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HIS FRIEND THAT IS A GIRL.
My boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months. we are pretty much inseperable and are in love. the only thing that i feel hurts our realtionship is how jealous i constantly get.
i always let him know that i get jealous. we plan on moving in together this summer so i know things are going well.
but a week before we met he used to "see" this girl, who we can call jaime. now he and her stopped talking ever since we started dating officially and i trust that. but last month she came in the picture again but just as a "best friend". they havent knonw each other much longer than he and i have, so idk how the best friend name comes about.
anywho - we went to jaime's town and hung out with her. he said she was pretty, but once i saw her i honestly was offended that he would call that pretty. she seemed cool yet a bit immature, and i kind of didnt like her from the start because of jealousy.
now i cant comeout about my jealousy for her because he would just stop talking to her and i would feel like i have him a bit whipped, and dont want that. but she always tries to get with him now that she and her current boyfriend broke up, and she even asks to have threesomes with us because i guess she wants to get with him. it makes me uncomfortable, yet theres nothing i can really say about it. today i found a naked picture of his phone of her, from a while ago when they were "seeing" eachother. but it made me uneasy that he still had it. i know he isnt cheating because im with him everyday and she lives far. i just dont know how to get over the jealousy of jaime because she always tries to get on my good side and get very close with my boyfriend. what should i do/say?
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I went through the exacts same thing with my last boyfriend and his ex's/"bestfriewnds". I would get very jealous too.
I didn't do much about it, but I dropped subtle hints to my ex. I'd say "Oh yeah, well you and so & so seem really close" And he'd tell me "Yeah well, we're just bestfriends." but they didnt hang out at all either. And he had a few of these bestfriends. blah.
I'd just try to keep it in, because if oyu know hes not cheating on you, then there is not point causing unwanted drama. Tell him that you saw that picture, and that he should have deleted it a long time ago, and that it hurt you that he still had it.
Just try not to think bad things, or assume anything.
-hopeIhelped
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I would call this girl up and tell her to back off he's yours and would suggest talking to your bf about this. I mean wouldn't he get mad if your ex bf was doing the same, most would. Sorry, but thats really all I think you can do, just keep in mind your bf loves you and not her. Good Luck
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