowly and gradually beginning to get wise to the fact that certain men are implacable and almost completely selfish, be they ever so charming. These men are not really sexier than the others. They just SEEM sexier because they have more confidence in a certain area,ie scoring with women. Don't waste your time.
Good Luck.
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Hey,
Yes, it is normal. A lot of teens and maybe even older people do the same thing. So you shouldn't worry unless they start acting like a total jerk to you. =D
-GD
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