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having a bad conversation
So I just started going out with a guy and i really like him. I guess he likes me to, because when i asked him out he said yes. Well now we're going out and we don't really talk. I don't know what to do. We smile at each other in the halls and the occasional 'hi', but not much more.
What should I do.
Oh yeah he's a year younger. I'm in 8th grade he's in 7th and do you think our relationship will work?
thanks in advance.
xo
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yes it could work .... maybe give him time to get older and mature .... or talk to him and you start bringing up conversations so you will talk and get him used to talking to you alot .... hang around him and get him really confertable around you so he can tell you EVERYTHING!! lol and maybe some things you dont want to hear!! hahaha
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to be honest, you're kinda young to have a boy friend. relationships are ment for things to hapen not to just sit quietly and nothing ya know? i know what you mean, you want a relationship and things to escalade fast am i right? if nothing happens and no communication then i would say call it off. My good friend went through it too and he had to call it off cuase him and his g/f didn't do anything, but that's just me. you make what ever choice you can try talking to him maybe?
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well b-ing him b-ing in a lower grade than you may not be the problem cuz my bf is 1year and 4 mons younger than me and it was the same for us only we went to differnt schools and we only see each other ever weekend and be4 we started going out we talked alot then he stop but i started pushing like you kno talking alot i would call him every night and just talk about my day but dont think i just sit there and talk i would make my day short and then ask him bout his what he wanted to do when he was onlder and just stuff like that you can just make up stupid silly talks nd then things will get better
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yeah it could work im in 7th grade and i went out with a 6th grader, just try talking to him like on the fone or hang out after skool and stuff, that might work.
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Your relationship will work depending on the effort you put into it. Do you want it to work? Does he want it to work? Every relationship, and even friendship involves taking time out for it and even making a few sacrificies by not going places or doing other things. What I would suggest is to sit him down and talk to him about it. How? Tell him what you just wrote, that you only say hi and smile and things like that. It might just be that you'll both need some more time with each other outside of school. You said you just started going out? Well for any relationship and friendship the beginning is always rough. If you both want to make it work then tell that to each other and make sure you both put in effort to take time out to see each other and talk to each other and everything. The relationship will be what you make it - good things come to those who wait. Hope that helped and good luck.
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