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How do I let this guy know I like him w/out scaring him off?
Hey everybody thank you for reading this. There is this guy that I am crazy about, and we are friends and stuff but I think there might be something more. I like him alot....and I think he MIGHT like me too but I am not sure. I am sorta shy, 'specially about something like this. plus I dont want to scare him off or freak him out so I can't just tell him. What should I do?? Please respond Luv~Megz2009
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if you have friends that are also firnds with this guy, ask them to casually in a convo ask the guy who he likes. if it's you, then make a move. if it isn't, then at least you can be still be friends with him and maybe someday he'll like you.
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Hi, I know what you're going through because I have been in the same situation. I am really shy too and the guy that I liked was also really shy. The way to know for sure is to watch his body language and facial reactions when you're around him. Does his face light up when he sees you walk into a room? Do you sense him looking at you when you start talking in front of a group of people? Do you catch him staring at you? Another way to tell is does he laugh at your jokes even when there not funny? Does he defend you when someone else is being mean to you?
Well I think you already know he likes you, but you just needed someone to confirm this. In my experience, if the guy is really shy too, YOU have to make the first move. I know it sounds scary, but trust me shy guys LOVE it when the girl they like makes a pass. You don't have to be really obvious about it either. Do something like throw him a really sexy smile, and make sure you hold his gaze. If the guy is into you, he will smile back, and be relieved that you did it first! Remember that guys are even more afraid of rejection then girls. If you don't want to do the smile, then just casually start a conversation with him. Invite him out for a date. Go somewhere where you can be all alone together, like the movie theatre.
Life is too short to wait for others to make the first move. I say GO FOR IT! You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain!
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although arielle has good advice...i dont think that that is your best bet with this guy....I think that even though you are shy concentrate on winning this guy over...now dont be too open start by flirting a little...invite him to hang out with you and then when you think the moment is right tell him you have feelings for him and if he doesnt have those same feelings then be friends with...friends are always great to have....
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