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Does anyone know of some good ways to make money? Im 14 and I can't babysit because there aren't any kids in my neighborhood. I can't seem to find any ways to make some money.
Whenever you go somewhere.. like to a store with one of ur parents, ask someone who looks older if they're are any job openings, or where you can apply. You can just apply like mad to different stores.. I've heard of people sweeping hair at hair salons, It sucks working at chuckie Cheese and everyone quits all the time so you could try there, you could do like a tutoring thing..um.. I think that's all i got but if I think of more i'll edit this!
Hey yall, i need help with a nickname...my name is Ashley i have nicknames like Asha,Ashems,Ashlynn but i dont like them! So can u help me out with a new cool nickname?
Thanks, Ashley
I call my friend AshMoe.. Um.. Ashmoelie..Ashkosh.. haha I got nothin else.
My friend and I like the same guy. He goes to my church, and my friend comes to church with another one of my friends, so sees him on Wednesday and stuff. Anyways, she and her friend just found out who I like a few days ago because I decided to tell them. And I'm glad I did. But, she didn't know that I've liked him longer than her. Like, ever since this school year started. He's older and goes to a different school. Is this wrong that we both like the same person? I know that her feelings aren't hurt or anything, but should I let her know that I've liked him for like ever? Thanks and I rate well.
How long you've liked him doesn't really matter. And it's okay that you like the same person-you're friends so you will prolly have the same taste. Things only get tricky when he asks one of you out. Good luck!
okay crazy hair day is friday and i dont kno wut to do i am a guy and my bangs are past my nose and my hair goes to the bottom of my neck and is about 5inches long wut shud i do with it besides spiking it?
Put it in a bunch of ponytails oo or braid it!
ok well i have sweaty arm pits i want to tell my mom but i dont know how to..like i was think of saying mom i think i have a problem do you think you can take me to the doctors..and she would probably sat why..i would be like because i have been sweating and i want it fixed..but its to embarrasing to say anything about it...do you have any suggestions?
You could try a better deodrant. Something that really does work.. there's one called like Surf or Sure or something like that. If you still want to see the doctor then just flat out tell your mom. If it is a problem or something then it has to get fixed! Hope I helped! lyds*
i have these 2 friends and they are like 2 of my best friends..they are twins too.But like they have other friends that they chill with but they never have chilled with me, & we are always there for eachother and they always say bf4l sfl and i sorta believe the bf4l part but not the sfl, it just rlly pisses me off how they dont chill with me, how should i handle this? what should i say to them?
Why don't you just invite them over to hang out or watch a movie or something?
I love gymnastics, but I went to this one gym and I had no friends there. Yes, i am pathetic like that. So I switched gyms and it seems like they don't really like me there either so I don't really have any friends there. And it's a pretty lonely 3 hours each night when no one really likes you or talks to you. i love competing but i just have no friends there are theres no other gyms around. the only reason i don't want to quit is because i love tumbling and i'll get fat and won't be known as the strongest girl in my school anymore. but i love gymnastics i just dont have friends and i hate wearing a leotard. should i quit? i only went to 2 practices at this new gym, but i don't really like it. i'm gonna look like an idiot quitting after this soon, but i don't want my parents to buy all the new team leo's, warm ups, and evrything
It doesn't seem like you've given this gym much of a chance. Stick it out for a few more weeks then if it still isn't fun for you then you could go back to your old gym. Don't quit the sport just because you don't have friends! You'll hate yourself later for doing it.
does yoga help you lose weight?
Yoga makes you strong so Yup it helps you lose weight and if you drink like ten bottles of water a day then you'll loose 10 pounds in a year haha I read it somewhere.
Right now, my hair is REALLY blonde (i just dyed it, but it was still really blonde before i dyed it), and i want my hair the color of Paris Hiltons. Does anybody know if she bleaches her hair? or how does she get it that light?
xo
Bring a picture to your hair dresser and ask them.. if she's good she'll know. Hope I helped!
I have a boyfriend, Justin. We have been going out for what will be two months tomorrow. Anyways, he came over Friday to hang out and stuff. When he went to leave he said he would call me when/if they got home. It's Monday and he still hasn't called. Now, I'm the type of person that totally stresses over things like this. I'll play out every situation in my mind and possible outcomes.
Of course, they did have to go back and paint a house, and they are moving, but that wouldn't be it I don't think. What if he doesn't like me anymore or he doesn't want to talk to me? Ah, I'm totally stressed and it's so dumb. I just, can't see myself without him and I don't know. I know I'm being totally stupid, but could someone offer some advice? What should I do or what could have possibly happened? Thanks! And if you want a little more info, IM me! askchristeena
Honestly, you are over reacting. It's a guy and guys don't think about stuff the way we do. So don't worry! If he doesn't like you then he'd show it more then just forgetting to call! Soo yeah he still likes you.. stop stressing! Hope I helped! >lyds
if you get a fake tan do they look kind of obvious and people will be able to tell that they are fake? (im talking about the kind of tan that you get and get done at the salon, not the one you can buy at a store and put on yourself)
If you do the ones that they use the 'lights' and not the one that is sprayed on then yeah it looks natural. The first time you do you get it done, it doesn't show up very much. You have to go in a couple times a week or a month or something like that before it's completely done. My friend did it and it wasn't way to noticable because it was gradual.
my friend is beinng really rude & saying mean stuff about me what should i do?
Well she's not a friend then.
Hi all well im babysitting 3 girls after xmas can anyone give me some ideas on how to keep them busy so its a bit easyer for me
roxie
ps ill rate any good ideas
have a great xmas everyone
Find some awesome Christmas movies..I'm guessing they're young so play like hide and go seek or something. Find some board games um... arts and crafts?
im moving to south carolina in 5 months. im 15 my boyfriend is 16 and we been together for 10 months. we love each other...hez been to jail for 4 months though and i met this boy and we started chillin and had se n everythin n i fell in love with him. but my ma made me crush my feelings for that guy because she didn`t trust him. i loved him. then when my boyfriend got out, i forgot about the other guy. that`s not the point. i wuznt in love with my boyfriend while i wuhz cheating with him. Now that he'z out i wanna be with him a lot. I missed him ya know? Well last night on the phone, we were talking for a very long time. I was soo open to him. i told him about the other guy but i didn`t tell him when and that i wuhz cheating on him. All of the sudden, he started crying and was like "I have to ask you a question!" i kept asking him-"ok what? tell me" but he didn`t because he was 'scared i wouldnt tell the truth'. Then i hung up with him and he called back like-i need to talk to you. when i asked him if it wuz bad he said "yes" and then i asked if he was gonna break up with me. he hung up. i don`t wanna break up with him. I already lost one boy i loved more than life...now him...what should i say to make him come out with it!! sorry so long =(((((((
Yeah.. that was pretty confusing. Nothing you can do, if he doesn't want you anymore then you can't make him want you.
I have these two friends... they shall remain nameless... but i have these two friends who really dont like eachother.. they dont get along at all.. they like despise eachother... one is my brothers girlfriend who ive known for like 2-3 months.. and she a really good friend of mine.. we became really close.. and the other is my best friend of 4 years... they dont get a long.. i recently moved... and my friend of 4 years is coming to see me... well my mother invited my other fried to stay with me for that same week... UGh... they have to drive 4 hours in a car together.. with my brother.. and stay together for a week and hang out... well my question is how do i get them to get along... i dont want to hang out with one at a time because i dont want one to feel left out.. and i dont want to deal with them fighting the whole week.. they already said they werent going to start anything with eachother out of respect for me and my mom.. but i know they will at some point... how do i get it so all three of us can chill and no one argues or feels left out?
I think you should just let them deal with it, and enjoy their company while they are there. Try to ignore the tension between them for that one week. Bc you're right, you can't hang out with one and leave the other at home. Maybe go to a movie- but don't ask what they want to see.you choose. Good luck! Oh and make sure your mom knows that for the future invite them separately!
Okay, me and my ex broke up for about a year now... just recently, me and my friend called him, and she was posing as me(but I didn't know that was what she intended) and he talks like everything is normal, and then I bust out no, this is me, and he goes hey monkey, and then my friend goes SHE STILL LIKES YOU!!! But I was like can I tell him please, hows your niece (beating around the bush) but then he was like call me back later cause I gotta go to work. So then I called (w/o my friend) and we talked for like 45 mins, like the good ol' times we had together, he asked about my love life, and we talked about his, and it just felt like how things used to be... he was my first love, and when we did break up, I knew he still loved me, and till this very day I still know he does... but I enjoyed him and he enjoyed me.....so am I falling for him again? And if I am and if he is worth it, how do I get him back??? I really do love him.....
Wow what an annoying friend. Just ask him out! If he does like you, as you said, then why would he say anything but yes?
Ok so I need some opinions on this really LONG love question... It has 2 parts... This first part is that I need to pick between two guys.
Guy #1- We're going out, he's really sweet and nice and i like him, sometimes. My friends all like him because he doesn't want to hurt me and he has never made me cut myself (yeah- i cut) We've only known eachother for about a month, and the only reason I know him is because I was jealous of my friend, who was going out with the guy I liked at the time. Him and I are very much the same, and are very shy around eachother. I barely see him in school, but he really likes me.
Guy #2- I'm secretly in love with him. He's kind of a jerk, and he acts nice to you and then will say something horribly offencive to you in the same sentance. He's absolutly gorgeous, and more popular then me. He lead me on beofre, and my friends blame him for making me cut once. They all think he's a jerk, but I really like him.
Who should I pick?
The second part is that today, I am supposed to call #2. Atleast he wants me to, or so he told me last night. I am very intrigued, and I think I may call him. My best friend, the only other person who knows about this, says that I should call #1 and break it off with him before I call #2. But I don't know if I should becuse, #2 might hate me, and i don't want to be single right now, and have to explain to my friends why I broke it off with #1. So what should I do?
damn i'm too late. I hope you didn't call.
I just turned 14 and I am wondering how far most people go with a guy at this age? like what would you consider reasonable?? I havent done much with guys so far but if the time was right I want to know my limits!!! whats idea of a 14 yr old?
Damn... I read those answers some of those girls are pretttty slutty. I wouldn't go father then making out.. if you do then by the time you're like 18 you'd prolly be having sex with random guys and wind up pregnant.
What should i get my mom and dad for xmas? i dont have any money and i cant go out and buy anything so i was wondering if any of you have any ideas on what i could give them or make them? i hope you have some ideas because i only have 2 days! i will rate for effort! ill give you a five!
If you have a really cute picture of you three or two pictures with you and your mom, and you and your dad, then you could make an awesome picture frame. Look for stuff around the house.And you could burn them cds of their favorite music. And be extra nice christmas day- make breakfast and all that jazz. Merry Christmas!
ok so, what do you do if you're stuck in this situation:
your dad had an affair for 3 years .. without telling your mom or you or your brothers
sounds bad enough, right?
well .. he's still with the whore and expects me and my brothers to warm up to her... be nice to her .. accept her into the family and what not. oh right, and to add to that: she has a 2 1/2 year old son who is annoying as hell.
she comes with us on vacations, and i know my dad spends the money ...that he needs to 'save' before we're able to buy a BASKETBALL HOOP? ... on her
thats not right.. and i've tried having those long serious chats with him. he thinks i'm just doing what my mother does ... hating her for no reason. she screwed over my whole life, why shouldn't i hate her? ...what should i do? and don't say i should try to like her .. cause thats not happening .. other than that i'm up for any ideas
helllp me
She didn't really ruin it.. it takes two. It's even possible that she didn't know he was married. But your dad shouldn't really expect you to warm up to her. They might really be in love. You don't know what happened before the divorce, or why they waited. Basically, you can't be expected to like her. And if you ever should it'd take awhile. But don't put all the blame on her, i hate to say it but your dad had a part in it as well.