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Ok here we go. Ok im 16 and ive made a commitment to myself that i would never have sex until i am married. Im not saying now but in the future..can i still do stuff that wouldnt be considered having sex. and is that all guys want...i mean i had a bf for 2 and 1/2 weeks (not long) and he told his friends that he was going to have sex soon. I dont know y he thought that b/c i was uncomfortable even kissing him..(he was 2 yrs older) and im just worried that in the future ill find this amazing guy and all he'll want is sex and i wont give it to him (unless we get married) is that so hard for guys to handle...will he end up cheating on me and have sex w/ someone who will give it to him? so is there pleasureable stuff that we can still do ...thats not sex? (link)
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Honestly, I think its great that you made that commitment because it shows that you really respect yourself and others.
Now, this guy that you are seeing is 18...well you know this thing about him saying he is going to have sex with you is just a load of shithe doesnt have the right to say that unless you said to him yourself that you guys were going to have sex soon. He probably just thinks that he is. You need to sit and have a talk with him because if he doesnt respect your commitment..then he isnt right for you..there is an age when all guys want is to get laid...but sometime in their lifetime they are just going to want something else..I am sure you will find that guy. Just be patient!
Hope I helped!!
------>LiL LoO
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what age is right for sex? i always thought not till your married. what do you think? (link)
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there is no definate age for when to have sex for the first time....I mean you shouldnt be like 12 and have sex because thats just too young...it all depends on how you feel and when you think its right..but let me give you a little advice....I advise you to do it with someone who is the ONE for you...you really shouldnt have that many sex partners with all the diseases going around....just look for HIM and that special moment dont worry how old you are.
------>LIL LOO
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Hey everybody thank you for reading this. There is this guy that I am crazy about, and we are friends and stuff but I think there might be something more. I like him alot....and I think he MIGHT like me too but I am not sure. I am sorta shy, 'specially about something like this. plus I dont want to scare him off or freak him out so I can't just tell him. What should I do?? Please respond Luv~Megz2009 (link)
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although arielle has good advice...i dont think that that is your best bet with this guy....I think that even though you are shy concentrate on winning this guy over...now dont be too open start by flirting a little...invite him to hang out with you and then when you think the moment is right tell him you have feelings for him and if he doesnt have those same feelings then be friends with...friends are always great to have....
------>LiL lOo
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ok i have a boyfriend who i know im in love with and he is pretty much perfect but i just started a new job and there is this guy their who was the first person to actually talk to me and he helped me out a lot and now like we just talk a lot and he is really easy to talk to and im really quiet so its usually hard for me to talk to ppl and he is really sweet and no matter what he can always make me laugh and make me smile when im having a bad day and like if he is a work i totally forget about my boyfriend and i really dont know what to do because i feel like as much as i love my boyfriend i cant help but be intersted in him and even tho he is not the best looking guy but his personality makes him so cute and i doubt i have a chance with him its just like when we are both working like my goal is to flirt with him and get him to notice me no matter what is this bad? (link)
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This happens to us girls all the time....
just remember you do have a boyfriend and that you are in love with him because its pretty obvious that you dont want to hurt him and if you two were to split then you might end up without both....DO WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT!
I hope it helped!!!
------>LiL Loo
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